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“Even at your best you will never be right for the wrong person.”

— Unknown

Just for fun I will be sharing my own anwer to one of the Ms Universe 2025 questions.

If you were to be the governor or mayor of the local government you’re representing now, what would be the single most significant project that you would wish to accomplish and why?

If I were to be the governor or mayor of the local government I am representing, the single most significant project that I would wish to accomplish would focus on comprehensive sex education. As a public health advocate on safe motherhood, I believe that comprehensive sex education is crucial for safe motherhood in our city, given the high maternal death rate and teen pregnancies. This could equip teenagers, the young ones, with the knowledge to make informed decisions about their sexual and reproductive health. They have the right to the accurate information, giving sex education a more positive approach that could foster respect, inclusion, and nondiscrimination. Lowering the risk of exploitation and abuse. It is now time to trust our young ones to create decisions about their bodies. Let us not withhold knowledge from our youth. Like breath, knowledge is essential and should not be denied to anyone, especially the young people.

“When a flower doesn’t bloom, you fix the environment in which it grows, not the flower.”

— Alexander den Heijer

“I’m not everything I want to be, but l’m more than I was, and l’m still learning.”

— Charlotte Eriksson, Everything Changed When I Forgave Myself

When Life Gives You Tangerines

*Spoiler alert*

I just recently finished watching this Kdrama series When Life Gives You Tangerines starring Oh Ae-sun played by IU and Yang Gwan Sik played by Park Bo-gum and guess what, it did not disappoint at all. People were talking about this drama and how different people can relate to it. Some say that every episode made them cry and personally they were all right. Episode one made me continue to watch more episodes. Never a dull moment in this drama. Up until the end my eyes were pouring hard (dehydration calling).

One of my favorite features of this drama is that it speaks of history in Jeju. It represents culture and family. The representation of tangerines, the haeneyo is a plus for me. It showed a multigeneration of people from year 1960s onwards. I love movies with a vintage vibe and a twist feature of the present generation. I was also amazed that this series was based on a true story according to a post I saw. The story of Ae-sun and Gwan Sik are stories worth sharing to the world.

I would like to commend IU for playing different characters from different generations. We could really see the difference in all the characters she played from being the young Ae-sun to being Geum-Myeong. The life of Ae-sun was not easy, especially during her childhood. Being a poor girl in those times was difficult despite being a brilliant child. No matter how hard she tried to elevate her life, circumstances were too difficult. Women nowadays are lucky as they can take on leadership roles and hold positions in the government. They can be whoever they want to be. I hope women will continue to excel and be empowered.

I also love the fact that Ae-sun writes poems all throughout the series. I can relate to how Ae-sun writes poems and her love for words. I am in the same boat. I love writing poems. This series made me want to write more poems again. Maybe I will write again.

But to tell you honestly, my favorite scene of IU in this series was when she saw her child Dong Myeong die during the storm. You can really see that IU felt her character. As if it was really her child that died. Plus, the oceans and sky poured hard adding the ambiance. When it comes to the character of Gwan Sik played by Park Bo-gum, my favorite scene was when he jumped in the ocean to go back to Ae-sun. It was raining hard, and he swam the ocean just to go back to Ae-sun, that scene was truly iconic, and upon knowing that Park Bo-gum did it without a double. Salute.

The character of Gwan Sik portrays the modern-day walking "Green Forest" hahaha. This is a real man you all. His commitment to his family and wife is on point. He is the very example of the Filipino term haligi ng tahanan. They both are destined to be together.

People might also be torn between the two love interests of Geum Myeong. The first love and the last love. In the beginning, I thought she would be marrying her first love Young Beom like her mother, but I was wrong. Not being with the person, you love is heartbreaking, but it would be more heartbreaking if you would not love yourself more. I remember what Geum Myeong said "I do love you deeply. But I love myself deeply, too. I cried together with Geum Myeong it was too painful to watch, especially during the wedding scene of Geum Myeong, people thought they would end up together, but he only saw her wearing her wedding gown, as he promised before. Even though they did not end up together, they both became a lesson for one another. As the saying goes, there will be people who will just pass by and leave you a life lesson.

I also noticed that there were scenes in the series depicting some iconic re-enactments. Similar to the Sixteen Candles movie, a couple thing is when a couple puts their hand in the pocket of their lover, Ae-sun usually does this with Gwan Sik. Also, a scene from The Titanic is when Geum Myeong was being drawn by Park Cheong Sob played by Kim Seon-ho. Jack did this with Rose with such nostalgia.

I was also happy for the fact that Kim Seon-ho is back. His character Park Chung Seob, was somewhat similar to Gwan Sik in how he truly cares for Geum Young and his child. You can truly fall in love with his character especially when he drew Geum Young's portrait all emotions are poured into it. The way he cared for Geum Myeong from afar was heartwarming. Their story was like destiny at play as they crossed paths after a long time. He even ran fast just to catch the bus where Geum Young was riding. In his mind, it was now or never. If you are meant to be together, you will find each other again.

Though their family life was not perfect and plenty of problems arose within the story line. But they never gave up on each other. Despite all the misunderstandings and differences among their family especially their children, in the end, they never turn their back on their family. Just similar to the Filipino culture of family. I understand why plenty of people from the story envy the family life of Ae-sun and Gwan Sik.

Another plot twist in the series was unexpected for me upon find out that the little girl with the Squirtle sticker was the reincarnation of her mother. There were hidden messages all throughout the series, but I did not notice it. I applaud the writer for adding those details in the scene from finding the ring of Ae-sun in the flower fields to being the editor of Ae-sun's book.

The scene of Ae-sun's grandmother having Alzheimer's disease and forgetting other members of her family except Ae-sun brought me back to the memory of my grandmother. I still miss her until now and I could still remember her from the last time I was with her. Memories with grandparents always makes me cry.

When the final episodes came out last week. These episodes made me cry more haha. My eyes were too heavy. I cannot stop crying for the last four episodes especially knowing that Gwan Sik got sick and died. I was like Ae-sun will be left all alone. In the final moments of Gwan Sik's life you can clearly see he lived a meaningful life. He devoted his life to his wife and children and even in the end he still made sure that Ae-sun would still be comfortable by stocking up all the hair clips he bought and then arranging the mugs, cups, and plates of where Ae-sun could reach it.

The love of Ae-sun and Gwan Sik reflects the Bible verse:

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs.  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Nowadays it is difficult to find the love that Ae-sun and Gwan Sik shared. They set the bar higher. People should not settle for something less than they deserve. Just pray to find that love and who knows it may come when you least expect it.

I would rate this Kdrama 10/10, five stars. Another favorite of mine. Can you share some of your favorite scenes?

Pg. 195

Time was both passing too fast and not fast enough.

I was just randomly opening a page from this book after reading it and this quote popped. This is what I am currently feeling. It is just amazing how the universe understands me more.

Does anybody have the same sentiments?

Absolutely can relate. I hope to reach this point someday.

“You know you are on the right track when you become uninterested in looking back.”

— Unknown

DIY Muji Notebook. For any bought stationery you can use the store stamps to decorate your notebooks. Just some random stamping. Designed my undated planner at SM North Edsa branch. Ready for years ahead. #planneraddict #planner #plannercommunity #plannerlove #plannerlife #plannerstickers #plannergirl

"There comes a point when it all becomes too much. When we get too tired to fight anymore. So we give up. That’s when the real work begins. To find hope where there seems to be absolutely none at all." - Cristian Yang

“I am who I am. Your approval is not needed.”

— Unknown

Celebrating Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf’s 20th anniversary over the weekend. I started to collect the stamps to avail the Voyager bag. My first stamp and I ordered Bluebeery Cheesesake Ice Blended. Tastes soo good.

“The art of knowing is knowing what to ignore.”

— Rumi

“you are important and special and loved even when your mind tells you you’re not”

— Unknown

“Some people are going to leave but that’s not the end of your story. That’s the end of their part in your story.”

— Unknown

“Maybe I’ll see you in another life, if this one wasn’t enough.”

— Florence + the Machine

“If they don’t need you, it’s okay. You do not live for other people.”

— Kyo

“Deep in my heart I know I am a loner. I’ve tried to blend in with the world and be sociable, but the more people I meet the more disappointed I am. So I’ve learned to enjoy myself, my family, and a few good friends.”

— Steven Aitchison

“Don’t give up. All of your hard work will pay off soon, stick with what you’re doing no matter how hard it gets.”

— Unknown

@ snakes.n.roses

“Nobody wants to hear this, but sometimes the person you want most, is the person you’re best without.”

— B.J

Iulia

recent bookstore and cafe finds during a trip to the Netherlands.

Yes for a holiday. tomorrow

Flower-hat duck believes good things are coming your way. 🌺

Chibird store | Positive pin club | Webtoon

July Write turned 2 today!

What a happy day it is.

Thoughts on Mr. Hiiragi's Homeroom (3 Nen A Kumi: Ima kara Mina-san wa, Hitojichi Desu)

Link:https://www.netflix.com/us/title/81506844?s=a&trkid=13747225&t=cp&vlang=en&clip=81552221

While looking through recommended films on Netflix, I came across a Japanese drama series, Mr. Hiiragi's Homeroom. As I got curious about the title, I watched the trailer and the summary. I thought this seemed interesting, just like a detective movie, and since the teacher is an art teacher, I saw famous paintings present in the film.

Upon watching the first few episodes, I got hooked immediately. I wanted to know what would happen to the students and Mr. Hiiragi. The event happened in 10 days and every episode revealed plenty of twists, so I kept watching it. I liked how the story progressed and the character development of the students was remarkable. I like how the teacher reached out to the students even though it was different than the usual learning session. It was a little extreme and violent, but I don't mind since it made the drama more interesting, making it not the typical classroom lecture.

Mr. Hiiragi indeed cared too much, which led him to create his plan. The question is, what is really right or wrong? In order to know what is morally right, we need to dig deeper into the reasons than the action. Sometimes we want to do things for the right reasons, but people do not grasp the true meaning. Mr. Hiiragi has a pure heart to help others; it's just that he needs to take drastic actions to reveal everything.

The drama just reflects how the world is so cruel and how each one faces different struggles. As the world advances with technology, cyberbullying has become rampant, and it has caused havoc in lives and added struggles. Words can hurt and they can become the knives that pierce our hearts. People sometimes lack compassion and understanding. It showed that there was no safe place. Even the people who should be guiding the younger generation are the ones causing emotional damage. If only each of us were kinder to one another, it would make life better. People should stop hating and being angry. Do not live in regret. Life is too precious to be wasted. Enjoy life and have the motivation and hope to survive every day.

The main character, Masaki Suda, always raises the bar high. His performance is outstanding all throughout, but, of course, the other characters played their parts as well. Kudos also to Mei Nagano, who portrayed Sakura Kayano. I felt her emotions.

This is a much watch film. I highly recommend it.

Woo to the Young to the Woo~

Dong to the Geu to the Rami!

Haaa!! ✨🐳🎧

Go for Monday!! Please motivate me.

I just wanna feel like this happy again