you can only reblog this today
the “no kink at pride” debate is pissing me off I did not grow up to be a repressed desi queer woman for y’all to demonize sexuality on the internet (the only place I’ve been able to explore my desires) and push these puritanical notions of sex and sexuality
kink isn’t inherently sexual, leather isn’t inherently sexual, and if you wanna have kids in queer spaces take them to the pride events that are explicitly family friendly!! Stop trying to censor and sanitize events that are meant to be celebrations of sexuality IN ALL ITS FORMS pride parades were literally started by a bi, poly woman who was openly into kink, the kink community has been part of queer history and queer liberation FROM THE VERY START I swear y’all need to chill tf out
Discussion time: what would be the absolute funniest animal to be in a petplay scenario
have i told y’all the story about how crab dicks are directly responsible for me and my partner getting together
criminal minds + banned tag list insp
something insane about like. binders becoming readily available. becoming merch like branded sports bras & boxers. like idk something crazy about it being normalized over the past couple years to the point that i could buy one from a fucking target with cash. my first was an underworks binder my friend who i met online bought for me and i checked the mail everyday for two weeks because i was so afraid my mom would find it and ask me what it was and how i got it. I used to wash it in the sink when everyone was asleep or at work. I cried the first time i put it on and my hands shook so badly and i did it in a locked bathroom alone and took it off when i heard the front door open. you can buy them from target.
Chris Rock mocked Jada Pinkett Smith's appearance due to a chronic illness. She has a chronic illness that causes her to lose her hair.
It's ableism. Full stop.
Chronic illness and disability can change your appearance and it's often a VERY sensitive subject. Seriously I cannot explain how painful it is to experience.
Will Smith did right. And it sucks that this will overshadow an award he's worked decades for. And it sucks this could discourage Jada Pinkett Smith from being more comfortable in her body.
It's not acceptable.
people on this website loves days and dates. you could make a post that says “it’s sweet fat of the hog tuesday” and people would go nuts reblogging it every tuesday
if you're from Ukraine, you have a uterus and don't want to be pregnant:
1. First of all AVOID AT ANY COST people and sites that have the name of "Ordo Iuris" or "pro-prawo do życia" (translate: pro-life). If you see a logo of fetus inside a heart, run.
Pro-prawo do życia foundation informed that one woman from Ukraine contacted them, asking for abortion. She barely spoke polish, which they admitted without any shame, that's why she thought that if they talk about abortion, they can provide it. They informed that they "explained children are not killed in Poland" and that now she's "in a safe place where no harm can come to her and her baby". I don't have words for how fucking inhuman it is to manipulate traumatized woman into carrying pregnancy she's not ready for since she's a refugee with no finances.
2. If you need abortion, contact:
Aborcyjny Dream Team
Ciocia Basia (abortion in Berlin; they can be found on facebook and theor email is ciocia.basia@riseup.net)/ Ciocia Czesia (abortion in Czech Republic)
Abortion without borders (all of the above cooperate with them)
They will give you information on how to perform safe abortion with right medicaments or will help to travel abroad.
3. If anyone would try to threat you, remember than in Poland it is still legal to do abortion yourself, that's why it's mostly done with pills. Don't let them manipulate you. Fuck these people. You're not evil for needing abortion.