Selfshipper - Blog Posts

braiding your f/o’s hair . ( gender doesn’t matter ! ! ) maybe they have really long hair , and you’re just sitting there for a little while , talking about your days as you work — or maybe they have short hair , and you get a teeny tiny one sticking upwards once you tie it . . . go braid it rn /silly /nf

spoiling rich f/os ok post now

rb to have your f/o scratch that itch you just can’t reach

cuddling with f/o . . . all romantic / qpr ( ? )

when they’re super clingy , always finding an excuse to be by your side in public , and behind closed doors they’re smothering themselves all over you !!! holding hands , tangled limbs , head tucked in chest , listening to them ramble about their day or laying in silence together save for quiet breaths — when they’re playing with your hair mindlessly , making sure you remember how much they love you through actions and words ♡

when they’re touch-starved , bashful as they scoot closer to you , unable to figure out the right words to ask to snuggle >__< tentative as they hold you or as you let them get situated in your arms , but melting with all the touch and feeling all your love for them . . . or they’re all stoic and feel so very awkward trying to initiate the touch , and it’s absolutely adorable , but reminds you that they’re warming up to you and trust you — or when you’re the one who’s shy , but they’re so very patient , reminding you how loved you are , going at the pace you need to get comfortable ♡

when they’re almost possesive as they hold you , whispering how much they love you , keeping you all wrapped up in their arms and love , surrounding and entangling both of you in eachother — or where no one is the big or little spoon , you’re both just keeping eachother close , just you two after a long day ♡

when they’ve been busy all day and / or vice versa , and just flop onto you right when they get home — silent together , maybe a movie’s playing in the background , destressing together . . . they only want and tolerate their favorite person right now , you ♡

hey . psst . don’t tell anyone i said this , but i heard from the grapevine f/o is asking about your favorite things . yeah i dunno dude , you got an anniversary or something coming up ? they’re asking everyone . you didn’t hear this from me , but if you do get a little something at your doorstep soon …

videogames with f/o … especially if they absolutely suck at it , and you get to laugh at them for losing again after demanding a sixth rematch — or you’re sitting beside them as they play , muttering over every little thing they’re doing wrong , taking the controller out of their hands to do it yourself ….

or maybe they’re weirdly ( or not-so-weirdly ! ) good at it and demolish you in every game you play — even if it’s something like stardew valley and they’re speedrunning perfection — snickering and looking over at you to watch how angry you get after losing again and again and again , maybe even completely tryharding just to see you get upset …… just sitting together with them after a long day , getting to relax and worry about mundane things rather than the outside world ♡♡♡

changed dividers 4 the vibes

shout out to selfshippers who have lore with their f/o , but it’s just like . oh yeah that happened once . and none of it is connected or makes any sense ; it’s all just spontaneous . because me too

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꒰ঌ about me ໒꒱

[🐾] dazey/milk, 6teen, they/he/neos

[🐾] nonhuman/neutral/masc terms

[🐾] otherkin, fickin, songkin, therian, demihuman.

[🐾] selfshipper, voidpunk, radinclus (not rq)

[🐾] queer + xenogender (& neopronoun) user

[🐾] audhd, schizoaffective, bpd, c-ptsd

[🐾] disabled (seizure disorder)

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꒰ঌ therio-types ໒꒱

[🐾] arctic wolf

[🐾] fox

[🐾] green june beetle

[🐾] border collie

[🐾] small-spotted genet

꒰ঌ kin-types ໒꒱

[🐾] black smoke turkish angora

[🐾] vampirekin

[🐾] fallen-angelkin

꒰ঌ songkins ໒꒱

[🐾] girl anachronism - the dresden dolls

[🐾] ...well, better than the alternative - will wood

[🐾] maggot - dazey and the scouts

[🐾] i might b3 sick - femtanyl

[🐾] black hole - kmfdm

꒰ঌ fictionkin ໒꒱

[🐾] shadow milk cookie - cookie run kingdom

꒰ঌ questioning 'types ໒꒱

[🐾] black forest cookie (cookie run kingdom)

[🐾] music conceptkin

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꒰ঌ more info ໒꒱

[🐾] i am a selfshipper!!!

[🐾] i ALSO have a boyfriend irl! i love him dearly <3

꒰ঌ gender + sexuality ໒꒱

[🐾] nonbinary

[🐾] songflux

[🐾] caninething

[🐾] exhazic

[🐾] sleepinertiac

[🐾] genderfreakish

[🐾] toric (NBLM) & homoflexible

[🐾] demiromantic & demisexual

꒰ঌ neopronouns ໒꒱

[🐾] xe/xem

[🐾] vamp/vamps

[🐾] it/its

[🐾] hx/hxm

[🐾] honk/honks

[🐾] ve/ver

[🐾] moon/moons

[🐾] thing/things

[🐾] that/thats

[🐾] bite/bites

[🐾] fang/fangs

꒰ঌ tag system ໒꒱

here's a link

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꒰ঌ dni ໒꒱

[🐾] I DO NOT have a DNI i dont really mind who interacts :) but keep in mind i am a minor so mdni & nsfw blogs should probably steer away.

[🐾] althouggh.. anti otherkin and bigoted folks should fuck off

OKay so im too embarrassed to share my art but i will drop my f/o list!!! theres only two though

bive (regretevator)

ren hana (BTD)

(DISCLAIMER: I AM NOT A BTD FAN FOR THE KINK OR PROBLEMATIC ASPECTS OF IT. I THINK THE GAME IS STUPIDLY FUNNY.)

should i drop my f/o list and ontop of that post art of my self inserts with them?

hello everyone i bring you a selfship edit..

should i drop my f/o list and ontop of that post art of my self inserts with them?

my f/os are so different from eachother and are so different from my irl boyfriend it makes me wonder if i dont have a type

shoutout to my fellow yumeshippers/selfshippers who also have a partner (or a few) irl btw

🐾 Shows&Paws 🧩. My x Mr Puzzles selfship name <3. Realised I've never came up with a name for it till now, so I sat down and racked my brain to think for a fitting one :) 'Paws' cus I'm a vet and like animals and 'Shows' bc Mr Puzzles is a TV host. I like coming up with creative names (⁠◠⁠⁠ w ◠)

SELFSHIPPERS!! Reblog with your ship name! I’d love to hear about it

Is it a mix of your names, two words that represents you, or maybe just emojis? Bonus points if you share the meaning behind it or how you came up with it! ☆

🎃 HAPPY HALLOWEEN 🎃

Imagine that you and your partner are going to Halloween. Which costumes will you wear as a pair or not? cute or scary? Your partner will still think that the main thing for them is that you are nearby.

They are ready to accept whatever you give them as long as it makes you happy, and if you are happy, then so are they. Even if the costumes are too weird or cute. Or they’re just stupid and don’t care. They will spend this day with you and most importantly, you two will have fun together.

👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻🎃👻

Imagine that you and your partner are dancing at a party - a carnival late at night: “Well, why did I agree to this?” you ask, looking sideways at the crowd of people who were looking at you angrily and whispering about something.

“Just don’t pay attention to them,” your boyfriend answered with a smile looking at you. “Just look at me and enjoy the moment.By the way, you are very beautiful in this outfit. Like the sun in the night.That's why they are jealous.” You just smiled back at him.

- Well... good luck to you then.

- And who invented this love? You don't know about it while you're youngYou don't know why it's needed so much What if tomorrow there is grief or war? WHY IS IT SO HARD TO BREATHE? WHY IS YOUR SOUL TEARING SO MUCH?

(Excerpt from my book chapter ##)

Imagine that while you are sleeping on the sofa you hear the voice of your partner through a dream who sings a song to you: Your love is so beautiful, Yes, I admit - it drove me crazy, but your love is my luminary, your love is so beautiful..... Your love is so beautiful,Your love of these bars is strength,Your love is my only shining light ,Your love is so beautiful.......

I love you not for who you are, but for how I am with you and how you are with me - Your partner once said, holding your hand in the moonlight and looking into your beautiful and bright eyes that warm him even on the coldest day. They would like to drown in them like you in his bright and pure soul.

I don’t understand why you like this autumn so much?” Your partner said, covering himself with his scarf.

Oh come on, autumn is a wonderful time of year. - You answer him and hug him from behind.

Autumn is the saddest time of the year, there is slush and rain everywhere, and there is no sun that warms you in these days of boredom and despondency... Although no, it still exists and it has always been with me. - Your partner says kissing your forehead while you laugh quietly.

My strength is that I don't need any of you.

* Except for him.....*

And in his head there is always one name .... And in his head there is only this name, only these eyes, only this voice...

(Excerpt from the Prologue from the book.)

- Come here, - please. - Give me a hug, please. I'm starting to think...

-Think about what?

- Just think. And I can't do that right now.

(Excerpt from my book)

She found a reliable shoulder, which she did not even reach.. - Said the first voice who watched you and your spouse dancing together. And without paying attention to anyone in the audience.

He found his own personal ray of sunshine, which shone on him even at night..- The second voice replied with a smile on his face, looking at how happy you are with your love for the rest of your life.It was your love that shone so strongly even in the dark of the dark color of the moon.And he only warmed you up a lot these days like a little moth.

Imagine that on one of the most ordinary days, your Partner is approached by his colleague / friend or relative and asks him while you are not around why they love you so much that they cannot leave you alone for at least one day.

On our first meeting. She asked so many questions that I didn't understand why she needed to know all this, but now I understand... SHE was the ONLY ONE interested in my life, she was the ONLY ONE who needed me so damn much... - Your partner says, ignoring the surprise on the part of the interlocutor. He just looked at yours while you were walking towards him with a smile on your face and he couldn't hold it back either.

I'll pull the curtains, come up, hug you from behind, I love you to Venus - It's further than to the moon. - Your husband once said, looking at the stars in the moonlit sky while you were lying on his lap and looking at the map of the starry sky.

And my love for you is like the whole universe in space, or maybe in the world? Who will sort it out, but one thing I know for sure is that I love you so firmly that they will not be able to break it even in the shadow of nothingness. - You said then, looking at your partner and his very beautiful eyes that decorated his smile.They were imprinted in your memory then forever.

Imagine that your partner whispers to you before falling asleep: My love for you is pure, I just believe in miracles. I don't want to lose you, I want to hug you. And every day, and every hour. I love you like I do now. And this night I will not sleep, I will drown In your eyes. Close your eyes. I will be near. You will feel me. I'll take as long as I need to. I'll be there for you.

A breakdown won't help you in any way - You tell your spouse leaning on the doorjamb. Do you understand that?

Shut up, there's nothing you can do to help me right now...... So get the fuck out of here!!! - Says your partner, still sitting on the chair and covering his face with his hands.

You know perfectly well that he didn't do it on purpose, so you come close to him looking at his covered face.

You really think I'm going to leave," you reply, tilting your head. Best of all, tell me what happened.

When you sit on the table and ask for your hands on your chest, your partner doesn't say anything and just lies down on your lap. Comfort is what you can give them now and love into the bargain.And when he calms down, he will tell you everything himself, and now your love and silence are all they need so far.

What a charm, no matter how much I look at you, I'm always surprised by your beauty, - Says your partner while you stand with your back to him and thoughtfully look at a bouquet of daffodils.

Is this flattery or a compliment? - You ask him without looking up.

This is a comment for your self-esteem. - The answer does not take long to wait and it comes to you. I really like looking into your eyes while hugging you around the waist and the way you smile from it.

-You don't know how to make me sad even if you're very far away from me. - You say, understanding the hint in his words and with pleasure you pull him to you and kiss him on the lips.

You and I are like Yin and Yang," - Said your companion, looking at the book that was written in Chinese.

What makes you think that?

Because they seem to be opposites, but they fit each other so well that you forget that they are opposites. - He replied and took a sip from his coffee cup .

Well, since you say that, it means that you really are Yang to me. And I'm your Yin. - You said, coming closer to your spouse and hugging him around the neck for a passionate kiss.

You are the most desirable- you tell your F/o looking at how she circles with you in the dance.

No, you are the most cherished gift from fate," she says and continues to smile looking into your beautiful eyes.