Girl's Best Friend

Patricia A. Bender, Geometry 300, (oxidized gelatin silver cliche-verre print with colored pencil), 2020, Unique [Laurence Miller Gallery, New York, NY. © Patricia A. Bender]

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if i ever have another boyfriend i’d like him to be a little fish that will eat the dead skin of my fingers

This is what bug haters look like

oh..............thats comfort. thats comfort of my gore character.

Noooo stop rebloging my posts hehe haha 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

THE IMMORTAL

about 9 months & 38,340 stitches later, i have finished this screenshot of a 1990 sega genesis game lmfao

people online: hey how are you

people in real life: we should round up the homeless and send them to camps

The far right wants race war and the far left wants class war. I think they should have a war war to decide what war to have.

"I'm going to teach my sons to respect women."

A lot of women say this in response to all the sexism they see and experience. But it only works if you teach him to question all sources of power. If you're a single issue feminist and you want your son to question his privilege as a male but uphold your privilege as an adult, you'll fail miserably and it will be your own fault.

If you spend his entire childhood demanding that he obey all adults no matter how abusive and you call that "respect", then when he's a teenager and you teach him to "respect" women, he'll think women are just one more group of people who he has to submit to, and he'll easily fall for propaganda that feminism is a female supremacist movement. If you call him "disrespectful" when he says or does something sexist and you've also called him "disrespectful" for backtalk, eye rolling, muttering, or breathing loudly, he'll think you're just being an unreasonable authority figure once again. If you spank him and try to teach him that domestic violence is wrong, he'll see you as a blatantly obvious hypocrite.

Single issue activism is useless, and your child will see right through it. You can't just add "women" to the list of people your child must respect on command. If you want to prevent your child from becoming a bigot, you have to teach him to recognize bigotry in all forms, including when it's coming from you. You have to teach him to recognize that the way children are treated is bigotry. You also have to teach him to recognize ableism, racism, classism, and other ways that you may be privileged.