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Anyone else relate to these ace moods?
1) thinking you just have really high standards
2) thinking you have a very specific type which you haven’t found yet
3) thinking other people are joking
4) not realizing the song was about sex
5) thinking movies and tv are over dramatizing it
6) thinking movie and tv is accurate but like how???
7) not knowing which one it is
8) wondering when you’ll turn out to be gay
Aspec playlist
Disclaimer: these are just the ways others and myself have perceived the song. Art is all about perception so if you don’t see it that way then that’s fine!
This is home by Cavetown (aro)
I would do anything for love (but I won’t do that) by meatloaf (ace)
This is gospel by Panic! (you can interpret this as aro or aroace even though that’s not technically what the songs about)
That’s so us by Allie X (could be seen as aroace friendship)
Solo by Clean Bandit (demisexual)
Hey look ma, I made it by Panic! At the Disco (asexual)
Never been in love by Will Jay (aro and aroace)
You matter to me by Sara Bareilles (all aspec and everyone in general)
Ace of hearts by Zella Day (ace)
If our love is wrong by Callum Scott (ace)
The other by Tonight Alive (aroace, all aspec)
Wild Things by Alessia Cara (all aspec)
My song by Alessia Cara (all aspec)
Songs with no romantic or sexual meaning:
When I asked if anyone would be interested in me making this a lot of people made it clear they wanted songs that weren’t romantic or sexual so I made this extra playlist of songs that have some kind of deep meaning, a lot have to do with mental illness.
Disconnect by clean bandit and marina and the Diamonds
Better off dead by sleeping with sirens (tw: mentions of wanting death, suicidal thoughts)
Anklebiters by Paramore
Monster by Paramore
Fear and loathing by Marina and the Diamonds
Morning I’m America by Jon Bellion
Dizzy by Waterparks
How to Save a Life by The Fray
Daydreamer by Young the Giant
Don’t dream it’s over by Crowded House
I’ll be good by Jaymes Young
We’ve got soul by Chapel
I’m not calling you a liar by Florence and the Machine
Talk to me by Cavetown
Earth by Sleeping at Last
Stupid Now by Drew Monson
Waves by Tonight Alive
Not so bad in LA by Allie X
Two Time by Jack Stauber
Choirs by Ashe
We fall apart by we as human
Runaway train by soul asylum
Drift away by Dobie Gray
Stay out by Nina Nesbitt
Spirits by the strumbellas
Idaho by Nerina Pallot
December by Ambershades
Marianne by Tori Amos
In the 99 by Vienna Teng
Alone in Crowds by Uhre
Maybe Not by Cat Power
Ran and File by Moses Sumney
Stoned Soul Picnic by Laura Nyro
Isolde’s Very Insightful Views on Going To
Work and Suicide by beißpony
This Is Me by Davey La
Photograph by Satellites
If All I Was Was Black by Mavis Staples
The Girl Who Broke in Two by Paul
Freeman
Shadow Room by Craig and Paul Freeman
Hooray for Tom by Bruce Hornsby
Heroes by 100 Year War
Jimmy Choos by Rickie Lee Jones
Pet Cemetery by Joe Innes & The
Cavalcade
Medusa by Tyler Lyle
The Minnow and the Trout by A Fine Frenzy
5th Avenue Bar by Dylan LeBlanc
The Grass is Green by Nelly Furtado
Ether Halo by John MacLeod
Something Worth Voting For by DC Cardwell
We’re All Mad In Our Own Way by Natasha Bedingfield
Small Talk by Spleen
Bird set free by Sia
Unstoppable by Sia
(Note: I will be adding to this regularly, if you have any songs you want me to add then let me know)
Anyone else relate to these ace moods?
1) thinking you just have really high standards
2) thinking you have a very specific type which you haven’t found yet
3) thinking other people are joking
4) not realizing the song was about sex
5) thinking movies and tv are over dramatizing it
6) thinking movie and tv is accurate but like how???
7) not knowing which one it is
8) wondering when you’ll turn out to be gay
Day 26 – ”Ace pride”
Cause this week is Ace awareness week!✨And yes, it’s part of the LGBT+ community, and every orientation that falls under its umbrella is totally valid!
asexual warrior for ace awareness week!
These are the asexual YouTubers you need to go check out right now
1 Emi
2 Rowan
3 Aaron
4 Ellie
5 Amelia
6 Vesper
7 Damian
8 Echo
9 Chandler
10 Christine
*Kicks down door and breaks into your house* BE AWARE OF ASEXUALITY BITCH!!!!!!
On this week, one year ago, I came out for the first time, to my best friend. Her good reaction encouraged me to be progressively more open about it ever since. Today I’m able to confidently say it: I’m ace, I’m proud, and the world can die mad about it. Happy asexual awareness week you beautiful people! Love, support and respect your ace-spec friends and relatives!!
(Click the images for better quality. This comic and this story really mean a lot to me and I’d be forever grateful if you could reblog it! Thanks!)
Hey y’all, with Asexual Awareness Week coming up (Oct 21-27th this year) here are a few things to remember!
• Asexuals are part of the LGBTQ+ community
• Asexuality is real
• Aces can choose not to celebrate/participate in any way
• Aces have every right to be proud of their identity
• Aces are lgbt+ regardless of their romantic orientation.
• Aces aren’t “basically straight” or any other complaint exclusionists have
• Asexuality is an orientation just like any other as well as a spectrum
• Greysexuals, Demisexuals, Cupiosexual, etc are all valid and also have a right to celebrate this week
• Ace Men exist
• Nonbinary Aces exist
• Not every Ace is Cis
• Exclusionists/Gatekeepers/etc are not welcome here
• AroAces exist
• Ace WLW exist
• Ace MLM exist
• Ace nblnb / nblm / nblw exist
• Aces of color exist
• Disabled Aces exist
• Mentally ill Aces exist
• There are Aces of many different races/genders/ages/religions/etc
• Whether you’re an Ace still struggling with their orientation or an Ace who’s proud, or any other type of Ace, Asexual Awareness Week is for you and you’re valid regardless.
Feel free to add on!
It’s Asexual Awareness Week
So, as an asexual person myself, I’ve decided to give some reminders for all you lovely ace people.
You are valid
You are real
You are a part of the LGBT community
You can have a fulfilling relationship without sex
If you feel like you aren’t fulfilling your partner because you don’t have sex, you are wrong, your partner would not be with you if they didn’t feel fulfilled
Although, if your partner claims they aren’t fulfilled because you aren’t having sex with them, dump their ass and find someone who respects you
You can be ace no matter your age, gender, race, etc.
IT’S OKAY TO BE ACE AND LIKE SEX
IT’S OKAY TO BE ACE AND LIKE SEX
IT’S OKAY TO BE ACE AND LIKE SEX
You do not have to be aromantic to be ace (I’m a biromantic ace myself)
However, aro-ace people are just as valid
You are not obligated to explain the nuances of your asexuality to anyone unless you’re planning to have sex with them
TW - SEXUAL ASSAULT
Having been assaulted is not always why you’re asexual, but sometimes, having been assaulted is why you’re asexual. Both are valid. (change made here because what I wrote earlier wasn’t phrased well)
TW OVER
You are not “broken”
You are not a “prude”
Demisexuals, Greysexuals, Cupiosexuals, and anyone else on the ace spectrum are also valid
But, most of all
You are loved
Happy Asexual Awareness Week!
“If you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You’re doing things you’ve never done before, and more importantly, you’re Doing Something.”
— Neil Gaiman (via quotebook-in)
“Sarcastic people tend to be marshmallows underneath the armor.”
— Stephen King (via quotemadness)
I got my heart broken and I survived, I failed 3 courses in university and graduated, I got rejected in the very first job I applied for and got promoted yesterday, I went through hard times with my family but then two years later, we laughed our hearts out over lunch, The closest friends disappointed me several times but I made new friends and loved them with all my heart. I did it once, I can do it again.
Hey. Do you need a hug?
Maybe you’re having a stressful day. Maybe you just need a deep breath. Maybe you just didn’t realize how stressed you are. It’s okay! You deserve love and warmth in your life.
Are you comforted by words?
Here’s an Emergency Compliment
Here are some kind words you can personalize with your name
Here are 15 more emergency compliments
Here is a Self Esteem Boosting Confidence Machine
take a moment - video
believe in yourself - video
Inspiration from Jacksepticeye - PMA
encouragement from Mr. Rogers - video
you are ENOUGH - video
Do you need to hear some pleasant ambient sounds?
How about rain sounds you can customize?
You can listen to a cafe here
or how about a crackling fireplace?
ASMR? Stimming?
Soap cutting ASMR - video
more soap ASMR - video
a 4 hour ASMR video to help with sleep
ASMR face and scalp massage - video
ASMR slime - video
the most satisfying video in the world
more satisfying videos
Lora Zombie speed painting - video
Agnes Cecile speed painting - video
the fastest workers in the world - video
how candy canes are made - video
Mr. Rogers shows how crayons are made - video
How about a game or activity distraction?
Play 2048 here
A whole website of free games!
play chess against a computer
Here are some coloring pages you can do online!
Play Flow online here
here’s a game where you stretch a giraffe’s little neck to give kisses
Learn about the history of life on earth with PBS Eons
Do you need something soothing?
Control the pattern of rain here! (flashing colors warning)
try doing nothing for two minutes
Vent to a stranger online for FREE!
weavesilk, where you can create a soothing pattern
have you ever been to the nicest place on the internet?
watch Bob Ross bring joy to painting - playlist
How about a laugh?
Vines you can show your grandparents
History of the entire world, I guess
History of Japan
Rhett and Link caption fails
Thomas Sanders Vines
The Demented Cartoon Movie (warning for flashing colors)
The ASDF movie 1-11
The Horribly Slow Murderer with the Extremely Inefficient Weapon by Richard Gale (warnings for some bruises and some violence)
Rhett and Link VS Hank Green - SHUT UP AND DANCE
It’s going to be okay. Today may be the worst day of your life - but tomorrow won’t be. Life is a series of ups and downs, and that means there’s going to be good and bad. Drink some water, let yourself cry if you need to, and get a good night’s sleep. You’ll feel better in the morning.
My only moods are
High empathy
Anxious Anxious anxious!!
I AM GOD
Dissociate
The pure embodiment of rage
Asgard, finally settling in Norway to repopulate: So, what are the Nordic lands famous for since we were last here? Swordsmanship? Hunting parties? Bloodbaths?!?!
Millenial sipping iced coffee: Abba
Asgard: ???
Asgard, twenty minutes later bopping to Dancing Queen:
Source
“Too many young girls don’t know how to act when someone’s being inappropriate with them. They giggle or they try to brush it off. Don’t do that. Tell them to go fuck themselves - be a bitch. If someone’s being disrespectful to you, be disrespectful right back. Show them the same amount of respect that they show you.”
— Wise words from my mom (via idioticteen)
Friend has the sad???!!??!!!!!
I’m coming friend I’ll save you from the sad!!
I am here now you’re going to be okay!!!
You are so beautiful and i love you!!!
Bad Cats.
Coming Out
it’s me! yay!
You are a supervillain with the power of giving life. You wish to conquer the world. Only two problems - a superhero who always manages to stop your plans, and the fact that they have power of death.
An old and homely grandmother accidentally summons a demon. She mistakes him for her gothic-phase teenage grandson and takes care of him. The demon decides to stay at his new home.
I’ve always loved Peter Pan, that was such a wonderful ending
A powerful witch runs away after the villagers try to execute her, couple years later children randomly start disappearing. She’s taking abused children away from their parents and raising them in the woods. But once they grow up and leave, they forget how to get to the witch’s house and their memories of her become blurry.
Everyone has the name of their supposed soulmate printed on the inside of your wrist. You, however, are defiant, and begin dating someone that’s not your soulmate. It turns out that not meeting someone with the magic expectation that you’re ‘meant to be for each other and will get married and live happily ever after’ actually made you two get along pretty well, and you’re now deeply in love with them. However, after several years of dating this person, both your and your S.O.’s real ‘soulmates’ find you, and they’re both furious that you didn’t wait for them.
the thing is, somebody cares. i know your best friend seems really busy all the time and is shit at texting but she still loves you and she talks to you more than she talks to anyone else and you’re the only breath of calm she has on this planet. the boy in your science class loves seeing what music you’re listening to on your headphones - he has the same taste and wishes he had the nerve to ask you about it. your english teacher loves the insight you have on your papers. somebody cares. the person who lives down the street from you notices when you are sick because they don’t see you stomping your way to the schoolbus - it’s how they know it’s time to get their breakfast ready. somebody is looking for you at the party, even if they don’t know they’re really looking for you - but when you don’t show up, some part of them is disappointed. somebody is looking for you in the library, in the spot where you eat lunch, in front of that one step you always seem to trip on. i know your parents are a complicated mess and there’s drama between your friends and your love life is sort of shaped like a constant question and everybody seems all caught up in their own lives and their own happiness and nobody really notices: but somebody always does. every face in your dreams is someone you have met, and that means that you are in a million’s stranger’s heads. they see you when they go to bed. and somebody cares. somebody still thinks about you even though you were just a person with a nice outfit or good eyeliner or a great smile or because you were having one of those moments that are so charmingly human in nature or because they regret not asking if you needed help when you fell or because they wonder what you were thinking about or drawing or writing or just because you’re alive, and that makes you fascinating. somebody cares. when you were on break from work and saw a dog hanging his head out of the car and suddenly broke into a smile: there was a girl in the back of that car, and I was her, and I still think about you, and i hope you get more chances to smile like that. and there is you, sitting here reading this, and by some small extension, meeting me, and i am telling you, I care. somebody always does. i promise. i promise. you are loved.
to anyone having a bad day im so sorry also here are some pictures of baby elephants
feel better friend
hell-atus shows rec (づ｡◕‿‿◕｡)づ
I’m so glad someone agrees that Dark is WAY better than Stranger Things
reasons why dark (netflix) is way much better than stranger things:
the main storyline is way just much clever in every way
the (main) characters are just more interesting and every single one of them are important for the plot
every chapter has a plot twist
the cinematography!!!! is just a+
it’s more aesthetic and beautiful
the scenarios are just so gorgeous
the music!!!!
it doesn’t need supernatural elements to give you chills
it will make you think much more
it’s in german and it helps me to improve my german!
stranger things is a nice show, but dark is another level
