Yup....
Direction is more important then speed, many are going nowhere fast ~ @luxurylifestylemagazine (at Necker Island)
and they will tell you everything you need to know.
and I still love them.
Let’s not sugarcoat it:
Today’s woman is more “man” than most men.
She leads with toughness. She calls submission slavery. She posts quotes like “I’m the table”—but brings chaos instead of calm.
And somehow, peace has become outdated.
Let’s talk about it:
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1. She Competes, Not Complements
Modern femininity sounds like:
“I can do what a man can do.” “I don’t need anyone.” “I’m in my soft era—but don’t correct me.”
You try to lead, she argues. You provide, she tests you. You offer structure, she rebels.
It’s not partnership—it’s power struggle.
And men are exhausted.
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2. She’s All Alpha, No Aura
The masculine woman wants to win—but doesn’t know what to do after the victory.
She’s a boss at work, but brings boardroom energy into the bedroom.
Every conversation is a debate. Every correction is an insult. Every standard you hold is “controlling.”
Peace? You’ll have to fight for it.
Irony? She doesn’t even know what it means anymore.
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3. Feminine Energy Has Been Rebranded as Weakness
Cooking? Oppression. Submission? Misogyny. Respect? Eww.
The woman who smiles, nurtures, and supports gets mocked as “pick me.”
But the one who tweets threats, argues over plates, and brags about being single at 38?
She’s “empowered.”
Yet behind the scenes, she cries in the shower, scrolls through old photos, and wonders why “no good men are left.”
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4. She’s a Product of a Broken System
This isn’t all her fault.
The one-income household is extinct. Rent is high. Food is pricey. Life costs money.
So she must hustle too.
And if she must earn, then a BSc isn’t enough. It’s PhD, MBA, double degrees… all before 30.
By the time she finishes climbing corporate ladders, marriage is now Plan C.
So when she enters relationships, she doesn’t enter soft—she enters like a soldier.
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5. It’s Not “Social” on Social Media
It’s not connection—it’s conditioning.
The loud minority tells the rest what to do. They glamorize rebellion, flaunt luxury, and parade independence like it’s peace.
Simps fund the show. Fraud funds the lifestyle. And confused young women follow the script, believing soft life comes from hard rebellion.
They don’t know they’re watching a stage play with no happy ending.
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6. Men Don’t Want Slaves—We Want Softness
A good man doesn’t want a maid or a mute.
He wants a woman who brings warmth—not warning labels. Support—not suspicion. Joy—not judgment.
But the modern masculine woman sees vulnerability as weakness.
So she guards her heart, hardens her tone, and wonders why her phone stays dry.
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7. When Masculinity Fights Masculinity, Everyone Loses
Two captains. One boat. What happens?
Disaster.
That’s what many modern marriages have become—power games with no peace.
Men trying to lead. Women refusing to follow. No one adjusting. Everyone performing.
Meanwhile, single motherhood is rising. Divorce is common. Bitterness is trending.
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8. Softness Is Not Stupidity
Femininity is not a downgrade. It’s a superpower.
But the modern script told her to drop it.
Now she’s loud, lonely, and layered in trauma she calls “growth.”
Truth? A woman who embraces peace, grace, and empathy still wins in silence.
But we buried that model.
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Final Word: Masculinity Can’t Attract Masculinity
Men don’t want to marry mirrors.
We want a woman who complements, not competes.
If she walks like a man, talks like a man, fights like a man—don’t be shocked when no man wants to marry her.
The rise of masculine women is real.
But the fall of feminine peace?
That’s the real heartbreak.
Let the debates begin.
#TruthHurts #ModernFemininity #MasculinityCrisis
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