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I saw a lot of Jacob bashing after the "kiss" scene in Eclipse and I don't understand why there is so much more Jacob bashing than Edward... I've always been team Edward when I was a teen because I love vampires and it was evidently written than Jacob was meant to be the outsider in this relationship.
But let's talk about bad behaviour ...
On one hand we have Jacob, a teenager in love with a girl he knows since childhood. He kiss her, fully knowing that she don't want to, she punch him, he never try again.
On the other hand we have Edward -the creep- Cullen, a teenager too but a century old, obsessed with a classmate. He is curious about her and his resistance to not suck her dry SO he decides to enter her room while she sleeps and watch her all night long, several nights a week ! And loves that she sleeptalk !
I really think the one to violate her intimacy in this case is not Jacob, yes Jake was violent but it was "just" a kiss. Honestly would you be more traumatized by a stollen kiss from a childhood friend or by learning that the weird guy in your biology class came in your room to watch you sleep ?
And Edward could have seen so much more than just Bella sleeping (as if it isn't already too much) , she could have sleep naked, she could been jerking off while he came to spy, or worse, she could have her period come early while he's here and she's sleepind and no one to stop Edward to succomb to his thirst ,drove mad by the smell of blood...
I kinda love them but Edward and Alice are the worse with Bella, they don't have any respect for her and her choice. They never ask what she wants and when they do and the answer is not what they want , they just ignore it... They "know" so they don't bother and it's the biggest flaw of their character.