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How to Get Your Guy Into a Chastity Cage

1. Tell him why you want to place him into a chastity cage.  For example ”I want you to always be your Horniest around me’ or “ I hear all the time from women how this will greatly improve our Sex Life” or “You Know I want total control of your erection my love.

2. Start Cheap. I recommend a cheap device from Ebay. Search for Male Polycarbonate Chastity.

3. Put it on for him. Be careful and extra gentle, the first time takes a while. If he has groin hair down there, leave it. He will discover he needs to shave on his own. Shaving himself will be his gift to you, if you want it. Tell Him that you Love it…

4. Put his clothes on and take him out somewhere (like to dinner or a walk on the beach) where you can both see how it feels while walking, sitting etc.

5. When you get back home he’ll want it off ASAP, Tell him you’ll take it off but only later. Visually tease him with lingerie & your sexiest clothing (purposefully bending over… ect…). Eventually Take it off of him and Have him jack off for you – following your precise instructions - Make sure he Cums Really Hard (and make it memorable), It’ll be the last time he Freely Explodes for quite a while.

5. Then have him put it back on himself. This is usually the time he will bring up shaving. If he wants to shave, have him do it right (as instructed). Downward strokes. And after have him put deodorant on it, Not lotion or oil as so many recommend. You want that freshly shaved area to remain dry to prevent razor bumps.

5. Tell him after he locks it and hands you the key, he will be in it for three days. That’s just enough time to drive him absolutely crazy with your lingerie & sexiest skimpy clothing. 

6. For the next three days, Introduce him to his nipples. Have him wear a T-Shirt and lightly play with them frequently. Not nipple torture, light pleasure. Explain to him (WHY), that the nipples are directly connected to his brain and prostate area, thus giving him much better Orgasms. With repetitive training he can eventually have an orgasm that feels great, but leaves him beautifully hornier. This will take the attention off of his inaccessible penis while giving him a new path to pleasure

7.  Monitor and inspect him not only daily but every few hours. Check for his comfort. This might not be the right cage for him. It can be too tight over time or too loose and pull out.

8. On day three he will really want sexual activity if you’ve been visually teasing him properly. It’s time you introduce him to his first ruined orgasm. Be sure to Tie his hands behind his back or to the bed first, then take the penis portion of the cage off Only, Leaving the ring on around his balls. As slowly and seductively as possible, suck, stroke or play with him until he is Fully Erect (the ring you left on him will mystically accelerate this process). Then just make sure to let go of his “Joystick” just as he is about to Erupt. Always remember, It’s Better to stop 15 seconds too early than 1 second too late. You can always stroke/edge him more if you need to. This will ensure that his ejection is not pleasant for him, and over time he will not want it any more. Anyhow when he’s finally deflated enough, Lock him back up (using a cold wash cloth with ice if necessary). This time WAIT for 7 days. 

9. Have him really practice / concentrate on using his nipples for pleasure. After some repetition he will be able to release some oozing boy juice into his cage relieving some pressure from his balls, but more importantly he’ll keep getting hornier and hornier.

10. On day 7, make sure you tie him up again before removing his lock and cage. Most likely He’ll spring to life almost instantaneously. Keep him as Hard as Possible - as Long as Possible, Strategically Prolonging his Desperate Erectile Situation with Frequent Sustaining Breaks. “Enjoy’ your escalating feminine power as you (most ardently) Edge Him for as long as your heart desires. Handle him “Delicately” until you’ve Eventually given him another perfect ruined orgasm. At this point both his Libido and Dopamine levels will be hyper peaked and His psyche will be Astonishingly Horny and Exploitable. This is the perfect opportunity to mount his eager face if you so desire. Keep in mind, His Manhood will stay Quite Erect for a good long while after a ruined orgasm. Needless to say, When you’ve had enough, lock him back up in his cock cage. Keep on this effective 7 day schedule until he’s utterly begging and promising to do (Anything) - whatever you ask of him, without delay, if you will only Let Him Cum Profusely. Upon the day of your choosing, After a Series of Exquisite Ruined Orgasms, Mount his “Empty” Traumatized (But Extremely Virile) Erection for the Ultimate Subjugating RIDE of a Lifetime - Whatever Duration You Choose - Trust me Ladies, It’ll be the Best Sex of your Life.

Now you have a Humble, Good Boy - that wants nothing more than to Please You ! ! !

Make it Last...

Most people think tease and denial is about female domination. They think that you have to serve her, obey her in order to have a small chance to cum from time to time. This might fit in the lifestyle of some submissive men, but it doesn’t fit me at all…

My opinion of tease and denial is that you must both be happy with this. The first thing to do (and the hardest) is to speak to your wife/girlfriend about your fantasy and what it’s really about. For me tease and denial is about being horny all the time. Think about the moment when you are just on the edge of orgasm, how you feel and how you never want this to end. With tease and denial, you can live this moment much longer than most men. At first most women will say you are crazy and won’t understand why the hell you don’t want to cum like a normal human being! Why? That’s the point of orgasm denial. She must understand that she’s not denying your pleasure, she’s just keeping your pleasurable state for much longer. I’m pretty sure that if you play this as a couple, she will understand very quickly why you want that when she will see your reaction. Everything that she will be doing will tease you, please you. Just a few words in your ears will give you a very hard erection! At first, this game (because in my opinion, this is a game) should take a slow start, it means short denial periods. If the short term is what fit the most, good for you! But after a while most people playing this game will need more and more… they don’t want to lose this ache to cum!

Having an orgasm is great, in fact it’s very pleasurable and we all want that. But waiting to get it give you much more pleasure. If you have sex and you cum after 15 minutes, it will be good… you will cum and you will be released. But if you have sex for 30 minutes and don’t cum, it will be hard at first… all your body will say I WANT TO CUM! But it’s not really what you want because you know that you are craving this feeling, you also know that when you haven’t cum for many days and you have been teased during this time, your orgasm will be much better and pleasurable. The more you wait for something and crave for it, the better it is when you finally get it. For example, if you want a nice car and you work hard to get it, you will have a greater satisfaction when you will finally get it after a long wait than if you simply had the cash for it and buy it right away. In both situation, you have the car of your dream… but if it’s too easy to get it, you will not be as proud and satisfied when you finally get it. (Yes I’m comparing a car with an orgasm, but I think you get the point)

Look at this picture

I’m pretty sure that when you are in this situation, the last thing on earth you want is this moment to end! With tease and denial it’s possible! If this picture is taken in a normal sex context, she will strip, get on top of him or maybe do him a blowjob… but in the end in less than an hour (probably 20 minutes) it will be over with an orgasm. But in a tease and denial context, this could only be a prelude, you have no idea what is going to happen next. Maybe she will keep stripping and ask you to eat her until she orgasm, maybe she will masturbate in front of you while you are only allowed to watch, maybe she will suck you for a couple of minutes… or maybe she’s just giving you a preview of what might happen next and she’s putting her panties back. In this situation, one thing is sure, you will be hornier after she’s done than you were before. You will be eager for the next session, and everything that she will do or say will tease you until next time. Ok, you will not have the 5 seconds orgasm and the release… but you will have an endless sex session. From the end of this session until the next one, the only thing you will think about is how hot she is, how good she smells, how you would like to be inside her and cum! You will be eager for the next time, and when this next time finally happen, it’s going to be even better.

Not knowing what will happen next is probably the most exciting thing about tease and denial. There is no sexual routine. She’s in control of most of the sexual activities and all she wants is to find new way to tease you and always push your excitation level. In this context, she’s also more sexually confident because she knows that all you can think about is her. She feels desired, beautiful and she also feels all the sexual power she gets… which is very arousing for many women. She is having control, so if she wants an orgasm, all she will have to do is ask you to eat her. She knows that you want it and she also knows that she is not “forced” to give you something in return. Let’s be honest, in a normal relation, if he eats her pussy, he is expecting something in return. With tease and denial he will obviously be very happy if he gets something in return, but if he doesn’t he will be a little bit sexually frustrated, but he will be hornier than he was before and he will be waiting for next time with a boner in his pants! Tease and denial is about living in a post orgasmic state, I mean always on the edge of orgasm or pleasure but not over it!

Of course this game can be very complex and can be done in so many different ways, what is important, is to be happy with it. Many people will add ruined orgasm to the game. It’s a way to release some pressure, but not let him have the big O! After a ruined orgasm he will lose his erection and he will be able to sleep… but he will still crave for the real orgasm and the real release. The ruined orgasm allows you to play longer and to make him wait for the real release for a longer time. Why wait longer? Because like I said before, it’s better! A ruined orgasm or a denial is something very powerful for her, when she says no or wait or simply ruins his orgasm, she feels a huge rush of sexual power because she knows what kind of power she has in her hands. (Or maybe in her mouth). She should never feel bad about denying the orgasm, she should feel good because she’s allowing him to keep his pleasure and arousal level still high. She will feel good because she knows that he will be very receptive to any sexual or sensual thing she will do or say until his next orgasm!

Whatever you do, the most important part is to ENJOY! Tease and denial is about pushing yourself in the ultimate quest of arousal and the ultimate orgasm. Of course, after a denial it’s not easy and she must be there to motivate him… but both of you know that it’s not really a denial, but this was a prelude to the next session…

Thanks to “eroticshortstories4women”

Finished my chores. She says I can take my heels off and put my boy clothes on over this and get dinner ready for the kids now