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I am trying to find an effective gag to use with my girlfriend. She has a very tiny head and she keeps getting out of her gags just when we are both getting excited and crimping the mood

OH YAY!  A question about gags!  I simply LOVE gags as it plays into my top fetish, which is breath play.

Well I guess the first response should be a question.  What kind of gag(s) have you used that she was able to slip out of?

I too have a tiny head…in fact it is considered child size.  I cannot wear adult hats at all (unless it’s a knitted winter cap).  When I first started exploring the world of gags, not only was my mouth not big enough for the standard sized ball gag, but the straps were always too long.  With ball gags, it would seem like it was tight enough at first, but once I started moving my head, the strap would slip down and I would find myself holding the ball in place with my teeth. I have had this problem with my bit gag as well.  I resolved the issue with my bit gag by cutting off the strap and replacing it with a chain and carabiners.  You can also replace the strap with rope which works just as well.

If you do not wish to do this, there are many other effective ways to gag your girl without the risk of it slipping.

 1) Tape:  There are many forms of tape that are wonderful for gagging a gal.  You can use duct tape, electrical tape, packing tape & microfoam tape.  Rip pieces off that are the entire width of her face.  Place one piece over her mouth, another over her top lip and just under her nose, another over her bottom lip and her chin, then use 2 strips to cris-cross over the other layers.  You can also wrap the tape completely around her closed mouth and head.

* When wrapping tape completely around her head, have her put her hair up into a pony tail. That way there is far less hair in the way that could get stuck to the tape & ripped out upon removal….that is unless she is into that sort of thing ;)

* Duct Tape: Be sure to put vasoline over her lips and around her mouth so her skin does not rip when the gag is removed.  This also makes it possible to just simply rip her tape gag off in the heat of the moment without having to stop due to injury….AGAIN that is unless she is into that kind of thing.  haha  You can buy this at the dollar store, craft stores and “Everything” stores (places that sell stuff from groceries to clothing to house hold products)

* Electrical Tape: You will need to use more layers of tape to cover her mouth than with duct tape because it is not as wide.  You don’t necessarily need to use vasoline on her lips because it doesn’t rip like duct tape.  I still like to use it anyways, just for extra precaution. You can buy this at the dollar store and Home Depot.  At The HD they have an array of colors…red, orange, yellow, green, blue, purple & black and they average $4 per roll.

* Packing Tape: Just like electrical tape, you don’t need vasoline on the lips.  If you buy this at the dollar store, not only are you only paying a buck for it, but you have more choices…clear, green, blue, purple :)

* Microfoam Tape: This kind of tape is actually a waterproof medical tape.  When it’s placed over her lips, you will be able to see a perfect outline of her sealed lips <3  You can buy this tape at most pharmacies in the first aid section.  It runs anywhere from $6-$14 depending on what the width size and the store you buy it from.  This kind of tape is best used by wrapping it completely around her mouth and head because it does not stick to skin very easily.  That is UNLESS you go online and buy a large width roll of it.  The wider the tape, the more secure it will stick to her face.

2) Mouth Stuffing: Take a pair of panties or socks and put it into her mouth.  When you put the cloth in her mouth, start by first hooking your finger into her cheek to stretch it, then start stuffing the fabric into her cheek.  Do the same on the other side of her mouth and finish my pushing the remainder of the fabric into the center of her mouth.  Her cheeks will be puffed and mouth completely full.

3) Cleave Gag:  Have her open her mouth as wide as she can.  Using a scarf or bandana (or just a long piece of cloth), place it across her open mouth so it pushes into the corners of her lips then proceed to wrap it around her head tying it tightly.  You may also wrap it several times around her mouth and head to ensure it’s tightness. 

4) Mouth Stuffing & Tape: Stuff her mouth with panties or socks then apply tape over her mouth (or ever her mouth and around her head)

5) Mouth Stuffing & Cleave Gag: When stuffing your girl’s mouth AND using a cleave gag, you do not want to fully pack her mouth (at first) If you pack the mouth too full then tie a tight cleave gag over it, you risk her gag reflex reacting.  Start with a thong or a single sock to stuff her mouth, then tie the fabric around her opened mouth.  You can work your way up from there once she gets a feel for it.

6) Vet Wrap: Oooh vetwrap!  Mmmm this is my personal favorite <3 Vet wrap is a medical bandage that you wrap around a wound and it sticks to itself.  It’s not sticky though….just self adhesive.  This is something you would have to wrap completely around her mouth and head because it does not stick to skin.  You can buy this at any pharmacy, grocery store, “everything” store and runs anywhere from $4-$10 depending on the size and where you get it from.

Those are just some of the simple and effective ways to gag your girl without the risk of it slipping.  :D  

ENJOY!

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The 30 Day Anal Orgasm Test

It is a fact that ALL men, CAN cum with no stimulation to their penis.

All that is required is to not let your man cum under any circumstances, for any reason.  Before we show you how you can accomplish this, one might ask, “Why do I want to make my husband have an anal orgasm anyways?  The answer is simple.  The transformation that will occur during the following process, will be sure to make your man more obedient, a better and more attentive lover, and overall better partner in life in and out of the bedroom.

So lets begin…

Set The Stage.

The first thing you need to do is let your husband/boyfriend know your intentions.  Tell him know right now that you are going to run an experiment on him for your amusement.  Tell him it will be tough on him, but the reward at the end of your experiment will be well worth it.  Let him know that you are going to teach him how to have an “anal orgasm” where he will feel a full orgasm and cum without any stimulation to his cock whatsoever.  Let him know that when he has it, that it will be the most intense orgasm of his life, and that the wait for this will be worth it.  Also let him know that you do not know how long this will take, but it will involve lots of sex, but he is not allowed to cum.  (this will make him interested for sure.)

Stage 1.

Every day you must tease your husband or boyfriend.  You must make him hard, and if possible EDGE him every day.  This is where you bring him really close, and then stop prior to the point of no return. Also be sure to tease him verbally, and talk dirty to him.  Remind him how much you own him, and how he is to serve you.  Make him bring you to orgasm as many times as you like, and for him to do things like lick your ass.  This is a giant turn on for submissive men.

The main point of this stage, is to tease and deny for approximately 2-5 days following his last orgasm.

Stage 2.

This is very much the same as stage 1 except after 5 days, you will start to anally penetrate on a regular basis.  After you tease him and his cock is really hard, flip him over, and start working his ass.  Plant some triggers here while you are doing this.  Tell him how horny he is, and how much he likes it when you fuck his ass.  At this point, use your fingers, dildos, anything you have ever used in the past, and use lots of language to keep him turned on during this.  Let him know what a good anal slut he is for you, and that good boys get great rewards.  The point is, keep the tease and level of excitement high, while you penetrate his ass.

As you are using your dildo, fingers, strap on, or whatever you want, ask him how it feels best.  Slow it down, and speed it up, and try different things.  Get him to tell you what feels best.  Find out if slower or faster is better, and find the perfect speed that he likes a lot.  Don’t just take his word for it, judge by how his body is reacting along with what he is saying.

At this point it would be a good idea to do this at least once every second day.  Every day is better, and at the same time too, so it becomes something he expects. This is part of the brain conditioning that it will take for him to have release without stimulation to his cock.  For the ultimate and best results, at some point, switch to strap on only.  Teach him that this is the way good boys get fucked.  They get taken by their boss, where and however they want.  Use varying rhythms, and lots of verbalization as you take him each time.  Ask him to thank you, and let him know how much you are turned on by his obedience.  Always let him know that there is a big reward at the end of this experiment.  Also tell him while you are taking him with your strap on, that there is a big reward at the end of your strap on.

Stage 3.

Pretty much, keep on repeating stage 2.  Do it daily or at least very regularily.  Make sure you talk to him while you are doing it.  Make sure you make him hard everytime before you start doing this.  Train him that when he gets hard and horny, your strap on cock is going in his ass.  The more you do this, and the hornier he gets, the more he will crave your strap on.   At this point it is really only a matter of time.  The only rule you need to get from this point on, is that he does not get to cum EVER again normally UNTIL he blows his load from you anally entering him.  At some point his semen buildup will need to be released, and between your verbal encouragement, and cock teasing, it will happen. Definitely.  The only thing that will vary is the amount of time it takes, and this will vary due to these 2 conditions:

how old he is

how often he had orgasms before you started this experiment

Generally the older a person is, the longer this might take, and also the less frequent your man masturbated, or had orgasms, the longer it will take.

If your man is past 50, and only orgasms once per week, this might take up to 2 months.

If your man is 18 and is used to cumming multiple times per day, this might only take 3-4 days.

Most people will fall in the middle of this and will cum within 30 days of this type of training.

One thing is for sure though.  All men can cum through anal penetration only, and this exercise is to find out how long that is for your man regardless.

HE DOES NOT GET TO CUM AGAIN NORMALLY ONCE YOU START THIS UNTIL HE DOES BY ANAL PENETRATION ONLY.

Some women elect to make this the new way PERMANANTLY after this happens.

Why?  Because keeping your man in a suspended horny state that only cums from anal penetration at your control, will make your man more obedient, compliant, better lover, better house boy for doing chores, and much, much more.  This experiment will open both of your eyes to a world of extreme production of the male, and blissfulness for the woman.

HAPPY ANAL TRAINING!

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