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can you please give me shifting methods for ppl with aphantsia? I know i don’t technically need a method but it helps me

hi angel! ₊˚⊹♡ first of all, i just want to say thank you for sending such a thoughtful question.

and you’re absolutely RIGHT: you don’t need a method to shift, but it’s totally okay to want tools that make you feel supported and confident in intentional shifting! <3

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📝✨ [for individuals reading this post: APHANTASIA = when someone can’t visualize images in their mind, like they can’t “see” pictures in their mind’s eye when they try to imagine something. it’s completely okay and DOESN’T LIMIT your ability to shift or manifest at all!]

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🧁✨ shifting is about state of being and assumption, NOT visuals.

you’re not being tested on your visualization skills. you’re choosing to EMBODY a new reality. you’re not shifting by seeing, you’re shifting by being.

your dominant beliefs and strongest self concept are what tune you into a new reality, not how vivid your mental pictures are.

you could close your eyes and see complete darkness, and still shift flawlessly. why? because it’s the INNER KNOWING that matters most.

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🧁✨ some method ideas for shifters with aphantasia:

🖋️ SCRIPTING:

write out your desired reality as if it’s ALRADY yours. focus on what you would feel, hear, do, say, and experience, even if you can’t necessarily visualize it in your mind.

♡ for example: “i love having amazing friends! we’ve been friends for as long as i could remember and i ALWAYS leave our hangouts with my heart so full of happiness and gratitude!”

🖋️ AFFIRMATION RAMPAGE:

instead of trying to visualize, literally just AFFIRM OUT LOUD (or in your head) everything you know to be true in the reality you’re shifting to.

♡ for example: “i’m already living in my dream apartment! isn’t it wonderful? i LOVE the view SOOO MUCH, my camera roll is literally filled with photos of it! i have my friends over all the time and they compliment me on it so often!”

🖋️ SENSATION-BASED ANCHORING:

shift by focusing on sensations instead of images.

♡ for example: think about how soft your bed would feel, the feeling of hugging someone in the reality you’re intentionally shifting to, the EXCITEMENT in your chest!

(no need to see it — just feel or describe it emotionally!)

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🧁✨ quick REMINDERS for shifters with aphantasia:

⤷ you don’t have to see it to believe it.

⤷ your assumption is stronger than any visuals.

⤷ feeling, knowing, and deciding are enough.

⤷ scripting, affirmations, and sensations are powerful tools.

⤷ shifting is natural and inevitable for you, because you said so.

YOU are the operant power.

your decision, your assumption, your choice is what matters most, and that’s always more powerful than visuals.

trust yourself angel. you’re doing so much better than you think! ✨🫶

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sending love and light as always <3 you got this!

Sometimes appreciating and communing with nature means accepting the limitations of where you live.

I used to feel bad when I read so much about meditating outside, sitting in stillness with your eyes closed. I thought these writers had to be much better pagans and witches than me to accept the consequences of that in order to be close to nature.

Then I was lucky enough to visit the UK a few years ago and I realized there's just not the same kind of bugs there. These people weren't somehow ignoring swarms of mosquitos to meditate. They weren't better pagans than me; they lived in a different place.

Since then, I've tried to adjust advice to fit my home. I do nature walk meditations instead of sitting by water and I accept that I can't be out for hours when the temperatures get into the high 90s in July. Once I started working within the limits of Florida, I felt a lot more at home in it.

Now I understand that loving nature doesn't have to look the same in every place and that's okay. You're not a bad witch or pagan because you have to adjust your practice to your home.

You have to be EMPTY to LOOSE WEIGHT.

If you KEEP EATING you'll be FAT babe, that's how this cruel world works

Reasons to lock in

Every outfit will look good

For the sculpted face

For the summer bathing suit

For the jealous stares

To finally feel confident

For people to worry about you

For the thigh gap

The tiny waist

To respect the person in the mirror

For the sense of power

To be prettier

To be dainty and light

To look elegant

To accomplish your dream

For the vs angel figure

You like taking care of people because it heals the part of you that needed someone to take care of you.

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Prompt 4: Self-curiosity

What do I believe is “impossible” for me. Why?

I dont believe i will ever live a "normal" life. My brain seems to work different than everyone else. When i try to fit in its always wrong. I try to say things and the wrong words come out. I want to be skinny and pretty and loved but its so hard.

⭐️ving Affermations

I control food, it doesn't control me.

I can choose to e@t or restr1ct whenever I want.

Wanting food has little to no effect of me. I e@t what I plan.

I only ever regret e@ting, never ⭐️ving. Don't e@t, don't feel regret.

I am in charge. If I don't want to e@t for a day, I will not.

I have control over my body. It does nothing without me allowing it.

I am never missing out on food opportunities. It will ALWAYS come around again.

I will not e@t just because other people are.

I like feeling hungry. It makes me feel good. I prefer it over feeling full.

yes, he loves me, but he would love me even more if i was thinner

chasing the high of feeling shaky & weak from ⭐️ving >>>>

bring back tumblr ask culture let me. bother you with questions and statements

Feet together, thighs apart,

The collarbones are where we start.

Count the ribs and feel the hips,

That' s what makes us skinny, bitch

Id love my back to look like this!

We’re either progressing or regressing, the choice is our’s to make 💗

And I hate to report back team but;

Drinks hit better on an empty stomach

Clothes look better on an empty stomach

You’ll feel better on an empty stomach

The power is soo within yourself, ily be safe

your desire to be skinny and beautiful needs to be more than your desire to eat.

Got my tooth fixed yesterday and barely ate anything after because when the numb wore off it hurt too much. Its better today but still hurts a bit. Havent actually lost after this whole thing which sucks. I was hoping to at least get that out of it.

athletic th!n$p000 !!!

uhhh heavily censoring out of fear but in honor of me having a great day at track, i thought i’d make this!! enjoy! <3

(some commentary :)

this. pose. i need to be able to lie on my side like this and have a thigh gap PLEASE 🙏🏼

honorable mentions, since they’re similar poses but their legs <3 i’m so jealous.

collarbones. that’s it, that’s the commentary.

poses?? legs that look good no matter what???? seeing my spine!? again, jealousy is a sin, and i am one unlucky angel/hj

these girls’ stomachs and legs are my fucking goals. i’m being so serious, i want to look exactky like them please!!!

possibly the most on-theme pictures in this whole thing, and some of my favorites. the first one’s abs. the second one’s calves and legs in general. i need it immediately.

hope y’all like this type of stuff, cuz i’m gonna be relentless in making them now, this was actually so fun ^_^

--xoxo, Dakota <3

Reasons to ⭐️ve outside of weight loss:

1. Saves money

2. More spare time

3. For the girlie's with chronic pain/inflammatory conditions: food is inflammatory. Though antioxidant rich foods mitigate this, calorie restriction alone can be really great for managing inflammation

4. No more feeling like a little 🐖 when eating in public

5. Feeling lighter when moving around

6. No more shame, only confidence and pride in your discipline

Your hungry?

Now take of all ur clothes and get infront of a mirror

Still hungry?

Nope, I didn’t think so

Stay strong,stay disciplined it WILL pay off

Prompt 3: Self-curiosity

How do I define myself when I’m alone versus when I’m with others? When Im around others especially if they are folks i dont know that well i try to take on a job or be helpful in some way. Its like i dont know who i am around ohter people without having that assigned role to play. So I usually volunteer when im going to new events and stuff. It also helps me meete new people. When Im alone i dont know if i define myself at all. I dont really consider myself. Maybe thats what i should be getting curious about. What is one strength I undervalue or overlook? By definition this one seems hard. haha Um. Attention to detail when i choose to use it. I can get really focused.

Welp. Looks like Im going to be doing the liquid diet a bit longer. Had a tooth crack today and the apointment to get it fixed is next Wednesday. "Dont eat on that side" they said. "It might break farther if you chew on it."

Screw that noise. Nothing solid is touching that thing till its fixed.

That makes a lot of sense. Yesterday even sitting/standing hurt. Today Im feeling way better. Yay for Thursday fasting buddy! :D

Day 2 of liquid fast. Got woke up a bunch last night by weather alarms but didnt have a tornado. Im so tired. Busy day yesterday, busier day today. Should keep my mind off food. @fluxusesque how's yours going?