Latest Posts by alphaxheaux - Page 2
if you feel the need to “check out the competition” you’re hoeing backwards. there is nobody who can bring to the table what YOU bring, focus on yourself. competition doesn’t exist.
I had a check up appointment and my plastic surgeon said “a beautiful nose on a beautiful face” and now all my insecurities are gone
What helped you become more and more confident?
Getting into fitness, changing my appearance, continuing my education, my high standards, not giving a single fuck about what people think about me
This reminds me of people who give me compliments on my appearance and quickly add something like “well it´s easy for you - you are genetically blessed” or “I only have to look at food and gain weight.”.. something along those lines. You can explain your workout regime, strict diet, skincare routine or general lifestyle choices all you want - they just keep talking about genetics or they will start to look down on you for the effort you put into your looks. The truth is that they want all those things (being in good shape, having better skin, etc.) but they want it to be easy. These people don´t want to hear how much discipline it takes, how much time, energy and money you have to invest in order to maintain a certain look. Talking about how some people have it easier, because of money or genetics or whatever won´t get you anywhere.
Not to be a total rude bitch tho… but I work out almost everyday, I limit if not abstain from junk food, I drink plenty of water, I only drink certain types of alcohol and absolutely no soda. I get my lips injected, I see a dermatologist, I’m planning on getting lipo + non invasion nose job + Botox jaw contouring soon. I have hair extensions, I get my lashes and eyebrows dyed and maintained every two weeks… I get my nails all jacked up every three. I go tanning. I literally spend thousands of dollars a year on hair, skin, nails and makeup. Not to mention the dancer wardrobe I’ve accumulated… and anyone who thinks I shouldn’t make more money after all this effort can literally suck my ass!
Success in hoeing is subjective, however. If you’re falling in love with married or taken men, when you’re supposed to be getting paid, your business is shit and you are completely immature. If you’re nearing thirty or over thirty, and you’re getting played by men? Lol. You would be amazed how many women aren’t even hoeing for money, truly, but for validation. Get a hobby, don’t waste your time. Better yet get a lobotomy and stop writing confessionals when you could be making money
quite literally what’s the point in life if you’re not leaning into the absurdity and plasticity of it all and just having fun? why not take full advantage of your ability to create? why limit yourself to replicating dull shadows of those who did greater things than you? why base your selfhood on what you consumer rather than what you create? why be rigid and prescriptive when you have the capability to make new things explode into reality? you bore me
Identity is a prison and I refuse to be locked up
She's right as always
Honestly fuck this millennial pink pseudo wellness bullshit about being gentle to yourself and always practicing mindfulness and committing acts of self care by consuming Product™️, I’m gonna continue being that bitch faced waif in all black running around the city at ungodly hours with wads of cash and ritalin in a designer bag and a peppermint vape hanging out the side of my mouth, texting on two phones simultaneously.
going through my followers and blocking every man I see = self-care
I feel like a lot of girls on here are chasing a lifestyle that doesn’t really exist in the way they think it does
My cast got removed a couple of days ago and even though everything is still swollen I am very happy with my nose. I know that it will take time for the swelling to be completely gone but I can already see that the result is going to be amazing.
Last week I had a rhinoplasty consultation with the best surgeon in my area and it went amazing. He made me feel so comfortable and fully understood what I want. The surgery will be in the beginning of December and I can’t even describe how excited I am.
Last week I had a rhinoplasty consultation with the best surgeon in my area and it went amazing. He made me feel so comfortable and fully understood what I want. The surgery will be in the beginning of December and I can’t even describe how excited I am.
if theres something i hate more than men , it’s broke men
Midnight tease.
she’s an icon, she’s a legend and she is the moment
Tell us more on how to manipulate guys 👀
Yesss so as promised here’s a few things to do
1.When you get to know someone, don’t reveal about yourself and ask them a lot about them. They will like the attention and at the end, realize they don’t know much about you, which will give an air of mysteriousness. Meanwhile, you’re collecting as much info about them to figure out what they like, what they dislike and what they seek. Then as the relationship progress, give hints and pretend to be their ideal person from the information you collected. That’s exactly what guys that want to get in your pants do. They sell a dream and once they know you caught the bait, they switch their personalities and stop pretending. Most likely will blame that change on something you did and you’ll go on a mission to change him back to how sweet and perfect he was before, but it was in fact a personality that was forged to fool you.
2.The silent treatment : most people hold to their pride a lot, give hints here and there that 1, you don’t text a lot so when you get distant and cold over text they’ll grasp on to that hope to explain any sudden disappearance, and 2, that you have pride and never go back to people that have wronged you (so when they upset you over something minor, give them the silent treatment and get them used to be the one to come back to talk and make things right and apologize), so you weaken their pride and ego and condition them to coming back to you always.
3.Lie lie lieeee, but be smart about it and don’t mix your stories up and make them believable. I always tell guys they are my firsts or 2nd, so they feel special. You have to sell yourself as someone untouchable and unattainable. But don’t go tell a guy he’s your first when you’ve fucked his cousin and PLEASE wait a decent amount of time before getting intimate. The Madonna/Whore complex really is a thing, I believe the best way to make a guy obsess over you is to project both/so he can’t fit you in a particular box : you’re out of his range, you’re untouchable, you’re divine yet so humane, sexy and carnal, so bullshit the hell out of him. Also you cheated? You lied? He caught you ? DENY! Never admit when you fucked up, even if you want to do it out of spite and hurt him. I’ll bury my secrets and all my lies with me when I die! If you have friends that can back your lies up for you and bullshit him to sell an image of you to him, it’s even better ‘’omg X is typically so cold with guys, I’ve never seen her like that with anyone but you’’.
4.Love bombing is great but you have to assert your superiority and how good, wonderful you are. For exemple, comments here and there about what your usual ideal type is to make him feel insecure and eager to compete and be the best not to lose you. The mistake I believe a lot of girl make is to be a man best source of support and let them get too comfortable, like yes he has to feel good when he is with you, but the point is that what you tell him when you love bomb him is to make him feel good only when he’s with you and insecure when he’s not with you, not feed him to make him delusional and overconfident. Play with his insecurity, redirect it so he feels lucky to be with you, don’t cure it. He has to constantly be under the impression that since you’re better than him, you can leave at any given moment and he’ll never find someone like that ever again.
5.Reinforce good behavior with love bombing and attentions targeting their specific love languages (ex: act overly excited and bubbly after he gives you a gift, if you’re typically colder be more tender and engage in more physical contacts, hug him, rub his arm scratch his hair, etc), and punish behavior you don’t like with silent treatment and ghosting (and really ghost don’t tell him anything just disappear without a word). They are your Pavlov’s experiments. :)
The only good thing about growing up in a patriarchal society that forces the male gaze on everyone is that we are taught how to act, how to look and how to speak in a way that men find desiarble and therefore we learn how to manipulate men without even realizing it.
men have always exploited women (and will continue to do so), so don´t feel bad about exploiting them for your own gain.
Word of advice
Never feel bad about using these men. Be ruthless, be fatale, be heartless, be manipulative. They never and will never feel bad about using you. They are liars. They are selfish and will tell you whatever they think you want to hear. They don’t truly, really care about you so always keep that in mind.
They are in it for their own self interest and you should be as well.
“The only safety is in money… Money is a woman’s only power in this world. Make it your solace and your dream and one day wealth, real lasting wealth will make you free.”
— Margaret Wells, Harlots (via brownstatuesquesugarbaby)
thank you for the reminder 🤍
To my ladies chasing their dreams.. keep going ✨🤍
All men do not cheat. Grow up
y’all get real brave on anon huh
Do it alone. Do it broke. Do it tired. Just do it. It doesn´t need to be good. It just needs to be done.
use men - never let them use you
Men will lie to you, manipulate you, play the victim, cheat on you, gaslight you.. there are no exceptions. Even if you think you found a man who is different - in the end they all turn out to be like this.
I had an ex “SD” aka client when I was a sugar baby that tried to plan a date with me recently, he canceled the day prior so I told him I’ll need a cancellation fee and future deposit in the form of a gift card if he’d like to see me again and he was shook
Absolutely embarrassing the things I used to put up with from a man. SA was POISON
girls on tumblr calling themselves sugar babies after selling dirty feet pics for 5$ 💀💀
How do you follow with the "no excuses no days off" mood and rhythm ? what are your advice on self motivation vs laziness ?
Laziness doesn’t get you abs or paid