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What do you think is the best part of embracing a traditionalist dynamic?

I think the best part is being able to truly step into my femininity. I spent most of my childhood & teenage years being told that I was (effectively) a broken man and needed to girlboss. I wasn’t able to express how much I wanted to be a wife & mom and how much I wanted to devote myself to my family or heavily prefer dresses and skirts. I feel like I’ve always been told I’m a defective boy, but with the more traditionalist dynamic, I’m told I’m a woman, and that’s a beautiful thing to be.

What do you think is the biggest misconception of being a trad?

Oo this is a good question!

I think the biggest misconception is that we don’t have voices/opinions. I have tons of opinions and thoughts that I share with my husband and if he’s doing something I disagree with, I vocalize it, we talk about it, and then we move forward. Yes- my husband has final say most of the time, but he is always open to hearing me and coming to a decision together.

something: is pink

me: i’m fucking sold

If by Misogyny you mean he works while I get the freedom to be at home or work if I wish..

if by Misogyny you mean he helps with children and the chores...

if by Misogyny you mean he trusts me with his bank accounts, budget, and has my name on all property including vehicles owned..

if by Misogyny you mean he puts me first above all things & stays loyal..

hmm almost doesn't sound like Misogyny at all now does it..? funny how everyone assumes a Trad Wife is pro abuse and control from our spouse. 🤔

"they're irredeemable"

incorrect. they're unrepentant. no one is irredeemable.

I’ve had a cute little llama xylophone for over a year- a gift from a friend when we found out I was pregnant with my daughter- and now she’s big enough to sit up by herself and play with it. It was a bit of a shock that made me tear up a little when I realized it.

Time flies. And God is so good. 🩷

🌷 a flower for anyone having a bad day today. i love you

happy housewife

Now I have known in part; then I shall know fully, as I have been fully known.

1 Corinthians 13:12

the only career that matters to me ♡₊˚ 🩰・₊✧

Alexandre Graverol - Dört Güzel

Tea & biscuits 🫖🌸🍪

✨source : pinterest ✨

✨source : pinterest ✨

Being anti-feminist isn’t being anti woman.

I love woman and our creation so therefore I have to honor my biological , spiritual, sexual nature and reality. Woman are designed to live in a world where we please our men and give them children. We are designed to nurture children, our own husbands, families of our own. It’s so easy to get wrapped up in feminism and it’s lies. Feminism is a huge deal in our western world especially if you’re not apart of it. They’re only two genders and only femininity and masculinity designed for those two genders. Feminism tells us we don’t need men but we do! I love Men , on earth Man was the first creation and Woman was made from Man. It’s time to honor them and love on them and our own femininity I promise your life will be much better.

Heaven knows I keep falling into some of these traps… 😥

How to Make Your Husband Feel Valued and Appreciated

Marriage is a beautiful partnership, and showing your husband how much he means to you strengthens your bond. Here are some thoughtful ways to make your husband feel loved and appreciated:

1. Speak Words of Affirmation

Compliment him often—whether it’s about his hard work, his character, or how much you love him. Simple phrases like, “I’m so proud of you” or “You make me feel so loved” go a long way.

2. Show Gratitude

Say “thank you” for the little things he does. Whether it’s fixing something around the house, being a great listener, or helping with chores, let him know you notice and appreciate it.

3. Plan Quality Time Together

Make time for intentional one-on-one moments. Whether it’s a date night, a walk, or just sitting and talking without distractions, giving him your undivided attention makes him feel prioritized.

4. Surprise Him with Acts of Service

Do something thoughtful that shows you care, like making his favorite meal, organizing something he’s been meaning to tackle, or leaving a note in his lunch.

5. Encourage His Dreams

Support his goals and aspirations. Whether it’s a career milestone or a personal hobby, show that you believe in him and cheer him on.

6. Pray for Him

There’s no greater gift than praying for your husband. Lift him up in prayer daily, asking God to guide, protect, and bless him. Let him know you’re praying for him—it will touch his heart deeply.

7. Be His Biggest Cheerleader

Celebrate his wins, no matter how big or small. Show enthusiasm for his achievements and let him know you’re his #1 fan.

8. Be Physically Affectionate

Never underestimate the power of touch. Hold his hand, give him hugs often, or leave a kiss on his cheek—these small gestures convey warmth and love.

9. Respect and Honor Him

Speak well of him to others, especially in public. Your words and actions should reflect how much you admire and respect him.

10. Write Him a Love Note

Leave a heartfelt note for him to find, expressing your love and appreciation. It’s a simple but meaningful way to make him feel cherished. 💗

Making your husband feel valued doesn’t have to be complicated. A little intentionality and thoughtfulness can go a long way in showing him how much he means to you 🌷

With love,

Thatgentlewife

𝓕𝓮𝓫𝓻𝓾𝓪𝓻𝔂 𝓵𝓸𝓿𝓮 -`♡´-

How to be a Good Submissive Wife

1. Cook lots of healthy food for the family to help them stay big and strong.

2. Always wear pretty dresses.

3. Always wear pretty clothes and be clean, fresh and well groomed.

4. Never take birth control, children are a blessing.

5. Keep the house beautiful, clean and bright. Make it a peaceful home.

6. Help him relax after work by waiting at the door to greet him.

7. Be a good mommy to all the babies and never shout or get cross.

8. Be good, quiet, doting and adoring when in public. Let the whole world see how good a wife you are.

9. Stay fit and healthy, so you’re body is always ready to make another baby.

10. Never ever say no to him. He knows best, so you must trust his judgement and do as he says.

11. Be a good girl when out and about.

12. Be proud to be carrying his babies and don't hide the baby bump. Enjoy being pregnant by him. This is what you were born for.

13. Tell him your problems. Don’t let them make you unhappy, frowny or grumpy. He will know how to fix them.

13. Tell him every how much you love and appreciate him.

14. Love and look after his extended family, he likes knowing you respect and care for them.

15. Always kiss him goodbye, hello and thank you.

16. Sit on his lap whenever he wants you too. Be a good girl and let him enjoy his innocent submissive wife.

19. Go to bed whenever he tells you to. A good wife is well rested, strong and ready every morning to make pleasing her husband the main priority of her day, every day.

„You look so beautiful today.“ Me:

Virgen de Guadalupe.