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Shifting cause my soulmate is in a whole other reality🤪

I'm so tired of youtubers making fun of reality shifters😭😭

heyy so ive been asking around about this but i feel like the hardest thing for me to manifest is a certain face / appearance changes — not because it’s hard to manifest in itself but i can never decide on a df or desired features.. how’d you choose yours, if you don’t mind me asking ?

* I'm really hapy to answer this, because I could never choose a DF too! I saw Taylor Hill for the first time few months ago, and I just FELT - like in my heart - that i want to look just like her. Every time i wanted to change my DF, it was just for a small period of time (like when I watched Leon The Professional and wanted to look like Natalie Portman for one evening, but didnt do anything to actually look like her). My eyes, nose and face shape is naturally similiar to Taylor's, and I always felt insecure about these features of mine.

* When I saw Taylors face card absolutely EATING UPP these features i became more confident about my eyes, nose and face shape. I always wanted to have eyes like for example Adriana Lima or Megam Fox even though they're literally the opposite of mine, and after i tried manifesting their face I just looked weird, so when I saw Taylor I just FELT it. I was sure, even though for some time I didnt want to look like her cuz I wanted to (for example) have Brooke Shields eyes, but then I just went with what my heart wants🩷 She really 'fits' my face and i look way much better now!

* If you still struggle with choosing your DF, then make an image where every single DF (past and present) of yours is in it and choose whoever looks more like you and just FEELS right ! Good luck angel 🩷🪽

* PS. If you choose the DF that feels right and then suddenly want to change it, just stop trying to manifest looking like anyone for a while so you give yourself time if you actually want to look like that person you suddenly felt the need to do so, or if you wanna look like someone you choose before 🌺

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⋆.˚ ᡣ𐭩 .𖥔˚ STOP. CONSTANTLY. CHECKING. THE. 3D. DAMNIT.

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎I'm not fond of using "3D" or "4D" since they're technically one thing (3D being the reflection of 4D) but like genuinely babe—what are you looking for? Validation? Proof? A parade from the universe with confetti and a trumpet section going “Here comes your manifestation!”? No. That’s not how this works. You're not a detective trying to solve a missing person’s case. You're the author of the damn book. You don’t need to check if the plot is working out—you write it, remember?

𓈒ㅤׂㅤ𐙚 ࣪ ⭒ “But Mercy!! Everyone says manifestation is instant, why hasn’t my 3D adjusted yet??”

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎YES. IT IS INSTANT. But if you keep checking the 3D with this little skeptical side-eye like, “Why hasn't it happened?”, what you're actually doing is saying, “I assume it’s not here.” Boom. Guess what the law says? “You’re the boss, babe. Not here it is.” THAT'S the assumption you're persisting in. Not “It’s done,” but “It’s not done yet.” See the problem?

𓈒ㅤׂㅤ𐙚 ࣪ ⭒ "But Mercy! I need to have my desired life before I—"

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎Before what? Before you’re allowed to chill? Before you can stop being anxious? Before you’re finally allowed to believe you’re worthy? Babe. You’re literally saying you don’t have it right now. You're telling yourself that you need to get there. That’s the assumption. You're camping in the land of “I don’t have it yet.” And guess where the law of assumption will keep you? Yup. Right there. In Old-story-ville. Population: you.

𓈒ㅤׂㅤ𐙚 ࣪ ⭒ “But Mercy! I’ve been persisting for so long and NOTHING has changed in the 3D!"

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎GIRL. Sweetheart. Listen. You LITERALLY just affirmed nothing has changed. That’s what you're clinging to. That's the version of reality you're choosing. You could say “I know it’s done no matter what I see,” but instead you’re going “I’m not seeing anything change!” Like, baby, you are affirming LACK. You are manifesting more of nothing happening. You see how that loops?

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎You are not broken. You are not failing. You’re just stuck in the OLD STORY ADDICTION. Yeah, I said it. You keep feeding your energy to the version of you that doesn't have what they want. And why? Because it's familiar? Safe? You get to complain a bit longer? You think whatever you're manifesting for is too good to be true? Cute. But no. We’re done with that.

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎You know how to break the loop? You stop giving a damn about what the 3D looks like. You let it be. You live your life. You live like it’s done because it IS. The only reason it hasn’t shown up is because you keep babysitting the assumption that “It’s not here.” And surprise surprise—that’s exactly what shows up.

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎You can have doubts. You can cry. You can have off days. That’s NORMAL. You're human. But stop using your doubt as an excuse to spiral back into the same old version of yourself who doesn't believe. Doubt isn’t the problem. Living in it is.

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎Let it go. Live. Touch some grass. Get a snack. Rewrite your story. Assume you already have it and STICK TO IT. That’s literally all it takes. You're not a failure. You're not behind. You're not doing it wrong. You’re just stuck in the habit of not believing it’s done. Break the habit. Unplug the old story. Choose the new one. And for the love of manifestation gods—stop checking the damn 3D.