“she should be at the club” “but not everybody can handle loud music / likes going out / enjoys drinking / wants to—“ YOURE MISSING THE POINT. “she should be at the club” is not about the literal club!! it’s about the whimsy of youth!! it’s about the things you can get away with, body and mind!! it’s about having fun and ignoring the horrors for as long as you can!! it’s about the fact that you do not deserve to feel this pain and have these responsibilities, you do not deserve to be locked in your room with your sadness, you deserve to enjoy the music and the pretty lights and the ass shaking of life!!! it’s about how i wish joy for you, even if you do not wish it for yourself!!! you should be at the club!!!!
foster peace within your hearts and minds, amidst the external storms <3333
(from her86m2 on youtube, this is her tomato video)
You are enough. You are worthy. Someone else convinced you otherwise, and you decided to believe them. Someone other than you decided a quality you possess isn't what they like and tried to break you of it, like an animal being domesticated. Meanwhile, someone else is going to love those exact pieces of you.
Be exactly who you are; whatever that looks like and know you can have duality.
You can be stubborn yet still agreeable
You can be vulnerable and strong
You can be nurturing and warm while still being tough
You can be gentle and calm while still being assertive and bold
You can grow, you can refine yourself, but make sure you are staying true to you. Embrace and love all the qualities there is within yourself.
You are beautiful
mutuals do this!!!!
time to get a delicious tea drink from my favorite crone, boba yaga
This is a form of permaculture known as hugelkultur. The main idea behind this method is to bury logs, twigs, sticks, leaves, and other organic matter in dirt and/or manure. The plants grown on these mounds will keep the soil together and penetrate that organic matter. As time goes on, the rotting matter time-released nutrients into the soil and creates heat. This makes it so that you don't have to bother with artificial fertilization every year. This mimics the way plants grow in the forest for your own benefit. There are a myriad of ways to implement hugelkultur in your homestead so go crazy with it.
With hugelkultur there is no more worrying about tilling, field rotation, razing crops, fertilization, or irrigation. It's worth noting that this doesn't work well with certain plants because it generates an enormous amount of nitrogen that can be too much at times. But a very good method.
Hey, american trans and non-binary people. Just a Canadian Cis scientist here but I see you, I know you're real, and I believe you deserve better than this. 4 years will pass. People will keep fighting for your rights to exist safely. It's worth sticking around for. The world is a better place with you in it. I promise.
umm i need reassurance that my presence is wanted but i can’t ask for reassurance because that’s really Embarrassing and it wouldn’t feel genuine if i asked for it
When you learned of the god of war, you thought he’d be tall and muscular and angry. When you were about to meet him, you braced yourself for the worst.
You weren’t quite expecting the short, scrawny, shy kid you ended up getting instead.
Ho hum hai, down with empires and up with softness.They/them polyam white queer
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