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Dismantling the Lies of Abusive Parents Masterlist

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Giving you food and clothing is the bare minimum

You don’t owe gratitude for food and clothes you needed as a child

You had the right for basic resources

Parents shaming you for costing money is ironic and stupid

What it means when they say ‘This is MY house’

My house = my rules is blackmail

Children don’t owe absolute obedience for being fed and sheltered

Physical abuse

You are allowed to refuse any touch, not only violence

If they ‘don’t know they’re hurting you’, why do they ignore or punish you when you protest?

Hitting children is irrational and doesn’t work

You cannot ‘provoke’ your parents to abuse you if they’re not abusive

Why do parents hit, manipulate and traumatize children

Blatant Lies

Care, nurture and affection do not make you weak

They’re lying when they say it ‘wasn’t that bad’‘

You wouldn’t have grown up spoiled if not for abuse

You got too affected by it’ is a lie

Your parents are not ‘just too emotionally immature’ to understand abuse

‘You’re not living in the real world!’ is nonsense

You’re not worthless, a burden, ungrateful, or stupid, and your parents know that.

Constant undermining of your accomplishments is abuse

Not being allowed to talk about the past is symptom of abuse

Parents who want you to be happy vs look happy

You are not abusive for resisting abuse

When they claim ‘they didn’t mean it’, it’s still abuse

Your parents are responsible for their own actions regardless of how badly they try to shift blame on you

Psychological abuse

Blind Obedience is not required in a healthy upbringing

Disgust is a weapon abusive parents use on their kids

If they say they love you, but walk all over your feelings, they don’t 

Parents don’t have the right to enter your room to scream at you

Parents insisting for you to be ‘tough’ are doing it to hide the trauma

Even if a kid acts like ‘they can take it’, it’s still abuse

Pretending abuse is discipline will leave children permanently scarred

It’s inhumane to control and shame children’s reactions to abuse

Why don’t you already know this? vs Teaching you necessary skills

Acting like they’ll change is escape sabotage

Parents are responsible for protecting children from harm

References to how healthy parenting looks like

Not being allowed to be angry with your parents is psychological abuse

If parents want you to act the way you did when you were little, they’re dangerous

Threats about how hard your life will be later on, are bad for you

Lack of continuity and ever-changing rules will cause anxiety

Forced obedience will lead you to abusive relationships

Parents acting like you’re a ‘bad child’ is a shame tactic to control you

There’s healthy and abusive ways to give children chores

Revisioning the past and insisting you remember it wrong is gaslighting

If your parents make you suicidal, they’re abusive

Parents threatening ‘they could be worse’ is abuse

Always assuming the worst intentions for your actions is wrong

Keeping children hostage in abuse is torture

If this hits home, also read Recognizing Abuse Masterlist

I usually don't post news from Ukraine here but I can't keep quiet about what happened today. Russians missile striked children's hospital where a lot of children are treated from cancer and other serious health issues. Many of them have limited mobility.

15 people are already dead, more than 30 are injured, there are still people (children included) under the rubble. The strike was premeditated and planned, you can see from the video that the missile just striked directly, it wasn't deflected by the air defence.

They are killing our children and then lie that this isn't a children's hospital but a military one. They're been doing that for years in Syria and they haven't changed their vile tactics. Moreover, they attacked other cities as well. More than 40 missiles of differect types, more than 30 people killed and 50+ injured around the country so far. The number will grow once the rescuers deblock the bodies from the destroyed buildings.

Please don't forget about Ukraine and what russia is doing to us. We're still being killed, they are killing our kids and civilians.

russia is a terrorist state.

Fairytale illustrations by Kateryna Shtanko

I myself completely customized this shirt from what was at home. This is the first time. It's a fantastic feeling

Я самі кастомізували це просто зі всього що було вдома це неймовірне відчуття

Kyiv this morning (January the 2nd) was mass shelled by russia with drones and ballistic missiles. I spent all the morning in a storage room that serves as a shelter in my house. Some of the missiles were flying over my head to Kyiv. My friends are saying it was really loud and in some cases debris fell not so far from their homes. There are injured people.

Kharkiv also were under a brutal attack, there are injured and dead.

Happy New Year from a fucking russia.

Don't ever forget that russia is a terrorist state

🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵🩵 З ДНЕМ ВІДНОВЛЕННЯ НЕЗАЛЕЖНОСТІ УКРАЇНИ!!!! 💛💛💛💛💛💛💛

I hate so much Escalante from The Broken Ring : This Marriage Will Fail Anyway . He is a fucking asshole . Ines deserves better . I don't understand why people love Escalante he is disgusting . I hope they will not be together . But this is manhwa I hope in vain

Literally one of my biggest pet peeves in future or crossover fics is when people act like Cassandra isnt the Casey of ROTTMNT. Casey Junior is just that, JUNIOR. CASSANDRA IS THE CASEY YOU DUMB FUCKS.