anyone else still terrified to turn music down on their headphones even after parents are done fighting lol . -blurry
as a system, we agree on nothing, except for one thing. *yelling, in any form that can not be obviously seen as playful (and even caution on that)* is never okay if not behind closed and locked doors, and even then, we prefer not to yell in any capacity as it only harms others- especially when internal arguing occurs. weâve seen what discourse between people, especially those you love, does to a person from a first-hand perspective.
We've come out to roughly three parties about our plurality in which we were in a covert space. 1. Our immediate family. They didn't take it too well- Well, they kind of did. It's just that they didn't really understand and made several hurtful remarks and eventually straight-out claimed that we were faking. So, I think either way it probably would've turned out like this, due to the nature of my family, but to perhaps recommend more research on plurality (EVEN MORE. We still recommended them but it was less direct), might've changed that outcome. 2. One of our closer online friends-- They brushed us off. I have to admit, the one who came out about it was extremely rushed about it, and it was definitely a mistake on our part. We eventually grew apart. I believe if we had more experience in that department could explain more thoroughly, it probably could've turned out different. 3. One of our real life friends- This one was recent, as you saw us yapping about it. It went very well. We took a moment aside to explain our situation, and they asked questions and we answered them. They also said they'd do some research on their own time? (What did I do to deserve you........) Overall, for those who wish to come out to others, it's very important to be completely open to questions, suggest research in their time if they wish to learn more, explain clearly and directly about what it is (especially since a lot of people may be completely unaware of its nature other than the typical stereotypes), so making sure to knock those out of the park are very important. - blurry
question 77: if you've ever come out to anyone as plural, how did you go about it? is there anything you'd change about how you did it? do you have any advice for others looking to do the same?
guysâŚ.. we ALL know that rugs DONT exist. theyâre just CARPETS WHO ARE TRYING TO BE DIFFERENT. if youâre a rug, itâs because you donât know that you were actually made with carpet material⌠smh.
thereâs a difference between being polite and infantilizing. no, talking to an autistic person like theyâre a child is not polite. itâs rude. you arenât helping anyone by talking to people like theyâre stupid.
this is a problem with disabled people in general, not just autism. i just saw a video where someone was talking to a disabled army vet like he was a child. that was a grown man. he made it clear he could understand âgrown-upâ conversation and words.
itâs one thing to treat a child like a child, itâs another to treat any disabled person like a child. we arenât children. we are just like anyone else.
this is ableism, know it or not.
i hate forgetting shit because wdym today is Valentineâs Day?? and they tell me yeah itâs Valentineâs Day and 5 minutes later i forget itâs Valentineâs Day??
hey brain. nice joke!! can i have my identity back now please?
since apparently itâs Valentineâs Day, system appreciation post!
Youâre valid if youâre endogenic
2. Youâre valid if youâre traumagenic.
3. Youâre valid if youâre mixed origins. 4. Youâre valid if you donât know or care about your system origins. 5. Youâre valid if you are a median. 6. Youâre valid if you are polyfragmented. 7. Youâre valid if youâre mostly blurry. 8. Youâre valid if your parts are clear and distinct. 9. Youâre valid if you donât experience co-consciousness. 10. Youâre valid if you experience co-consciousness. 11. Youâre valid if you experience co-fronting. 12. Youâre valid if you donât experience co-fronting. 13. Youâre valid if you hate being a system. 14. Youâre valid if you love being a system. 15. Youâre valid if you donât know how to feel about being a system. 16. Youâre valid if your trauma doesnât fit the âtypical normâ or expected experience. 17. Youâre valid if you have factives/fictives/fucktives/songtives, etc 18. Youâre valid if you have hundreds of thousands of headmates. 19. Youâre valid if you only have a few headmates. 20. Youâre valid if you are looking for final fusion. 21. Youâre valid if you are looking for functional multiplicity. 22. Youâre valid if youâre a tulpa. 23. Youâre valid if youâre an introject who doesnât want to be like their source. 24. Youâre valid if youâre an Introject who does want to be like their source. 25. Youâre valid if your system isnât very active. 26. Youâre valid if your system is extremely active. 27. Youâre valid if you have a core. 28. Youâre valid if you donât have a core. 29. Youâre valid if you have a host. 30. Youâre valid if youâre hostless. 31. Youâre valid if you have a headspace. 32. Youâre valid if you donât have a headspace. 33. Youâre valid if you have a relationship with another headmate. 34. Youâre valid if youâre a bodily minor OR adult system. 35. Youâre valid if you donât like some/all of your headmates. 36. Youâre valid if you love all your headmates. 37. Youâre valid if youâre a disordered system. 38. Youâre valid if youâre a non-disordered system. 39. Youâre valid if youâre introject heavy. 40. Youâre valid if youâre brain-made heavy. 41. Youâre valid if youâre non-human heavy. 42. Youâre valid if youâre covert. 43. Youâre valid if youâre overt. 45. Youâre valid if youâre an age regressor. 46. Youâre valid if youâre a pet regressor. 47. Youâre valid if you donât identify with the body. 48. Youâre valid if you do identify with the body. 49. Youâre valid for feeling angry about those who hurt you. 50. Youâre valid if you have a lot of control over your system. 51. Youâre valid if you experience little to no control over your system. 52. Youâre valid if your system structure is complex. 54. Youâre valid if your system structure is simple. 55. Youâre valid if youâre mono conscious. 56. Youâre valid if youâre biconscious or triconscious. 57. Youâre valid no matter your conscious term. 58. Youâre valid if you want labels about your experiences. 59. Youâre valid if you donât want labels for your experiences. 60. Youâre valid for having source trauma. 61. Youâre valid for not having source trauma. 62. Youâre valid for having alters split due to other alters either negatively or positively. 63. You are valid if you split for no reason, or a reason you canât identify. 64. Youâre valid for being different from the norm. 65. Itâs okay to be wrong about your identity. Even if you arenât plural, itâs what fit you at the time. Identity shifts. Weâre always learning about ourselves. You made a mistake is all, youâre not a monster for making a mistake.
I could go on and on for days, but I think you get the jist.
Happy Valentines Days, everyone. <3
the flashback and panic attack combo right after is like stubbing your toe on a lego brick and then immediately tripping and face planting into a pool full of legos.
**i wont be answering every question off for privacy but!!! ^^ hereâs like a mass answer thing bc i love my headmates and our system⌠(i got approval from the rest of the system to do this but i wonât reveal everything bc stranger danger ig???)**
1. What is your System name and / or the name you collectively go by? **not rlly a specific name we all go by! we used to, but then we fell out with it n so..**
2. Which word do you prefer to use for your System? (example: System, Collective, Constellation, ...) **we donât rlly mind what weâre called tbh..**
3. What are your Systems origins, if you choose to label them? **traumagenic**
4. Do you have any Subsystems? **yes, but i wonât disclose them.**
5. Do you have any Sidesystems? **also a yes, but they wonât be disclosed.**
6. What is your opinion on you& / your& language and similar types? **uhhhhh!!! i mean.. we donât rlly have opinion on linguistics. but i think English is weird.**
7. What methodes do you use to keep track of your System and its Members? **simplyplural ^^**
8. What is your Systems ways of communication? **uhh mostly externally bc our internal communication sucks but we can internally communicate like 40% of the time..**
9. Is communication hard or easy for you (and why is it the way it is)? **as said above, very. hard. communication barriers are a loser ;(**
10. Do you view yourselves as parts of one person or as multiple people in one body? **honestly, i view us as parts, but a lot of us would disagree. weâre kinda split in that regard!**
11. Who are you out to as plural? **therapist, some irl friends, immediate family (which didnât go wellâŚ) thatâs about it!**
12. What languages do you collectively / one of you speak? **englishâŚ. pretty much**
13. What is something you can't seem to collectively agree on? **everything. everything. you DOJT want to be in this head.**
14. If you have a collective Identity (such as Gender or Orientation), what is it? **uh.. nope!**
15. Do you collectively identify as queer / LGBTQIA+? **no!**
16. Do you collectively identify as Otherkin, Alterhuman or Nonhuman? **nope!**
17. Do you have a collective rentry / carrd / something along those lines? (feel free to share!) **mrmr, simplyplural but we on,y give it out to people weâre close to so ^^**
18. What does switching feel like for you? **it depends.. sometimes it makes you feel really out of it and like.. makes your head feel like it has pressure on it.. sometimes itâs just. pop!**
19. Are you Monoconscious, Polyconscious or something else? **itâs complicatedâŚ. best i can describe it isâŚ. depends on the layer.. đđ**
20. What does fronting feel like for you? **sometimes itâs completely natural! other times it feels like i have to manually control everything! like breathing!! i use curse breathe manually!!**
21. How many System members do you have? **well over 200âŚ.. **
22. Which word / words do you prefer to use for members of your System? **depends on which one of us youâre asking! i like head buddies because weâre all ^^ but yk**
23. Which age group seems to be the most common in your System? **ageless!!**
24. Which gender seems to be the most common in your System? **no dominant gender..**
25. Are there any talents / hobbies you picked up because of a Member? **probably.. but donât remember.**
26. Do you have any in-system relationships? **private.**
27. Do you label roles within your System (and if yes, which ones?) **yes, i wonât go into detail, though!! ^^**
28. Are most of your Members introjected, brainmade or something else? **brainmade.**
29. Do you use names, emojis or something similar to sign off messages (and if yes, which ones and why?) **ehhhh⌠kinda?? depends on whoâs fronting and the situation**
30. Do any of your System members use Xenogenders? **yes!!**
31. How do Members pick face claims? **picrews.. drawing, depends!!**
32. Do you have any Introjects of popular sources? **yesâŚâŚ but ill keep them private **
33. Do you have any Introjects of unpopular sources? **yes!! ^**
34. Do you have nonhuman Members? **many.**
35. Do any of you use Typing Quirks? **uhh some of us type a lil differently but not rlly any that are super interfering with comprehension**
36. Do all of you front, or only a selected amount? **its complicatedâŚâŚ thereâs probably a specific group but ⌠idk!!**
37. Are there any Members who can't or prefer to not speak? **yep!! we try and accommodate for them tho!! :)**
38. Are most of you short or tall in height? **dont. think about height uhmmmm⌠idk.**
39. Is there a Member that is collectively loved by all in the System? **no :(**
40. Do any of you struggle with being front-stuck a lot of the time? **not rlly! in fact, we struggle to keep in front !!**
41. Do you have a Headspace (if not, is there a reason)? **yep!!**
42. What does your Headspace look like? **its very like.. shapeshifty?? hard to explain!!**
43. How do Members look like in Headspace? (example: Cartoony, Foggy, Realistic, ...) **ehh depends on headmate!**
44. Is there a reason why the Headspace looks the way it looks? **yes, but most are personal to us!**
45. Is it easy for you to enter Headspace? **depends who it isâŚâŚ but i can!!*
46. Do you remember what happened in Headspace when you switch into front? **sometimes, sometimes not!**
47. Does time in Headspace pass (and if yes, is it at the same speed as in real life)? **not rlly!! itâs just like, either day or evening or night everywhere!! nothing really dictates time!!**
48. What is your favourite place in Headspace? **mini void.. itâs so peaceful!! :3**
49. Are there "NPCs" within your Headspace? **idk. maybe?? I donât think so tho!**
50. Are there any interesting fun facts about your Headspace? **not rlly!!**
51. Are there any "System Stereotypes" you fit into? **ureem i guess like.. some of the roles I guess?? i dunno**
52. Who of you would be considered the "evil alter"? (in a lighthearted, joking manner) **eehhh personal..**
53. What is your favourite inside-joke with a Member? **i donât rlly have very clear relationships with a lot of ppl in head!! but uhm. i do like some of them. just not like. to that point!!**
54. What is your favourite Plural meme? **not rlly any specifically⌠too many to choose from :âD**
55. Is there any character that you headcanon as plural? **the long quiet from stpâŚâŚ..**
56. Is there any show or movie that you believe is a good plural representation, despite that not being its intention? **uhh.. not rlly much ive actually seen!! but i donât like. rlly watch movies a lot.**
57. Is there any song that you believe decribes your plural experience? **language of the lost!! thereâs prob others but itâs hard to skim through..**
58. What about an artwork that describes your plural experience? **uh heheh no clue. :âj**
59. Which Member of your System do you believe to be the prettiest of them all? **aphroditeâŚâŚâŚâŚâŚ **
60. Do you collectively have a lucky number? **nope!!**
61. When did you first discover your System? **uhhh i donât rlly remember but i think we were just lookin and then boom realization!! probably wrong tho.. then got diagnosis..**
62. How many Members did you know about during your Syscovery? **uhehherâŚâŚâŚ like 70âŚ.. i think..**
63. Was accepting your Plurality a challenge for you? **for some of us, yeah!! bc lack of control n stuff.**
64. How did you learn about Plurality? **first from stereotypes.. thought nothing of it then, and then came back several years later⌠bc the main fronter then wanted to know what fit their experiences!!**
65. Where there any signs of your Plurality, if you look back at your past? **shitty memory, constant internal monologue, heavy amnesia, identity crisis stuff⌠a lotâŚ**
66. Do you think your Syscovery changed a lot in your life? **yehh!!**
67. If you're out to others as plural, have they ever told you later on that they already thought about it before you realised? **uhmmmmm nope!!**
68. What was the biggest struggle during your Syscovery? **denial⌠because the us was weirdly denial..**
69. Was there any big event that led to your Syscovery? **being diagnosedâŚ. i think.. idont know I donât remember this kind of stuff.**
70. What is something you want questioning plurals to know? **its ok to try out labels!! its ok to be wrong!! :) you arent faking. just experimenting. itâs okay if it ends up not fitting your experiences!!**
71. Are you Neurodivergent (and if yes, how?) **yesâŚâŚâŚ. collective autism.. and other things**
72. Do you have any physical disability? **yesâŚ. :(**
73. Do you have a dissociative disorder? **did!!**
74. Do you have any other disorder? **yep, but wonât elaborate on it 2 much..**
75. Do symptom vary in intensity depending on the fronter? **yesâŚâŚ. and it sucks depending on whoâs out!! :(**
76. Do you think your disability / disorder has an influence on your plurality? **uhhhhh probably in some form, yeah!!**
77. Do you have amnesia of any kind? **much. many. amnesia go away!! never come back!!**
78. Are there Members who deal better with symptoms than others? **yep!! sum of us deal with pain and temperature n fatigue n stuff better than others!!**
79. Do your disorders / disabilities influence communication or switching within your System in any way? **yee⌠:â(**
80. Does being plural help with your disorders in any way? (example: another Member switching in to take care of the body during difficult times, ...) **yeah!! definitely.. since like.. lot of us r super pain sensitive or like resistant..**
81. Which is your favourite plural flag? **uhhh idkâŚ. :(**
82. If you have one, which is your favourite plurality related tumblr blog? **none!!**
83. What is a fun fact about your System? **uh.. NutellaâŚâŚ..**
84. What is a flavour of ice cream that describes you collectively? **sherbert..**
85. Which pride flag is the prettiest, in your collective opinion? **I donât know about them BUT I LOCE THE PANSEXUAL FLAG**
86. If you collectively had to choose between being a sweet or a sour candy, which do you pick? **sweet**
87. Your body always morphs into what the current fronter(s) look like, would you want this power or not? **mmmmmmâŚâŚ.. no tbh!! esp since like.. not every1 is accepting of plurality.. but i mean, idk.**
88. Is there a Hatsune Miku in your System? **probably.,âŚ..**
89. Who has been in your System the longest (if you can remember)? **one of our gatekeepers?? we know of⌠but thereâs probably more thatâs longer.l**
90. If you collectively had to choose, would you rather only eat sweet foods or only eat savoury foods for the rest of your life? **SWEET!!**
91. If you collectively had to choose, would you pick to become a vampire or a werewolf? **vampire.**
92. Your body is transfered into one of your Members sources, which do you pick and why? **curious GeorgeâŚâŚ. bc yes..**
93. If all of you turned into animals right this second, which animals would we find in your System? **many. many :(**
94. What would a Minecraft server with all of your Members look like? (example: chaotic, peaceful, laggy, ...) **chaotic. very chaotic⌠very horrifying..**
95. If you could choose between only living in Headspace or only living in Meatspace (real life), which would you choose? **headspace!! bc in headspace we arenât hurt!! as much!!**
96. What topic would you collectively make a youtube channel about? (it can't be plurality!) **psychological evaluationsâŚ.**
97. Which superpower would your body obtain, if you had to collectively decide on one? **uhhhhhhhh !!! omnipotence⌠bc funny..**
98. Who would pick the coolest tattoo for the System and who would pick the worst? **i think (anon factive) would pick the worst.. like âI love my (.) !! i think boa would have like a sick tattoo tho!!**
99. If you only were allowed to eat one food for the rest of your life, but you would have to decide on the food collectively, what would it be and what would the decision making look like? **NUTELLA. I LET NO ONE ELSE DECIDEâŚ**
100. What is the most fun about doing polls and answering questions, in your opinion? **idk.. theyâre like%,, cool!!** - Lunar đ
[pt: #one-hundred]
In order to celebrate 100 days of posting, here are 100 questions for you to answer! You can either answer them all at once, or let others send in the numbers they are most curious about!
Some of them are general questions, others are just really silly and should not be taken too serious. I put a lot of effort into coming up with all of these, so I truely hope you have fun with this!
For simplicity sake, all questions will use the words "System" and "Members".
1. What is your System name and / or the name you collectively go by?
2. Which word do you prefer to use for your System? (example: System, Collective, Constellation, ...)
3. What are your Systems origins, if you choose to label them?
4. Do you have any Subsystems?
5. Do you have any Sidesystems?
6. What is your opinion on you& / your& language and similar types?
7. What methodes do you use to keep track of your System and it's Members?
8. What is your Systems ways of communication?
9. Is communication hard or easy for you (and why is it the way it is)?
10. Do you view yourselves as parts of one person or as multiple people in one body?
11. Who are you out to as plural?
12. What languages do you collectively / one of you speak?
13. What is something you can't seem to collectively agree on?
14. If you have a collective Identity (such as Gender or Orientation), what is it?
15. Do you collectively identify as queer / LGBTQIA+?
16. Do you collectively identify as Otherkin, Alterhuman or Nonhuman?
17. Do you have a collective rentry / carrd / something along those lines? (feel free to share!)
18. What does switching feel like for you?
19. Are you Monoconscious, Polyconscious or something else?
20. What does fronting feel like for you?
21. How many System members do you have?
22. Which word / words do you prefer to use for members of your System?
23. Which age group seems to be the most common in your System?
24. Which gender seems to be the most common in your System?
25. Are there any talents / hobbies you picked up because of a Member?
26. Do you have any in-system relationships?
27. Do you label roles within your System (and if yes, which ones?)
28. Are most of your Members introjected, brainmade or something else?
29. Do you use names, emojis or something similar to sign off messages (and if yes, which ones and why?)
30. Do any of your System members use Xenogenders?
31. How do Members pick face claims?
32. Do you have any Introjects of popular sources?
33. Do you have any Introjects of unpopular sources?
34. Do you have nonhuman Members?
35. Do any of you use Typing Quirks?
36. Do all of you front, or only a selected amount?
37. Are there any Members who can't or prefer to not speak?
38. Are most of you short or tall in height?
39. Is there a Member that is collectively loved by all in the System?
40. Do any of you struggle with being front-stuck a lot of the time?
41. Do you have a Headspace (if not, is there a reason)?
42. What does your Headspace look like?
43. How do Members look like in Headspace? (example: Cartoony, Foggy, Realistic, ...)
44. Is there a reason why the Headspace looks the way it looks?
45. Is it easy for you to enter Headspace?
46. Do you remember what happened in Headspace when you switch into front?
47. Does time in Headspace pass (and if yes, is it at the same speed as in real life)?
48. What is your favourite place in Headspace?
49. Are there "NPCs" within your Headspace?
50. Are there any interesting fun facts about your Headspace?
51. Are there any "System Stereotypes" you fit into?
52. Who of you would be considered the "evil alter"? (in a lighthearted, joking manner)
53. What is your favourite inside-joke with a Member?
54. What is your favourite Plural meme?
55. Is there any character that you headcanon as plural?
56. Is there any show or movie that you believe is a good plural representation, despite that not being its intention?
57. Is there any song that you believe decribes your plural experience?
58. What about an artwork that describes your plural experience?
59. Which Member of your System do you believe to be the prettiest of them all?
60. Do you collectively have a lucky number?
61. When did you first discover your System?
62. How many Members did you know about during your Syscovery?
63. Was accepting your Plurality a challenge for you?
64. How did you learn about Plurality?
65. Where there any signs of your Plurality, if you look back at your past?
66. Do you think your Syscovery changed a lot in your life?
67. If you're out to others as plural, have they ever told you later on that they already thought about it before you realised?
68. What was the biggest struggle during your Syscovery?
69. Was there any big event that led to your Syscovery?
70. What is something you want questioning plurals to know?
71. Are you Neurodivergent (and if yes, how?)
72. Do you have any physical disability?
73. Do you have a dissociative disorder?
74. Do you have any other disorder?
75. Do symptom vary in intensity depending on the fronter?
76. Do you think your disability / disorder has an influence on your plurality?
77. Do you have amnesia of any kind?
78. Are there Members who deal better with symptoms than others?
79. Do your disorders / disabilities influence communication or switching within your System in any way?
80. Does being plural help with your disorders in any way? (example: another Member switching in to take care of the body during difficult times, ...)
81. Which is your favourite plural flag?
82. If you have one, which is your favourite plurality related tumblr blog?
83. What is a fun fact about your System?
84. What is a flavour of ice cream that describes you collectively?
85. Which pride flag is the prettiest, in your collective opinion?
86. If you collectively had to choose between being a sweet or a sour candy, which do you pick?
87. Your body always morphs into what the current fronter(s) look like, would you want this power or not?
88. Is there a Hatsune Miku in your System?
89. Who has been in your System the longest (if you can remember)?
90. If you collectively had to choose, would you rather only eat sweet foods or only eat savoury foods for the rest of your life?
91. If you collectively had to choose, would you pick to become a vampire or a werewolf?
92. Your body is transfered into one of your Members sources, which do you pick and why?
93. If all of you turned into animals right this second, which animals would we find in your System?
94. What would a Minecraft server with all of your Members look like? (example: chaotic, peaceful, laggy, ...)
95. If you could choose between only living in Headspace or only living in Meatspace (real life), which would you choose?
96. What topic would you collectively make a youtube channel about? (it can't be plurality!)
97. Which superpower would your body obtain, if you had to collectively decide on one?
98. Who would pick the coolest tattoo for the System and who would pick the worst?
99. If you only were allowed to eat one food for the rest of your life, but you would have to decide on the food collectively, what would it be and what would the decision making look like?
100. What is the most fun about doing polls and answering questions, in your opinion?
forming an introject of a character from a media source you hate is just telling yourself over and over again "THEYRE NOT THEIR SOURCE THEYRE NOT THEIR SOURCE THEYRE NOT THEIR SOU-"
(they/them)disordered systemi don't care what you label yourself as, it's not my business. just keep the fucking discourse off this blog.
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