tenderspectres

Latest Posts by tenderspectres

equating women who don’t want biological males in their intimate spaces to rapists is honest-to-god the most INSANE take i have ever seen on this goddamn website

I don't care if terfs can be rehabilitated.

They don't deserve to be.

a little about me

hi, i’m kesair! (KESS-eer)

basic stuff:

🌎 USA

🕓 21

♀ TRA -> radfem pipeline as of discovering radblr a few months ago

💕 biromantic, asexual, febfem

yeses and nos:

❌ pornography

❌ sex industry

❌ beauty industry

❌ religion

❌ kink/bdsm

✅ female separatism

✅ gender abolition

✅ pro choice

hobbies and personal stuff:

🌱 ecology major

🎮 video games (skyrim, TOTK, BG3, and more)

📕 reading + creative writing

🎲 dungeons and dragons

🌷 gardening (currently starting a garden on my apt balcony)

🎶 music (the neighbourhood, chase atlantic, susannah joffe, set it off)

“template” very much stolen from @lorynna

RB if you hate being called Queer

I’m just curious <_<

buggy block printed shirts now in tha shop 🐛🐞🪲⭐️🕷️

bitch is a slur cunt is a slur and I think men should face the same level of scrutiny for saying those words as any other slur

i just wish you met me before all these bad things happened to me

circling back to where we started

take a shot every time a TRA makes death threats or wishes death upon someone

I am a woman, and that used to make me uncomfortable. I became a trans man, and I was still uncomfortable. Now I'm a radical feminist, and I am finally comfortable.

I hope you realise many of us women wish no harm on trans people, we just know women will never be liberated and comfortable in their own skin while subscribing to an ideology that preaches otherwise.

If you don’t wish harm, prove it. Ditch TERFism. It’s not that fucking hard.

But you won’t, will you? Because TERFs never change. You were never a trans man. Just a TERF in the making masquerading as one.

Your words will remain meaningless until you change, which you will never do. Just endless bigoted babble.

I've never seen something more ridiculously said in my entire life.

Saying cis as if it's an insult. The dehumanization claims, which affect both transwomen and natal women alike.

"People do things to transwomen that, when you tell people about it, they won't believe you."

Ludicrous. That happens to natal women too, stop shoving us to the backburner.

"Transwomen are the women of women."

Just shut up and educate yourself, for goodness sake. It's not as if men are forced to "handle a transwoman's life." They can stop at any time. Women, however, cannot stop being women even if they wanted to.

hey I'm sorry I stopped in the middle of that sentence my brain decided to flush its cache and I totally forgot what this conversation was

I try to be understanding towards those who are hesitant about medical interventions because I myself am terrified of them, but I genuinely have no respect for parents who refuse to vaccinate their healthy, non-immunocompromised children. Influenza kills, measles kills, pertussis and diphtheria and tetanus all kill kids, and if it isn't your kid that bites the dust because of your poor parenting decisions, it's gonna be the ten-year-old with SCID in your kid's fourth-grade classroom

TW for SH

finally relapsed after 3.5 years clean. i'm a junior in college and have been clean since senior year of highschool. i'm not sure what i do now

minecraft monsters are so fucking funny weve got

zombies which look like the default player character. this has no lore implicatjons

skeletons. inexplicably they carry bows.

spiders that are two metres wide and hiss like snakes (imagine how fucking terrifying this would be in real life)

walking bush that wants nothing more than to explode while standin next to you. also theyre afraid of cats

three metre tall guy with social anxiety so bad they try to kill you if you look at them. also they can teleport

really sad ghost

zombies 2: underwater edition

spiders again but now they poison you

fish that kills you with a mind beam

extremely good point but the use of slurs against women you disagree with is a weird look for a radfem

all these "soft girl" retards don't understand that when they whine about girl bosses and modern feminism, men aren't thinking "oh no, these poor women don't need to be manly to be strong, femininity is a strength too", they're thinking "that's right you dumb bitch, women are weak and subhuman"

Sex is why women are opressed

Gender is how

For the woman, the proof of love is that she is willing to be destroyed by the one whom she loves, for his sake. For the woman, love is always self-sacrifice, the sacrifice of identity, will, and bodily integrity, in order to fulfill and redeem the masculinity of her lover.

Our Blood: Prophecies and Discourses on Sexual Politics, Andrea Dworkin

we make fun of americans and their burgers but a good burger at the right moment really will return your will to live, is the thing

[text from @fairymischief and @northcountrymaid]

Something that helped me deconstruct the issues I had with my body was realizing that society wants women to hate their bodies because it makes them easier to control and manipulate. Tens of multi-billion-dollar industries depend on women’s self-hatred, telling women something new is wrong with them every week and selling them the solution to a problem that doesn’t exist. It’s an act of radical rebellion against capitalism to like or at least have a neutral relationship with your body no matter how much anyone else tries to tell you there’s something wrong with it. Your body literally does not need to be anything— not beautiful, not sexy— except for healthy, and keeping you alive.

It's so upsetting to see post after post about girls and women being unhappy with their appearances, mostly after facing judgement.

I'd like to remind you that your physical beauty, your appearance, is the least interesting, most boring thing about you.

How is your appearance going to help you get good grades? It won't, your knowledge will.

How is your appearance going to save the life of the victim of drowning? It won't, your knowledge will.

How is your appearance going to keep the conversation going? It won't. Your knowledge, interests, and personality will.

Saying you don't like yourself because your ugly is like saying you hate your birthday present because it got wrapped in ugly wrapping paper. It's on the inside that counts, that actually matters.

It's more than okay to be "ugly" or what society deems unattractive. Beauty is subjective anyway. You'll never win if you tried.

Matt: Male gametes. That’s what makes me male.

Michelle: No. No, your sperm don’t make you male.

Matt: Then what does?

Michelle: It’s a constellation.

Matt: In reality. In truth.

Michelle (confused): Whose truth are we talking about?

Matt: The same truth that says we’re sitting in this room right now, you and I.

Michelle: No. You’re not listening.

Matt: If I see a chicken laying eggs and I say that’s a female chicken laying eggs, did I assign female or am I just observing a physical reality that’s happening in the world?

Michelle: Does a chicken have gender identity? Does a chicken cry? Does a chicken commit suicide? Let’s frame it…

Matt: What’s that have to do with…

Michelle: Because you’re talking, you’re trying…

Matt: A chicken has sex, like any biological organism.

Michelle: A chicken has an assigned gender. But a chicken doesn’t have a gender identity.

Matt: So we “assign” female to chickens when they lay eggs? That’s a…

Michelle: We assume they’re female if they lay eggs.

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It wasn’t so long ago that we were being told “NoBoDyS SaYiNg bIoLoGiCaL SeX IsNt rEaL”. Now they’re saying so out loud.

A licensed medical doctor and professor of pediatrics at Brown University who doesn’t think biological sex is observed or even real. Yet is allowed to advise, prescribe drugs to, and transition children based on the mental virus of postmodern social constructivism, and teach others the same.

https://vivo.brown.edu/display/mforcier

Michelle Forcier, MD, MPH has been in Rhode Island and at Hasbro Children’s Hospital since 2009. She is a Professor of Pediatrics, Assistant Dean of Medicine (Admissions) at The Warren Alpert Medical School of Brown University.

Hii Radblr!

I have a server I think y’all would like!

We’re 16+ and do welcome rad leaning, or recovering libfems, and we’re GC.

We have a good verification system to ensure no TRAs or moids join, and we respond to submissions quickly.

We also have a ton of resources and literature, so if you’re not here to socialize you can enjoy these!

Here’s a sneak peak of the server down below:

i love you green. i love you forests. i love you smell of damp earth. i love you feeling before the storm breaks. i love you moss. i love you rivers. i love you streams. i love you thunderstorms. i love you sunlight shining through leaves.

Hot take- a lot of you think lesbians have to have some kind of trauma in order to turn down penises and it completely comes from the fact that you believe gayness is born of trauma.

what will it be, boss? the comfort of misery or the pain of change?

If you think having uncomfortable conversations is hard - wait until you see the result of not having them.