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Being aromantic can involve love
Being aromantic can be loveless
Being aromantic can question love
Being aromantic can give less of a fuck about love
Being aromantic can be heavily in love
Being aromantic can want love but physically hate it
Being aromantic can be angry at love
Being aromantic can be stressful because of love
Being aromantic can be indifferent to love
Being aromantic can be above love
Being aromantic can be not understanding love
Being aromantic is a spectrum
for me a crush is just a person who stands out from the others. I don't want any relationship with them (friendly, romantic or anything)
Aesthetic or sensual attraction
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Hello I am aromantic and I was wondering if there was a term that applies to me better
• I very rarely have crushes or romantic attraction and it's very weak
• I want to be in a romantic or queer platonic relationship
• when i have a crush i am not interested in a romantic relationship or a queer platonic one
"what if you havent found the right one yet🥺🥺" what if i hit you with a metal pole
The original posts asked a specific group withing the LGBTQ+ community (A-Spec people*) what their reaction is when a Bad Bitch/Mf compliments them. The various options of facial expressions are posted below.
(it's good to note that even if people in the A-Spec community don't express a large amount for the feeling that I will explain below, many still like/try to reciprocate or experience these feelings in their relationships)
(also good to note that A-Spec people are a VERY misrepresented or conversely Unrepresented group when people think of the LGBTQ+ com. Ace people make up a large portion of the LGBTQ+ which is sometimes lengthened to include them as the A in LGBTQIA+, where the A stands for Asexual and the I for Intersex)
*A-Spec or Ace Spectrum people are a large group of people who defer from the norm of relating on various levels as seen in mainstream society:
(yapfest incoming)
Such as:
Ace/Asexual - Not enjoying, thinking about or having feelings of or about sex.
Aro/Aromantic - Ace but replace sex with 'romance' (imo as an aro person, romance is a subjective term)
AroAce - A person who is both Aromantic and Asexual
Demi/Demisexual - A person who likes (or prefers) to express sexual feelings AFTER establishing an innate emotional connection with their partner
Demiromantic - Demisexual but we again replace sex with romance
Greyromantic - (as explained by Google) " a term that is used to describe people who feel a limited or uncertain romantic attraction to others. Some Greyromantics may feel a strong emotional connection with others but do not desire romantic relationships, while others may feel a weak romantic attraction to some people but not all."
Hopefully I understood you're question correctly, anything else? 😊
A-SPEC PEOPLE
transmasc aroace sukuna
Transmasc aroace Sukuna who doesn't need to be taught about love.
He knows what love is; it just doesn't serve him to to him, "Love is meaningless."
also I think that this can be doubled down with my headcanon that before he was a curse; he literally wasn't loved by anyone.
born in a world that wasn't ready to accept him and wouldn't love him anyways because he killed his mother with his birth
Transmasc Sukuna who gave himself the perfect body which coincidentally is the pinnacle of Jujutsu sorcery, he doesn't have to think about himself from before he was turned into a curse because now he's The Strongest Sorcerer (in History)
Transmasc Sukuna who decorates his body with thick black tattoos that many people find scary and taboo but he sees it as more of a 'fuck you' to tradition*
*(the people who killed him/the higher ups/the conservative fossils who couldn't find it in their hearts to even TRY to love him even if it would still be meaningless to him)
Transmasc aroace Sukuna who has kept one person with him throughout all the thousand years he's been a cursed object: Uraume
I believe since it hasn't, and it's not going to be explained in the manga/anime:
Uraume is his non-binary, aroace follower.
He keeps them around for a few reasons
1. Cooking: his favorite hobby is eating. It's good to have a personal chef on your side.
2. To do the tedious menial tasks that come with causing chaos everywhere. Not sure what they are specifically but I know they're there.
3. Uraume helps keep pests at bay. Telling them to fuck off and out of Sukuna's personal space when he feels the itch to get rid of an annoying eyesore.
4. Back-up fighter: self-explanatory
*":*":*":*":*":*":*":*":*":*":*":*":*":*":*":*":*":*":*"
Let me cook (get me outta the Malevolent kitchen please)
aroace sukuna aroace sukuna aroace sukuna aroace sukuna aroace sukuna aroace sukuna aroace sukuna aroace sukuna Guys this is the culmination of a bunch of headcanons running amuck in my brain and also the character analysis' from @thepersonperson
So now, here are my hc's for AroAce!Sukuna:
Legitimately prefers to not be touched and appreciates respect for personal space (round of applause for Uraume*)
Hobbies,:
1. Fighting - self explanatory: he hates being bored, he also uses fighting as a way to bond and learn about others
2. Eating - confirmed in the official fanbook(iirc): it doesn't matter if it's people or Oreos, he enjoys food
3. Analysing literature/opponents fighting habits - It's explained better and in more detail by @thepersonperson, but the main take-away is that Sukuna is like a shark; using exploratory 'bites' in order to gain knowledge about things- his opponents. He uses used dismantle to take apart, to dissect his opponents, to learn how they'll react and if they can match his freak, so to speak.
3.5. Going back to the literature point - seeing as in history, the Heian era is considered the peak of the Japanese imperial court, it's noted for it's refinement in art, poetry and literature.
He gets annoyed, disgusted, bored, and all of the above when someone hits on him, seeks him out romantically or tries to use/touch him physically.
See: Yorozu when she's withing a 1 mile radius of Sukuna, Mahito after touching his soul, Kenjaku's weird obsession with him that led to him jumping his twins bones for some reason
Again, as dutifully (<3) explained by the aforementioned Tumblr User, Sukuna expressed affection through violence. This is the only way he is able to connect with anyone he seems worth his time to fight.
Being a curse that is legitimately perfect when it comes to CE and CTs, he reaches out from the top to grasp some sort of worthy interaction:
an entire half year of prep to fight Gojo,
'playing' with Jogo and making an effort to fight with him on his terms,
finding interest and potential in Megumi,
a yap fest of unwarranted appraisal to Maki
and he was basically all grins and smiles when he fought each of these sorcerers.
*Star next to Uraume because I hc that they're Ace-spec as well.
Cuz who else is better at telling people you don't want to be bothered, touched or talked to other than you fanatic worshipper who understands your boundaries clear and concisely?
Tirade over, I'm going to sleep.
aroace sukuna aroace sukuna aroace sukuna aroace sukuna aroace sukuna aroace sukuna aroace sukuna aroace sukuna Guys this is the culmination of a bunch of headcanons running amuck in my brain and also the character analysis' from @thepersonperson (give them some love for their big, juicy, brain <333)
So now, here are my hc's for AroAce!Sukuna:
Legitimately prefers to not be touched and appreciates respect for personal space (round of applause for Uraume*)
Hobbies,:
1. Fighting - self explanatory: he hates being bored, he also uses fighting as a way to bond and learn about others
2. Eating - confirmed in the official fanbook(iirc): it doesn't matter if it's people or Oreos, he enjoys food
3. Analysing literature/opponents fighting habits - It's explained better and in more detail by @thepersonperson, but the main take-away is that Sukuna is like a shark; using exploratory 'bites' in order to gain knowledge about things- his opponents. He uses used dismantle to take apart, to dissect his opponents, to learn how they'll react and if they can match his freak, so to speak.
3.5. Going back to the literature point - seeing as in history, the Heian era is considered the peak of the Japanese imperial court, it's noted for it's refinement in art, poetry and literature.
He gets annoyed, disgusted, bored, and all of the above when someone hits on him, seeks him out romantically or tries to use/touch him physically.
See: Yorozu when she's withing a 1 mile radius of Sukuna, Mahito after touching his soul, Kenjaku's weird obsession with him that led to him jumping his twins bones for some reason
Again, as dutifully (<3) explained by the aforementioned Tumblr User, Sukuna expressed affection through violence. This is the only way he is able to connect with anyone he seems worth his time to fight.
Being a curse that is legitimately perfect when it comes to CE and CTs, he reaches out from the top to grasp some sort of worthy interaction:
an entire half year of prep to fight Gojo,
'playing' with Jogo and making an effort to fight with him on his terms,
finding interest and potential in Megumi,
a yap fest of unwarranted appraisal to Maki
and he was basically all grins and smiles when he fought each of these sorcerers.
*Star next to Uraume because I hc that they're Ace-spec as well.
Cuz who else is better at telling people you don't want to be bothered, touched or talked to other than you fanatic worshipper who understands your boundaries clear and concisely?
Tirade over, I'm going to sleep.
"friends don't look at each other like that" well okay you coward you do whatever you want however i WILL look at my friends like they're the most important thing in the world. i love them with my whole heart and i will hold their hand and stare at the stars not because i wanna fuck them but because they mean the world to me and i care about them. fuck you
happy pride to all my aspecs and arospecs out there
happy pride to asexuals
happy pride to aromantics
happy pride to aplatonics
happy pride to aroaces
happy pride to alloaces
happy pride to alloaros
happy pride to het aces/aros
happy pride to demi romantics/sexuals
happy pride to grey romantics/sexuals
happy pride to ace/arospecs in platonic, romantic, and/or sexual relationships, or relationships that dont fit into any of those categories
happy pride to ace/arospecs who aren't in relationships and never want to be
happy pride to people who use microlables to describe their ace/arospec identity
we are all valid and we belong in this community no matter what anyone says. we deserve pride too.
i dont think i fully understand what it is to be aromantic and i want to learn but the simple definition does nothing for me, i need to hear what it is like from an aro person themselves