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February February actually comes from the word februum meaning purification and februa, which were the rites or instruments used for purifications. These things were used in the Roman Festival. The rites and instruments were formed as a part of preparations for the “coming of Spring” in Rome. Lupercalia festival is one of the earliest ancestors of Valentine’s Day. Lupercalia Lupercalia the…
January’s Janus January is named after Janus, the Roman God of beginnings, and personal exploration within sexual relationships. Historically Janus January’s Janus is the god of beginnings, gates, transitions, time, duality, doorways, passages, frames, and endings. He is usually depicted as having two faces. These two faces gives him the ability to see into the future as well into the…
Clit Play Clit play is a part of vulva (pussy) play with the concentration being on the clitoral area. This play can be also called clit torture. Clit play or torture is another great sexual play technique we talk about at Marriage’s Sexiest Secret. Clit torture is a a very pleasurable practice that anyone can participate single or with a partner. This practice happens when a female’s clit,…
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Sexual Body Exploration | Exploring Your Partner’s Body
“Houston, we have fewer problems in the bedroom!” This is what I hear time and time again after couples participate in sexual body exploration exercise or share in a Body Exploration Scene or session in the bedroom. Whether you’re just beginning this dynamic or you are seasoned and just looking for something to enrich your bedroom play, Body Exploration is the answer to deeper sexual intimacy.…
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Sexual Body Exploration | Exploring Your Partner’s Body
“Houston we have less problems in the bedroom!” This is what I hear time again and again, after couples participate in sexual body exploration exercise or share in a Body Exploration Scene or session in the bedroom. Whether you’re just beginning this dynamic or you are seasoned and just looking for something to enrich your bedroom play, Body Exploration is the answer to a deeper sexual intimacy.…
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Winter Community Challenge | Pink Cheeks Streak Challenge
SubMrs Community is having a Winter’s Couple’s Exercise. Are you up to a CHILLY CHALLENGE? Would you streak…. happily…. through the snow? Would you and your husDOM streak through the snow for a sex toy?I’m issuing a challenge A WINTER COMMUNITY CHALLENGE… BUTT….. there has to be proof!You can email your or your Sir’s “Cheeky” proof to LK@subMrs.comDouble the cheeks, get double toys! This…
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Sexy Christmas Calendar | Happy Endings and New Beginnings
How do we continue to feed our subMrs and our HusDOM during the finish of the holiday season? Well, by looking at the Sexy Christmas Calendar of course! This year and next we wish you Happy Endings and HOT New Beginnings. We will help you keep your dynamic active and thriving, throughout the end of the month. We will be offering you some ideas for each day of the month to help you do just that. …
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Sexy Christmas Calendar | Sparkle and Ring
It may be the “♫..most wonderful time of the year…♫” but it is also the busiest. We may be focused on celebrating the magic of the season, but how do we do that and keep the magic in our D|s-M? How do we continue to feed our subMrs and our HusDOM during the hectic holiday season? Week Four Theme: Sparkle and Ring This is the fourth week of December and we are quickly approaching the…
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Sexy Christmas Calendar | Couples Ideas and Inspiration | Sweets and Treats (Sploshing)
Welcome to the third week of the Sexy Christmas Calendar. The place where every member of the subMrs and husDOM communities can get couple’s Ideas and Inspiration during the HOLIDAYS! This week, if you have a “sweet tooth” … you will be sated! We will give you new kinky ways to enjoy our favorite Christmas sweets and treat! How else but with a subMrs TWIST, of course! Sexy Christmas Calendar It…
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Sexy Christmas Calendar | Couples Ideas and Inspiration | Giving Gifts
31 Days of Celebration, AKA the Sexy Christmas Calendar here in the subMrs Community. Where couple’s can get fun ideas and inspiration during this joyful time of the season, Christmas! This week we talk about Giving Gifts.It may be the “♫..most wonderful time of the year♫…” but it is also the most hectic. We may be focused on celebrating the magic of the season, but how do we do that and keep…
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Sexy Christmas Calendar | Couples Ideas and Inspiration | Candles & Lights
It’s that time again! Time for the subMrs Community Sexy Christmas Calendar, an adult calendar full of fun! Our calendar will be full of couple’s sexy ideas and inspiration. We will post an article each week, listed daily those sexy or kinky ideas for members to participate in. December, Week 1, Candles and Lights. Historically The month of December sees and has seen for hundreds or even…
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Do you want to learn how Married Dominance and submission can enhance your marriage? We have been helping guide couples into healthy and sustainable Dominance and submission relationships for close to 10 years. We have made this journey ourselves and it was quite challenging without any resources to help guide us in the beginning. Since then we have been helping married couples find the same…
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Hickeys | Love Bites | Ownership Ritual
Hickeys, It’s been noted that this word is not really suitable for polite conversation. But, here on subMrs we look past polite and get down to the “dirty little details”. Details like using hickeys in an ownership ritual. Hickeys, AKA, Love Bites…. You know that “Basic Badge”. It’s the end result of what happens when your partner sucks licks and bites your skin. That pressure from the suction…
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Spanksgiving | Sexual Exercise and Ritual
This November, we wanted to make every one of our community couple’s Thanksgiving and Spanksgiving a little more fun, a spanking fun time that is! How better than doing a Spanksgiving Sexual Exercise? Also, adding a little ritual purification to your special Dominance and submission dynamic. Thomas Turkey must have been a Dominant as he wants some “spanking payback” and is DEMANDING again this…
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A Successful Marriage | Husband and Wife Week
August has set aside a week just for Happily Married Couples to celebrate. How are you and your spouse going to celebrate it? Happily Married Husband and Wife Week is the August 26-31st. This week on subMrs and husDOM come and learn the foundations of a successful marriage, The Foundations of Dominance and Submission. If you already know the foundations then explore the keys to unlocking a deeper…
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Kool-Aid Days, Serving The Kool-Aid Since 2012 | Married D/s Community
OOOHHHH YEAAAHHHH! Go ahead and Drink the Kool-Aid! Every second Friday in August is known as National Kool-Aid Day. National Kool-Aid Day gives us all a chance to reminisce back to the summer days of our childhood, especially us 70’s and 80’s kids. It was our favorite sugary soft drink. Back then, we burned off calories faster than we could consume them. Ahhh..those were the days! This holiday…
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Sex with Vegetables | Pleasure in the Produce Section
Having sex in the produce section? I will never think of the “Piggly Wiggly” grocery store the same! No, we are talking about finding pleasure with what’s in the produce section, Mainly with fruits and vegetables. There are many times a year where couples ask, is it safe to have sex with vegetables or use produce, a fruit or vegetable as a sex toy. This month and next month on subMrs we focus…
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National Underwear Day | Twisted Knickers
August 5th is National Underwear Day or AKA Twisted Knickers Day on subMrs. Underwear defined are Undergarments are items of clothing worn beneath outer clothes, usually in direct contact with the skin. wink! If you don’t know what knickers are, knickers are underwear or women’s underpants. The term is used primarily by the British, although most Americans usually know what you mean if you use…
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Sexual Ritual | Lammas | Harvesting and Reaping Seed Ritual
Happy Lammas Day & Lughnasaid Everyone! This day is the first in the harvest celebrations. This is a very powerful and spiritual day. Today is a great day for a Sexual Ritual or sexual ceremony, Lammas harvesting and reaping seed ritual. How could we celebrate this day in our dynamic of Married Dominance and Submission? Go pick a great bread up at your local bakery and share it with your…
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Anal Pleasure Month | Submissive Community Theme | August 2021
This month on the Submissive Community, subMrs is all about Anal. We want to celebrate August right as it is Anal Pleasure Month. We will answer, how is anal pleasure used in Married Dominance and Submission. You can STOP CLINCHING it’s not how you are imagining, … LOL! Butt, There is so much more to anal pleasure than anal penetration with a penis, anal sex. This month we will discuss how you…
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Romance in Marriage | Submissive Mentor Chat
Our mentor chat this month is about ROMANCE in marriage. Why this topic? August is the SECOND MOST ROMANTIC month of the year, behind February. February is for Vanilla Romance. August, makes it Hotter! It’s the Dog Days of Summer. Now is the time to have a HOT LOVE AFFAIR WITH YOUR husDOM! “Forget the box of chocolate’s and bring the whole bottle of chocolate syrup!” Romance in a happy marriage…
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Doggy Style | How to use it in Dominance and Submission
Doggy Style, the infamous sexual position. This position’s posture works perfectly in a Dominance and Submission scene or session. In this article I will share how to use different variations of doggy style in Dominance and Submission. The doggy style position has been crowned to be most couples favorite, not only by vanilla couples but also by Dominance and Submission couples. The name “doggy…
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World BDSM Day | Learn the Method and Live the Dynamic
Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism is what BDSM stands for. Where did the World BDSM day originate? There once was a club in Barcelona, (Not a limerick )…. the Rosas Cinco Club, founded in 2003 by Kurt Walter Fisher, a Swiss BDSM lover. This club is historically very important in regards to World BDSM day. This was the first club in Europe tto be only dedicated…
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Full Buck Moon | Spiritual Energy | Rutting Ritual
Full Buck Moon It is once again time for the Full Buck Moon. July’s full moon is known as the Buck Moon because it occurs around the time when young male deer are in the thick of growing their antlers. The sight of their magnificent horns against the summer’s evening/night sky led to the name, Full Buck Moon. There is a lot of spiritual energy around this moon. A lot of Rutting Rituals. (You…
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