he/himhuge loser
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As i am almost at adulthood i cant stop thinking about how grown adults write high school characters. Like what do you mean youre writing about 15-year-olds kissing each other?? ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
I can't contain it any longer, I HATE the terms transfem and transmasc. Cause what are they even meant to mean. Being masculine and feminine are not genders, they're aesthetics or a way to present yourself. The way you present is not gender. Like what if a transman presents in a more feminine way.
And even if a non-binary person dresses more feminine or masculine, I still think it's stupid to call them transmasc or transfem. WHY is how they present themselves directly correlated to being on a spectrum of typically gendered terms.
Sigh this was such a dumb rant LMAO
I might be sending this into the void but it doesn't really matter.
I was wondering if there were any other queer people who are sort of tired of the community being so.. ehhhhhh sexualised? I guess? I'm not asexual or sex repulsed, but sometimes I get tired of it? I mean just searching "transman" comes up with online sex workers. I guess I'm just tired of people making the automatic connection between being queer and having to be... horny?
I know the community has historically been oppressed and harassed over sexual interests and such, but I want to be seen as more than my sexuality.