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SOMEONE SEND ME ASKSSSSS!! im so bored rn ughhh help or dm me or smth
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Been there done that tbh,
Chemistry tuition, one year older than me, didn't talk much but always stared at each other when the other was looking away, never had the opportunity to ask him anything else, but was sarcastic to him all the time
A year late he goes to college but his face haunts me till date.
Girls, use this little part of Tumblr to talk about him/her :) you can use comment section as well as reposting this.
I'll start <3
Sooo, this guy came to my chemistry classes last year, and one day he just talked to me, the thing is that he let me his notes (the class before that one I couldn't go) that really surprised since boys of my age aren't so nice I think (?).
Then minutes later he asked me a question, what really made me overthink was that he had his friends right behind him "why would he talk to me when he has people he knows just half step behind? That was weird"
And now, this year I do not see him that much but sometimes we see each other in the hallways, and he always (yes, I mean always) looks where I'm sitting :) Don't judge me, as a thought daughter and delulu person this makes me think A LOT.
But now seriously isn't it strange that he looks where I am and we always make eye contact? 😭
I wish I were brave enough to talk to him and just ask his Instagram, but I'm not, so I guess he will be just another crush I didn't talk to <\3
How to balance your own life/self improvement & a relationship?
A guide ~
So this is for me because I’m in a loving wonderful relationship for exactly 8 months today but ever since we started dating I threw all my (very high maintenance) routines out of the window in a way I don’t do them frequently anymore.. and I want to start taking beter care of myself again.
So maybe someone else also finds some tips in this post.
🦢 communicate
I think it’s best to start of with the most important one and that’s openly communicating with your partner.
Which means tell them about your values, dreams, goals..
I personally think that can be a difficult thing because it was for me since my girlfriend has always known me as extremely confident in myself (and I still am) so I didn’t want her to know I too would like to change certain things about my life. But I did end up telling her I wanted to start taking beter care of myself again because I’ve being neglecting my good habits.
And good partners will be supportive of you! She was, so if you’re also struggling with this I assure you it won’t go wrong!
🦢 shared goals
To follow up discuss the goals you might have together.
For example maybe both of you want to start exercising? Or setting some extra money to the side for a vacation?
There might be some things you two can do together if both of you are up for that! Which can be a great motivator for some.
🦢 be a little selfish
No this doesn’t mean doing whatever you want without taking into account your partner’s feelings.
For example it is when you want to have some alone time, that you can do so even when your partner spontaneously wanted to go out. You also deserve some time for yourself.
It’s simply giving yourself some things you enjoyed/did when you were single and still being able to do them in a committed relationship.
🦢 compromise
Following that up, also be able to compromise. You obviously aren’t alone in your relationship and just as you’re allowed to want to do your own thing you’d also have to let your partner do the same.
It will not always be the way you planned it, in those situations you’ll have to compromise with your partners wants.
For example you wanted to give yourself a selfcare day but your partner would love for you to come to this family event. Why don’t you join them to the event since it’s important for your partner and do a selfcare day tomorrow if you have time?
🦢 include your partner
Obviously you’re dating this person, so I’m guessing you want a future with them. Since you do.. and since you and your partner will most likely end up living together just get it over with and include them in your self improvement journey.
It can be little things, for example she holds my hair when I do my skincare at her house and I don’t want to wear a headband. Or she’s just there when I search pilates workouts to do later. As well doing things a little more outside of your comfort zone like for me.. her knowing about this account 😅.
But it’s your partner, the person who will know you best of all. I think including them in your personal journey really will make your bond stronger!
🦢 prioritise your relationship
Lastly, but also very important your relationship should be no. 1 place!
There really is no more explaining to do. Be open with your partner, go on dates, skip a (not yet booked) facial appointment for something important they want to do with you! They’re the person you love after all.
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Little things to be more charming ౨ৎ
holding eye contact when speaking to someone. takes some practice but so so worth it <3
don't be shy about your niche interests!! even if people don't fully get it, it makes you interesting!!
remember people's names!!
accept compliments, don't go "oh noo you're too kind I'm so ugly I look awful blah blah blah" when people say something nice to you.
signature pen. Don't question it. every cool girl has a signature pen.
always look out for others, make sure no one feels left out when you hang out with a group, check up on your friends, etc etc
listen closely and think before you speak, that way you won't stumble over your words and appear more collected and calm! :)
"please" and "thank you" ALWAYS.
you don't have to be perfect at something to have fun. I'm terrible at golf (a danger to myself and others) but people don't mind and think it is cute and fun... a win-win for me lmao
dressing up? normal to you. Don't save your cute outfits for "special" days; every day is special and you deserve to look gorgeous. <3
Oh and sit up straight ;)
As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments! <3
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All the pretty stars, shine for you my love...
Working out is hard. But NOT having your desired body is also hard.
Choose your hard
Studying is hard. But having BAD grades is also hard.
Choose your hard
Do it and do NOT WASTE YOUR POTENTIAL (btw this advice I saw from a girl on instagram, I can't remember who it was but it's really good advice and helped me a lot.) Love ya!🤍
