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I'm a proshipper. i know the post looks deceiving
I can't take it anymore every other selfship post i see Uwahhh π
your F/O will comb your hair even if it's greasy
your F/O will kiss you even if your teeth are unbrushed
your F/O will hug you even if you smell bad
your F/O understands that hygiene can be difficult for you at times. they love and accept you anyway.
selfship joy when you wear an oversized shirt with your F/O's favorite band on it... (If anyone wants to know, he loves ACDC! :3)
Hey don't be sad, imagine leaving lipstick marks all over f/os face. Alternatively f/o leaves lipstick marks on YOUR face. Alternatively if f/o has a screen for a face/some other face that has no lips/they wear masks they refuse to take off they use the lipstick from your kisses to transfer it to your face. Cheek nuzzles? I think so. Kiss f/o, don't be sad, f/o loves you, happy β¨
Proselfshippers with secret f/os, here's a reminder that they love you so much and they don't mind at all that you're keeping them secret! They're more than content and happy to just be with you, as long as you're comfortable that's all that matters. Just know that just because they're secret doesn't make your relationship with them any less real nor does it take away from how precious the connection is. No matter the reason they'll understand, they love you just as much as they would if you didn't keep them secret, don't worry <3
N0nshar1ng w/ Ca1eb n Jum1n as 1f theyd ever wanna be w/ s0me1 l1ke y0u in the f1rst p1ace hell0 ( Β¬β ΰ‘,Β¬ )
I'm unsure of if you have an issue because I'm non-sharing with them or if it's because I'm proship but whatever issue you have with me you can always just block me. I'm going to assume the issue is the non-sharing aspect since you pointed that out, I feel like if it were a proship issue you'd have said this about all of my f/os lol, but I have no ill will in any way shape or form towards others who selfship with them. I support their relationship existing I just don't want to see it. I hold no attraction to real people, I'm just attracted to fictional characters or whatever so Jumin and Caleb feel like a real relationship to me if you get what I mean. I've loved Jumin since mysmes first came out (2016, almost 9 years now, of course there's an attachment) and Caleb just hit me hard even before he came out as a love interest, so I mean. Yeah. I think they want to be with me π But it's not like a selfshipper needs to have some deeper reason for being non-sharing, if they're non-sharing then they're non-sharing and that's that. If you're uncomfortable with that you can always block them. Have a good day/night anon.
Nonsharing proselfshippers here's your little reminder to take a few minutes off the screen and imagine your f/o / partner holding you close, reminding you that you matter and that your love will always be the most precious to them. They can't imagine being in a world without you, their love for you runs deeper than the blood in their veins, a portion of their beating heart will forever belong to you, even if it weren't beating. No matter how many times they tell you they love you, they mean it more and more every single time. I know it can be tough online for one reason or another, but always remember no matter your circumstances- whether you own merch or you don't, whether you post about your f/o or you don't, whether you're able to make art or you can't, your relationship will always be real and true. Take it easy, they love you so much and nothing will change that.
I ordered a Caleb plushie and I'm (im)patiently waiting for it to come here's a doodle to celebrate though
I get really confused when an openly proship blog follows me but they reblog from a bunch of antis, I'm really unsure of if they just don't check people's blogs therefore they're reblogging those posts because said posts don't have proship dni on that specific post (I've seen especially a lot of selfship posts that have no indication of if proshippers can interact or not but their dni is on their pinned, so if it's just some random post on your feed like that it seems like there isn't a need to check the blog etcetc), or if they're, y'know, an anti posing as a proshipper π I don't want to block someone over a misunderstanding since I like making mutuals but it's quite confusing. I moot a lot of people who follow me so if I haven't it's probably because of this misunderstanding (if it is a misunderstanding) and feel free to dm me to let me know, but also if possible please check dnis on people's blogs if you reblog/interact with them very frequently. I get it if they just don't have their dni in an easily accessible spot/you need to go through loops to find their dni but if their dni is on their pinned and you reblog from them frequently I'll probably misunderstand due to the nature of antis posing as proshippers. Sorry π I also try not to moot people who purposely break dnis too so I also can't tell if it's done on purpose when it's done so much. It's just confusing for me, I might even sound a little silly right now but π
Hi proship selfshippers, your f/os wanted to remind you that they absolutely ADORE you, every little flaw, every unique aspect of you, every thing that makes you; you, they love it. If you were ever considering that they dislike you, that they're annoyed, fed up, or tired of you, you couldn't be further from the truth. No matter the struggle or the quarrel, their feelings for you will always be the same.
If an antiship selfshipper happens to come across this post, yes, this also applies to you too. This all applies to every selfshipper, no one's f/o would ever hate their partner or wish harm on their partner, period.
They love you, always remember that.
Caleb and I as kiddos :D my hair used to be longer as a kid now I keep cutting it π
Hi lazy selfship doodle because I can't sleep π Why does Caleb look so mad
Guyssss I got Caleb's new myth already I'm so happy π I had to spend like ten dollars but I'd consider that pretty lucky considering how my luck usually is in LADS. Auhhh <3
Proship selfshippers, did you know your f/os are so in love with you, like so in love it makes them look stupid... I'm chatting with them right now and they just won't stop talking about you! I don't mind, but I think they should be saying these things to you directly... Matter of fact, I'm sending them to you right now, your f/os can't wait to see you! Oh and for the f/os that are too devoted or introverted to talk to anyone but you, I just overheard them rambling to themself about you.. but I think they'll be on their way to see you soon as well :)
Hello autistic proshippers, question, are any of your favorite ships perhaps a special interest? And if not the ship itself, is it the media the ship is from? Alternatively, if you selfship I could ask the same about your f/o(s) and their source(s), if this better applies to you! Light or dark ships, I'm just curious! Either way, I'm so glad to have you here and you are always welcome on my blog! Whether or not you feel you explore fiction, or anything for that matter, differently than other people, I will always be interested in hearing about your interests. Explore freely, do what makes you happy, no matter what you're interested in it is okay and you're valid for having an interest in that thing! No matter if it's dark fiction or not. And if it is, you aren't a bad person at all for being fixated on those dark fictional ideas. Have fun!
istg antis LOVE selfshipping but still need to put their anti stamps on it, like, bbg, what do you THINK proshipping is?
"WHY DO YOU SHIP YOURSELF WITH A MINOR, YOU CREEP!?"
now, this may be hard to get, but teens have been selfshipping since the birth of fandom and probably longer.
like idk he broke into my house and told me "hi sorry youre hopelessly in love with me now." and proceeded to burrow into my skull, he lives in my brain now. surely theres worse things out there than some teenager having a crush on a flower.
There's a lot of things i noticed on the anti side of selfshipping, where they find it disgusting for a minor to selfship with another minor character but they find it completely acceptable when said minor selfships with an adult character, and there have been plenty of instances of an adult calling a minor a pedo for selfshipping with a character that is, in fact, their age π People of all age groups take up fandom and selfship spaces, I'm not sure where people got the idea that these spaces were only ever filled with adults anyways. Selfshipping itself has been a thing before fandoms and discourse and labels and whatever else, but it did used to be frowned upon for being considered 'weird and unconventional', proshippers are the ones who went 'hey, this is harmless, let people have their fun.' (naturally, as this is the proship mindset). Anyways anon you have your fun and enjoy your selfships and f/os however you want, you are supported and accepted!
For the pro-ship self-shippers who equally enjoy darkships and self-shipping, imagine your f/o making content of your favorite darkships with you as a way to show their support! Whether or not they're the artistically creative type, imagine your f/o still putting in the effort to try. Fics, art, blurbs, edits, roleplay, etc, they'd love to indulge in your interests with you, as a way to get closer with you and as a way to show that they're more than content with the fact that you find entertainment and/or comfort in these fictional scenarios. They think you are SO creative and feel so lucky to be with someone who has such an interesting and creative mind! Oh and yes, this also pertains to if those dark scenarios include them directly!
> Ily proship self-shippers who are in fandoms that are practically overrun by antis, so you struggle to enjoy content of your f/os because of it.
> Ily proship self-shippers who don't feel comfortable or safe enough to post about your self-ships because of how the fandom is, your self-ship is just as valid as anyone else's and the fact you're private about it doesn't take that away!
> Ily proship self-shippers who enjoy making your self-ships dark, toxic, incestuous, etcetc. I also love you if you prefer keeping your self-ships healthy and light.
> Ily proship self-shippers who have hundreds of f/os, and ily proship self-shippers who have only one or very few f/os.
> Ily proship self-shippers who both self-ship with a character and also ship them with other characters. And ily proship self-shippers who are too jealous to do that.
> Ily proship self-shippers who have poly self-ships, and ily if you keep all your self-ships monogamous too!
> Ily proship self-shippers who self-ship for comfort and trauma processing. And ily proship self-shippers who simply do it for fun and entertainment!
> Basically, i just love you proship self-shippers, you are all awesome and deserve as much support as anyone else. If you are a proship self-shipper i'm all open for moots and i'll listen to all your gushes and info-dumps about your self-ships! π«Άπ»
aging your self insert down >>>>>>
Your f/o loves you no matter what. Always remember that, no matter what bad people say to you <3
I've seen all the things from the antis I want to remind everyone of something
Your f/o does NOT want you in jail.
Your f/o does NOT want you to die or hurt yourself.
Your f/o does NOT think you are a bad.
Your f/o does NOT think you are hurting anyone.
Please do not listen to anyone who says otherwise.