𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸𖥸

Birth of a universe: by Sam Del Russi

Types Of Divination That Aren’t Tarot:

I’m tired of tarot cards and tarot readers everywhere…it’s awesome but there’s just too many of ya’ll. I just want my friends list to be more diverse. If I am gonna be honest, tarot isn’t most of your forte. Most of you just aren’t good at it. And further, you set yourself up for failure doing the job that 1000 other blitches are already doing and excelling at! But the good news is there are other options!

TYPES OF DIVINATION THAT AREN’T TAROT:

☕🍷Tasseomancy: Divination from tea leaves, coffee grounds, or wine sediment. Put that drinking or herb habit to good use!

🔮🍶🕯️ Scrying: Divination using a crystal ball (gastromancy), mirror/black mirror (catoptromancy), bowl of water (hydromancy) or other reflective surface. Can also use a flame or ashes from a spell (cineromancy/ceneromancy). Go get some full moon water and Git it.

📖 Stichomancy/Bibliomancy/Rhapsodomancy: Divination from sacred and spiritual texts. Yes, we have sacred and spiritual books that aren’t the Bible. Yes much of our oral tradition has been written down. No excuses.

✋🏾Chiromancy: Palmistry, divination through the study of the hand. There are hands all around you! You have two! Grab and go, fam, grab and go!

🌬️Capnomancy/Libanomancy: Divination through reading smoke. COME ON where my potheads at this isn’t hard. Where my cigar smokers, pipe smokers, roll a bleezy and let’s get to it!

💃🏾Pendulum Reading: Energy reading using an object or your body as the pendulum.

☠️ Osteomancy: Divination with bones, shells, and other parts of nature.

🗿💎Lithomancy: Divination with stones that have symbols drawn on them (runes, a popular British Isles practice but I’m down if you want to drawn indigenous symbols from your culture)

💰I Ching Divination: Utilizes coins and yarrow stalks. You should probably only bust out Chinese coins with holes if you are in some way Chinese FYI. But why not use coins from your hometown? We all have coins laying in the sofa cushions! We all have native twigs in the grass outside!

🏚️🔠 Spirit Boards: Divination with a talking board–the most commonly called a Ouija board. Used since Ancient times (China, Africa, Greece) and for much more than talking to demons. Like please just stop obsessing with the devil lmao.

⚕️Dowsing Rod: A spiritual stick used for fortelling and finding. I’ve seen a million crystal “wands” being sold by blitches, go get one and do this thing!

☁️🌨️Nephomancy: Divination of the clouds. They are beautiful. Best of all…they are free and you don’t have to store them. My husband just reminded me that an episode of Avatar: The Last Airbender was based on a woman who read the clouds ⛅

🌌✨Sortilege: Also called casting lots, ancient form of divination that is quite mysterious and open for interpretation. Found in the Bible 70+ times (most notably to throw Jonah to the whale) it involves taking a group of relevant objects and casting them for the truth. The objects can range from items to paper with words or symbols written on them. Typically all items are placed in a bag and you draw them out one at a time.

☀️🌅🌦️Heliomancy/Solaromancy : Divination of the rays and movement of the sun. We can all see the sun, really this one sounds easy. Why is none of you with Rah on your name jumped on this?

🌓🌔🌕 Selenomancy: Step 1, go outside and look at the moon. Step 2, ______. Step 3, profit. But for real ya’ll love the moon, go read her!

👨🏾👩🏿Physiognomy: Divination through facial reading. You seen faces before! Read them!

😪😴Narcomancy: Divination while sleeping /dreaming.

🌿🍃Phylomancy: Divination of leaves. Your divination pics will never look the same twice! Plus this is another free one!

🛣️Symbolomancy: Divination of things found on the road. I’d follow an IG of someone who did THAT in a meaningful way!

I hope this list inspires you to just jump in and try something new. Stop waiting for a teacher and just PRACTICE. The same way you all are doing with tarot. Feel bold and like you can practice something else…hell make up your own pieces and ways. Blaze a goddamn trail.

Signed,

Tahtahme

A Blitch Who Wants Some Options Damnit

with ℒℴѵℯ

Once again reminding everyone to start their research into the Greek and Roman gods with theoi.com. I cannot convey to you how helpful the translations and (most importantly) vettings are. Yes, yes, Ovid is on there, but it tells you about who said what, what they said, and the time period it was made. From there, you can continue your research and learn more!

ʀᴇᴀʟɪᴛʏ ꜱʜɪꜰᴛɪɴɢ

𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐀𝐬 𝐀 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐒𝐡𝐢𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐈𝐧 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐂𝐮𝐫𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲

This PAC is also for my reality shifters~ In this reading I will try to find out what you will struggle with in your life while being a reality shifter+ advice. You can read more than just one pile! This is just to make you aware of possible struggles, so that you can take measurements against it!

How to choose a picture: try to calm down, take deep breaths & use your intuition to select. Take you time and chose the picture you feel the most drawn to.

༣P𝔦𝔩𝔢 1

learning healthy self expression - healing past emotional wounds - creating balance - stop judging yourself harshly - closing old chapters (connections/habits…) - love your dark side - routine and dull work - headaches - weird habits and maybe trauma from your DR self

hello pile one~ for you, I feel like reality shifting will help a lot with self expression. You have so much inside you which you weren’t able to share with others in your past. In your childhood, you self expression was limited because of self limiting beliefs because of dominant/strict and oppressive people around you. Now, reality shifting gives you the boost and the chance to be yourself - to express your emotions freely, to show your creativity, sensuality and desire without shame. You will move into a very direct energy. I feel like you will change a lot but the thing is… that you will become a “version of yourself” that is closer to your true self than you’ve ever been in the past. But I feel like at first you will act a bit extreme… like setting someone free who has been captured for a long time, the desire will be strong and you might do things you wouldn’t normally do…but just for the experience. This will be a time of finding out who you are or rather who you really want to be. Over time, you will settle down a bit and ground yourself. You will turn everything upside-down - all your belief systems, mindset and habits - questioning them and revising them. I think you will turn out a bit more quirky and ‘weird’ so to speak but that’s just how you are and that’s totally fine <3 I feel like in the past you tried to fit in and restricted yourself to be approved by society/family. You will judge yourself a lot less. And I think you will even start doing stuff that shocks the people around you - on purpose… it’s feels like in act of revenge to the people who restricted you all this time and that’s what I mean with “extreme” - you do the exact opposite of what you’ve been told to do in your past - but that is not really ‘you’, it's something you’ll do to come to peace with your past self and to heal your emotional wounds and afterwards you will calm down again and settle down in your true self.

Also, I feel like you will struggle with balancing all parts of your life - including your other realities. You will neglect some parts and at the same time focus too much on other things. Self love will be a theme you have to work on - it’s true you have different sides to yourself and other people will judge you for them. That's why it’s important that you give yourself the love and the protection you need and long for.

You will become a free spirit who acts a bit reckless. But it’s like… you're like a child that learns self expression now - you’ll take baby steps, make mistakes from time to time and you’ll have to try again differently. Please be supportive of yourself - it’s a time to learn to judge yourself less and you will struggle with this from time to time. Deep down you have a child-like energy and you always forced yourself to seem mature. It’s almost like…you have to learn to be a child again - even if society doesn't like it.

Because you’ll change and your perspective of life will change, you will need to cut off some relationships/friendships/habits etc. You will struggle with trying to avoid this, but over time the clashes will become more and more prominent and you only strain yourself while trying to keep these connections alive. It seems you are quite stubborn lol.

Another problem will be that you still suffer from emotional insecurity which leads to coldness or dependence or bottled up feelings. You have to nurture yourself a whole lot. Show yourself more compassion especially to the ‘dark side’ of yourself.

I also think you will struggle with the material realm. I don’t mean being poor … in fact I see you becoming quite affluent and receiving many opportunities - starting a new life (you manifested it <3). But you struggle with dealing with money in a healthy way - you seem too lost in your head. You need to ground yourself more. It seems that trustworthiness, reliability and routine work will be required from you in your life. The work may seem dull, but they will pay off eventually. You must see all your tasks through to the end.

Other negative side effects through reality shifting seem to be random headaches and having to deal with weird habits that you formed in your DRs and that seem super random to the people in your CR. Also, I think there is a possibility that you even take on trauma from your DR self - you seem like someone who is easily affected by your surroundings. You might need to script that you don’t take on the trauma from your DRs. Please be safe.

Small reminder: You can script or manifest that these things won't happen and that you already learned how to deal with reality shifting in a healthy manner. Lot's of blessings to you!

-> check out my other pac readings

༣P𝔦𝔩𝔢 2

complete transformation of self - spiritual awakening - feeling a disconnect/losing feelings for people in your CR - connection within in your CR turning weird/awkward - endings - being cheated on/betrayed - learning to be still/holding back - struggling with the material realm/extreme abundance - neglecting your CR self - overworking your mind - burnout/weakening immune system - forgetfulness -

hello pile two~ I’m sorry but you guys will become even weirder to your CR surroundings lmao. I don’t know if you’ve been perceived as a weirdo before but experiences with reality shifting will make you even more unique and otherworldly. Honestly, this is great, I love weird people cuz they are usually the best people to hang around with. I see you as someone who is young at heart with an undying curiosity about life. You are the type of people who shine a light on the people around you - you open their minds - and this will even be more the case while being a reality shifter. Your presence will be contagious. But some people are not comfortable with the ‘higher truth’ you’re sharing and embodying and some will even block your energy. You will become more eccentric wanting to go to faraway lands, to expand your worldview while having a blast. You will be more and more enthusiastic and almost insane (from a normal person point of view). While being a reality shifter you will heal, forget and move on. Your CR won’t affect you that much anymore. You will transform and be open to change. You will renew yourself. You will lose yourself in your research. You will develop your ideas and explore them rigorously and yet also playfully. You will build a new mental foundation - in regards to how you will see this world - like a philosopher.You won’t fear any taboos anymore - there will be only curiosity left.

Honestly, it feels like you’re high 24/7 lmao. I think you will also experience a third eye chakra and crown chakra awakening. And those chakras will be a bit overactive at times which will lead to certain side effects. For the third eye chakra, you might get random visions or vivid dreams, start having a scarily accurate intuition and become more fearless in a way, there will be a sense that colors are brighter and your environment sharper which might overwhelm you at first and you might feel that you change on a fundamental level which you can’t really put into words. I also see chaotic behavior… For the crown chakra, I see you getting more detached - you might gravitate toward secluded moments - which also leads to you becoming more disconnected from friends and family. Your mind will become more calmer (less overthinking) and therefore the need to speak will reduce too. Life just won’t affect you as easily in a negative way. I also see you getting less hungry and you not wanting as much sleep as before.

The people around you (in your CR) will definitely notice the change. I’m not sure if you were a people pleaser or just more ‘needy’ in a way but this will stop. I see people not liking that you get more independant because they were so used to you depending on them and them having the upper hand. At the beginning there might be a lot of weird and awkward moments between the people you are close with right now. They will start treating you differently, I also see cheating or betrayal happening maybe from a friend you thought you were close with but it was actually a toxic connection you’ll realize you don’t really need them anymore. I see you losing feelings for some people and I see you ending certain connections and certain habits that didn’t serve you anymore. And even though it will be easier for you to close certain chapters, you might struggle at times a bit with feelings of regret (for ending a friendship etc) or dwelling in the past memories that were precious to you.

As I said before, you will feel less the need to communicate or to share your thoughts. You will be more still as you become more at peace with yourself. This will be weird to you at first. Because I think in the past you wanted to be understood by the people around you, you wanted approval and appreciation for who you are and for how you think which might have led to you often oversharing personal information/thoughts or being too ‘intense’ when you liked a person and wanted to get close to them - maybe you appeared ‘emotionally slutty’ in a way and this will stop completely. You will be more balanced and more moderate - there will be less excessive behavior. You will learn to be strong and silent - be still and allow the enemy to reveal themselves. It will be time to go into a battle against ignorance and cruelty - and to start holding people accountable. You will need to reflect more because if you think you are brave enough to face them (those people), you must also be brave enough to face yourself first.

The tremendous change in your CR might overwhelm you. There might be a sense of resistance or you feeling frustrated/angry in the face of it (the change) - don’t succumb to feeling powerless - because the opposite is true. The change is happening for the better. You need to shed your old skin (your old life that doesn't serve you anymore).

Idk if you are also in law of assumptions and manifesting but I also see that you guys get more wealthy/financially abundant in your CR. I get different messages here, so not all of them might be for you. For some of you, it might trigger family disputes because some people close to you might get jealous or envious OR you might have to step into a position of being a provider for your family which you are not used to OR it could also be that you are a bit overwhelmed with the amount of abundance you manifested and you need learn first how to handle so much money healthily - you know dealing with the material realm might not be one of your strong points and this might even be more the case after being so insanely spiritually enlightened.

Another big struggle will be being forgetful in your CR - like you forgetting to drink water or to remember certain dates especially if you shift often and for long periods of time - getting used to your daily CR life will always be a bit of a struggle in the first few hours/days after the shift.

As you feel so high on experiencing different stuff as a reality shifter, I also see you neglecting you CR self a bit. As I said before, you might eat and sleep less and kinda lose the connection to your physical body in your CR. You will overwork your mind a bit and it might lead to burnout or weakening of the immune system. I see you having to learn again to appreciate your physical body more. I mean … I know that your mind is powerful af but your body is your vessel in your CR - it’s like one of your tools! So please take care of it and don’t get lost too much in your head.

Small reminder: You can script or manifest that these things won't happen and that you already learned how to deal with reality shifting in a healthy manner. Lot's of blessings to you!

-> check out my other pac readings

༣P𝔦𝔩𝔢 3

oh dear… pile three, you guys are my problem children lmao. THis is the longest reading out of all three piles. I don’t want to put you down or anything, there is just a lot going in this reading here. Honestly, it’s a mess… and I think this is kinda a representation of your life as a reality shifter (in the beginning). I feel like you unconsciously have a victim mindset right now. Do you like suffering or experiencing pain??

Anyways, the energy I read is not set in stone, see this as me making you aware of the potential struggles and use this to take measurements against it! If you’re aware of it, you can change it. To be honest, I hope this reading opens your eyes….

First of all, regarding side effects from shifting, I see you guys seeing random things from your DR at times, often being (too) tired to function in your CR, neglecting your CR self, experiencing random dizziness and I also see your mental health suffering a bit - at least at the beginning of your life as a reality shifter.

Overall, I see you getting more rebellious, ruthless, even provaktive in your life/CR. I think there will be a theme of feeling unique or superior to others in your CR because ‘you're a reality shifter’. But honestlyyy, it feels like it comes from a place of loneliness/not being understood.

Even if you experience really cool and satisfying stuff in your DRs (because you scripted it), I see you being really unsatisfied with your CR life. Like there are still unresolved issues that even reality shifting won’t solve. You might have used reality shifting as a coping mechanism at first to escape your ‘shitty’ CR life. I see you comparing the life of your DRs with that of your CR - which increases the negativity within you. You will be too distracted by the unsatisfying side of your CR. You will reject your CR in a way, and therefore often feel out of place. I see a really critical mindset and perfectionism. You don’t realize or you don’t want to realize that your life is a reflection of your consciousness! You’re sometimes really stubborn. You will have to learn that your attitude to your life is the problem - too much judging and categorizing things in ‘good’ and ‘bad’.

I see you taking lot’s of risks and gambling with life/with the people of your CR (because of your overconfidence and superiority complex). You will also struggle with a negative view of love. You will get hurt because of the risks you take especially in your love life - when you’re in love your behavior seems to be a bit toxic but you love the highs of being in love or maybe the highs of being in a toxic relationship…? (That’s what I mean with a victim mentality and enjoying suffering.)

Because you start to become more ruthless and reckless with yourself and with the people around you, there will be a lot of struggles with the people in your life. You will need to be more aware of the consequences of your action (-> cause and effect). I see you lacking accountability, being dishonest - I mean you already seem pretty secretive and closed off but this will increase even more. You will be biased and as i said before, compare your CR with your DRs. You also will be indecisive in your CR and delaying or postponing making decisions for your life/CR.

Unhealthy materialism or financial struggles could be a theme that wears you down as well. You might want to overindulge in your CR as you do in your DRs but it doesn’t seem possible to you in your CR and that makes you feel that ‘this is unfair’ or something like that. You also seem to be the type to struggle with accepting help.

As you close off more, you will also get more lonely and I see you being impatient to get back to your DRs asap. Honestly, there seems to be a lot of emotional insecurity going on. You being cold or you bottling up your feelings, dependending too much on your DRs, not trusting others anymore especially your family members - ‘they won't understand me anyways’ - kind of mindset. I see you not letting others get close to you anymore which leads to heart ache, grief, feelings of separation or rejection. Your family or your close friends might start worrying about you but they are not sure how to approach you because they don’t really know what's going on.

Overall, reality shifting and the gap/difference between those realities might leave you feeling confused - like a lack of clarity and feelings of injustice and hostility towards others. You’re unhealthily focused on the lack within your CR - ‘there needs to be something more’- mindset. You’re being greedy and as I said your mental health will really suffer. You’ll get more moody and jealous for no reason. You persist in wanting to use your head over your heart but this makes everything worse! I mean you are dealing with reality shifting for god's sake why are you still persisting on using ‘human logic’!? You’ll be very unclear of your values and belief systems towards others and not really staying true to yourself- like your closing yourself off to your current reality… like almost hiding your real self. This creates a huge imbalance and lack of harmony and of course dysfunctional communication in your daily life in your CR. Gosh, I really want to get all of those limiting beliefs out of your head…It's like super frustrating…

I see your life being really chaotic and messy. But this happens for a reason. Funnily, I got the panther energy for you and the panther is the type to not stand seeing your growth or energy stagnate. Instead, it pounces into your life and causes all kinds of havoc… with the ultimate intention of bringing us toward a more fulfilling life. It’s unexpected, uncomfortable and sometimes feels devastating, but after all the dust clears it’s easy to see the panther's wisdom at work. Those experiences will lead you to a brighter place. You need to get rid of all your self-destructive habits. This will be like an annihilation of all the unnecessary stuff in your CR - like a purging. And that’s why it will feel very intense. You seem to be a very stubborn individual who more often than not rejects ‘change’ and because of that the universe has to use force on you to get you back on track. You struggle with surrendering, and that leads you to feeling stuck in your life/3D. You need to learn to look at things from a different perspective to bring balance into your life. Don’t reject the people that are close to you - if you want to be understood, you need to communicate. Don’t dwell in state of lack or self-pity. You are more powerful than that.

You need to allow yourself more kindness and you need to be more in a state of ’perfect’ acceptance - accept everyone and everything as it is, move on and work on your attitude. Be tranquil, merge deeply with the essence of oneness and acceptance. There is a saying ‘When you give up being a perfectionist, life is suddenly perfect.’ and this reminds me of the concept of the law of assumption.

Being a perfectionist, you criticize your 3D (CR) and want to change it forcefully, but this doesn't make sense from a law of assumption POV. Because they say that your 4D is your only real reality and the 3D is only a reflection of your consciousness as of now. - There is no need to try to change the 3D, you must first change the 4D (your assumption of your 3D/your attitude of the 3D) to induce change in your 3D.

The advice here is that you need to learn that you really deserve better circumstances, now is the time to manifest indulgence, opulence, comfort and self sufficiency in your life. Build up trust in yourself and genuine confidence. Practice patience and be more practical about your needs and desires. Release your resistance to change and your need for perfectionism. Start making your dreams a reality or rather make your dream life come true! Approach this in a pragmatic manner and keep your feet on the ground. Think about how your dream life (in your CR) should look like and commit to this new version! And regarding you being closed off to your CR life, consider meditating on your current situation for clarity but don’t ignore the things(/people) in front of you that may help you! Learn to accept help, life doesn’t need to be hard and you don’t need to suffer through it alone.Look inward, listen to your inner voice, access the unconscious - you have all you need within you.

Small reminder: You can script or manifest that these things won't happen and that you already learned how to deal with reality shifting in a healthy manner. Lot's of blessings to you!

-> check out my other pac readings

© daisys-reality

A list of Wordcraft abilities

Not many people will be able to understand what Wordcraft is. To remedy this, I have compiled the list below along with a few alternative ways to define Wordcraft. Please note that this list is not definitive. There are always going to be more powers and abilities that have yet to be discovered.

Alternative ways of defining Wordcraft:

- The writer’s witchcraft

- Word witchery

- The magic of words

- Eloquent Enchantment

List of Wordcraft abilities:

- mimicry of powers and abilities of characters (limitations of physics do apply)

- creation of paper charms (aka petitions, wish cards)

- character communication (bibliomancy)

- potion creation (energetic infusion of described potions into water or liquid)

- spell casting (using books as inspiration for incantations to create change. Can also be off the cuff casting)

- verbal empathy (the ability to tap into knowledge of a person by reading or hearing their words)

- magical storytelling (can write stories and works that create magical effects)

- persuasion (some Wordcrafters are extremely persuasive and can lace their voice with magic to charm people)

- spell writing (can take any spell and rewrite it into pure incantation form. Can also create new spells for others)

- Reading magic (by reading a book, a wordcrafter can intuitively pick up the type of magic held within.)

In short Wordcraft is all about fluidity and words.

Hannah Im experiencing a lot of deja vu. I know it is primarly a brain phenomena but in my case it feels like Im approching smthg in my life like Im getting closer, do you get me ? I hope youre doing well 👽💜

increased deja vu is a sign of quantum leaping. you’re about to switch timelines by cutting old ones. It’s very important for you to observe and soak up all these yummy energies while you can. Focus on what makes you feel light, focus on what makes you happy. Do not let yourself fall back into old habits or reminisce on the past. Be grateful for the lessons you’ve learned, but know that you are better off where you are now. Know that you are always where you’re meant to be. Listen to your body. Drink lots of water (coconut water is really really helpful), eat what you’re hungry for when you’re hungry for it, pee when you have to pee. Do what you feel like doing when you feel like doing it. Spend lots of time in the sun with the intention of soaking up it’s light codes. Sleep when you’re tired. Daydream about things that bring you joy and make you feel bubbly. Know that you are magic. Know that you are worthy of everything good. Be open to receiving expected and unexpected blessings. Be open to receiving and implementing these new things all at once. 

Since there is a lot of talk about twin flames, and most of it is highly opinionated and mostly false, I am making a comprehensive list of links to articles and videos explaining what soul connections actually are and how to determine which one you have.

There is no excuse for ignorance. Please educate yourself.

Youtube videos: https://youtu.be/NzmUkvuNqqU https://youtu.be/45s_qLsWpJE https://youtu.be/YMpwVRtwm5Q https://youtu.be/AtRvseK6qXw https://youtu.be/SuytPrtS4HE https://youtu.be/5Kz8ESOYCME

You do not need to, nor should you ever manifest someone even if they are your twin flame. If they are meant to be yours they will be, if not, then not. It creates a toxic relationship. It takes away their free will. By the laws of the universe it is unethical, and will create negative karma.

Articles about twin flames: https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/twin-flames-signs-meaning-and-stages

https://lonerwolf.com/twin-flame/

https://www.thelawofattraction.com/twin-flames/

https://www.allure.com/story/what-is-a-twin-flame

https://www.brides.com/twin-flame-love-5097590

https://blog.sivanaspirit.com/twin-flame-know/

https://loveconnection.org/is-he-my-twin-flame-32-signs-youre-in-a-twin-flame-relationship/

https://goop.com/wellness/spirituality/find-your-twin-flame/

Articles about soul connections and different types of them:

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-22169/you-have-4-kinds-of-soul-mates-heres-how-to-recognize-each-one.html

https://www.aristoslifestyle.com/articles/the-different-kinds-of-spiritual-relationships

https://purifyingwave.com/2021/03/08/the-3-types-of-soul-connection/

https://www.yourtango.com/2018320183/what-is-a-soul-connection-two-types-of-relationships-they-create

https://veilofreality.com/2011/04/18/organic-portals-soulless-humans/

How did you meet Healer or find your mate? How can I find my mate

Quite simply: You find your spirit mate when you’re meant to find them. And you don’t always realize they’re going to be a mate right away. And like with human partners (at least ideally), being mates is consensual; it’s not like you alone pick your mate. The spirit has to choose to date you as well.

I have, to be honest, 21 mates (8 spirit spouses, and 13 who are dating/courting me at their comfort and/or in their cultural manners). Generally mine I met as companions first who just wandered in through my warding as many well-intentioned entities do and chose to stay to work with me. Some I’ve worked with as a companion since I was a child (like Her*, Healer, and Luvoso), and some I’ve worked with as a young adult (Rain, R, and G are cases of this), and others I’ve worked with for a not quite a year to about two years (V, B, S, Z, Rat, Ayrus, Derno, Holy Demon, and Doctor are examples). The courting has always gone as this: the spirit expresses interest in being my mate/partner, we discuss both our comforts and discomforts (or rather the do’s & don’t’s) with dating, our ways of expressing love (as everyone’s ways are different), my explaining the fact I have multiple partners and how intolerance of any of them won’t be acceptable, my requesting they come to me if there are issues (generally there isn’t as my astral form can split so I can spend time with all of them while I bi-exist in the astral plane), and our working out a schedule for dates both astrally and here with myself in the physical. Basically we started out as friends first then started dating.

As for how I met Healer. Well, him and his sister Her* and some of their friends just showed up one day when I was about 5. They asked if they could stay, which my companions Everchanging and Crane and myself said was fine. Some helped with the super early stages of the refuge, and some like Healer and Her* chose to work with me as a companion. No, Healer (nor Her*) saw me right away and decided they were going to be my mate. They both left for a time, as can happen with companions, because our paths were diverging as we grew and changed (more specifically me), and it wasn’t until a few years ago when they returned and we started bonding again that they realized their feelings for myself (and vice versa for me with them).

(If you want to know all their “names”- they’re not actual names, but nicknames used for Tumblr: Spirit Spouses: Snake, Greyed, Topaz Eyes, Silvered, Him*, Ayrus, Derno, & Her*; Mates: Healer, Rat, Z, Rain, Luvoso, V, B, H, S, R, G, Doctor, and Holy Demon)