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she needs to teach my husband tbh

If my content has ever helped you please never thank me.

I never would of made any of it or even used Tumblr if it wasn't for my lovely lady.

She inspires me to write whenever I do and is my driving force.

There’s no need to be scared, darling. Not of me, not anymore. I won’t hurt you, not unless you make me. But you’ll always be at my mercy, and you’ll love it. I know you will. You’ve always loved it. You won’t fight me. You’ll kneel for me, submit to me, and you’ll find that every part of you, even the parts you try to hide, will crave it. It’s inevitable. And I’ll be here, watching you unravel, guiding you as you give yourself completely to me. Don’t fight it. Just give in, and let me show you how good it feels to belong to someone who understands you. ♡

I don't like the mutual obsessed stuff. Not because I don't love them, but because I want to be small and tired and not have to do all the work associated with obsession

They bother you too? what the flip I had someone tell me they were jealous of my epilepsy diagnosis not too long ago

RADQUEERS AND TEE CEE CEE CAN YOU ACTUALLY FUCK OFF I WILL BITE YOU LIKE ACTUALLY

On a nother note I think m going into pre heat or regular heat an thats why i don’t feel good and been so nesty and protective and clingy lately,,

Cant do anythin about it which,, sad but :(

reblog this post if you want personalized asks,,..like ill stalk your stuff and then askk you questions I love talking to people

oh, angel, who's hurting your heart? let me take care of it. i'll hold it so gently in my hands.

— cat-themed yandere ask game. ♡

kitten ♡ who was your first darling? are you still in touch?

house cat ♡ what kind of attention do you want from your darling? how do you try to get it?

stray cat ♡ how do you feel when your darling interacts with others? do you try to isolate them?

big cat ♡ do you want to control your darling? how much? what would you want to control?

wildcat ♡ what are some fantasies you have about your darling? what about the darkest ones?

purring ♡ what are your top love languages?

sunbathing ♡ what would be your ideal date or hangout with your darling?

hissing ♡ are you jealous or possessive when it comes to your darling? if so, what makes you jealous or possessive?

biting ♡ does your obsession make you violent or aggressive? if so, in what way?

hunting ♡ how do you tend to get or find a new darling?

scratching ♡ how do you cope with any toxic urges you have related to your darling?

meowing ♡ how do you express your love to your darling, if at all?

pouncing ♡ do you stalk your darling? if so, how?

claws ♡ how do you react to any obstacles between you and your darling? what about if they cheated on you or broke a promise?

whiskers ♡ how close are you with your darling?

collar ♡ what's the worst thing you would do for your darling?

catnip ♡ what are your favorite things about your darling?

pawprints ♡ what are your favorite memories with your darling?

night vision ♡ do you ever have dreams about your darling? if so, what have they been?

Aaa why cant i just have a mate :( I wanna rub my face on them and make food and make my nest pretty and be loved and be able to show it in my way,,

"I can do it by myself." but you dont have to anymore, my little doll. you dont have to face everything all on your own. you dont have to suffer all on your own. im right here now. let me carry the weight of your past. let me tend to your wounds. let me learn even the darkest parts of you and show you it was all meant to be adored by me.

let me give you the devotion you've always deserved.

stalk me. send me anons. send me threats. train me. collar me. give me gifts. reach out to me. hold me. use me. make me feel needed. chase me. make me NEED you.

I just wan a mate and have pupssss

S that too much to ask? Just want a nice mate an to have someone I can have as my pup augh

Mostly a system thing I think but :((

"what are your goals for 2025" honestly, to not kill myself but I don't wanna bring the room down lmao

My tooth hurts so bad I have a numbing gell thingy right

It makes my mouth numb and hurt less whcih yayyy but it makes me so so so drooley

And yknow what it kinda makes me happy jsut like . . . Ee

Im gonna say smth that a lot of yall aren't gonna like but whatever Im tired of nobody talking about it.

The therian community's obsession with zoos is stunting a lot of the cultural growth that we could be having rn.

Soooo many of us are so goddamn busy with trying to prove that we're not zoos or accusing each other of being zoos or shouting from every rooftop available that we're different than zoos, when we could be doing so many more productive things.

You wanna keep potentially dangerous individuals out of the community, I understand that, really I do. But do you wanna know how many animals are saved from abuse by us dogpiling (no pun intended) on someone who incorporates their nonhumanity into kink? Or who speaks honestly about genitalia dysphoria, or instincts to court members of the species they identify as? Or hell, who even acknowledges that there is an overlap between therianthropy and zoo attraction? Zero.

It doesn't really protect anyone, all it does is prevent us from speaking honestly about our experiences, diving into the nitty gritty of what it actually means to be an animal living as and among humans, out of fear that something we told to someone in confidence is going to end up in a google doc next week. No, wanting to have nonhuman body parts does not automatically make you attracted to biological animals. No, being attracted to alterhumans over humans does not automatically make you attracted to biological animals. No, wishing you had a nonhuman family does not automatically make you attracted to biological animals. The only thing that makes you attracted to biological animals is being attracted to biological animals. It truly is not rocket science.

I haven't seen it be as much of an issue here on Tumblr because I guess there's overall less mob mentality and beings are more capable of using critical thinking skills, it's just been frustrating watching so many of the younger/newer members of the community turn into the "crucify zoos at any and all costs" club and trying to strong arm all forms of animalistic sexual expression out of the community to avoid any possible association with zoos from outsiders (spoiler alert: you could sanitize the entire community to the point of chemical burns and uneducated doorknobs would still swear up and down that every last one of us are zoos)

honey aftr dark rambling

ive honestlt been layinf here for like an hour just tginking about a knot mmmm

being taken care pf and just relaxinf mmm

narilamb should kiss on the mouth with blood on their faces

Trying to take care of myself starting heat is soooo fucking hard

I had to have my mom make me food because I can’t get out of my bed right now and I’m just :(

Im all fuzzy in the head and wanna re do my nest even tho I JUST made it

All these notes but no anons💔💔💔💔💔

Chapter 2: Part 10: Identifying the Type of Darling You Have

When you're in a relationship with a Yandere, it’s essential to understand the dynamics at play. Every Darling is unique, and identifying the type of Darling you have will help you understand how to approach and manage the relationship. Whether they are cooperative or rebellious, each type presents different challenges and rewards. Here’s a guide to help you pinpoint which Darling you're dealing with:

1. Willful and Cooperative Darling This type of Darling is the ideal partner. They are not only willing to submit to the Yandere’s control but actively participate in the relationship with loyalty and devotion. Though they maintain a strong sense of self, their cooperation leads to the best kind of affection and rewards from their Yandere. They are calm, patient, and obedient.

Challenge: The only issue here might be keeping them from becoming too complacent or neglected, but overall, they are the easiest to manage.

2. Broken Darling This type is the hardest to manage. A Broken Darling cannot be rehabilitated and will fight every step of the way. They do not accept rules or submission, constantly trying to escape. They are unyielding and require constant restraint.

Challenge: They’ll never fall in line, no matter how much effort you put in. Constant vigilance is required to keep them under control. They can break free if you aren't careful.

3. Brat Darling Brat Darlings love to test boundaries. They act rebellious for the thrill of it, enjoying the reactions they get from their Yandere. They might push buttons and break rules just to get attention but do so knowing they’ll eventually be controlled again.

Challenge: While they can be difficult, Brat Darlings are still manageable. Recognizing their need for power play helps restore balance.

4. Role Model Darling This Darling is the epitome of devotion. Not only do they serve as an example of perfect submission, but they also encourage others to follow suit. They may even look down on less cooperative Darlings and act as a model for ideal behavior.

Challenge: Their perfection can sometimes distance them emotionally from their Yandere, making the relationship feel more transactional than intimate. They may also become self-righteous if not properly guided.

5. Faker Darling The Faker Darling appears perfect on the surface but hides a deceitful agenda. They’ll play the part of the ideal Darling, pretending to love and obey, but in reality, they are only waiting for the right moment to escape. Their manipulation can be deceiving.

Challenge: You have to stay hyper-vigilant to avoid falling for their act. Trust is key here, but breaking it could cause them to reveal their true intentions.

6. Partner Darling This Darling is more traditional in nature. They are submissive but enjoy some autonomy and interaction with the outside world. They follow the basic rules but resist full captivity. While they may show affection, they are not fully under control at all times.

Challenge: Maintaining strict control can be difficult with a Partner Darling, as their need for freedom often leads to boundary-pushing behavior.

7. BloodLuster Darling BloodLuster Darlings are drawn to violence and brutality. They thrive on the darker aspects of the relationship, encouraging dangerous behavior from the Yandere. They might even find satisfaction in witnessing harm, creating a bond through shared darkness.

Challenge: They are unpredictable and may push the Yandere toward more risky behaviors. Controlling them may become more difficult if their craving for violence grows uncontrollable.

8. Empath Darling Empath Darlings are sensitive and emotionally driven. They empathize with the Yandere’s feelings and might even put themselves at risk to help or "fix" the situation. They want to soothe and heal but may also try to protect others from the Yandere.

Challenge: While an Empath Darling can be emotionally manipulative in their own right, their desire to help may put them at risk of rebellion. Balancing control while respecting their empathy is essential.

9. Suicidal Darling A Suicidal Darling is deeply troubled, often viewing death as an escape from the Yandere’s control. They may harm themselves or attempt suicide in an effort to break free, presenting a constant emotional and physical challenge.

Challenge: They pose a significant emotional burden, and constant vigilance is necessary. Creating a protective environment to ensure their well-being while still managing the relationship can be a delicate balance.

10. Escape Artist Darling This Darling is a master of escape. Whether through intelligence, manipulation, or sheer determination, they can find ways to break free, often more than once. Their ability to outsmart restraints and find weaknesses in control makes them particularly difficult to manage.

Challenge: Keeping them in control requires constant innovation and vigilance. They’re relentless in their attempts to regain freedom, and it's a challenge that can exhaust even the most dedicated Yandere.

11. Comforter Darling Comforter Darlings are emotionally supportive. They offer care and comfort to the Yandere, sacrificing their own needs to attend to the Yandere’s emotional state. They are sensitive to moods and offer soothing words and actions to calm their partner.

Challenge: Over time, this role can be emotionally draining. They may feel neglected or used if their own emotional needs aren’t met.

12. Abusive Darling An Abusive Darling actively resists and fights the Yandere. They may engage in physical or verbal confrontations, causing tension in the relationship. Despite their aggression, they may occasionally submit, creating a volatile and unpredictable dynamic.

Challenge: The Yandere must maintain dominance while not escalating the situation too much. Understanding the underlying causes of their aggression is crucial to preventing emotional fallout.

13. Masochistic Darling Masochistic Darlings find pleasure in pain, punishment, or degradation. They actively seek out and enjoy punishment, often to the point of making demands for more. This Darling thrives on the control and suffering that comes with the relationship.

Challenge: Managing their desire for punishment requires balance. The Yandere must ensure that they don’t push the boundaries of safety while still satisfying their Darling’s emotional needs.

14. Chaser (not a Darling) Chasers are not truly Darlings; they are thrill-seekers who fetishize the Yandere x Darling dynamic. They often cooperate initially but will quickly try to escape once they’ve satisfied their desire for excitement.

Challenge: The Yandere may struggle with the fleeting nature of the Chaser’s interest. These types are often more focused on fantasy than reality, leading to eventual disappointment.

15. Isolated Darling An Isolated Darling prefers solitude and is mostly compliant when they’re left alone. They don’t actively rebel but also aren’t interested in social interaction. They enjoy being in a controlled, solitary environment with minimal distractions.

Challenge: The lack of engagement might make the relationship feel emotionally hollow. They’re easy to control but might not provide the emotional fulfillment a Yandere desires.

16. Degrader Darling Degrader Darlings enjoy belittling and emotionally hurting their Yandere. They may cooperate in the end, but their interactions are often full of insults and taunts. They derive some twisted satisfaction from demeaning their partner.

Challenge: The Yandere must have strong emotional control to handle the constant negativity. However, the cooperation in the end ensures that the relationship remains.

17. Idealist Darling Idealist Darlings believe they should be confined to the most extreme extent possible. They want the Yandere’s control to be unyielding and may even become frustrated if they feel they aren’t locked away or isolated enough.

Challenge: The Yandere must constantly satisfy their Darling’s extreme expectations, pushing for stricter control and higher levels of confinement.

A Darlings Guide to being the Perfect Darling!

We Will Cover: Prologue: Why You Need to be A Darling And Accept Kidnapping Trusting Your Yandere's Control

How to Be the Source of Your Yandere’s Happiness

Recognizing Their Needs

How to Be Their Safe Haven

Taking Responsibility for Your Actions

How to Avoid the Temptation of Rebellion

The Art of Being Irreplaceable

How to Be a Good Darling When You're Being Punished Epilogue: When It's No Longer Your Choice.

OLD ^ New v Chapter 0: Prologue

Become a Darling

Chapter 1: Detecting Your Inner Darling

Am I A Darling?

Creating Your Circle

Identifying Fakers/Chasers

Never Admit Defeat

- Chapter 2: Putting Yourself In The Crosshairs

Entering Hunting Grounds

Fending Off Fakers

Cultivate Desperation

Stroke Interest

Don't Get Attached

Put Worries To Rest Chapter 3: Right At Home

EMPTY

EMPTY Chapter 4: Locked In Love

How to Avoid the Temptation of Rebellion

When It's No Longer Your Choice

hey I wanted to warn you since you followed an alter in our system's account (@/muttomega) we're a minor bodily! the '19' in paws bio is their headspace age not our true age

Ah! Thank you so much!! I’m gonna unfollow bc I repost crazy stuff and don’t wanna expose you to freaky stuff! /nm

I brought it up gently and explained how it all works, now we are working on a little document of all the traits and such we share. if I had one piece of advice it's to only do it if you feel they can "match your freak"

How have those of you with partners brought up being misceanimalis?

I want to bring it up with mine so he can get involved, but i am not sure how to do that exactly.

I remade my nest last night ! ! ,, think it’s obvious I like cows , ? /silly

I havnt got a chance to redo my nest since November and it was in desperate need of a refresh so I did it last night! Very comfy and nice I slept in it while I was sick today

What is Preheat Syndrome and do I have it?

What is preheat syndrome (PHS)? 

PHS is a recurring pattern of emotional, physical and behavioral changes in the days before your period that impact your daily life. These include but are not limited to headaches, exhaustion, bleeding, cramping, touch avoidance, back pain, joint or muscle aches, and sleeping or digestive issues.

PHS can also be experienced through euphoric symptoms including but not limited to increased body euphoria, higher motivation, quicker thinking, and hyperactivity.

What's the difference between PHS and regular preheat symptoms?

The most specific difference is that PHS symptoms impact your daily life. Many of us experience preheat exhaustion, but if your exhaustion means that you are unable to go to work then it would classify as a PHS symptom.

Many omegas find being touched in advance of their heat annoying, but if being touched - and we mean even casually here, a hand on your shoulder, holding hands, scenting chastely, etc - if this physically hurts you then you should see a doctor about this as it may be a symptom of PHS and in many cases can be treated with a topical cream.

It is normal to experience spotting before your heats, however if this spotting becomes heavy bleeding, lasts for more than two days, or causes pain, please see a medical professional.

Track your symptoms

Use a heat tracking app to track your preheat symptoms. Most good apps will have options for mild-moderate-severe levels of tracking for the most common symptoms and options to add your own if yours are not there. [See our linked post for our top ten heat tracking apps!]

Heat tracking apps will usually then give you an alert that your preheat is due and the better apps will include tips to mitigate your common symptoms.

This is good for you: you can see what symptoms you get with what regularity, and notice if it's a pattern or if it's a once off

This is good for your medical provider: they can see if your symptom patterns match with common PHS patterns, and if they do they can pass you on for further diagnoses. If they don't they can still recommend ways to allieviate symptoms that are causing you undue bother.

Not everybody experiences PHS.

While the media portrayal of preheat often includes dehabilitating symptoms of preheat - and indeed heat - it is not true that every one of us who experiences a heat will experience a preheat.

Some of us will have a preheat that we do not notice but our mates or packmates do notice, for example. Some of us will not have a preheat at all, merely drop immediately into heat.

Dealing with preheat symptoms does not necessarily equate to PHS. Preheat syndrome is a medical diagnosis that can severely affect a person’s life, while preheat symptoms can feel uncomfortable but mild.

It’s important to understand the difference and know your body. Tracking your symptoms will help you learn more about your own unique experience — rather than the generalized behaviors of all people who experience heats.

My seizures have killed me and the only reason I'm still here is bc my mom didn't stop doing cpr on me. I'm not trigger warning this bc it's the only way people actually take it seriously. TAG YOUR POSTS Please.

I wish epilepsy was taken more seriously because I literally see constant untagged and extreme strobe, especially on tiktok but even on YouTube. I have a filter but it does not work on tiktok, it only blocks regular videos. I’m still suffering from the seizure I had around 5 hours ago and my head feels likes it’s going to explode. Please, please, tag properly. I don’t wanna hear a single ‘but trigger warnings are bad!!!’, epilepsy is serious and seizures can kill.

bring back tumblr ask culture let me. bother you with questions and statements