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Evolutions

So my wife cheated on me. While away on a girls’ trip she made a connection with a random at the bar and ended up letting him in.

She only confessed because we’ve been having these ffm conversations and it came up. I asked if she wanted my blessing to take another man… she was absolutely terrified to tell me that she already did. I had to promise a hundred times that it would be ok and won’t divorce her.

And I won’t. I’m not a hypocrite. I’m asking her to bring a playmate home for some of my fantasies, and she has explicitly told me I’m free to go play if I ever feel the need… of course I have to extend the same courtesy to her.

Unfortunately her hook-up ended up having certain complicating factors, and she had to build up quite the web of lies to keep it hidden from me. It was a terrible burden on her heart and I’m glad she released that burden.

I forgave her for cheating on me, but the lying really hurt me and damaged my trust.

For 17 years it’s been only my cock. And she’s pretty demanding. So I get it-

It’s been a process getting through the emotions involved, but we are rock solid again.

Things my wife has said lately...

Do you want me to like girls more? -maybe a little. But what you do now is awesome and I love you.

You should flirt more. I don’t care if you squeeze tits and kiss, just bring that energy home to me.

Re: our completely spontaneous new playmate who my wife invited over, and then got eaten by at least twice (that I know of)… I asked why did you bring her home; what did you want to do with me? She replied: I did it for you. I just wanted to have some fun. I thought you would like it.

Then she said: I was really drunk and don’t remember much…

That’s just self-defense. She was feeling stir-crazy back then, and needed to find a way to shake things up. Well, it worked. But perhaps it was too much too fast, she got in over her head and is still trying to process it.

I love my wife and she’s super fun to fuck. We’ve been hitting each other hard for a couple years now, it’s been a glorious resurgence of our honeymoon years (our initial romantic period lasted at least six years–though now it’s even better, more dialed in, more hot).

I said: I’d like to try again. I want you to bring a friend home to suck my cock. Let’s play and make our organisms even bigger.

She agreed. She wants to try again, so we’re talking about it in detail.

I’ve got you. I love you. You’re my favorite.

Snow bunny

I think if I talk this out it will help me process it. Constructive feedback welcome.

Happily married for 15 years; monogamous, traditional, awesome. We average sex every 2–3 days, and it’s good stuff. My wife has never shown an interest in any other man, but can get a little flirty when drinking. I’m ok with that. But she gets really flirty with other women when she’s drinking. Usually just caresses and snuggling, but titty squeezes, nipple play and motorboats are par for course too. I’m also ok with that. We are strong sexually, and having a great time in life together. She is beautiful, sexy, amazing. She’s 30s, I’m early 40s.

And then one day, she brought a stranger home

Last winter. We we’re coming down off the mountain together after a full day of skiing, exhausted, happy. A snow bunny (early thirties, cute) started up a conversation with me, but then gives full attention to my wife. They hit it off and exchanged #s, my wife inviting her to the big dinner party we were attending that night.

I was kind of surprised when she actually came to our little rented house about an hour later. We still had an hour till dinner, and we have a hot tub… fast forward a couple bottles of wine, two smokin babes in tiny bikinis and me in hot tub paradise. They’re flirting with each other, gently touching, building each other up.

And right about the time we should be leaving to the dinner party (with my two daughters who are patiently waiting inside), little miss thing has her arm around my wife, grabs her tits and smooches her… then looks at me and says right to face, “I’m going to fuck your wife tonight.” She’s only slightly drunk so her words are just barely slurred. It was hot.

Wifey has an embarrassed, but flattered, but maybe yes? expression on her face. But what I know for sure is that she wasn’t backpeddling or trying to get out of it. I could see that in an instant. So, I smiled at them both and nodded.

We all go upstairs to our suite (allegedly to get dressed for dinner). It’s normal getting dressed and girls talking about bras stuff. I’m ready first so I go downstairs and get my daughters ready for the walk down the street to dinner. But too much time passes. It’s quiet upstairs. They should be done by now.

I wrestle with the awkward situation of going up to check on her, or honoring her privacy and her wishes. Eventually, I go upstairs.

They’re both halfway dressed but almost done. My wife quietly whispered to me, “she licked my pussy!” “Did you like it?” “Yes.” “Show me.”

Next thing you know they’re both naked, my wife is on her back getting eaten and finger-banged. It was sooo beautiful. Her orgasm came quick.

And then wifey crawls over to me, pulls out my hard on and says “Come on!”

I’ve never had my dick out in front of two hot sexy women. And I don’t know what my wife had in mind for me–I think she would suck on me while getting eaten by our new friend, and who knows what next…

But my 10yo daughter started banging on the door complaining about how late we were for dinner and how hungry she was. And we were late–more than an hour.

So that’s how it ended. Dinner. Awkward goodbyes. Missed opportunities.

Always thankful to have @queanv to balance me, and encourage me to be myself and enjoy myself. Sending me out to play with Hotwives like Lexi and Kat 🥵

Looking to have fun IRL for me and my toy, we are disease free and she will do anything I tell her to. Looking for men, women and shemales. She is 43 and I’m 46.

Only serious inquiries. She is located in NYC we will probably use her apartment for fucking. Please send a picture of you if you are serious.

Just ....

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What should I write about next? There’s so much to share and I’d like to know what you want to hear about:

Our first visit to a swingers’ club

Our second visit to a swingers’ club (Halloween costume party) DONE

My first time attending a hotel gangbang party DONE

My hotwife hookup in a hotel with Joe (the best fuck I’ve EVER had)

My hotwife hookup with Daniel (romantic dinner date at a fancy restaurant followed by sex at his house)

My first cheating experience with hubby’s best friend (before I became a hotwife) DONE

Our first vacation hotwife experience in Punta Cana DONE

"Then lock me up, I'm horny AF to see you two make out"👅🔐🙏

"You can milk me after and feed me by my cum!"😋💦💦

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credit: Betacrusher666

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