NSFW 18+ ONLY. 41/M Here you'll laugh, smile, blush, and worship BBC. I don't post for likes, I post what I like which may be anything from BDSM, ddlg kink, Hotwife/Vixen, cuck/stag play. I am not bi, but I will make your wife happy. Especially if you're in the Northeast. Let's vibe and meet.
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Unsolicited adviceđ€«:
âGood job babyâ
âYou look so prettyâ
âYou can take it darlingâ
âBe a good girl for me andâŠâ
âUse your words babyâ
âLet me hear you, Petâ
âThatâs a good fucking girlâ
âYouâre so wet for meâ
âDid I say you could cum yetâ
âTake itâ
âThere you go babyâŠâ
âAwe youâre struggling so hard⊠itâs so cuteâ
âThis is your first and last warning darling.â
âLook at me rn or weâll stop.â
âPlease what?â
âIâm sorry? Repeat that.â
âWatch your mouth.â
âYouâre in trouble. Lap. Now.â
âI wonât ask again, little one.â
âYour body was made for meâ
âYouâre mine.â
âIâm here.â
âIâve got you.â
Thinking about casual, domestic, disrespectful degradation:
Asking you about your day, then pulling your tits out while youâre talking
Having you cook my dinner, you only eat once Iâve finished
Jerking off beside you in bed, pushing your head down to swallow my cum without saying a word
Immediately groping you when I get home from work, shaming you for being desperate if youâre wet
You make our morning coffee, but I cum in yours instead of milk
While Iâm at work leaving you a list of household chores and expecting them all done
Making you kneel by my feet while we have a conversation
I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the updateâŠ
Aftercare
Aftercare 101
Aftercare For Dominants
Coping With Emotional Subdrop
Dom Drop
How To Make A Sub Drop Kit
Online Aftercare
sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
Subdrop and Aftercare
Subspace and Aftercare
Consent
Consent & BDSM
Guide to Consent
Doms, Daddies & Masters
7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom
12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive
25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles
30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman
45 Things A Girl Wants, But Wonât Ask For
50 Rules for Daddies
100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess
101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)
Alternative Names For âDaddyâ
Alternative Domme Titles
Aspects Of Control
Asserting Ownership - Rules
Daddy Up!
Defining A Daddy Dom
Dominants Need Training Also
Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles
Help For New Doms
How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive
How To Be A Good Dominant
How to Find a Submissive
Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man
New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom
Observations On Doms By A Submissive
So you want to be a Dom?
So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her
Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know
The Dom Commandments
Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind
What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissiveâs Perspective
What does the title Daddy mean?
What is a Daddy Dom?
What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?
What It Means To Be A Dominant
What Makes A Good Dominant
Littles, Subs & Slaves
6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant
7 Common Types of Submissives
10 Tips For Living With A Sadist
10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive
11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant
26 Baby Girl Jobs
50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy
A Bottomâs Responsibility
A Dominantâs Advice To His Submissive
A Man Who Knows YouâŠ
A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom
Acid Test For Subs
Ask A Million And One Questions
Attraction to DD/lg: A Littleâs Perspective
Baby girl or little? A brief introduction
Care and feeding of Daddies
Characteristics Of A Good Daddy
Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner
Feminist Submissive
Finding Your Dominant
Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By
Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls
How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.
âHow do I find Daddy?â A guide to help you safely find the Daddy youâre looking for.
How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?
How To Find A Dom
How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom
I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy
Novice Submissives
Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK
Signs Of A Fake âDominantâ
Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.
Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts
Submissive Pride
Submissive Traits - Intelligence
Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me
What is a Little?
When newbie subs, with asinine âdoms,â need to run away.
Why I call him Daddy
Your Rights As A Submissive
Long Distance Relationships
10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship
How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work
Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope
Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans
The Long Distance D/s Relationship
Mental Health
BDSM practitioners âhealthier and less neuroticâ than âvanillaâ peers
Body image & BDSM
How to Get Over Feeling Sad
Is BDSM normal?
Love your Vulva â a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!
Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship
Meditation And Mindfulness
On Cutting
Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories
Things to Do When Youâre Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction
Tips for Recovering from Codependency
What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)
Why Do I Feel Unloveable?
Relationships
10 Habits of Happy Couples
10 Top Communication Mistakes
10 Types of Emotional Manipulators
12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget
50 Best Ways To Say âI Love Youâ
BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End
BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways
Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective
Communication Is Key
Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships
Daddy Doms and their little girls
Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More
Date Night In A Jar
DD/lg In Public
D/s and Domestication
Factors That Make A Relationship
Finding Love When You Least Expect It
Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests
How To Be Present In Your Relationships
How To Build A Healthy Relationship
How To Get What You Want In A Relationship
How To Know When Youâve Found âThe Oneâ
How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level
Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship
Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship
Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait
Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore
Searching for a D/s partner?
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships
Stop Arguments Before They Start
The Rewards of a Submissive
Types Of Relationship Insecurity
Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship
What Is Real Love?
When He Doesnât Call
Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better
Safety
Another life ruined because of the morality police
Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!
Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldnât
Limits in BDSM
What is Emotional Abuse?
Self Improvement
10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life
10 Steps To Self Care
10 Ways To Be Happy
10 Truths To Live By
Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive
How to be Yourself
How To Deal With Your Enemies
How To Ignore Haters
How to Recognize a Toxic Friend
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
Slut Shaming Explained
Tips for Healing a Broken Heart
What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?
Sex
50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women
Basics of Breath Play
D/s or Kinky Sex?
Fetishes Explained
How To Make A Girl Squirt
How To Tell Your Son About Sex
Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality
Sensual Biting
Sex: Myths & Stereotypes
Sex: Practical Details
Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control
So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women
Squirting Educational Video
Squirting Notes
Toys
Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs
BDSM on a budget
Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)
Training
10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs
30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten
40 Very Important DD/lg Facts
Age Play: A Short Guide
BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play
DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
Etiquette in BDSM Part 1
Etiquette in BDSM Part 2
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind
Glossary of BDSM Terms
Guide To Blood Play
Guide To Bruising
Guide To Talking Dirty
Guide To Wax Play
How Do I Get Started In BDSM?
How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest
How To Make A Comfort Box
Introduction To BDSM
Newbieâs Guide To Vaginal Fisting
Punishments in BDSM Relationships
Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships
Some Thoughts On Rules
The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility
The Need For Rules and Discipline
Topping from the bottom
Simple, every day things Caregivers can do to brighten their littleâs world
Help your little tie his or her shoes Wash his or her hair in the bathtub Pet your littleâs head Pick out his or her clothes Pull him or her into your lap Get his or her pacifier if you notice him or her chewing their lips, fingers, or acting nervous Cuddle him or her Make your little giggle (tickles, jokes, etc) Use little dishes for a meal youâve prepared Bring him or her a drink in a sippy cup or bottle Stick a crazy straw in their drink Hold their hand in public (especially when crossing the street) Order for them at a restaurant Drive them places (and pick them up) Go to your littleâs doctorâs appointments with them Help him or her make tough choices (be their guide) Let him or her fall asleep on your lap or chest Ask them to help you with little tasks and things Ask if they help with little tasks Tell him or her when they are a good girl or boy Tell him or her when they make you proud Take care of them when they are sick or feeling under the weather Remind your little to take their medicine (and praise them for taking care of their health) Suggest naptime, especially if your little seems crabby or excessively irritated Read to him or her (naps, bedtime, any time) Ask your little about their favorite things (and tell them about yours) (animals, colors, shapes, stuffed animals, etc) Whisper secrets to him or her Go through their coloring pages, artwork, drawings, or crafts and tell them which ones are your favorites Teach him or her new things Remind your little about their stuffiesâ names Ask your little about their stuffies and toys Tuck them in at night (including a kiss on the forehead) Remind them of their bedtime Remind them to brush their teeth before getting into bed Ask if your little remembered to do things (chores, errands, other tasks) Kiss the top of your littleâs head or forehead frequently Color with your little Check for mean-monsters (under the bed, in the closet, in the dark room they need to go to or through) Listen to their excited babbles and chatter (get excited with them) Play pretend with your little Take your little to a park Push him or her on the swings Let your little pick the movie on movie night Tell your little that they are cute/adorable Kiss all of their owies, ouches, and boo-boos Use awesome band-aids (colorful, cartoon characters) Surprise your little Get your little âlittleâ gifts Set up a bubble bath Let him or her draw a tiny heart on you Check on your littleâs planner, chore list, or errand tasks Make music with your little Pick out their jammies, PJs, or sleep clothes Cook with your little (and, sometimes, for your little) Take your little to the zoo Take your little to the library (and help them pick a little book) Plan and go on a picnic Take a walk with your little (and hold their hand) Take your little stargazing Visit a museum with him or her Paint your littleâs toenails (or let them be silly and paint yours) Make sure he or she has something to cuddle (on the couch, in bed) Invite him or her to a special tea party (with their favorite stuffed friends) Ask about your littleâs imaginary friends Plan a themed date night Plan a great adventure with them (even if itâs silly and make believe) Play board games with him or her Play video games with him or her (or watch them play them) Do arts and crafts with him or her Give your little candy/sweets (but not too many) Make your little hot cocoa with marshmallows Help build blanket forts Rub your nose gently against theirs to give special Eskimo kisses Show them a place theyâve never seen before Whisper âshhhâ in your littleâs ear when theyâre upset Wipe away their tears (always) Take your little to see a childrenâs movie in the theater (let them have a childâs size popcorn too) Sing with them when they break out into song Call your little pet names such as: princess, prince, little one, doll, baby girl, baby boy, etc. Appreciate little gifts they make and give you Make a funny face at them in public Scoop your little one up into your arms or lap Watch cartoons with them Make your little a healthy snack Make a meal of special little foods Give your little an allowance Have your little complete chores (and check on their progress through the day or week) Remind your little to wash their hands before they eat Get things from places they canât reach Rub his or her tummy when it hurts Start a pillow fight Shoot them with a water gun or nerf gun Quote from their favorite little books and movies Ask silly questions Try to win them a prize at the carnival, fair, amusement park, or any claw machine Take him or her somewhere where they need to dress up to go to Ruffle their hair Boop and bop their nose if their emotions are getting too intense Let them wear your t-shirt/hoodie/clothes Write a note and leave it somewhere for them to find as a surprise Congratulate him or her for doing something they felt was difficult Start their sleepy music at night to help them relax Take your little to an amusement park, a carnival, or a fair Take selfies and photobooth pictures with your little Make pinky promises with your little
Wow, respect.
Good girl.
Let's make it your reality.
âYou need to get your windshield wipers replaced.â
âNah, theyâre fine.â
âNo. You arenât listening. You will get your windshield wipers replaced. Order on Amazon by Monday or go buy them before Wednesday. I want new windshield wipers on your car by Wednesday.â
Whoa. This is different. Sheâs never taken control like this before. Are those heart bubbles flying out of my ears?
âDo you understand?â
âYes, Maâam.â
That night, she had bathed me, collared me, beaten me, dressed me, and done my makeup before we were headed to a party. âMy little doll,â she called me. And still, this moment in my car was the most submissive Iâd felt all night. In fact, it was the most submissive Iâd felt in our relationship so far.Â
Up to this point, she felt like my girlfriend who topped me, but not my Dominant. But this time, it wasnât about play. It wasnât an area where weâd discussed in advance and Iâd explicitly given her control. It came out of her desire to protect me. It was the first time she took control because she felt responsible for meânot as part of a scene but in everyday life.Â
Still, it was just a moment. I wasnât sure whether sheâd remember or follow through. But on Tuesday, she asked if Iâd ordered the wipers.Â
Shit. Iâd meant to do it the day before, but Monday got busy, and I forgot. So I hurried up and ordered them.
âYes, I ordered them.â
âWhen?â
Shit. âToday.â
âWas that what I said?â
âWellâŠâ
âYou had two options: order them online by Monday or buy them in person by Wednesday. You did neither of those things. So now youâre going to cancel that order. Youâre going to leave for the auto parts store. Youâre going to tell me when you leave to drive there, when you arrive, when you leave, and when you are home. Youâre going to buy the wipers. And then youâre going to put your collar on and spend the rest of your night writing lines.â
She remembered. She noticed. She held me accountable. This is real.Â
All at once, I felt that gut-wrenching feeling of having disappointed her and the warmth of being cared for and kept. I didnât enjoy the punishment, but I appreciated it. She showed me that she saw me and that my needs mattered. By the end of the night, I had new wipers and 100 lines of, âI will care for my Dominantâs property however she sees fit.â And I meant it. Â
Itâs not formal rules and protocol that make D/s real. Itâs not the kneeling or the spanking or the oral service. Itâs the everyday moments where Dominants and submissives care for one another through power exchangeâwhen one nurtures through leading and the other nurtures through following. This is when I feel loved in exactly the way I need most.
Great rules to enforce.
younger subs (18-21 year olds) or new to kink subs, please make friends with other subs. please talk to people who arenât potential partners about your kinks, please create safety nets for yourselves, please donât let doms hold too much power over you. itâs easy to miss red flags or to misread them as part of the kink, having other subs to check in with can really help you be less vulnerable to manipulation or coercion.
Mood
I'll always greet you like this
That might be her wedding lingerie, but she's not my wifeđ
I'm not leaving home
The only gift he wants
Absolutely đ
Airlocked
All three holes need to be trained, He said. The aim is to do it all at the same time, all to the limit. So did i.
lol: loves orcs lots
lmao: love me an orc
Seems realistic
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Here's to another trip around the sunđ»
đ@wifesecretlylovesbbc
Nala
Facts, #mood
I have had this craving all day So Iâm playing no games
Bring all that sexy over here and mount it on my face
Not trying to be all I nice and neat
I want both of your hands filled with sheets
Matter of fact I want your hands gripping me
Pulling me into your pussy
Embrace me with your kitty
Grinding your supple mound on my full lips
Greasing my face with your moisture
Grabbing the back of my head while I grip them ass cheeks
Watching as your legs shutter from me slurping your lips
I feel your pussy squeezing my tongue as my finger slides in your ass
You moan louder as the pleasure is consuming you
Your sweet juices are all in and on my shit
I take pride in this
FACETIME