For Sure…

My wife has pretty much said variations of almost all of these in the just the last few weeks. Short versions:

1. She asked if I want her to stop seeing other guys, I said absolutely not and asked what she wanted. She said she loves fucking other guys and what it does for us.

2. She asked if I think she is a slut, I said no but she disagrees.

3. Hmm, this is the only one not said.

4. She said she loves sex and wants more of it. She told me something that I found really hot, she has recently realised she cums really quickly when she fucks a new guy for the first time (it happened like that with me first time too). She thinks that, despite the inhibitions and reservation she had, deep down she has always wanted to fuck more guys.

5. She told me she sometimes daydreams about another “gang bang.” One where she spends another day by the pool and the guys just fuck her whenever they want.

6. Well, sort of. She said J is bigger than me, almost as big as Grant, and that she really liked how he felt inside her.

7. Exactly those words, about the guy at the nude beach. She also said “his dick looks really nice for sucking.”

8. This has been a common theme for us over the years. She always told me she loves sucking mine. Then she confessed to loving sucking her ex partners dicks. I recently learned about her first ever teenage blowjob and how much fun she thought it was. Talking about sucking on different guys dicks is now a fairly regular occurrence, I even know which of my friends she would and wouldn’t do it for (given different circumstances that is, mainly them not being married), there’s more woulds than would nots.

9. She always has. On her and in her.

10. I watched her get herself off in the shower just a few days ago (with the handheld shower head). She was thinking about J and his friends poolside at his house.

LOL, love it.

Hmm. My wife has done three, but one of them was mine. Amateur. LOL.

Yes…did this already… 💦💦💦🚀🥂

Whenever I see this one (or similar), I wonder if it is possible for there to be a question I wouldn’t answer…

Yeah, these are questions I like to get answers to.

Interesting that I should come across this one after what happened last night for us! I’ll try to keep it short.

Louise went for drinks with the girls from work, she got home just after 9pm and basically dragged me straight to bed. She was very horny and very wet, so much so that I figured she must have stopped off at Tom’s on the way home or, better still, done something with someone else. It was neither though, she was just thinking about how lucky she was during her uber ride home. She said having an attentive and horny husband, and a handsome, sexy lover on the side might just be “the ideal situation” for all wives. As usual, with Louise, she must have sensed that I felt differently, at first she thought I wasn’t happy with the situation, which is not true at all. I am very happy, I just wouldn’t describe it as my ideal and we talked about that a bit more.

I don’t really know what it would be but I think we were closer to my “ideal” 9 months or so ago, when things were also at their hottest with Grant. One thing that is missing now is participation for me, being there to join in or just to watch occasionally. Tom doesn’t want that and, truthfully, I don’t want to be there with them either. Not anymore at least. Also, I think her break from Tom, while he was dating someone, was good for them. Things had normalised a bit, the fire had died down somewhat but now, after the break, it is at full on intensity again. Maybe even hotter than it ever was between them.

So, for me my ideal situation, as described to Louise before we feel asleep last night, would be for her to have several lovers on the side. They would each bring something different for her - Tom to bring the sensual, affair-style lover to the table, Grant to bring the big dick hard fucking and then one or two others to keep the variety and excitement alive. Maybe she’d even have a few months off from each of them every now and then, see if the same thing happened as has with Tom.

Plus, being greedy, I said my ideal would also include other guys. Short term flings like with my mate Steve. One night stands and I added, a little tentatively, threesomes and moresomes every now and then. I didn’t even get a slap (which I expected) for that and she reminded me there is still also Tony, her masseur, and the promise of more threesomes with him.

I was feeling bold so I added “more masseurs” to the list too. I reckon, “mmm, that would be really nice,” was the last thing she said before she fell asleep.

I was hard and could have gone again and I lay there for quite a while before I too fell asleep, wondering what might happen next. There’s lots of scenarios running through my head, which reminds me that I still have her revealed fantasy to write about some time.

Due to work requirements, I spent this Christmas away from my family, it happens sometimes. My wife planned and delivered a really nice Christmas surprise for me, via our phone call on Christmas night, after I finished work for the day. It was all based on a “dirty little secret,” one that she had saved especially for my away-from-home Christmas present.

A while ago in this blog, I wrote my first little story about the first time she had sex with another guy, a friend of hers. Since then, she has been fucking him, and one of his friends, rather frequently. That’s a story all in itself. My little Christmas surprise starts not long before that happened, several months ago, around the time my wife apologised and said she couldn’t do it (the hotwife thing). Somewhere around then, she had also asked me what I wanted for my birthday, I remember laughing and giving her an eyebrow raised look before telling her I’d love another dirty little secret. That relates to something we mess around with, she did have a rather naughty tantric massage a few years ago, they didn’t have actual sex but she had four or five orgasms and did play with the massage guy’s “very big dick,” as she described it. She has also done quite a few of the old “hotwife dares,” wearing some very sexy bikinis when we go away and some fairly see through dresses with nothing underneath. Once she gave a car breakdown guy a really good look at, let’s say, just about everything she has. Several good looks actually. We call those things our dirty little secrets and she knows I crave more of them.

When she gave me the apology, she did qualify it with a comment about future massages. When we talked about it more, she said she would be up for another experience like the one she had and, after a bit of teasing between us, even said she might like him to cum on her (I had sent her a pic like that and said something about the masseur even gets a happy ending sometimes). It was only a handful of weeks later when she gave the guy the blowjob, something that I thought was the actual start of an amazing adventure for us.

The guy she had that first amazing massage experience lives in a totally different state to us, it was something we did during a holiday, actually we built the holiday around the massage booking. So, I set about trying to find a guy who does it closer to home. Apart from all sorts of guys I would not trust, on free personals and the like, it is something that isn’t easy to find. But, after quite a bit of searching I found a guy who is actually only about a fifteen minute drive from where we live. I spoke to him one day then told her all about him, they spoke and she made an appointment. I remember the day of the appointment, I was so excited that morning, like the proverbial cat on a hot tin roof. I have to admit though, the outcome wasn’t as awesome as I’d hoped for. She said she just didn’t find him sexually attractive, but he was a nice guy and she had a really nice massage. He stayed fully clothed and there was nothing sexual about it really, except that she was fully naked, his hands were very much all over her and she’d been pulled and stretched into quite a few revealing positions too. They did talk about sensual and tantric options and she told me that, maybe, one day she’d go back and try something on the sensual side.

I did say, in my last story, that I like her to have some control. After she started fucking her friend, I even told her the thought of her having some secrets, something to reveal later, was a thought that turned me on. Oh yeah, getting deliberately “caught” was something we talked about as a fun thing too, not necessarily caught in the act, more like caught out having an “affair.” It’s great material for our bedroom dirty talk.

So, my Christmas present was something along those lines, a dirty little secret she saved to tell me as my present, knowing I’d be away. In a nutshell, she has been back to see her nearby masseur an amazing nine times now, she even pointed me to the bank transactions to show how she confirmed the count. She sees him every week when I’m away now, and those visits are on top of how much she has been fucking the other two guys. Because of that, the two guys, I just didn’t give the massages a second thought, nor did I consider she’d be getting a little more pleasure on the side. After the intro, telling me about it from a revelation perspective, she let me in on some of the details.

Her second visit added a bit of “sensual” to the full body massage, he rubbed her clit and gave her a “nice orgasm.” That happened a couple of times and then, during the fourth visit she thinks, he got her off twice, once at the start, once at the finish. From there, it progressed to the full tantric experience, she pointed out how the fifth session cost twice as much, as they all have since. She now has two hour sessions and gets several really good orgasms. The guy gets naked too now, and she grabs and pull his cock a fair bit, especially when he is making her cum. She said it just feels a natural thing to do, haha. He still gets her off by rubbing her clit but also does all sorts of fingering and rubbing of her pussy and arse to get her off. He gets in the shower with her too now, after the massage, and helps to rinse off a lot of the oils and lotions he uses on her. She reckons he has a hard-on the whole time and she knows he would fuck her if she gave him half a hint.

I did ask if she still found him unattractive, from a sexual perspective and she said no. It was never that, she said she didn’t mean he was totally unattractive, more that she wasn’t actually sexually attracted to him. But it’s become a bit different now, she has gotten to know and like him. They talk a lot about things to do with her health and well being and, especially, her sexual feelings and activity. He knows all about all of the sex she is having and how great it has gotten. That includes with me as well as her two “friends.”

He is claiming a bit of the credit for some of that too, for how good the sex is, telling her it’s part of the tantric experience and her sexual growth. She agrees and I must say it makes sense to me too, our sex life is not only on the up from a frequency and dirtiness perspective, it is getting wilder all the time. She is pretty much fucking my brains out most of the time, and she cums hard and multiple times before I get off. Let alone the dirty talk and no limits stuff we have going on!

I now think our adventure started with him, my wife agrees, saying that the blow job may not have happened without the first massage. Being naked, legs wide open at times, with another guy’s hands on her was quite liberating. As she said on the phone, the first massage guy seemed surreal in a way, the second time made her feel really sexy. Actually, even though that first massage, with this guy, wasn’t actually sexual, I just now remember how she was very wet when she got home that day, and I remember what we got up to straight away too!

Time to wrap this up I guess. She said she thinks she might suck her masseur’s dick next time, maybe even fuck him then. She will see how it goes, if she doesn’t let him inside next time, so to speak, then she thinks she will sometime soon. Even if it’s just to give him a little extra tip for all his good work!

Oh yeah, they’ve talked about how husbands get involved sometimes, he does teach his tantric stuff and, occasionally, his clients even bring their husband along just to sit and watch. Apparently, there’s one regular guy who sits in the corner with a box of tissues, every time and for the whole two hours.

She said she thinks a four hands massage might be extra nice and I said I’d also love to just be a horny observer sometime. It all sounds like fun.

That’s it, another “dirty little secret,” wrapped up and delivered in a Christmas phone call.

She took a mirror selfie of her new bikini and sent it me. She later showed me the message she sent to Tom, of the same selfie. I had to admit his replies were better than mine. This happened several years ago, I had no idea they were already doing much more than a bit of flirting and sexy texting.