we need to be romanticizing and perhaps even sexualizing cutting off toxic (real term: abusive) people in our lives. we need to turn the ability to set boundaries and tell people to fuck off into a full blown kink. people should feel an exhilarating and sexual high from using the block button. trust me, when you adopt this mentality, it’s so much easier and more rewarding to do now. i feel powerful. you can too
yes communication is important, but being in a situation where you constantly have to over-communicate every single thing in order to get listened and tended to is draining and kills romance. a huge part of intimacy and connection is feeling seen and understood by the other person – them being attuned to your needs, feelings, desires, and knowing who you are as a person on a deeper level, is a sign of love. being with someone who is thoughtless and inconsiderate and constantly has to have everything spelled out to them, will leave you feeling invisible and unloved. yes people aren’t mind readers and its good to talk about stuff but someone who just doesn’t think of you or understand basic things that would make you happy, isn’t a good partner.
one of the first prison literature books I read was by a Syrian dissident who witnessed the Hama massacre and was arrested. Syrian prisons were my gateway to understanding the machine of Arab oppression. Its liberation now can't be but a great historical moment
The Vampire Masquerade ☥
uh hey that person you just reblogged from used to be in our discord server but we had to kick them out because they admitted to watching t*m and j*rry... that show features violence and as such glorifies it.... when we confronted them all they said was "wtf its a show about a cat and a mouse"... if you dont believe me theres a whole callout post that features their name age and street address so you can go to their house and check... anyways you should unfollow them before people start thinking you like problematic media too :/ just trying to help
But why why why did people stop writing love letters
Ne, nemoj mi prići! Hoću izdaleka
da volim i želim oka tvoja dva.
Jer sreća je lepa samo dok se čeka,
dok od sebe samo nagoveštaj da.
Ne, nemoj mi prići! Ima više draži
ova slatka strepnja, čekanje i stra'.
Sve je mnogo lepše donde dok se traži,
o čemu se samo tek po slutnji zna.
Ne, nemoj mi prići! Našto to, i čemu?
Izdaleka samo sve k'o zvezda sja;
izdaleka samo divimo se svemu.
Ne, nek' mi ne priđu oka tvoja dva.
why do i need to come out ? if you still think im straight then that's on you
“Don’t you dare fucking touch my heart unless you plan to stay.”
— Unknown
This guy tried to have an attempt at being a terrorist today by trying to explode a statue at Brazil's Supreme Federal Court building but his bomb hit the statue, bounced back and exploded on him??? Dude died like a fucking Looney Tunes character???