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Carter’s comments were typical liberal bullshit. Superpower in maintaining peace. Consign your sons to die or be maimed to enforce “peace” in an anthill of a country where the local 12 year olds will kill you after collecting food shipments that the US just handed out. Superpower in environmental issues? Your job is shipped to a third world nation that couldn’t give a flip about the environment. Superpower in treating people equally… welcome DEI where qualifications are meaningless to skin color and whatever mental health issues that are flavor of the month.
Rest In Peace, President Jimmy Carter. 💙
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Great article on the benefits of pegging your husband.
Pegging, definition according to Wikipedia: “Pegging” is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo, which is held with a harness or with her own vagina.
Doctor Jenn Gunsaullus says that pegging “unites men, women, dildo, lube, pleasure and power”
The most important to me is POWER.
From my experience as a Mistress, I know that pegging is the most effective way to get the transfer of the standard dominant role from men.
Through pegging, the dominant role of the relationship passes radically from the man to the woman.
The couple relationship dynamics will completely change once he will be underneath you and you will fuck his ass with a strap-on. From that moment, you will stop seeing him as the “leader” of the relationship and you will be stating a precedent for having things done your own way, not his. And the best thing about it is that he is going to love it too.
You will discover yourself soon making decisions he used to make before, or for which you needed his approval. You will feel much more self-confident, Dominant, and at the same time, he will start feeling and showing himself more submissive, more sensitive to your needs, wishes and whims.
Determined but cautious
If you have decided to incorporate the pegging to your relationship, don’t rush. Choose the best moment to tell him; a moment when he is very excited and receptive. Tell him you want to fuck his ass in the next months. Be very sexy when exposing your idea and take profit of that excitement to negotiate with him. Deal and establish clearly the limits, changes and punishments, also the physical ones, which you will apply if he decides not to obey at some stage.
He will not know how far you intend to go, and accept all your conditions. He will be too excited and worried planning to get to fuck you for his own pleasure, to stop thinking in the future. This will be his first great lesson.
Before starting with the strap-on training, you have to realize at all moments that you have to look confident and pushing. It is a training, that may seem too slow to you sometimes, but it is clearly pleasant for both of you, so, enjoy the process as well. The results will come, but it must be something positive from the first moment to you.
Another way to pleasure
What you will do, as a matter of fact, will be changing is pleasure area. He will have to learn to transfer all the pleasure he thinks he has only in his dick, from the top of his penis, to his anus… After a while, you will get to make the anal pleasure his only way to get sexual satisfaction. And you, will get this way all the power and the control you wish on him and much, much more pleasure. Because, in exchange of the pleasure he will get from your strap-on, he will feel the impetuous need to give you all the pleasure you may want, and will do anything to make you happy. He will be “programmed” to satisfy you.
His penis stops being a pleasure tool, also for you, and you rediscover the pleasure of oral sex, a pleasure that you will need and ask constantly. The more pleasure you will get like this, the more he will need to satisfy you.
Humiliation
Very important: you can add some humiliation to the training. Take profit of any occasion to show him you really have all the control and all the power. You may need other dicks for your pleasure, not his, and you may use them or not; anyway, you decide. If you use other dicks, don’t feel guilty; on the other hand, tell him your intention to do it and your experiences. He must learn, and understand, that your pleasure is the most important thing, NOT the source where it comes from. He will have to make an effort then to be the only source of pleasure. You know, they always love to be the Alpha “Macho Man”.
Chastity
Rise your control on him: cage his penis in a Chastity Belt. Even if it seems unbelievable, the fact of not touching himself, nor seeing his useless dick, will turn him on a lot. This is because he can’t disconnect his mind from you while wearing the Chastity Belt. The CB, or cage, as I call it, will keep him in a state of perpetual excitement and obsession for his sexual needs and pleasure.
Remember, once you start fucking his ass with the strap-on, you won’t see him the same way. You will not see him as a man, he will be your whore, a slut you take by his ass, each time you wish to.
Rejection
It won’t be so easy to induce him. He will try to convince you that pegging is an absurd practice, unnatural, strange and shameful to him.
He will think that the idea of being penetrated will seem to him an atrocious act, and he will describe the scene of you fucking him as something horrible. Those are just excuses. Ignore them!
Sometimes the “Macho” hides away the strap-on not to be fucked. Other men stay at work until later, when they feel “it is time”. Others allege, finally their rejection from their fear to be identified and catalogued as “gays”… He will always find excuses to take your attention away from his ass. Don’t hesitate, use discipline and corporal punishment, if needed, to prevail.
Fuck him again and again
In a FemDom relationship, it is important that you fuck him regularly during the first months of the strap-on training. In my opinion, several times a week.
Do it in a way that he will never know when you will do it: before he falls asleep, or early in the morning, before he gets to work, after work, even in the middle of the night, and most of all, each time you will feel like fucking his ass.
With the pegging practice you fuck his ass, but also his mind and you reinforce your authority. Ignore his complaints. Reward will come soon.
Little by little, his resistance to be fucked will start to decay, as it will happen with his sphincter in the same way.
The combination of forced chastity, corporal punishment and pegging will make your man a new creature, unselfish and submissive. The power dynamics of the relationship will change. Remember always that your authority will grow more the more you apply it.
He will soon understand that he does not control anything _not even his penis_ he will not be able to have something as private as an erection without your consent. He will realize he can’t have what he wants, when he wants it, without your approval.
Masturbation
It is very important to control the masturbatory customs of men. A man should not be allowed to masturbate in a FemDom relationship.
Always full
Your authority will grow, while he gets used to have something inside his ass: make him use a butt-plug, of a good size, when you are not fucking him.
You can also enjoy making him feel always full. During a meal, surprise him ordering him to go to the bathroom to introduce himself a butt-plug you have prepared for him.
He must get used to other physical things. But mental and psychological changes in him will be very deep and definitive.
Knickers for him
The moment has come to ask him to wear knickers, instead of a male slip. Hide all his slips, and take him to buy his own girlie underwear. Make him wash every night the knickers of both of you. Hand wash.
It is normal to wear a whore’s clothes if he is being fucked as one. This way you show him it is not just a game; he will feel your control on him while being dressed as a whore all day, he will not have relief, even when he is far away from you.
Milking
His body must get used to the new situation. Receiving the strap-on will change from being painful, to being uncomfortable, and finally just a strange sensation.
Take your time in order to stimulate his prostate when you are fucking him, it will be very pleasant for him, even if also humiliating, and he will not recognize it easily. He is enjoying a strange new pleasure, humiliating, but for sure milking will help.
What you will really do is milking his prostate and, remember, keep his penis caged. During the milking process, he must feel relief, but something really different from his usual pleasure with his precious penis. Milking is necessary to drain his prostate, that will be extra full of his seminal liquid almost for sure, because of the level of continuous excitementyou provoke in him.
More humiliation
Verbal humiliation can be useful during this process to break his ego, you will see soon how necessary it is to break him, humiliate him.
The first time you will call his ass “hole to be fucked” or “male cunt”, he will be shocked and ashamed. Ignore him. You will see he is dripping, excited, only because of your words.
Make him shave. Either all his public hair or leave enough for a landing strip. Like a true whore does.
Cruelty
You can be even more cruel. If you say to him, in a calmed but self-confident tone, that his little penis is useless, that he fucks like a girl, hat you need a big man, with a big cock, who will know how to use it to fuck you… for sure you will get his attention immediately.
Explain to him that you are going to tell to two or three of your best girlfriends some private aspects of your sexual life… Things like that he has a small dick, that you put him in chastity, that he has controlled orgasms, that he is a cunt-licker, that you love fucking him with the strap-on, that you make him wear knickers, that he has to share your cunt with other men and that he must clean after… all that will be very humiliating to him, but will reinforce your authority, he must realize that you are serious about it.
After three or four months of chastity treatment, pegging, discipline and humiliation… Being self-confident, firm, strict… he will stop resisting and fighting.
He will bend over for you, will hug and hold you after you have fucked him with love, and will desperately need to lick your cunt to give you pleasure and thank you for what you do for him.
No pleasure for his dick
He mustn’t have “conventional sex,” during this period. I recommend you not to offer him “vanilla sex”, at least during the first months, until he understands his dick is not necessary anymore to give or get pleasure. Sex for him, must be limited to serving you orally. You can masturbate him some time in a humiliating way, or with lack of interest. Better if you do it with your feet. May be I don’t need to say it, but your mouth will never touch his penis again.
Having his dick caged, has no real effect on him giving you pleasure with his mouth, but while being frustrated by the fact of not coming for weeks,, his sexual tension will arise dramatically and, of course, his desire towards you. This produces his wish to see you get pleasure and sexual satisfaction many more times.
Finally, your man’s brain will end by associating the anal penetration with your pleasure and orgasms, he will want his strap-on treatment, and will beg for it. He will be your whore, always in disposal to please you. He will need to be fucked by you, and he will do anything to get it.
A one way trip
If the man receives the strap-on regularly, his body and mind adjust to the new situation, and he experiences some physical and psychological changes.
Fucking him turns into a “normal” experience, and he will even need it. This happens because you succeeded to change is erogenous zone, by ignoring and caging his penis and by constantly stimulating his prostate through his anus.
His own pleasure becomes secondary, and he prefers to make you enjoy, gets excitement and joy when you ignore his penis, but you use more his mouth and tongue… he discovers a richer and more exciting world in which he is not the centre anymore, he does not even decide.
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cuckoldressfiancee
The following is an original work of fiction. All individuals described are consenting adults. All rights reserved by the author. If it is received positively I may consider extending this novella.
Carol left a note on the breakfast table. Good morning sleepyhead. I didn’t want to wake you up before my trip. I’ll be back in two weeks, love you!
Smiling I made juice and got ready for work, luckily my office had gone completely remote and all I had to do was walk the twenty feet to my home office. The idea of having the house to myself for a change was going to be a novelty.
I noticed another note from Carol on my computer. It said, sweetie I hid an emergency key just in case. I don’t even want you touching yourself down there without my permission.
My heart beat quicken and I could feel myself tightening in the cage. I unconsciously shifted in my chair. She went on to say “if there is an emergency contact me and I’ll let you know where it’s located.” I’d never had to use the emergency key, but it was smart to have one.
Her note went on to say since I’ll be gone so long can you take care of a few things for me? I want you to provide a few “favors” for David. My mouth went dry, David had become “our” boyfriend, at least that’s what she called him for the past two years.
He had become a dominant presence in both of our lives. I was hoping while Carol was away I could have a break from him, but it didn’t look as if that was going to happen.
I had been her actual cuckold since David came into our lives. It began when Carol met David at work, he was a manager in the office. He was tall, muscular and supremely confident.
In the beginning, being her cuck was simply a kinky role play game we indulged in.
Carol always enjoyed it greatly. She also introduced the idea of chastity and slowly escalated the duration from a few hours, to a few days, then weeks until it became semi-permanent.
Before David became a presence in our lives. I satisfied her with my mouth or large strap-on, which she surprised me with on my birthday. I said it looked as if my “birthday present” was really for her to which she smiled knowingly. It was about this time she began referring to me as “cucky” all the time, unless of course if family or others were present.
Whenever she said it the tension in my caged increased. When the chastity became 24/7 I began waking up with exquisitely painful blue balls.
One night she came into the bathroom and saw me sitting on the edge of the tub nursing the ache. She gave me a wry smile and asked what’s wrong, is your poor little locked up toy hurting?
She pulled me back to the bed and we had a long make out session. She proceeded to tell me what a pathetic little cucky loser I was and kiss me deeply. My genitals ached in a deliciously painful mix of frustration and submission to her.
I found the ache to be addictive.
Two years ago we had our anniversary dinner at home that I prepared. After finishing dinner, I started to get up to clear the table and she motioned for me to remain seated.
She took a deep breath and said I have something I want to discuss. She said she wanted to take our cuckold role play to the next level. I gulped and said how so?
Cucky you know I love you with all my heart yes? Of course I said, I had become more and more under her control daily. I could feel my face turning red. She smiled at my reaction and said remember David one of the senior managers at my work? Yes I said, I had met him at a Christmas party at a local restaurant the prior year. He was quite friendly and had a disarmingly confident attitude. He had the type of personality that was casual, yet dominant. This was the first time she mentioned David in more that a casual work related way.
I shared with him our… little role play. I blinked, oh my god really? This is our personal business I protested. Of course cucky, but I didn’t think you would mind. I shifted awkwardly in my seat.
The ache in my crotch was quickly becoming obvious to her. She observed me carefully and said it looks as if you don’t mind too much… do you? She said with a wry smile.
This is how it began. At first it was an occasional night out with him. I would sit in my room in a combination of frustration, arousal and humiliation. Experiencing the delicious ache between my legs. It was the most profound high of my life.
She would return home late in the evening and jump on me and push my face between her legs or demand the strap-on. The taste of her sex was overwhelming.
Previously she would occasionally reward me with a release, usually in the form of a hand job, but now she fiendishly delighted in my frustration.
After a few months Carol said that she wanted David and I to meet. I initially protested saying having to meet him would be too embarrassing, but she wore me down and I surrendered. The first meeting was awkward, at least for me, David was casual and completely confident. He didn’t try to overwhelm me and tried to assure me he understood the special relationship between my wife and I.
During our first meeting he mentioned that Carol has talked about me quite a lot and that he was happy to meet me. After that he openly began to come to the house to pick Carol up for their “dates” and made small talk with me. Eventually Carol told me David was going to spend the night and that they had a treat planned for me. Carol asked me to make a “special dinner” for the three of us. To say I was nervous would have been an understatement.
That night I was permitted to watch them have sex for the first time. I sat in a mixture of arousal, frustration and utter humiliation. David took notice of my predicament and smiled. Enjoy the show cucky? That was the first time he called me by that name causing my face to blush beet red.
During one of their play dates at our house Carol said she wanted me to join in the fun rather than simply be permitted to watch. I was hoping she would grant me a release, but she had other ideas.
Before David came over she told me “they had decided” that I needed to understand my place in the household by sucking David hard before they had sex.
My mouth dropped open, I’m not gay Carol I said. Carol smiled and said of course you’re not, you’re doing this as a sign of your devotion to me. I’m sure you’ll love it cucky, don’t worry.” Then she added, when we are finished you’ll clean his “cock” with your mouth and lick out my freshly fucked pussy to show your appreciation. She grinned and kissed me deeply knowing I couldn’t resist her.
That’s how it started, Carol began referring to David as “our” boyfriend when she mentioned him.
As it turned out, David really enjoyed being sucked off by me, much more so than Carol.
He would sometimes drop by just for that purpose. Carol enjoyed watching me pleasure “our” boyfriend.
Early on David insisted that I be hairless. He casually mentioned that he preferred me to have an adolescent boy appearance including outfits.
One day they announced it was decided I was to permanently move into a tiny undecorated room downstairs, while the adults occupied the master bedroom. At the time the reference about adults staying in the master bedroom failed to register. I was focused on being told I had to move into the windowless storage room.
The room I moved into consisted of only having room for a twin bed and cardboard boxes to store my clothes. David semi moved into the master bedroom with Carol. Even though he had his own place, he let it be known he will set the rules for the house.
Some of the rules consisted of having to ask permission to go out, having any outside friends approved by them and having a 8 o’clock curfew along with doing all cooking and grocery shopping. I was told that I could hold hands with Carol and cuddle and kiss but that anything else had to be approved by him and would be considered a privilege.
Once Carol caught me trying to listen when they had sex. I hadn’t earned the privilege to watch, or for that matter listen, that week due to not following some of the rules he introduced.
The following day I returned from grocery shopping to a surprise. Carol said, well cucky since you have difficulties following the house rules “we” have decided a way to help you remember.
She took me to my room, which was slightly larger than a closet, to show me my twin bed had been equipped with a four point harness with restraints for the wrist and ankles that attached around and under the mattress.
My mouth dropped open. Ahh..Carol, I’m sorry, I really didn’t mean to break the rules. I promise to obey them from now on. This looks frightening.
Well cucky, David decided you needed “alone time” to understand your place. I sat on the bed and got the second shock. The bed made a crinkling sound. What’s this I said? Its a water proof sheet to keep you from soiling your mattress silly. Your “alone time” could be for only a few hours, to a few days, perhaps much longer. It all depends on your transgression.
During that time you won’t be permitted to leave your bed. You’re going to be secured and left in the dark.
From then on when I was being disciplined, I would be bound to the bed for whatever duration David decided upon.
This didn’t initially seem too bad, but the first time I spent a few “days” of alone time it was humbling.
Carol allowed me to wear a diaper and fed me a simple meal twice a day. During one session when I could no longer hold my bowels I soiled the diaper. Carol noticed when she brought me a meal and reticuled me for messing myself. It was so humiliating. I quickly learned not to break the house rules.
Discipline was either “alone time” or a punishment spankings from “daddy” and kneeling in the corner for a set time. Carol and David kindly offered this as a alternative when they noticed my distress after being confined to the bed for several days.
Both punishments I learned to dread.
Around that time David and Carol sat me down one weekend and informed me that I was to call him “daddy” whenever I spoke to him and that every sentence was to begin or end with “yes daddy” or “no daddy,” My face was absolutely beet red the first few times I said this. Carol was turned on by my embarrassment. I knew she was aggressive, but didn’t realize the extent.
Daddy particularly enjoyed play time as he is physically larger than I and enjoys daddy-boy roll play.
Daddy and Carol had put me on a strict diet until my appearance was physically pleasing for daddy’s taste. Daddy said he preferred me to be thin and have longish hair.
Now we are back to the present, Carol was off for two weeks and she expected me to perform favors for David. My mouth was dry, I knew what was expected. Daddy enjoyed fellatio, long slow blowjobs, which he expected me to perform to his satisfaction. If I failed to perform as expected I would receive an utterly humiliating spanking. These usually resulted in me sobbing and begging “daddy” for forgiveness. As a daddy, David proved to be strict and wickedly imaginative.
As time progressed daddy had began to explore his sexual perversions with me.
He introduced me to pony rides, he would repeatedly bounce his “little boy” on his knee with my arms bound tightly behind my back in a box tie facing Carol who sat in a chair in front of me and sing.
“Ride a little horsey don’t break down. Ride a little horsey go to town. Better be careful so you don’t fall down!”
The song would repeat over and over as he bounced me helplessly up and down on his knee. I found this utterly humiliating. Carol absolutely loved watching as daddy bounced me up and down on his knee giving me pony rides and masterbated herself. She loved to see me humiliated. Eventually daddy would place me kneeling facing a corner and they would fuck. I didn’t dare turn my head nor make a sound.
On one occasion they fell asleep and left me there for hours. I didn’t dare move.
This is how our lives intertwined and how I willingly went from being an adult to a chaste submissive boy for daddy’s use and a humiliation slut for Carol’s erotic amusement.
Her protector.
I honestly don’t know what she’s saying other than licking the other girls ass for twenty minutes. Can someone translate?
Ashley Benson et Cara Delevingne
This painting is absolutely stunning.
"I don't know if I'm extremely sensitive or life is unbearable."
~ Vincent Van Gogh