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How does your DR family perceive you?

- PICK A CARD READING MADE BY @DAISYS-REALITY -

This was requested by one of my followers, I hope you enjoy it! 🤍 DR stands for desired reality and your 'DR family' ist the family you have in your desired reality. I guess you could also read this while having your 'normal' family in mind. But I was focusing more on the reality shifters and their DR families. If you like to read more PAC readings from me, feel free to check out my masterlist ! Also, for your information, I don't own any of these beautiful pictures, I just edited them a little.

PILE 1

six of pentacles + lamb + dragonfly + blue chalcedony 

Hello pile one! Your DR family sees you as a very giving person, someone who is generous with their time and energy (also perhaps with your money and talents). To them, you seem to like sharing what you have with your family. You invest in what you believe and in the future you want to live in. You seem very harmonious and very balanced. Or you bring harmony and balance to your DR family in their opinion. They appreciate you very much. Because there is this equal give and take energy with you, your DR family might also enjoy giving to you (ex. through financial support or gifts). You seem like someone who embraces the things coming into your life with such grace and ease - they might admire that aspect of yours. In their opinion, you’re a good listener and like a good friend to them (perhaps to your DR siblings if you have any). You never seem secretive with advice and you seem quite socially aware. You usually are very open with others/them as well but you also know when you should not overstep. They notice that you seem to enjoy the finer things in life. You might be quite sensitive. But the connection with you feels usually very intimate but also kind of laid-back if that makes sense. Your DR family also notices that you love making others feel comfortable and at home which they appreciate. You inspire them with your generosity. In their eyes, you have a kind heart and are very sincere. You usually don’t ask them for anything in return openly but they always want to give back to you.

Other aspects they see in you are that you are very peaceful, patient with them and honest. They are usually grateful for your advice because they see you as someone wise or someone who has an inner knowing. But you’re also good at listening to them (/to their problems etc.). They feel that you’re very gentle with them. When you’re out of balance they can see that you sometimes get quiet and timid and easily concerned with things. You might overthink a lot too in those times.

They also notice that you have a very active mind. You seem to be always mentally moving and changing. Sometimes your mind might be too busy and you struggle with concentrating but usually seem to have a very good perception of things! You also awaken a certain sense of wonder in your DR family with your energy. They think you are good at creating illusions - you might be very good at keeping a facade or it might be difficult at times for your DR family to clearly see what’s going on inside your head lol. Sometimes you seem restless, other times you seem still; sometimes you seem very dreamy and other times crystal clear. It’s a bit confusing for them. You might often be the one who can bring peaceful resolutions to conflicts whether inside or outside your DR family. It’s like you have this peaceful assertiveness and are very endurant. You’re good at guiding others and helping them with problems of negative thinking or self-doubt or emotional turmoil. Overall, you are someone joyful and very magical to them! They are grateful to have you and they respect you a lot as a person. ❤️

PILE 2

six of swords + hummingbird + green calcite 

Hello pile two! In your DR family’s eyes, you seem to go through a certain transition in your life. Times change with the rise of the tide and right now you’re doing your best to stay afloat. They acknowledge that. They know that change is not always easy (for you) but they think this is a necessary transition in your life. You sometimes go the difficult path to search for something ‘bigger’, something you strongly believe in. It’s not easy to describe but you seem to have this inner goal in mind which you’re striving for. They can see that new or strange environments might leave you feeling adrift especially without your core humans and the comfort of home. They want you to know that you can always come home to yourself when you start to feel overwhelmed. Of course you also always come to your DR home but they want you to know that leaving your home base will allow you to grow and expand in unexpected ways! Opportunities might have been limited in the past in your DR, and you ventured off to new territory to better your future. That’s how they see it. New land means a new perspective, as the environment shapes us into who we are.

Your DR family might think that traveling overall is a healing experience to you. Because you’re the type of person who focuses on the journey rather than the destination. They see you as someone who carries a mostly active, assertive but not aggressive energy! They might also just see you enjoying spending time outdoors.They think you are very self-accepting and easygoing but someone who is in the process of healing or focuses very much on healing and self-improvement. To them, you are a future-oriented person. Although you’ve gone through your fair share of challenges, you still choose to remain optimistic about what is yet to come. THey truly admire that aspect of yours. With your presence, you make them feel just as calm and mellow as you are. You appear not only positive but also very enthusiastic. You seem to have an endless amount of energy within you. Which might baffle them at times but they think you just learned how to nourish yourself correctly and how to gain your energy back - like for example through nature, creative activities or maybe even through exploring spirituality! The way you live your life seems sweet/abundant and your DR family thinks that the moments they spent together with you are worth savoring. 

Other aspects of yours which they notice are that you’re smart, curious and you love to learn! But sometimes when you’re in a bad mood, you can get a little pushy/insistent and maybe even sharp with your words (- which can hurt quite a bit). However, all in all, you provide energy and vitality for your DR family. But also calmness and compassion with your loving energy. They truly appreciate that. You have a healing energy and you improve the communication within your DR family bringing also transition from a stagnant to a positive situation. Your DR family cares a lot about you and is very grateful for your existence in their life. ❤️

PILE 3

ace of cups, the hierophant + dragon + green aventurine

Hello pile three! Your DR family sees you as this very creative and emotionally expressive person. Someone who flows freely, if that makes sense. They think you spread love in your DR family and always bring in refreshing opportunities. In their eyes, you have this desire for compassion and connection which inspires you to lend a helping hand to those in need. I feel like your DR family might not be very expressive or openly affectionate, perhaps that’s why they appreciate those traits so much more. They enjoy seeing you sharing your gifts with the world because you become much more open about who you are and the unique talents that you bring. They think your energy is contagious. You seem very generous with your affection and compassionate to them. Some might even think/assume you’re spiritually aware or even blessed. You inspire them. You seem to be always brimming with ideas and you can’t wait to put them into action. You have a kind of innocent vibe in certain aspects. It could also mean that some people of your DR family see you as somewhat naive maybe.

However, they also notice that you are pretty good at keeping your emotions contained, but also you don’t seem to be afraid to express yourself where appropriate.They think you are not cynical about the nature of humanity (like perhaps some other members of your family). Your DR family perceives you as someone who loves what they do for a living. Another thing they appreciate is that you treat the elderly with kindness!

You might be quite conventional actually. You might honor the traditions or rituals in your DR family and in your life. They like that about you. Those traditions might even help you feel grounded. They think you might be drawn towards joining a group or community that has certain rules you’d have to follow. And they believe that by joining, you broaden your scope and expand your knowledge. They assume that being a part of a community allows you to feel a sense of acceptance, unity and even an identity. You might be someone who likes looking at your lineage of ancestors or religion and doing research to shine light on the wisdom of the past. You seem to like absorbing as much information as you can. In their perception of you, you are wise and value your personal values a great deal, like you seem to be someone who identifies strongly with your belief system or religion, whatever you consider your “religion” or reality - for some of you, your “religion” may even be science and reason!  And this aspect plays a major role in your life, it may even be the center of your world. It influences your outlook and decision-making considerably. At least that’s how it seems to your DR family. I think your DR family consists of vastly different people (including you) and even though all of them are so different you somehow are able to make them all feel comfortable around you. They see that you like comfort, and you’re all about giving that experience to people. Your DR family believes that you’re non-judgmental and more interested in making everyone feel accommodated. They truly appreciate this about you. You are friendly and willing to listen, learn, and teach. You’re rarely interested in “converting” anyone to your belief system or lifestyle, you just want to be tolerated and, likewise, you tolerate others. In their eyes, you’re someone who leads by example, someone who is able to perceive ‘everything’ around them and who sees beauty everywhere. To them, you’re very intelligent and courageous with a strong inner fire. You’re a visionary and a guide. Your energy can be pretty grounding to others, and your DR family thinks that you bring stability into the family. You might have a tendency to overthink or ruminate over situations and get stuck in your mind but in those times your DR family is actually willing to help bring you back to your physical body and the present moment and your connection to your world/life/environment. 

You provide strength, confidence, courage, and even happiness to your DR family. As I said before, you inspire your family and your energy is contagious in their opinion. You renew their optimism for life and you push them to take action to acquire what they want in this world. And you also urge them to get out of their comfort zone and take on new opportunities. Your presence in their life helps them release old patterns, habits, and disappointments so new growth can take place. Your family learns a lot from you. You’re truly inspiring to them - I can’t say this often enough lol. All in all, your DR family has respect but also a lot of affection for you. They want you to know that even if they can’t express this very well, you are very dear to their heart. ❤️