I Can't Stay Silent Or Quiet About It Anymore. If He Wants To Make It This Big, So Be It.

I can't stay silent or quiet about it anymore. If he wants to make it this big, so be it.

It started with him telling people to mass report my pinned just for saying DNI abusive ex, It’s my page so I believe I have the right to that safety, I didn't put anything out there unless asked. And I was rarely asked. I didn't make anything public. I didn't make a fuss or raise a scene, but now I have to.

I don't like stirring the pot, or having to publicise personal drama. I don't enjoy this, and I'm sorry to sully the fandom with it at all. But I feel it's important, especially with all the recent situations.

As a handful of the fandom may already know, flaybynight is my ex, he is in the friend circle of johnnysboytoy/zora, chibizodo, etc, and I've been told he has a server full of minors/barely legal individuals that he lovebombs and flirts with for his sick attention.

He was recently exposed for being a disgusting human being.

We dated for nearly 6 years and when he visited me for the first time in mid-October to mid-November last year, he choked me. Choked me because I had no money in my bank account, he knew I had lost my job and had been surviving off my savings while looking for new work and I even paid double my rent, just so he could stay with me during his visit. He expected me to have 10k at all times when it just wasn't possible. So he attempted to choke me out for having no money and a maxed-out credit card.

Because I spent too much money on food and grocery delivery, instead of going to get it myself ("to save money") when we were dating, he wouldn't even let me have the time to go and do so, let alone then be able to cook after. He'd complain I took too long and emotionally abused me for it. He'd often guilt me into staying up for days straight because it "wasn't fair how easily" I could sleep when he struggled with insomnia for a week, despite the fact that I had work and was working 10-12 hour long shifts for 2 weeks straight without days off at times just so I could make ends meet. So I had started taking ubers to work just so I could get some 'sleep' after staying up all day and all night to make him "happy” which was a huge financial strain.

He verbally, emotionally, and psychologically abused me in front of my friends, my siblings and their friends, because he refused to let me have time to myself to hang out with others, he needed to be part of the hangout. He traumatised them with his behaviours, and one person documented every interaction he could catch that happened between me and flaybynight / Dan in front of them. Screenshots. Messages. Clips.

When flay got exposed for his bad and concerning behaviours, it was brought to my attention that in one conversation with someone online, that I'm not familiar with, he, for some reason, felt so bold to tell them he wanted to kill me, that he wished he did and should have, and the only thing holding him back was the consequences of "getting in trouble."

He's now been lying about me and made this random blast from the past whom he hates (evidence he will reach out to anybody he can and manipulate them into doing whatever) message my mother trying to insinuate that I'm the one with a discord server (supposedly

was called 'dead dove' from what I had been informed of) dedicated to grooming fucking minors and barely legals.

I was 19 when we started dating. He was 24. He groomed me. And now he's out here trying to slander me when I haven't done anything and is trying to threaten me through the reach of others about some bullshit police report. Despite the evidence makes it clear that he's the one doing exactly what he's accusing me of. He's doing it because he hates me for actually finding strength and reason to leave him after years of abuse.

Unlike other people he gloats and gets off to about hurting, for life, I am not irreparable, and I am not afraid of him. I don't need to make burners to escape him or change my username, and I will not. He can rebrand all he likes and live through his 'friends' and feel as superior and masterminded as he likes.

It's obvious from this post that he's stalking me online along with his friend group. This person, Raven, messaged me the images in the linked post shortly after I made the original post.

Flaybynight is a fucking freak who is stalking and harassing me online after attempting to kill me and thinks he can get away with it and then gloats about not having to prove his side of the story.

He's fucking mental. And anybody who thinks he's still defendable is just as such.

To whoever of his little crew is reading this, you can tell him that it's likely still on his record when he got searched by the police after being reported for trying to plan to conduct a public shooting.