Grow Up - Blog Posts

I feel the need to post about this, ‼️and this goes for all Fandoms‼️ I'm not a squip jeremy shipper not my thing (sorry). But ppl shouldn't be bullied off the internet for liking it, let ppl have fun.

Im not say you need to like it, or sick your heels in the mud and be quiet about not liking it. The internet is FUCKING HUGE. Theres a place to hate on it outside of the shippers chosen space. Don't bully people off the internet and don't refuse to get along with someone for liking it.

Block if you want, the internet is a free place, and we can and should be able to get along with someone with a different opinion. This sounds hypocritical to the, "you don't need to talk to these ppl thing" I said. I mean like, You can still talk to these ppl it's not, "there cool but they ship a ship I don't like so I can't like them" I'm sorry but that's dumb.

AND STOP TELLING PPL TO KYS IT IS NOT OK

(Why do I need to say that)

The outfit

So if someone is asexual they have dress like a nun or something???

Boomer: "Can you imagine kids today storming the beaches of Normany?"

Me: "You were a US child of the 70's, idiot. When the hell were you ever in a war? I was blasting Russians in Ukraine. You can shut the hell up!"

Friend: "So you know at the start of the Twisted Sister music video, where the dad says 'I carried an M16 in 'nam and you carry that guitar'? Sure hurts when they shoe's on the other foot eh boomers?"

OH

MY

GOD

Why Do Some Characters Feel “Off” in Fics?

Ever read a fic and thought, “They would never say that,” or “That’s not them”? It’s a common reaction, but let’s break down why it happens.

When you read multiple fics, you start to see patterns in how a character is written—their speech, personality, and habits tend to be portrayed a certain way across different writers. Over time, your brain builds an expectation of how they should act, and you will go like "I know them now".

But when you come across a fic where the character behaves differently—maybe they speak in a way you’re not used to, or their personality shifts even slightly—it feels wrong. Your brain detects the inconsistency and reacts with, “This isn’t accurate.”

But here’s the truth: no one truly knows the character they are fictional honey. Not you, not the writer. We all take what we see—canon material, dialogue, actions in movies, games and series—then interpret it differently. Fanfics aren’t about replicating a character 100% accurately; they’re about adapting them into different scenarios, tropes, and perspectives.

So instead of saying, “They’d never do that,” remember that every fic is just one version of a character. Different interpretations don’t mean they’re wrong—they’re just slightly new to you so whether you get used to it or leave the fic and not teaching the writer how to write the character XD

It’s totally fine to have opinions on how a character is written in fanfiction. Maybe a fic doesn’t match how you personally see them, or the way they talk feels different from what you’re used to. That’s normal! But there’s a difference between discussing these thoughts and going into a writer’s comments or asks just to tell them they’re “wrong.”

At the end of the day, fanfiction is interpretation. No one has an exact rulebook on how a character should act outside of canon, and even canon itself can be inconsistent. Writers take what they see and shape it into their own version. That’s the point of transformative work.

If a fic’s portrayal doesn’t sit right with you, the best thing to do is simple: move on. No one’s forcing you to read something you don’t like, and it’s not a life-or-death situation. Just scroll past, find another fic, and continue enjoying fandom in a way that makes you happy.

Constructive discussion? Great. Telling a writer how to “properly” write a character? Not so much. Let people write what they enjoy If they didn't hurt anyone :)

Let me know if u have another opinions today i feel the urge to discuss lol.

(so mad i can’t see straight) Yeah i just don’t think chat gpt is a good classroom tool

Hey guess what

Hey guess what to the person that DMed me today just know that you messaged me and I'm a teenager and you messaging me while your in your 20s is fucking weird and creepy as hell please harass someone your own age.

P.S Grow the fuck up @vampyrefay