Latest Posts by malin114 - Page 4

in a heartbeat . . : )

yes please 

Lesbian means that one is only into women for all that did not know that . . 

well put . thank you

Just a reminder that we aren't gatekeeping Pride.

I know it's only April, but I just saw such a rancid take on Tiktok (and the person blocked me, woo!) That I need to vent somewhere.

The argument went "bi/pan/queer people with cishet partners shouldn't bring those partners into queer spaces/Pride because it makes those spaces unsafe for lgbt folks."

Which is a frankly awful take for many reasons.

First of all "makes a space unsafe" is not an identity. It is a behavior. And ANYONE who is making those spaces unsafe, regardless of their identity, *shouldn't be there.* Whether they are a cishet man or a lesbian, if you are making people unsafe, you shouldn't be there.

Secondly, it's blatantly unenforceable. You can't clock someone's identity at the door. You don't know if they are bi or trans or nonbinary. And no one should have to out themselves to a bouncer.

As a caveat to this, you also don't ever know *why* someone might bring their cishet partner to pride. Whether that's because this is an important part of their life they want to share with their partner, or they are disabled and need help managing their meds or mobility aides, or the partner is a designated driver. You just don't know. So even if you did know they were cishet, maybe they have a "good reason" for being there.

So between it not solving an actual problem to not being enforceable, all this discourse does is create an EXTREMELY hostile environment for, well, bi/pan/queer folks especially. Always. We always get targeted for this kind of stuff.

But also anyone who might worry that *they* aren't queer enough or not look queer enough. Trans folks who haven't socially transitioned, non-binary folks who aren't androgynous enough, ace and aro folks, people who are newly out- they see this rhetoric and think "Oh no. What is someone sees me and thinks I'm cishet? What if someone tells me I can't be there? What if I don't really belong?"

So we aren't doing it. It's shitty snd hostile and biphobic and exclusionary.

Everyone can come to pride.

Except cops.

Fuck cops.

Lol 

What do you mean change back ? I don`t have any : ) 

This is the truth

Never pay for domination

Listen up Slaves

Never pay to be dominated 

Never pay for porn

Never pay to tribute anyone

Never pay to have a session with a dominant

Never pay for recordings or videos 

Never allow anyone to live off your earnings in exchange for domination 

Every true dominant would dominate for free

Paying for domination is a scam

Paying for a tribute is a scam

Financial domination is a scam

Pay for sex toys instead when you can afford them

Spend your time enjoying porn, erotic stories or message a dominant 

Everything I do is for my happiness and is to be shared for Free

Lovely

Yes we are .

Yes of course, especially because you took the initiative and asked me when I didn't know how to ask you.. You made my heart faster girl

Can I be your trans girlfriend?  ♡

Wow, you are Hot

REBLOG this if you think I’m cute, and you might find more of my cuteness in your inbox :)

Yes , of course I think black girls are beautiful 

Used to be a kept housewife

AMEN . Fuck off all of you retarded scammers and fakes . 

Tired of getting messages from so called “Mistresses”. I can’t mark them as SPAM and BLOCK them quick enough.

GIVE THIS A REBLOG and AMEN if you AGREE!!!

@mila-ferrari

it has a point 

wow , you are really Hot girl 

What do you think - this my best asset? 😏

Liked this post as it is asking the right questions , and gives answers , but especially the good advise to be one self . 

Be YOU

I find myself drawn to all kinds of posts.  Girly boys encouraged to be dressed in formal gowns, short and revealing clothing, swimsuits, lingerie, uniforms, babyish clothing, androgynous, dom or sub, casual, workout wear, or just about anything else.  I’ve seen encouragement for being lesbians, being gay, dating men, being sex toys, and any other various form of objectivity.  I’ve seen attitudes encouraged from total humiliation to aggressiveness.  And so many more! 

So, what are you supposed to do?  Who are you supposed to be?  What are you supposed to look like?  How are you supposed to act?  With whom or with what are you supposed to be intimate with? Here’s a piece of advice for you: Be you.  Be your own kind of girly.  You might be trying to figure that out, but be you as you’re doing so.  Sure!  Test some things out.  Sometimes you have to find that right “spot” for you, especially if it hasn’t been encouraged by others in your life.  In the end, however, you have to be you because it’s always better to be you.

I really hope you all have a splendid day.  You are my muse.

CandieHart

yes I do 

Amen!

Tired of getting messages from so called “Mistresses”. I can’t mark them as SPAM and BLOCK them quick enough.

GIVE THIS A REBLOG and AMEN if you AGREE!!!

@mila-ferrari

Amen . So called Mistresses here are mostly men with really poor language skills and an old fashioned, distorded mindset that is not found in the educated,  modern western world nowdays . 

Tired of getting messages from so called “Mistresses”. I can’t mark them as SPAM and BLOCK them quick enough.

GIVE THIS A REBLOG and AMEN if you AGREE!!!

@mila-ferrari

So do I , and it should be globally  ilegal 

No boy stuff . . 

Yes of course I do . Transgender women are women . .

forced feminization sissy femboy

So do I , and can`t wait till next summer

Love this view

Is there Any real Alpha women here.?

It`s still called a lesbian , and yes I am a lesbian .

I agree , think this is discussing behavior by slow minded , uneducated , twisted people who think only about money and think they will get rich on scamming “sissies” who won`t dear to report a crime because of shame for being a sissy ..  I list them and “hang them out to dry” so to speak , and I really think reporting them is the only way to educate them as they clearly lack the knowledge and information needed to funktion in a modern society . .  

Is it just me or are all of these Findoms fakes in the lifestyle? They all seem to lack any real knowledge of the BDSM lifestyle and how it’s supposed to be. The role of Dominant seems to completely be lost on them. There is more to being a Dominant than ordering people around and demanding them to send money of some sort. A true Dominant cares about the submissive and does everything to protect and make them feel like they are cared about. These so-called Dominants that care only about getting money make me sick and discussed because they put a bad name on all of the real Dominants and cause instant distrust of everyone who PMs me.

This is important to us all to be were of and help to stop it should be a given to all . 

This could save lives so I thought I’d share!

Well put . I do that too

Nikki Giovanni

This applies to me too