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This is great! So well said!

Playing For Fun

Its that time again…Hotwifing 101! And this is our 30th episode. So today I’d like to break the monotony and the intense talk, and just discuss some play date fun.

I titled this one “Playing For Fun” because honestly, that’s all it should be. We play with other men in this lifestyle in order to just have hot sex with someone other than our husbands. That’s not to say that we dont enjoy our husbands…of course we do. In my case, I enjoy my husband the most. But i love to play with others too. And i do it simply for the fun of it. For the orgasms. For the licking of my pussy. For the pounding by a nice hard cock. For the look on my husbands face while I’m doing it. It’s always amazing and exciting taking another man in front of my husband. These are the reasons i do this.

I dont do this for any other reason but fun. I dont hook up with other men deceptively. I dont hook up with other men in the hopes of sharing my heart. I dont do this to cheat. In fact, there is no cheating in this lifestyle.

I do, however enjoy the friendships made with my lovers. And with those friendships, i get the opportunity to suck and fuck that same Bull more than once. And that’s just the way I like it.

I especially love that first moment in the hotel room after the meet and greet! That moment where the Bull touches me for the first time and butterflies go off in my stomach. It’s an exhiliarating experience when i get to go on my knees and unzip his pants and see his cock for the first time and start to lick and stroke it, knowing that I will be pounded by it! Adrenaline rises in my body at this moment.

I love that moment when the Bull takes me to the bed and lays me on my back and moves his tongue over my wet pussy….drenched from the evenings foreplay. Feeling a new mans mouth on my pussy is just electric.

I love the moment when my new bull lifts my legs with lust in his eyes and slowly guides his throbbing cock into my waiting pussy. It’s that first thrust that sends me over the edge. My eyes roll back in my head and sometimes I cum in seconds after that.

I love that moment when he has to slow down because it just feels too damn good for him to continue.

I love the many moments when I look over at my husband, who is usually sitting nearby taking pics and video and his hand is on his lap trying to hide his own hard cock.

I love looking at my husbands face as I cum! I love seeing the look of lust and pleasure on my husbands face when im sitting on my bulls cock and grinding away on it.

And I especially love when I see the lust in my bulls eyes as he explodes all over me or inside me. These are the moments I absolutely love the lifestyle for. But…..these are all moments of sheer pleasure and fun. Nothing more. And I never ever forget that.

Here is why…..: When I return home, the man who holds my heart takes me in his arms and shows me 10 times that pleasure. He always has my heart and i would never abandon that for any large cock in the world. You see….there is more to you than your genitals. My Stag…my Heart…has it all! For him I do this. For us, I do this! It’s all fun in the lifestyle but with my Stag, it’s all of everything else too. Remember that!

This will be a weekly posting just for Hotwives, Stags, Bulls, and Swingers. Every Tuesday I will focus on your questions, comments, and statements of the Hotwife lifestyle. Feel free to direct all questions today through the submit feature of my Blog! Thank you and Happy Hotwifing! 💋    ~LillybGoddess

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So true!

Nurse and mother by day, Hotwife by night... yet, no one knows.

Imagination is a powerful thing

The longer the time goes between texts, the more your mind starts to go here, especially after she confirms that she feels attracted to him.

That's the perfect man. They're pretty hard to find though in reality. Very few have that effect.

Aftershocks

Date night in the rabbit house! This one has been a long time I'm the making. Watching her select lingerie just for him, lingerie that I bought for her, sent a strong message.

There's an interesting balance between Hotwife and cuckold that each couple needs to find. Even the most masculine of men, the Stags, in this lifestyle probably harbor some form of cuckold fantasy. This article does an good job of discussing some of the dynamics of the tease that make Hotwifing so seductive.

A Guide to Verbally Humiliating Your Cuckold (with Examples) - Becca Bellamy

Let me teach you how to give your cuckold the hottest orgasms of his life through skillful verbal humiliation that drives him wild (with audio examples!).

A Guide for all you new to the Cuckold Lifestyle. Hope hit helps. #cindycuckold.tumblr.com #CindyHotwife.tumblr.com

This is so accurate, and so important to understand as you start out. I'll add to it that there will be times that you don't like her boyfriend. Chemistry between three people can be elusive. Don't be shocked when he doesn't like you, and feels awkward the first time the three of you are together. Swinging, Hotwife, it's all part of life. People don't magically get along because sex is involved.

The Realities Of Hotwifing

There are so many hot picture captions/memes on Tumblr about hotwifing, cuckolding, the stag and vixen lifestyles, and all the other forms of alternative relationship arrangements we get out perverted and kinky selves into.

But you know what bothers me sometimes? 

How our perceptions and expectations about these arrangements can get skewed without us even recognizing it. 

Expectations for what it’s all like, what it should be like, how it happens, how often it happens, why it happens…all those expectations get influenced by the things we immerse ourselves in. 

This is especially the case for people who are new to the lifestyles or who are looking to get into the lifestyles.

Simply put, the eroticism and sexiness of hotwifing images/memes we see on Tumblr notwithstanding, they leave out some of the realities to it all. 

Sometimes though, it’s good to be reminded of the realities, and that’s what this post is all about. 

For example, you’ll never come across a picture like this…

…with a caption on it that says something like, “ “Honey I just got back from my date with another man, and he was a TERRIBLE kisser. I didn’t enjoy it at all.”

Or perhaps one like this…

Or how about one that conveys just how common it is to get all ready and excited for your first in-person meet, only to have the guy be a faker or flake…

We don’t see things like this because it’s not sexy to see or think about. We only reblog things that stoke our desires. And that’s normal for the most part. After all, sex isn’t the only thing that “sells”…SEXY does too. 

Don’t get me wrong though. I’m not saying the hotwifing lifestyle can’t be enjoyable or sexy or pleasurable beyond your wildest imagination, because it can. It can one of the most fulfilling journeys a couple can take together in their entire life. 

It just sometimes helps to be reminded every now and again that if it all doesn’t go down or happen like you read about in most online hotwifing stories or see in the hotwife pictures/memes,…DON’T WORRY…IT’S ALL NORMAL!

Nothing is wrong with you, or your partner, or your relationship, or your experience. You’re most likely not doing anything wrong. Navigating the lifestyle can be difficult and frustrating at times, and it comes with tons of challenges. 

So if at any point, you run into a challenge or a setback or have a negative experience along the way, remember that it comes with the territory and you shouldn’t fret too much about it. But most importantly…

Don’t be afraid to share your “negative” experiences with the online community! It can help you and it can help others to know that living out this lifestyle in reality is a bit different than living it out in fantasy. That’s why…

Share the realities you faced in your hotwifing, cuckolding, stag & vixen-ing journeys by replying to this post. Or simply like/reblog because after all, reality checks can be positive every now and again.

It was so hard for her to admit it the first time this happened, but when NRE hits her the craving is all about him.

We took awhile to get to this point, but we love sharing the excitement together.

She can say yes to anyone she likes.

You learn to enjoy them as much as any other part of the play, maybe more because these are the moments that are hers. As a husband, these are the moments you know that your beautiful Hotwife is enjoying the game too, and it's not just about pleasing you.

To the aspiring husbands, stag or cuckold alike, the first time you are there to witness the deeper connection between your Hotwife and her lover can be overwhelming. Remember that she's still yours. Talk to each other after he leaves, hold her, reclaiming means more than powerful sex. It is about reestablishing your bond and caring for each other. Remind each other of the friendship at the heart of your marriage that makes the lifestyle possible to begin with.

Trying a little something new with the meme style, let me know what you think

Of course!

This works both ways. In fact, it's amazing how many things you'll learn you enjoy together if you open yourselves up to listening.

Just wait until the first time you catch her taking the pictures that "he" asked her to take for "him"

It never gets old.

Yes!

This happens sometimes, and when it does it's intense!

Impossible really... Nothing drives me more wild with lust.

I added an artistic spin to the night that started it all for us. The moment that you realize that your wife loves being with other men a much as you enjoy seeing her in action will stick with both of you.