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having a tc is hard. eveyone knows the feeling of going blank when youre around your tc, or stumbling and choking on your words when you try to speak to them. so i decided to compile a list of tips that i have used that have worked for me (an extremely shy and awkward person) get close to my (extremely closed off/cold-ish) tc. if you're looking for ways to start a conversation with your tc and make that leap into a more casual relationship - read on.
these tips work well for when you're both online and on-campus :)
this is a very good way to talk to your tc when everyone is stuck at home during online school. how many times have you seen a dog running across the frame in your tc's class? or heard meows in the background? if this every happens, take the leap and ask your tc (preferably after class as not to derail) what their pets name is. when i did this my tc even she sent me some pictures! it's a great conversation starter and you can ask about the pet again in the future :)
this one is a little trickier and more nerve-wracking and it can be difficult depending on what class your tc teaches, but making the leap is really important. to do this, you have to first be having a class discussion in your tc's class. for example, one time we were learning about how different cultures celebrate christmas. so i casually asked L how she'd be celebrating and spending her holiday. this turned into a conversation and brought us slightly closer together. asking your tc personal questions related to what you're learning is great, it shows them you're interested in both them and the class and everybody loves talking about themselves.
i know everyone has sat and waited a couple minutes before joining a google meet so that they aren't alone with the teacher, but joining early when it's just the two of you can create some really good conversations. it's scary and you have to be quick, but joining quickly and giving a quick 'hi! how are you?' can create a friendly relationship between you. adding in a 'how was your weekend?' can create a great conversation as-well.
this is an obvious one, but asking your tc for help or reaching out to them for guidance is a great way to talk to them. if you have assignments or assessments in their class, you can ask for advice or for them to check on your work. the worst part about this tip is actually coming up with a question to ask, lol. you can confirm due dates, clarify details, and ask a quedtion about what to do or how to do something.
everyone likes getting complimented, and when we're online it can be a great way to lift up your tc's mood. i wouldn't go too far with compliments, i'd stick with things like 'i like your shirt' or "cool earrings!'. another great opportunity is complimenting your tc if they get a new haircut or change something about their appearance. one time, my tc got bangs and i complimented her. this became a conversation and that was one of the first times i really spoke to her! and if you're worried about being weird or obvious, there have been countless times when ive complimented other teachers on their jewelery or clothes. its alwayd been recieved well.
keeping engaged and active during a class is really difficult to do, especially whenever we're online. a good way to create a good relationship with your tc is engaging in their class! obviously, dont be obnoxious or rude, but answering questions and making jokes can be a great way to liven up a lesson. if your tc asks 'how are you guys' in your class and nobody says anything, take the leap and answer! it can be awkward and really scary, but trust me it's worth it. don't let your tc's questions go unanswered.
Decided to spruce up some questions for this month. 🎈
Feel free to repost and do this yourself! Have fun, and remember to stay safe.
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1.) What is one trait you found in your TC(s) that you find irreplacable, and why?
2.) If they were here right now, and you could tell them absolutely anything, what would you say?
3.) What kind of date do you think your TC(s) would love to go on the most? Where would you take them?
4.) What movie would you like to watch with your TC? What about the movie you chose makes you want to experience it with them?
5.) Is there a symbol that reminds you of them? A specific tune, animal, color, or shape that just screams their name?
6.) What do you think your TC(s) were like when they were your age? Do you think they ever had a TC as well?
7.) What's one song you want to sing with your TC(s)? Is there a specific reason you chose the song you did?
8.) If you could assign any specific aesthetic to your TC(s) for any reason at all, what would you pick?
9.) What scenario do you imagine the most when thoughts of your TC(s) pop into your mind?
10.) What outfit would you absolutely love to see your TC(s) in? What types of outfits do they usually like to wear?
11.) How would you react if you overheard them rambling to a friend about how amazing you are? How would they react to your feelings?
12.) Who do you believe would be the better cook out of the two of you?
13.) Where in the world would you like to go with your TC(s)?Why did you choose that area?
14.) Happy Valentine's Day! What would be one of the first things you would do with your TC(s) on this day if you could?
15.) What's something little they do that you find absolutely adorable?
16.) Have you ever looked up their name on the internet to potentially learn more about them?
17.) What is the sweetest thing they have ever done for you? What about you, for them?
18.) What's a season that you think they enjoy the most? What about the least? Why?
19.) Do you ever find yourself doodling them, or writing things about them during class/at home?
20.) What house pet do you think you two would have, if any at all? Would you have one pet for each of you?
21.) How do you think your TC(s) would treat their loved ones? Would they be soft around them? Would they be playful and snarky?
22.) Are there any signs you've found that they may consider you a favorite over others? Have they ever told you this outright?
23.) Do you ever think they'd make their own student crush blog about you if they knew about the tag?
24.) What is the fondest thing they've ever said to you? Do you remember how you responded?
25.) How do you think they react when someone speaks your name?
26.) Have you ever had a look or touch between you two that lingered for longer than it should've?
27.) Have you ever purposely tried to lag behind to spend as much time with them as possible before class ended?
28.) Are you planning to let them know how you feel after graduation?
Thank you for reading! Have a fun February everyone! ~