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We all have habits we don’t like. It’s far easier to replace a habit than to get rid of it.
The theory is quite easy: Define the habit you want to change and then set an action to replace it with. Every time you want to do the “bad” thing, you immediately do the healthier thing.
Actually replacing your habits will be a bit more difficult: You’ll have to be quite mindful and present in your day to notice yourself doing/wanting to do the bad habit. Doing the healthier thing will also require a lot of willpower, since bad habits often are the ones that feel good in the moment.
Some replacement habit ideas:
Listen to a song that gives you courage
Drink some water
Do a few squats
Dance for a bit
Find an inspiring picture for your vision board
Walk around (a walk outside is a bit too long to use as replacement every time but would be a nice thing to use here and there)
Clean something
Read a page of a book
Watch a short inspiring/funny video
Talk to a loved one
Journal
Make sure to choose a replacement habit that isn’t too similar to the habit you want to change! If you want to stop scrolling on your phone so much, don’t choose youtube as replacement. If you want to stop weighing yourself or quit obsessing over weight loss, don’t choose squats as replacement and so on.
Also don’t add moral value to these habits. I used words like “bad” and “good” because it’s the simplest way to word things, but please realise that having habits you don’t want doesn’t make you a bad person. Not doing things deemed “right” is okay and normal and it’s okay to fail here and there during your journey. It’s important to try again!
🧘 Meditate and stretch every day, when you wake up or before going to bed, to recenter yourself and look inwards.
📖 Keep a journal, grimoire or book of shadows and write as often as possible, to remember your thoughts and log your progress.
✨ Find something to be grateful for every day, whether it’s a big event or simply watching a bird landing on a tree outside of your window.
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🃏 Make a past/present/future Tarot spread on Sundays to reflect on the week that has passed, your current feelings and the week ahead.
🌲 Spend time around nature or observing the sky, at least once a week, to stay connected to the Earth and the Moon.
🍞 Practice Kitchen Magic by making at least one special meal per week, where you pour positive energies and magical intentions. I try to learn a completely new recipe once a week to keep it fun and interesting.
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📝 Make a list of your goals on the first of each month, and keep it close to your desk to stay on track every day.
🌙 Follow the moon phases to connect to the Moon’s magic and power. Work hard, start projects and be productive when the Moon is waxing ; rest, recover and reflect when the Moon is waning.
📚 Learn something new about witchcraft, spirituality, or a completely different topic that interests you. Staying curious, even when life gets busy and complicated, is what makes it worth living.
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🧹 Fully cleanse your home after each witches sabbats to get a fresh start and throw out old energies.
🕯️ Switch up and clean your altar at the end of each season, to keep it alive and filled with magical power. Decorate according to the coming season and sabbat.
🌱 Adapt your behavior to the rhythm of nature: spring and summer are high-energy, starting big projects and spending time outside, while fall and winter are about rest, reflection and spending time indoors.
high vibration crystals. I work best with Selenite & Rose Quartz 🐚
candles of course. working with the element, fire 🕯
herbs, dump some rose petals & lavender into your bath water for self love & relaxation spells or use them in a spell jar 🥀
also, back to bath rituals, 100% recommend. working with the element, water 🛁
meditation. connect with your higher self & guides. call out to them. 🧘🏼♀️
keep track of the moon phases. set intentions during a new moon, try a banishing spell during a full moon. 🌝
try shadow work. figure out what you don’t accept about yourself, and bring light to those things. ✨
journal. always. write down affirmations, goals, spell work, your intentions, dreams etc 🖊
do a weekly/daily tarot or oracle reading for yourself. 👑
manifest! everyday! realize your mind is a magnet, and it attracts energy. attract positivity, you’re in charge of that. 💰
visualize, feel & embrace your power. 🍂
cleanse yourself & your space !! get rid of those deadbeat ass vibes. 🗣
once again, MEDITATE!!! this is one of the most important parts (in my opinion) it helped me get in touch with that magical part of me. 🧘🏼♀️🧘🏼♀️🧘🏼♀️
make moon water! so helpful for lifting energy, cleansing yourself, your crystals, your plants! use it for tea ☕️
keep plants ! take a walk in nature. connecting to the element, earth. 🌲
burn sage, incense or palo santo. cleanses your space & connects you with the element, air. 🌬
get in touch with your third eye/psychic gifts 👁
balance your chakras 🙏🏻
stay healthy & postive ✅
& lastly, trust in the universe & in yourself. love yourself. always. 🌌
jade 🌿