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Why Modern Women Act Like Men—And Want Simps as Husband
Let’s not sugarcoat it:
Today’s woman is more “man” than most men.
She leads with toughness. She calls submission slavery. She posts quotes like “I’m the table”—but brings chaos instead of calm.
And somehow, peace has become outdated.
Let’s talk about it:
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1. She Competes, Not Complements
Modern femininity sounds like:
“I can do what a man can do.” “I don’t need anyone.” “I’m in my soft era—but don’t correct me.”
You try to lead, she argues. You provide, she tests you. You offer structure, she rebels.
It’s not partnership—it’s power struggle.
And men are exhausted.
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2. She’s All Alpha, No Aura
The masculine woman wants to win—but doesn’t know what to do after the victory.
She’s a boss at work, but brings boardroom energy into the bedroom.
Every conversation is a debate. Every correction is an insult. Every standard you hold is “controlling.”
Peace? You’ll have to fight for it.
Irony? She doesn’t even know what it means anymore.
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3. Feminine Energy Has Been Rebranded as Weakness
Cooking? Oppression. Submission? Misogyny. Respect? Eww.
The woman who smiles, nurtures, and supports gets mocked as “pick me.”
But the one who tweets threats, argues over plates, and brags about being single at 38?
She’s “empowered.”
Yet behind the scenes, she cries in the shower, scrolls through old photos, and wonders why “no good men are left.”
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4. She’s a Product of a Broken System
This isn’t all her fault.
The one-income household is extinct. Rent is high. Food is pricey. Life costs money.
So she must hustle too.
And if she must earn, then a BSc isn’t enough. It’s PhD, MBA, double degrees… all before 30.
By the time she finishes climbing corporate ladders, marriage is now Plan C.
So when she enters relationships, she doesn’t enter soft—she enters like a soldier.
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5. It’s Not “Social” on Social Media
It’s not connection—it’s conditioning.
The loud minority tells the rest what to do. They glamorize rebellion, flaunt luxury, and parade independence like it’s peace.
Simps fund the show. Fraud funds the lifestyle. And confused young women follow the script, believing soft life comes from hard rebellion.
They don’t know they’re watching a stage play with no happy ending.
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6. Men Don’t Want Slaves—We Want Softness
A good man doesn’t want a maid or a mute.
He wants a woman who brings warmth—not warning labels. Support—not suspicion. Joy—not judgment.
But the modern masculine woman sees vulnerability as weakness.
So she guards her heart, hardens her tone, and wonders why her phone stays dry.
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7. When Masculinity Fights Masculinity, Everyone Loses
Two captains. One boat. What happens?
Disaster.
That’s what many modern marriages have become—power games with no peace.
Men trying to lead. Women refusing to follow. No one adjusting. Everyone performing.
Meanwhile, single motherhood is rising. Divorce is common. Bitterness is trending.
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8. Softness Is Not Stupidity
Femininity is not a downgrade. It’s a superpower.
But the modern script told her to drop it.
Now she’s loud, lonely, and layered in trauma she calls “growth.”
Truth? A woman who embraces peace, grace, and empathy still wins in silence.
But we buried that model.
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Final Word: Masculinity Can’t Attract Masculinity
Men don’t want to marry mirrors.
We want a woman who complements, not competes.
If she walks like a man, talks like a man, fights like a man—don’t be shocked when no man wants to marry her.
The rise of masculine women is real.
But the fall of feminine peace?
That’s the real heartbreak.
Let the debates begin.
#TruthHurts #ModernFemininity #MasculinityCrisis
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Groundrules
some groundrules i want to follow from now on.
•respectfulness
show Men the most respect in everyday live
•obedience
be obedient towards Men if its rational. i mean its important to be obedient towards Men but not if i hurt myself or others in any way.
•dociel
follow Mens lead. dont be stubborn and be changeable. accept if i do something wrong and better myself
•supporting
accept i m in a supporting role in live. Men do the most and hardest work in live. and this mostly better as most girls can do. but i can support Men with other things. make a good and nice enviroment at home or at work. bring coffee, by nice and happy, make people feel good and things like this.
•focus
focus more on my apperiance and improve this. focus on Men and what Men need and want. and focus on things more suitable for girls. focus on my femininity.
•detox
detox on things, ideas and people who are not good for me. people who are very hateful, feminist, untrustworthy or generaly not good people. things or ideas which arent good for girls like leadership roles or some kind of higher knowledge because leadership is just very unatural for girls and some higher knowledge just useless for girls. i just noticed i m very easiely influenced and i think most girls are like me easiely enfluenced. thats why its important to ban bad influence as good as possible.
thats something i just recently begun to understand. girls and Man are different and its pretty normal to make mistakes or act not good. but to make the real effort to listen to good Men, accept your own wrong doing and to improv acording to it is very important.
it helps alot to keep nice and peaceful realationships. and to make everybody feel good.
Pro Tip
Girls,
Being adversarial isn’t strong.
Being defensive isn’t strong.
Being stubborn isn’t strong.
Not listening isn’t strong.
Thinking you know best isn’t strong.
Be soft. Be quiet. Be humble. Be receptive. Listen. Think about what he says. Try to understand why he’s right. Ask him to explain how you’re wrong.
Be.
A.
Good.
Girl.
the funny thing is what #degradedominatehumiliat says is true. a girl who happily submit to her man and men in general is the worst thing in the eyes of a feminist. i learnt that the hard way as i begun to accept the patriachy. the hate i got from this feminists who were my friends i thought was great.
i always had a thing for vintage. elegant and pure plus she looks like a good wife 👸🏻
i worked really hard this year on myself even with all this trouble i had in 2024. from body and mind. there is still much to do but still i m very happy with myself and the path i go.
thats something i have to begin to practise about an year ago because i had the bad happid to interrupt people and as i begun to be more pro patriachiat i noticed how disrespectful this is towards Men.
after some weeks it become pretty normal to shut up when a Man speaks. and the effect it had was big. the Men around me became much more nicer and helpful towards me.
another funny thing is the thing about the eyes. its the first time i read about this and thats something i naturaly do. i must say i m pretty nervous and shy around Men nearly my whole life. so i naturaly lower my gaze around Men
Rules
One of the rules Master has for me is designed to constantly remind me of my place. I am never allowed to interrupt a Man when He is speaking. This is obvious at home with him and his friends but it also extends beyond Master’s home. In a shop, in the street, and at work (for the period that I will be permitted allowed to maintain a regular job) it does not matter what a Man is saying, i have to wait until He finishes speaking before I can speak. i have noticed at work that this has made men more friendly, helpful, condescending and patronising towards me. If only they knew it was making pussy wet as well :)
thats something i have dicvouvert too recently and something what help me alot when i think i cant do it
“It’s never too late to change your life. Don’t give up on the body you want, don’t say you’ll never have it, or that you don’t have time. What you think is what you become. We all have time, and we all started somewhere. Ask yourself what’s really important to you, put things into perspective. - Laci Kay Somers”
— http://positivebarbie.tumblr.com/ (via positivebarbie)
wonderful writen. but i would say from my own view its not only about jobs but the whole life someone buildes. from family to friends to jobs.
to lead and be better as someone else is something many connect with beeing respected.
The professional female
To Me, there is nothing more unattractive than a female in a leadership role. The clothing alone is unappealing as is often the look on their faces. More often than not, their roles were necessitated by a lack of money. they found they were remotely good at something that worked and stuck with it.
The sad part about professional females is that, even if they did somehow find the error of their ways and wish to become a submissive or a slave, the damage is already done.
They're trapped.... unable to even think of a career change outside of their comfort zone.
Years of doing the same thing have cemented the mentality that they cannot change now. Even if they are miserable or wish to serve a Man, the duality of being both professional and slave will be so confusing that they will inevitably go back to what was the most stable.
Those of you females reading this, you either know it is true or you fear so.
The safety of the job will prevent anything from ever happening and the female will once more be alone. Whether it is sad, upset or angry at its decision to return to its comfort zone, nothing will ever change.
The desire of every parent is to have their child do well in the world and be successful but, in these cases, especially for young females, parents often do more harm than good.
this is wonderful said. acceptance is the thing i think most girls struggle the most, myself included.
when there isent acceptance then i dont think there is a change in oneself.
by the way @bimbotrainer4u has a really wonderful blog and a must here on tumblr
I want to be a Bimbo but…
I wanted to post this because I have been getting alot if messages asking for help and advice. Which is great! I am happy to speak with all of you. Alot of the conversation ends up coming down to this “I want to be a Bimbo but…”
This is because you still have not accepted your natural state. You want to live in both worlds. You want to be taken seriously and be treated like an object when it suits you. Silly girl you are not ready to give up control. You are not ready to be an object.
It doesn’t matter what your current body looks like, if you are willing to be obedient and accept your natural state. It doesn’t matter if you think you are too smart. If you truly want to be a bimbo you first have to accept. There is no but… Just acceptance. The rest can be learned and taught to a willing girl.
good looks are important for a girl but i think to be happy and cheerful is similar important
wonderful guide and rules to follow 🤗
Good girls etiquette
Don’t ever wear men’s clothes. Always remember you’re a girl and dress accordingly.
There is a fine line between sexy and slutty. There is a time and place for both.
Never swear and don’t talk loudly. Keep your voice down and keep it pleasant.
Never interrupt a Man while he’s talking. Wait your time. If he cuts you off stop talking and wait patiently until he’s finished before continuing.
Never talk back. If you disagree say so but in a pleasant manner. Never bitch and never complain and never accuse. Recognise when he’s made up his mind. When he’s told you his decision accept it and move on even if it didn’t go your way.
Openly disagreeing with your Man or questioning him in public shows disunity and should be avoided. Keep your disagreements private (and remember 3-5 above).
Always check in with your Man before making any decisions. Saying “I need to check with my boyfriend/husband” is a perfectly valid answer to most questions.
Be happy and be positive. Do your best to please the people around you and especially your Man. Always ask yourself what more you can do. Look for opportunities to please and be of use.
Always be polite and respectful. Say “thank you” and “please.” If you’ve done anything to upset your Man remember to say “I’m sorry.”
Ask your Man if any of the above is unclear.
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we need to teach our girls, teach them to be Male-centric & reject feminism teach them to respect Men, always aiming to please & serve teach them to be dependent on a Man & embrace the Patriarchy
Ladies, let’s get to work.
thats the kind of girl i want to be 😍
Sydney Sweeney
thats sooo motivating! i think there ar still many things to improve on my body. cant even stop to count.....
but this is just wonderful!