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Sex-repulsed aces are not to blame for other people misunderstanding asexuality, even if your asexuality is tied to your sex-repulsion. You all are great and deserve to have your boundaries respected. Society puts a lot of emphasis on certain actions to be considered “real” relationships, but these are not true. Your health, safety, and comfort should come first.

♡ Starry Pride Lanyard ♡ please don’t remove this caption! (◕‿◕✿)

What's autochrossisexual?

It’s an identity on the asexual spectrum.

Someone who identifies as autochorisexualfeels a disconnect between themselves and the object of arousal. So maybe they’d masturbate or watch porn or have sexual fantasies but those fantasies would not actually include themselves. It would be more like they were an outside observer rather than fantasizing about doing anything themselves. They probably wouldn’t want to actually have sex with anyone.

It’s also known as aegosexual.

 - Mod Fiona

i love the (proper) representation that LGBT characters get and it's super great and all but sometimes, I kinda want representation for nonbinary and aro/ace/demo/poly people too, because we exist too

[ID: Four graphics with the aromantic pride flag. The graphic reads, in order: You matter, you are not broken, you are loved and you are worth so much. End ID]

We learned so much more about Mars than we ever could in the last century thanks to Opportunity, and I'm gonna miss Oppy, even though I haven't known her for as long.

Someday, we will go back and get her and bring her back home, but for now, you did so well, Opportunity. Thank you

I mod for two different aro/ace blogs and I’ve seen so many asks from aspec people who are in some deeply unhealthy friendships at this point that I think it’s really time to make a post about it.

Your friends should not mock or belittle your sexual and/or romantic orientations. Your identity is an important part of who you are and an actual friend would know that. People who mock your identity aren’t your friends, they’re bullies. 

Your friends should recognize and respect your boundaries. You’re touch averse and your friends keep touching you even though you’ve asked them not to on multiple occasions? Sex jokes make you uncomfortable and you’ve asked your friends to not make them around you, but they refuse to? You’re romance repulsed and have explained to your friend that hearing about their relationships all the time is bad for your mental health but they still won’t stop? Then those people aren’t respecting your boundaries and you either need to have a serious talk with them until they figure it out or you need to stop being their friend.

This can be hard to hear but it needs to be said. Don’t let your friends mistreat you just because you’re aspec. You deserve so much better and I promise there are better people out there.  

valentine's day is coming up and it's great that couples and partners and lovers get together to love each other more on a very special day for them, but i just want the discounted candy guys i'm not here for the romance and sex

“Are you suuuure you don’t want to have sex some day?”

Me: Hang on, let me check for any urges

I literally woke up from a dream that turned from a little daughter’s practice of learning how to serve ppl to a full blown out one piece theater where everyone showed up as if it was a con and it was in an open field, and there was one hancock walking with her luffy and i had happen to look and she was like “DON’T LOOK AT MY FUCKING HUSBAND YOU PEASANT” and i was like “oh ok” but my brother turned to stone looking at hancock, smh

BUT KOALA!!! WAS SO BEAURIFUL!!!! OH MY GOD!!!! And Sabo came in dressed as Lucy Sabo and they did an interaction with him and Koala w Fujitora (like a model fight you could say)

And I remembe taking pictures but a selfie with them costed 2 thousand dollars and i was like “lmao i aint thqt desperate” but i saw mum pulling put her card

“mum???? We aint got that kinda money you know that right?”

Ampnd then everyone started screaming and i was like ?????

th3 announcer was saying somwthing, and all i had to do was turn right??? And there he was, in his fame and glory, the bae, the smore, the freckled sunshine

and he walked over to me (indirectly he was getting around to something) and he smiled and i straight up fake fainted to the point the announcer announced it

“Oh, looks like we got a fainter here folks!!! Be careful!!! Fire so hot he knocks people out!!!”

anyways so i walked around and we ended uo meeting again and he was like “hmm, fate seems to think we should stick, so!!! What’s your name, buddy?”

“hgkhgkggmkhhkf”

“That’s a really big mood, man. I literally woke up from a nap and I don’t even know where I’m at yet. It’s been almost half an hour.”

And somehow, i ended up being a lead singer of the marching band and i had to sing a song i had never heard before (Destiny’s Road by LongHaven LynnHaven) and thr band knew i never heard it but i had 20 minutes to remember ut b4 i had to perform it in frONT OF THE SMORE JESUS CHRIST WHY COUKDN’T THEY LET ME BE GUITAR

I've decided to say fuck what everyone says about me getting a puppy

sure, it may be a hard process, but I feel like I'll have more fun and more memories of raising it than I would adopting an adult dog, and over time, I might get a ferret

I've always wanted a puppy (I've looked into German Shepard and Huskies, but due to the Virginia climate we're in, I'm undecided for a huskie even though three ppl in the neighborhood have Huskies) and name it Spade and the other puppy would be Zero(??)

It'll be a while before I get them tho, because I haven't gotten my job yet and work out my hours. I was told puppies aren't worth the time and energy and ?????

I've learned that doing what people tell me to do just to make them happy, not only makes me miserable, but it makes me feel like a slave, and this is the year that I won't go for bullshit anymore

One of the most challenging things I’ve had to learn is that healing must be intentional. There is no one golden day that comes and saves you from all your misery. Healing is a practice. You have to decide that it’s what you want to do and actively do it. You have to make a habit out of it. Once I learned that, I only looked back to see how far I came.

i can’t get anything done and it’s literally slapping my ass

am i making a horrible decision with my life?????

isn't it strange, that you can forgive others, but you can never forgive yourself?

Flipper (1998) was such a fucking emotional film for me how dare they make me cry over a DOLPHIN

No

over the garden wall is, and still is, a beautiful masterpiece and i love it just for that

new blog but still back on my fucking bullshit