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When you're a beta loser, you quickly become aware of how sexually disappointing you are to women which then quickly turns into fear and performance anxiety when even thinking about having sex with women. Many beta losers then make the mistake of believing they could at least satisfy a crossdresser. After all, we're often told they have low standards and a high sex drive so surely we could please them at the very least. But this is a false narrative that beta males need to understand. The reality is that you would not be able to please a crossdresser because you are a loser, and losers chronically find ways to disappoint sexually no matter who it is. So yes, even a crossdresser, even a non-passable crossdresser would be highly unimpressed by you and begin mocking and humiliating you almost immediately. This is why we exist at the very bottom of the sexual food chain and why we genuinely deserve zero sex from ANYONE. Beta losers have no business even considering sex unless it's with our own hand and while thinking about how great someone ELSE'S sex must be. A loser never pictures himself having sex... EVER

I'm not an advocate of findomme but at least her priorities align perfectly with a beta loser's own personal beliefs. When you're a loser, this is exactly the sort of woman you inevitably obsess over and fall in love with. A beta loser always loves and fully supports the needs of the women who are the most unattainable to him ♥️

The anatomy of the perfect woman for a beta loser male. These are all the traits that losers are helplessly drawn too and ultimately crave in a woman more than anything else. To a loser this IS "the nice girl". Losers spend their time obsessing and swooning over the women that hate them and reject them the very most. This is most likely because these are also the women that forcibly ensure a loser knows exactly how much of a loser he truly is, and makes him feel exactly like he's supposed to feel, worthless. These women need to be celebrated in life ♥️

When you're an enlightened beta loser you already know there is only one allowable place to stare when encountering a woman out in public or even in the office and hint...it's definitely not above the ankles. A good loser who strives to embrace his status at all times intently stares at her shoes. Not only does this show that you hold women in high esteem and understand your position in life but it also quickly lets them know that you're definitely creepy and not at all deserving of the time of day. In one small simple gesture you've not only shown respect but also made it clear not to waste a shred of time on you. You've also now reinforced your acceptance of your position in life. This is extremely important to practice every chance you get, and as they say, practice does make perfect. After awhile it just becomes something you do unconsciously and without effort. You'll come to deeply enjoy the rejection and sneers this brings you day to day

When you're an enlightened beta loser, you learn that a well worn pair of women's heels slowly replaces your entire concept about what sex should look and feel like for losers. Fondling a gorgeous well worn shoe, sniffing it, licking it, showing it love while you caress it and slowly run it across your bare skin is as close to a woman as a loser will ever get, and is as close to pure intimacy that a loser will ever experience with a woman. The shoe is by nature an extension of her very essence and aura and as such it is a privilege to be able to spend intimate time with it. Whether you have to sneak them from under a coworkers desk, buy them at a second hand store, or better yet run an ad begging for well worn shoes from a random stranger...a loser should always put maximal effort into finding himself an ongoing supply of well worn shoes to love and forge true relationships with. A truly enlightened loser will even condition himself to crave her shoes and genuinely miss her shoes when he is out or when at work and then race home at the end of the day to be reunited with his love in order to devote all of his attention to them for the remainder of the evening. This is called the state of beta bliss

An excellent example of beta loser porn. When you're a loser, your entire fixation and focus should be on the soles of a woman's boots. Your thoughts should be monopolized by obsessing over how incredible the filth would taste if you were only given a chance to clean them with your tongue. You should never be thinking of any other part of her body. This is the ONLY place you should ever look when showing your respect for a woman whether you cross paths in the real world or when looking at porn. A true beta loser learns he can more than meet all of his own perverse and disgusting needs simply by immersing himself in the beauty and perfection of her well worn dirty boots. A loser neither needs or deserves any additional forms of attention

The work is not always glamorous but when you're a loser you put forward your very best effort regardless of the situation. If a woman tells you to lick her shoes or boots, you drop to the ground immediately and without hesitation, passionately make love to those soles with your tongue no matter what disgusting mess you find, and you show her just how thankful you are. Given you may never get another opportunity in your lifetime, never waste even a second adoring this moment and proving your worth. This is the loser equivalent to blazing hot sex and every bite of the filth you're consuming should bring you incredible joy and leave you more than thankful

Always worth a reshare and serious considering. On your path to being comfortable and at peace with who and what you are, mantras help mould and guide us on our journey and help to reinforce our new belief system about ourselves. Mantras are powerful reminders, especially when we say them aloud using our own voice... Saying them aloud breaks down any of the false narrative or resistance we may have left about who we truly are. I very strongly encourage all beta losers to review this list and repeat them out loud whenever you have the opportunity, preferably several times a day and definitely any time you even consider touching yourself. By reciting these statements and believing in them, you're greatly helping yourself to get where you truly belong... Mantras are truly invaluable, and every one of these statements apply to you when you're a loser. Help yourself to get closer and closer to your personal truth by becoming comfortable in defining your very essence by using these terms and statements above about yourself. Celebrate yourself as being an unfuckable loser and further your journey today by using these beautiful daily mantras ♥️

When you're an enlightened beta loser you inevitably find yourself loving this exact situation. All of the women you crush over and obsess about are taken by real men and fucking them passionately on a regular basis. And while she moans his name between gasps, the last person she'd even remotely be thinking about is you. A loser knows his crush doesn't care about him. A loser knows that it's his job to only hump his fist to thoughts of how amazing and gorgeous she looks all intertwined with her real man boyfriend. A loser never wastes an ounce of thought on being the one she's with. Saying your daily mantras is helpful here...you should openly recite out loud over and over "he fucks, I suck. He fucks, I suck." "All for him... nothing for me. All for him... nothing for me" "She wants a man, not a disgusting loser. She wants a man, not a disgusting loser". Let the shame wash over you and replace your desire for love. Shame is beta love

When you're a beta loser, you allow everything about pussy to terrify you and you allow the mere thought of pussy to make you very uncomfortable. A well behaved beta goes out of his way to ensure he never sees pussy. A beta knows that he has no business with pussy. Pussy is for real men....not for those of us that would otherwise only disappoint women with our lack of sexual skills. Seeing a woman fully clothed in regular clothing is as close to pussy as a loser should ever allow himself to get

If you've learned to train your eyes in the appropriate beta loser manner, then you would know that you should be constantly looking downwards at women's shoes and never upwards at women themselves. If you're enlightened about this necessary act of respect then it shouldn't matter whether she has a bulge or whether she doesn't or whether she's a she or a he. All that should matter is your pure desire to serve in any way possible, big or small and the possibility that you may get to amuse her or disgust her by licking her shoes clean

Update on my last post... Definitely a beta pride post. Like I've said many many times on my blog, you need to put forth the ultimate effort each and every time, regardless of your personal feelings and how humbling or embarrassing the task is... I'm thrilled with how clean I was able to get these. It took a very long time given the cum was dried onto these, and two loads worth at that...but this is the result of actual effort

When you're a loser, you know you're going to be asked to do some crazy and filthy things along the way for your wife/gf/crush's amusement. Here is a perfect example. My wife thought it would be funny to have her boyfriend shoot his load all over one of her shoes. She then promptly smeared it all in and gave it to me. She wouldn't allow me to clean it right away however. She wanted her boyfriend's cum to fully dry and almost "cure" itself to the show to make my life even more challenging. Fast forward to last night where my wife and her boyfriend came home drunk with Michelle and her boyfriend and my wife happily embarrassed me by showing them all the shoe that was 'curing' and that I was going to clean up with my mouth. Michelle never being one to miss an opportunity to make me look pathetic and stupid took the shoe and her boyfriend into the bathroom and came out about 5 minutes later and rudely hissed "there you go loser now you can enjoy my boyfriend's spunk too. You are so damn fucking gross". So now that two alpha men's cum is coating my wife's heel and fully dried I'm finally allowed and expected to make it spotless and to thank both Derek and Michelle via text once it's complete describing the taste and how much I enjoyed it

Before even remotely recognizing that this is a cross dressing boi...the losers looking at this photo were staring at the sole of her left shoe and saw the dust and dirt and started dreaming about cleaning all of that off with their tongue... No loser looked at her first. They totally saw the dirty shoe outstretched first. Don't deny it #betasex ♥️

This look of disinterest and disdain is something I'm very familiar with any time my wife's best friend Michelle comes over. She despises me and really really enjoys putting me in my place and loves putting her shoes and boots in my face while she talks away with my wife about what's up in their lives... I've spent a lot of time on the receiving end of this and while Michelle clearly finds my behavior and involuntary response to be utterly disgusting and pathetic, my wife finds the whole dynamic between Michelle and I to be hilarious and continues to encourage these sorts of moments

If only this was a real thing lol. There would be a 40 inch stack of applications from beta losers like us from all over the world. EVERY loser deep down feels the urge and need to submit and serve. EVERY last one. Even those still on their journey towards true enlightenment and making peace with themselves over who they really are still hears that whisper inside their head... I say embrace that need in any possible way you can every day in the real world...from simple acts of submission at work or when out and about to overt obvious acts of submission. Whatever it takes, whenever an opportunity presents itself. It'll make you feel amazing and like you have a purpose ♥️

I used to desire pussy and I used to think of myself as a man. That said my wife took the time to show me that I'm actually a loser and should never ever want pussy ever again. She showed me how much of a simp and a weak willed pushover I am, she showed me just how pathetic I am at sex, particularly because I don't even last 20 seconds. She showed me just how badly my performance was impacting her happiness. She confided in a few of her friends and then had them verbalize and reinforce these same messages to me. They laughed at how bad I am at sex. They taunted me at times. They talked down to me and took my wife out on girls nights so she could meet real men that are the opposite of what I am. It wasn't long until the cuckold ultimatum came. If I was going to stay then I would have to accept her seriously dating and that I would be getting nothing sexual from her and that there would be humiliating tasks in my future. I was terrified and I was at times on the fence. But she knew I would give in and not say no to her. Today I'm happier than I have ever been. I'm free from performance anxiety and worries over blowing my load too quickly. I get to live sex vicariously through my wife's antics with her boyfriend. I accept my place at the bottom and accept all the degrading things that come along. I not only embrace them but look forward to them. That IS sex for a beta loser. I could never leave at this point. Pussy legitimately terrifies me and scares me. I do not want pussy any longer and never will. Pussy is not for me. Pussy is for men like my wife's boyfriend and all of his friends. I am a loser and I'm proud to be a loser. I am finally exactly where I belong and want to be

When you're an enlightened beta you come to truly appreciate the truth in this statement. A beta loser is incapable of satisfying a woman and typically either cums far too quickly, has a small penis, or simply has horrible bedroom skills. Losers should feel anxiety when thinking about sex because they really are a disappointment in every way. This is why all losers should devote themselves to being pussy free and fist fuckers only. If you somehow have a wife or a gf you should have this conversation with them immediately. Beg them to cut you off and beg them to find a better man than you to fuck regularly. It is your responsibility to ensure they have the best life possible, and if they're stuck with you as their sexual partner and having to pretend sex is good with you to spare your feelings day after day then they are NOT living their best life and that is all your fault. Tell your partner how much happier you'd be if she'd cut you off completely and how much happier you'd be if she was fucking someone else. Promise to buy her all new dresses, jewelry, lingerie and shoes. Promise to pay for her dates. Promise to do all the housework. Promise her the world to show her just how much happier you'd be if she finally just saw you as the worthless loser you are... This is your place in the world and your responsibility to help her realize this. Set yourself free, as well as her. Your life will immediately get better once all your anxieties about sex and poor performance are a thing of the past...

If I have sufficiently simped enough throughout the week, my wife will often mock me and ridicule me and then finally give me a pair of her well worn dirty shoes to entertain myself with prior to heading out for the night with her boyfriend. This is not simply for my own perverted beta pleasure though. While she is aware that I'll be fondling them all night long, her expectation is that they come back to her entirely clean and as spotless as possible which includes the soles of her shoes. Her rules also include no rags or towels. The cleaning has to be completed with my mouth and tongue only. While she often makes it very clear that she finds this act disgusting and repulsive, and can't believe someone would ever agree to such a request, I go above and beyond to complete this task with the utmost of love and adoration every single time. While she's out fucking and sucking and God knows what else, I am home alone in heaven gently licking and caressing and loving on her dirty worn shoes. I wouldn't want it any other way

When you're a beta loser, everyone is out of your league. You reside at the very bottom. While these gurls are out having an amazing night and hooking up, you're at home alone with your fist imagining how incredible the sex they're having must be, and how good it must feel. Let go of any and all jealousy about this. Embrace your solo sexual nature. Sex is not for you and will never be for you. The best it will ever get is imagining others having great sex. Be grateful and happy that you're fully rejected and denied any and all opportunities for sex. It's all a loser will ever deserve ♥️

To put your mind in the right frame of reference, the answer is yes. Even they are above you significantly. And as such no, you won't ever stand a chance with either one of them. They'd look down on you and reject you just like they should. As a loser you should observe the rules and never look them in the eyes. Always approach with your eyes fully cast downwards at their shoes and you should never ever speak without being spoken too first. If they ridicule you and make fun of you, or think you're disgusting and gross, the only word you should meekly utter is 'thank you'. Find peace in your place and learn to love yourself in the process. Being treated poorly and rejected by all forms of women is your place in life and it can feel very good if you finally give in and accept it. You were born for this. There is no need to lie to yourself or fight it

When you're an enlightened loser the harsh reality is that even an older manly looking crossdresser is far above you on the sexual food chain has greater sexual opportunities than you ever will. Even if by some miracle you were to date this gurl you'd only be a complete disappointment to her. She would be cheating on you and cuckolding you in literally no time at all. This is because even these gurls want an alpha male and not some weak willed beta loser like yourself. The only thing you could possibly offer to this gurl would be your total servitude as well as your wallet. You'd only ever be in charge of cleaning her shoes and buying her hot lingerie to wear on her dates with other men

Every beta loser that's attempting to reach enlightenment and gain comfort in who and what they are should have an outfit like this in their closet complete with wig and heels, regardless of whether you have found a woman to serve or not. Just imagine the feel of the soft and sensual materials against your skin as you complete your chores, or while obsessing over a woman you crush on at work that doesn't give you the time of day all...while rubbing your beta stick like it's a clit. Pure beta bliss ♥️

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An enlightened beta appreciates that it isn't necessarily always a lack of desire to fuck a woman....but rather the deeper appreciation that we weren't built to fuck and that we would always disappoint a woman in every possible scenario. Betas are intimidated by women and rightfully so. They should be. Women make us timid and weak willed and at times downright scared. As such...when we embrace who we truly are we would rather a better man have the opportunity to fuck her while we provide her with all of the opportunities in life to get fucked. We buy her lingerie, makeup, heels, dresses and skirts, jewellery, give her money to go out with her friends or to go on a date. We run errands for her and do anything we can to free up her time so that she has more time to have fun and potentially find a real man to be with. Beta loser hand sex is just the byproduct of all of the above and what keeps us motivated to continue to serve in this manner. Sex is not for losers...even when offered out of pity, which surely this gorgeous woman would be offering it out of

Nod your head, yes, bators, and keep stroking for her!

When you're a beta loser you become keenly aware that even this gurl gets more attention from men and women, and more sex in a month than you will in your entire lifetime. Be proud of this fact and learn to embrace your place at the very bottom of the sexual food chain. Love yourself and learn to serve all others. Your role in life is to support all OTHERS to have great sex and have great experiences while also understanding that these things are not for you. Not now. Not ever. Become comfortable being home alone having incredible loser hand sex over and over thinking about what an amazing time they're all having without you. Picture them in your mind touching one another, kissing one another, having hot passionate breathtaking sex...all while trying not to disappoint your hand. This is the natural beta loser way

From my experience and conversations with people here? All lol. ♥️and that is not remotely a problem

Just wondering, because it sure happened to me.

Being beta often means accepting roles and responsibilities that others would never even consider accepting. Licking and cleaning a woman's shoes is one of those roles. She should never have to even consider cleaning her own shoes and neither should her boyfriend. This is exclusively beta loser territory and you should not only eagerly accept your role and responsibility...but also put your fullest amount of effort into completing the job, no matter what she thinks of you. It IS a reward to lock a woman's shoes.

Beta losers can never get enough golden liquid from hot women. It's not that they start out wanting it...but once they do consume it, it almost becomes a necessity of life. After all it IS the closest you'll ever get to swapping bodily fluids with a real woman. Yes it's gross. Yes women will be entirely disgusted by you drinking piss in every way. But you get over that part really fast and you come to crave it and need it. In fact I'm drinking a glass full of frozen piss ice cubes while I type this. For contrast, my wife is out right now with her bf and my credit card for dinner ♥️

Merci maîtresse 😍

A case could certainly be made that all betas that tricked their way into a relationship with a woman should be feminized at minimum.

10 REASONS TO FEMINISE YOUR HUSBAND

A wife should feminise her husband. That is a fact.

For many heterosexual women living in the usual Western social construct this statement might seem absurd. Surely many women who are attracted to men should wanted someone who looks and acts manly and masculine? If you wanted someone who looks and acts female why not find a real female?

Well let’s dissect these statements. Who decided that the biological male of our species has to act in a so-called masculine way? In reality that’s nothing more than a social convention invented by some males to justify, maintain and promote an unequal position in their favour. Scratch the surface and we find it’s just an illusion.

Reason 1. Feminisation makes males more gentle

Firstly, by putting your husband in feminine clothes, such as a short dress and high heels, he will become more aware of how to sit and stand in a delicate way. It will remove any attempt to ‘man-spread’ for example: spreading his legs wide when sitting. He will have to sit slowly and keep his legs together.

Secondly, the mere act of wearing soft feminine items of clothes has a profound affect on his manner. Psychologically clothes affect our behaviours. Think of the police officer who becomes assertive and officious, think of the businessman in an expensive suit and tie that makes him feel powerful. The man with a shaven head who is aggressive.

By changing his clothing to something feminine, your husband will take on a gentle and submissive manner. Put him in a pink mini skirt for example and make him have long hair with a pink bow.

Reason 2. Feminisation improves a male’s hygiene.

Introducing a regime of female hygiene works wonders for any male’s personal hygiene and grooming. Many men today, such as my own husband, were not too bad in the hygiene area but never as good as a proper woman.

Shaving of body hair, especially round their genitals results in smooth nice smelling clean hygienic skin. One of the most important hygienic aspects of feminisation is making him sit down to pee. You’ve instantly stopped those disgusting splashes around the toilet bowl that men make when standing to pee.

Reason 3. Feminisation ensures that a husband remains faithful.

The opportunity for your husband to have an affair or even a one night stand is virtually eliminated. What (so-called) man would ever allow any other woman to see that his wife has put him in female lingerie?

Even if he made a feeble excuse about preferring the feel of women’s underwear, how would he explain the bra and smooth genitals with a cute little triangle of pubic hair? You’ve eliminated any risk of him ever straying. You have control.

Reason 4. Feminisation makes him respect his wife’s authority

A wife needs to do a little more than dress him in female clothing to immediately make him more submissive. I would suggest you go further of course and make that clothing extremely feminine and revealing.

I insist on Alice wearing miniskirts, pleats, pinks, pretty dresses and so on. Husbands need to be made to feel girly and exposed. Accentuate this by ensuring your own clothing whilst also feminine, consists of skirts to the knee and fully covered tops.

This shows the relationship level is not equal. He has to expose flesh for my pleasure and I don’t.

Reason 5. Feminisation ensures he does the household chores

You can turn him into your personal maid or just the housewife. You’ll never have to do boring household chores ever again, unless you feel like it.

This frees up your time for more interesting activities, such as reading and going out with friends. Really ladies, no more ironing is a reason alone for forced feminisation. Of course, you also save the cost of a cleaner as you have a free one at home.

Reason 6. Feminisation increases the sexual energy in the home.

Let’s not forget that feminisation is a turn-on for the wife and importantly, also for the husband. I say importantly as the intense excitement he will feel through cross-dressing and being feminised generally gives the wife a powerful tool for manipulation.

In any relationship you will become used to your partner. Feminisation increases the excitement and for me, remains just as exciting even four of five years after having first feminised Alice.

Reason 7. Feminisation increases his understanding of real women

By making your husband or man undergo the beauty routines and household tasks, you have introduced him to the reality of being a girl. He will see women differently and appreciate what we’ve traditionally had to do. No more as husbands are now the new housewives.

A man becomes more gentle when put in short dresses and stockings

Reason 8. Feminisation makes him more attractive

Being a heterosexual woman doesn’t necessarily mean I want to see a large rough hairy-bodied man in jeans and tee shirt and shaved head. Women are so much more fragrant and making your husband smooth and fragrant too with pretty clothing and colours makes him more attractive. As he takes more care of himself as a feminised male, then his looks and appearance improve exponentially.

Reason 9. Feminisation reduces a male’s aggression and bad habits

Why is it that men fight, drive too fast and think it acceptable to talk over women? All these problems are eliminated through feminisation. Testosterone is often unfairly blamed, in my opinion, for aggression. It’s needed, in my opinion, to be able to perform and I wouldn’t want my Alice to not perform would I? But any aggressive tendencies she did have were washed away through becoming a pretty girl in a short skirt with high heels.

Reason 10. Feminisation is better for him too

Last and least, feminisation benefits your man too. Expectations of him fall following his feminisation and there is no longer the need for him to fulfil the role of provider, strongman and fixer of everything.

This is often a stressful situation for many men as they try to do things that they are just not cut out to do; lead, make decisions, solve problems and so on. Now they can relax and follow their wives’ decisions and undertake work that doesn’t require them to use strength or thought.

Housework, ironing, washing, cleaning and cooking are examples of ideal work for them. I also get Alice to make repairs to my clothing and so on. Now this doesn’t mean that will be absolved of any work in the home that is typically thought of men’s work.

They should be made to continue to do the gardening, decorating and household repairs. The point is that all housework is more fulfilling for them as they don’t need to stress their brains or take responsibility. They don’t have to make any decisions as you, as the wife and head of the house, decide what they will do and set their work schedule.

FEMINIZE YOUR HUSBAND

Life becomes so much better for the lady of the house. There is hard work ahead for any wife undergoing a force feminisation programme. She needs to maintain control and push the feminisation and work schedules onto her husband, sometimes in the face of resistance.

I believe that the effort is repaid a hundred times or more as the outcome will always be a better life for both of you. Albeit in different ways.

It’s important to note that a Female Led Relationship of this type should not be abusive nor should the husband suffer. The relationship remains loving with the wife in total control.

Every relationship is different and the extent of the husband’s feminisation will be different for every couple. At the minimum, a husband should be given a girl’s name, referred to with female pronouns and wear only female clothing and products whenever possible.