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Monica Bellucci in La Riffa
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The Interviewee:Ā A Ā Ā woman in her late twenties. Thin. Attractive. Brown Eyes.
Q: Had you ever been to an orgy before?
Woman: No.
Q: Why did you want to go?
Woman: My boyfriend was into trying it out.
Q: It was his idea?
Woman: Yeah.
Q: You had never been interested before?
Woman: No, Iāve always been sort of curious.
Q: So you must have known a little about them?
Woman: My girlfriends in college told me about them. There are places, you know? They donāt advertise them. Itās like, you have to know somebody who knows somebody. If youāre a guy, itās harder to get in. I mean, you have to come with a girl. If youāre a girl though, they let you in. Itās like, they donāt even charge you anything.
Q: Why is that?
Woman: āCause girls ā weāre like money, you know what I mean? Itās like, how can a guy have too many wives in a harem? Weāre totally made to be fucked, right? Like, come on! You can be on top, you can tell yourself youāre fucking the guy, but the jizz always goes inside you. Itās the way weāre made. The more of us are there are to fuck, the better these places look.
Q: So you went with your boyfriend?
Woman: We swung first.
Q: What was that like? Letās talk about that.
Woman: My boyfriendās boss from his summer job had a place and invited us.
Q: A place?
Woman: A house.
Q: So he was older?
Woman: Yeah, he was older, mid-thirties, maybe even older. Ā And married, of course.
Q: So you guys hung out after work?
Woman: Yeah. His boss was totally into me. You can tell when guys are into you, especially older guys. We were all good friends.
Q: How old were you?
Woman: 23.
Q: Was it just the four of you?
Woman: Yeah.
Q: What happened?
Woman: I was horny all day, in class, thinking about it. Thereād be days when I knew I was going to fuck my boyfriend, but this was different. All day you know a guyās going to be fucking you ā a stranger essentialy. His cock is going to be inside you, fucking you, and I was wet. I got into this space, you know, where I started imagining my boyfriendās boss was giving his wife to my boyfriend so he could fuck me. I mean, even though thatās totally not what it was about, but it sort of was too? The men were trading their women. It was mercantile. I got into this space where I was like objectifying myself!
Here I was, you know, in law school. I was going to be a professional. I was smart, magna cum laude but tonight I was (imagining it all) going to be on my knees, bent over, with a manās cock filling me from behind. Itās like I we canāt escape our biology. No matter what else I achieve in life, a womanās biology is to be on her hands and knees, naked, wet, clawing, grunting, arching her back, offering her pussy so that some man jizzes in her womb at just the right moment. Thatās why Iām here, right? Thatās why women have pussies. [She laughs.] So, anyway, thatās my kink. Totally my kink. Iām a feminist, but Iām like discovering this about myself ā my kink.
Q: Iāve heard that from other women.
Woman: Itās totally biological. It gets fierce. Itās like a craving. I know women who totally refuse to admit thatās what it is. That time of the month comes around and without even thinking about it youāre looking at guys who totally turned you off the week before. You want to be fucked. You donāt want ālove makingā [air quotes] ā you want to be fucked, hard, and permanently, You know what I mean? Your body wants a baby inside ā wants the hard cock right there. [She squirms and laughs.] Sorry. Iām going to need a minute. Now Iām all hot.
Q: So youāre saying women are turned on by pregnancy?
Women: Itās my kink, ok? I mean, I shouldnāt generalize.
Q: You just did.
Women: Thereās some corner of my sexual psyche that wants to be objectified and used. I think there are a lot more women like that, but wonāt say it. You canāt. You donāt really want to be treated that way. You just want that possessiveness, that feeling you get from a guy, like thereās nothing on the motherfucking earth that matters as much as you, coming inside you. Itās insane, right? ā but I totally get off on that.
Q: So what was it like?
Woman: My boyfriend and I had a leash and collar we used to play around with. I made him put it on me. I put on a tube skirt and a blazer. I didnāt wear any panties.
Q: Because of what it symbolized?
Woman: We showed up at his bossās house after dark. His wife came to the door. My heart was beating like crazy. She takes me by the hand [she laughs] and I must have looked terrified, like some sort of sacrificial lamb. She doesnāt let go of my hand. Sheās totally all over me. She asks me if I want anything to drink. Weāre in this beautiful kitchen, marble counter top and brushed metal appliances, and there are cute little hors d'oeuvres on the counter. Everything is clean. Thereās nothing skanky about it and I really appreciated that because, you know, itās one thing to imagine it and another to actually be doing it. Itās surreal, at first, when you do this stuff, itās like you go into shock. You feel like youāre not really there, just watching a 3-D movie and, what the fuck, what am I doing in the movie? Like, you forget how to act.
Q: How did it make you feel?
Woman: Like a grownup. I mean, thereās that intense realization. Wow. Iām not a kid anymore. Iām going to fuck and be fucked. I can do what I want. If I want another manās cock in me I can do it. Itās my life ā my experience.
Q: Then what?
Woman: So we just small talk at first. The guys are standing together, drinking beer, and pretty soon theyāre both staring at us, staring at our boobs, like men do, at the shapes our bodies make. Theyāre not hiding anything, and itās kind of a turn on. They want us. Weāre, like, the reason theyāre there. Weāre the women. Itās hot. Sheās seen the leash. She gives me a nodding smile. She totally gets it. You know? I could tell. Sheās into it. She pulls the leash so that she pulls my lips to hers. She starts kissing me. I had this girlfriend when I was in college so Iām not put off by anything like that. Sheās kissing me, holding my leash in one hand, running the fingers of her other hand over my breasts (not as big as hers) and over my hips and legs. The guys start moving toward us but she says āuh-uhā and shakes her head. OK, so I should describe this. Weāre both sitting on bar stools, at an island, facing each other. The guys are leaning on the island and watching us.
She licks my ear and pinches my nipples. Iāve got my hands on her knees. Sheās wearing a skirt, so theyāre bare. She whispers: āMy husband is going to fuck you.ā The way she says that almost makes me squirt. She runs her hand up between my knees and touches my cunt. āOh, good girl!ā she whispers. āSo wet, and no underwear. My husband has a thing for young girls. Heās been wanting to fuck you for such a long time. Iāll take care of your boyfriend and you be a good girl.ā
Pretty soon Iām panting, shaking too. Iām hot. She stops fingering me and pulls the top of my tube skirt down over my breasts, like she was unwrapping me, showing me off to her husband. She pushes up the hem of the tube skirt until I can just feel the air on the crack of my ass. Then sheās pulling me down until Iām on my knees. I start to go on my hands but she pulls me upright by the leash.
āWhat do you think?ā she asks her husband.
My mouth is open. My breasts are heaving. Iām looking up at him. Thereās a psychological thing that goes on. Weād hung out before. Sometimes we had talked. Heād ask me about school, what I was studying, where I was from, politics ā but it was always as equals. Thatās just the way you talk to people. I mean, I know guys are always checking women out, women do it too, but itās like we sort of make ourselves forget that weāre talking to a man or woman. Weāre still equal but weāre not.
Q: What do you mean?
Woman: I went into that space I fantasized about. That fact that Iām in law school that fact that we talked politics and argued about religion, doesnāt matter. Iām a girl for him to fuck and thatās all I am. His cock is already out, like heās showing it to me, like heās showing me what our relationship is now. His wife hands him my leash and itās like sheās giving me to him. Iām so lightheaded I could fall over. Heās not going to talk to me. We are and arenāt equals. Heās looking at me like heās always wanted to. Heās going to fuck me. He takes the leash and guides my mouth onto his cock, like he was saying: This is what Iāve always thought about you. And thereās something totally feminine about being on your knees and sucking a manās cock. Itās like thereās a switch that goes off inside me. Itās like my brain shuts off. (You always hear that about guys, but itās true for women too.) Itās like dancing, and the men take the lead. Weāre programmed that way. Iām in that biological role I was telling you about. Once his cock is in my mouth, itās like Iām totally the female. Iāve submitted. Thatās where I belong. Ā Iāve acknowledged that Iām the female ā his cock is in my mouth. Iām just there for his cock.
Q: What about your boyfriend?
Woman: It was super hot knowing that he was watching me, watching me take another manās cock in my mouth and serve another man. And I loved how his shape was different and his cock tasted different. Yeah. See? Iām a woman.
Q: So it was just you and your boyfriendās boss putting on a show.
Woman: No, my boyfriend was getting his cock sucked. Guys are like that, you know? I think women like it too. Itās like this dance we use to establish our roles and sexes. Men stand up and we get on our knees and start out by sucking their cocks. Ā Itās like, when we suck their cocks, weāre showing them thatās how we submit to them. We submit to our biological role. Weāre ready to be fucked.
Q: Really? I sort of associate that thinking with men.
Woman: Donāt get me wrong. Itās just my kink. Some women say sucking a manās cock is like claiming him. Itās like saying: Youāre mine. Itās taking control. A man is totally helpless when you suck him. Heāll do anything ā like a boy. Yeah, you feel my lips? My mouth? Itās my body. Donāt you forget it. Look at me when I suck your cock. Worship me. And itās like youāre tasting them. Youāre getting to know them. Youāre going to make them groan. Youāre going to make them want you and only you.
Q: What happened next?
Woman: He fucked me.
Q: Just like that?
Woman: We went to their living room. It was really beautiful in there. Everything about their house is beautiful. I just have to say ā I just want to say for any couple thinking of swinging ā I just want to say: Clean. Your. House! I mean, what the fuck? Wash the windows, windex the countertops, brush your toilets, fold your clothes and make your fucking bed. If you swing at a house and the house is all dirty, dusty and skanky, like Iām not supposed to think youāre not just as skanky? Like a really want to have sex with you? And take a shower. Soap your cock and your ass.
Q: Have you ever been in a house like that?
Woman: Not to swing. We were at a coupleās house and they invited us, but I was totally turned off by the cleanliness of their house. We didnāt do it.
Q: So they took you to the living room.
Woman: And he took me from behind. I made me crawl there on my hands and knees as he pulled me by the leash. At that moment I was just this girl on a leash being led to the living room for her fuck. Our relationship had totally changed. He was going to just ram me from behind.
Q: You like repeating that phrase.
Woman: Thatās totally my kink. Itās freeing, you know? Fuck, put a leash on me and it changes me. I just turn myself over. Itās like I donāt need to have an orgasm. Just completely turning myself over to a man, being his female, being his fuck, is the orgasm. Just being a woman is an orgasm. You know what I mean? Being Yin. Totally giving yourself up to your femininity in the presence of a man. It frees his masculine energy. Itās powerful. You totally become the focus of it.
Q: So he fucked you from behind?
Woman: Itās my favorite position. Itās feral. Itās just one more thing that feeds into my kink. Itās like the ultimate acknowledgment of our sexuality. I donāt know ā I guess I prefer that position when itās not my boyfriend. Itās like youāre telling the man: This isnāt love making. I donāt want to see you. I just want your cock. I want you fuck me. I need to be fucked.
Q: So how did it end?
Woman: I was screaming. It was wild. He just kept fucking me. My boyfriend comes really fast. He gets hard again, but his boss (and knowing it used to be his boss was a turn on too) just kept fucking me and pulling back on the leash so that I was, like, dizzy.
Q: That wasnāt scary?
Woman: No, I put my hands behind, like I was reaching for him, so it would make the collar tighter.
Q: But you could breathe.
Woman: When I came, I looked right at my boyfriend.
Q: What did he think?
Woman: He said I had this look on my face, like I was apologizing, then my eyes rolled and I just started jerking. I was totally limp when he let me slowly down, by the leash. My hands were palm up, almost at my ankles, my cheek was on the floor and my ass was up. I waited. We had already agreed before we started.
Q: Agreed?
Woman: Yeah, about condoms and stuff. I was on the pill and we were all monogamous. [She laughs.] Well, you know what I mean. Not monogamous. We were careful about who we slept with. We didnāt go to orgies and fuck complete strangers. We were monogamous swingers.
Q: So what did you agree to?
Woman: I was totally limp. My pussy was still lifted behind me, still filled by his cock, and all I could do was stare blankly. So his wife, sheās spooning with my boyfriend, reaches over and starts stroking my hair. āSheās so sweet,ā she says. āSheās lovely. What a pretty girl.ā She turns my head so that weāre looking at each other. āYour eyes are beautiful. I want to see them when my husband fills your flat little belly with his sperm.ā Then heās thrusting again and Iām moaning like I was in pain. āDo it, honey,ā she says to her husband. āSheās ready. Sheās yours. Sheās old enough. Take her.ā He holds my hip and pulls me back against him so hard that I lift my head off the floor and whine. Heās spurting inside me and it feels so good. Heās deep. I mean, heās bigger than my boyfriend so I feel it differently, like Iām going to come again but I donāt. When he lets go of me I just fall flat on my belly, legs spread out, his come pooling on the floor between my thighs.
Q: And your boyfriend was OK with this?
Woman: You know, that was the most amazing thing about the experience. I was surprised. I wasnāt jealous, and he wasnāt either, because the whole time we were sharing the experience. I was always aware of him and he was always aware me. It was like we were still making love to each other. [She smiles.] But when we got home, he was a bull. It was like he had to fuck all of his bossās come out of me. He couldnāt wait to get to the bedroom. He put me on my back, spread my legs, knees up, and fucked me right there on the entry room floor. He wouldnāt let me move until I had come on his cock and he had filled me.
Q: He was possessive.
Woman: [She smiles.] Itās become the best part of swinging. We laugh about it.
Q: So you had a good experience.
Woman: Yeah, I had a great experience. And I guess I was lucky.
Q: Are you and your boyfriend still together.
Woman: Yes. Weāre married.
Q: Do you still swing?
Woman: Weāre not looking for new couples, if thatās what youāre asking.
Q: And youāre a lawyer?
Woman: Iām a state prosecutor. [She smiles.] Who likes to be fucked from behind.
Q: You probably donāt talk about that in your feminist circles.
Woman: No. I do. I mean, not specifics but feminism isnāt monolithic. It means giving women the freedom to be who they want to be, not what men or other women tell them to be, right? I donāt like pornography but Iām not going to tell a woman she should somehow be ashamed of herself. You know, show me a country where thereās no pornography and Iāll show you a country will women are second class citizens, where women have no freedom.
Q: So, do you have any other advice?
Woman: Swinging can be fun and healthy, but you have to know your relationship. If you go into swinging and youāre keeping secrets, if youāre not both totally open and committed, then thatās when things go wrong. Swinging isnāt cheating. Swinging isnāt betrayal. Swinging doesnāt negate your wedding vows. Swinging is just another way to express your love for each other while sharing it with another couple who are also in love and in a committed relationship. If any of those elements are missing, swinging isnāt going to work. Somebody is going to get hurt.
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If your man has had the courage to tell you that he wants you to fuck other men, stop tormenting yourself with the morality of the situation and worrying about whether he loves you, or if this is a ploy for him to have sex with other women. If he is like the other 99% of us who have had the ātalkā, then what he wants is for you to experience pleasure and for you to share that pleasure with him in some way.
Each of us are different, pleasure for me is not humiliation, itās the raw sexual ecstasy that I want her to feel. The thought of watching her pussy stretch around a very hard, thick cock, and makes my cock throb, my breath short, and my lust intense. I can almost feel the pleasure that she would experience between her legs, almost as if my cock were her pussy. I assure you, wives and girlfriends, that this request by your man is an act of love and admiration and is staunchly centered around his lust for ONLY you. In fact most men who want this, rarely fantasize about anyone else but you. You are the center of their sexual fantasies and desires. You will not be āunfaithfulā by carrying out this act of love for your husband/boyfriend. Faithfulness is what is in the heart, not a physical act. The words āslutā and āwhoreā are often used by him referring to you in a loving wayā¦this is what he wants you to be, at least in our secret sexual world (none of your friends and family need to know). The idea of you being promiscuous serves to heighten his desire for you a great deal.
So please, whisper in his ear that you are ready to become a slut for him. Tell him that you want your pussy to be fucked and filled with cum while he watches and then you want him to slide his cock into you and deposit his own load into his little slutty whore. Do it for him, do it for you, free yourself and your sexual desires. Youāll never turn back and wonder why you took so long to get there!
I would love to hear your thoughts ladies and hubbies/boyfriends!
If you simply wanted to get a guy off as quickly as possible, all you need to do is lock your lips at the base of his cock and suction them up and down the bottom ¾ of his shaft at a quick, steady pace while pressing your flattened tongue against the underside of his dick. Make sure you are applying pressure with both your lips AND tongue. Keeping your tongue engaged at all times is key. I try to keep mine moving at all times. This is how you get 90% of guys off. It helps me keep from gagging to hold his cock steady at the base and bring my lips down to meet my fingers. You can do this very slowly for a more intense feeling, but make sure you move at a steady rhythm. Some guys like it faster or slower; you may have to ask, or more likely, heāll tell you. This is your power move, the one that is actually going to bring him to orgasm. A true hooker blowjob needs only this one move; if scientists were to create a blowjob machine, this is what it would do. The other moves Iām going to teach you are artistic flourishes; you use them to add flair and style to your blowjob or to slow down the action a little. SALIVA Donāt be afraid to just slobber all over his love muscle. It should be as wet and sloppy as possible, especially during your power move. A good blowjob makes loud, gross suction-y noises. When Iām done, Iām usually covered in my own drool and leave a wet spot on the bed. USING YOUR HANDS If his dick is too big for you to take the whole thing in your mouth, youāll need to use your hand too. Slobber all over his cock for awhile first so your hand will slide easily up and down instead of just catching on his dry skin. The most important hand move is the twister. When you slide your hand up his shaft, twist your wrist. A twisting motion gets you into a smoother rhythm than the straight up and down. Slide your hand up and down on the base of his cock in conjunction with your mouth moving up and down on the rest of it. The hard part is finding the correct grip: again you may want his guidance. Another good trick is to wrap your hand around the top of his cock and put your mouth over your hand. Then slide your hand down the shaft and your mouth down on top of it in a fluid motion until your hand meets the base of his cock. It will feel like youāre sliding your mouth all the way down him even if you canāt. Itās times like these I wish I could draw; Iād make little diagrams. THE BALLS I usually start out by paying some attention to the balls. There are three basic ball moves: you can put them in your mouth and suck them (LIGHTLY), lick them with a flattened cow tongue, or tense your tongue into a point and run the tip of your tongue all over them. I alternate between all three. Sometimes I lift them up and lick underneath his balls. Also, if you cup them while you are entering the home stretch, youāll be able to tell heās about to cum as they get higher and tighter. THE HEAD My next move is usually to give his shaft several long licks from base to tip. This is the ice cream cone move; it looks sexy, itās a nice touch, but itās not going to make anybody cum. While conducting the power move, I come up from time to time to give the head a little attention: sucking on it, moving my tongue in a circle around it, and flicking my tongue over that spot on the underside that all the sex websites tell you is el sensitivo. In my experience, guys donāt really go that wild over attention to that spot, but these are just flourishes anyway. I tend to get a bit wrapped up in my work that I forget to make eye contact, so head action is a great time to look up at him with puppy dog eyes and his cock in your mouth. FACE SLAPPING I mentioned this in my tips to get him to cum faster, but at least once during the beej, I usually pop his dick out of my mouth and slap it against my tongue or face, then look at him while I rub his cock against my cheeks and lips. Guys are visual, this is just a little something dirty for him to look at. DEEP THROAT I canāt really teach you how to deep throat, thatās between you and your gag reflex. The important thing, I think, is to make an effort to take him in as deep as you can, even if itās only for a few seconds. Itās hard to explain exactly how I do this: try concentrating on relaxing your throat and jaw. As I mentioned before, it helps me to steady his cock with my hand when I go deep, and breathing in instead of just holding your breath also helps abate that āgonna pukeā feeling. THE BIG FINALE When youāre ready to finish him off, go into the power move and donāt vary your pace for anything. If youāre cupping his balls, youāll often be able to tell when heās about to cum as they tighten up. I speed up a little bit at the end, and when I feel him start to come I push my head down as deep as it will go and suck slowly and intensely at the base, letting his cum just shoot down my throat.
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