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Hi this isn't really like fun or hot in itself but I just wanna say that I came across your blog recently and reading through all of your writing and asks has been really helpful for me in terms of getting over body and sexual insecurity. I'm especially happy to find an account where the user and their community isn't so clearly negatively fetishistic and degrading (in your own words, "no talking about gaining weight as "ruining" him" or any other negative or gross stuff). It's really nice to see someone being positive and soft and domestic, even with the goblin brain stuff, and to have a place where stuff I'm a fan of can mingle with the kinky stuff openly and without total perversion. It's like a sweet lil safe space honestly.
I think I'm not making any sense, but just know that I thank you. I enjoy your posts and I appreciate you. <3
This means so much to me! I really appreciate this message 🥰🥰🥰
It sometimes feels like a difficult needle to thread, but it seems logical to me. Right? It's like you can have kinky stuff like stuffing/teasing/light degradation but with the understanding that like everyone who is participating in it is doing so consensually. Like it's a fantasy I'm writing usually so I don't have them verbally check in with each other but I certainly would if I were trying to negotiate a scene like this with a partner irl.
I just know as a kinky fat person that like a lot of fat positive stuff is really vanilla and there's way too much openly negative fetishistic stuff around online, but I want to be a part of making a space to talk about fat and kink in a way that's, like, self aware I guess
I'm just glad you feel safe and enjoy it all! 🥰🥰