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Why did someone send me this and claim it was proof women’s rights were under attack?
Yeah women aren’t the only caregiver and often due to socialization they push males out of parenting roles and often undermine males in these situations.
It’s actually part of the whole “women have historically been the child raisers” narrative. As a society women see themselves as the only ones who know how to raise kids and we even specifically use women as symbols of good parents despite men being statistically just as good at parenting.
You aren’t being attacked by this and if you see this as an attack you are a brainwashed idiot who thinks women’s only role is a walking womb who is meant to push out spawn and then raise them while the rock person you are married too go and dies in a war or something.
Toxic moms vs Good Fathers
The Crucial Role of Fathers in Child Development and Overcoming Maternal Gatekeeping
As a psychotherapist, I've observed firsthand how deeply impactful a father's role is in a child's emotional, psychological, and behavioral development. Current research underscores the importance of paternal involvement, highlighting the structured, authoritative approach fathers commonly adopt, characterized by clear expectations, discipline, and consistent guidance. These aspects of fatherhood foster independence, emotional resilience, and social competence in children (Frontiers in Psychology, 2022).
Why Fathers are Essential
Fathers uniquely contribute to children's growth through structured play and consistent discipline, significantly influencing children's emotional regulation, academic performance, and social interactions. Research shows that children with engaged fathers exhibit improved cognitive development, better behavioral outcomes, and enhanced emotional stability. Conversely, the absence of a father correlates strongly with increased risks for mood disorders, behavioral problems, and difficulties with emotional regulation (PMC, 2023).
Understanding Toxic Maternal Gatekeeping
While mothers often excel at nurturing, some behaviors, especially maternal gatekeeping, can inadvertently hinder a father's involvement. Maternal gatekeeping refers to behaviors where a mother may limit or restrict the father's access to the child, often through criticism, control, or undermining his parenting efforts. This behavior frequently stems from unresolved attachment issues, emotional insecurity, or distrust, particularly among mothers who themselves lacked a father figure in their upbringing (PMC, 2016).
Maternal gatekeeping not only undermines paternal engagement but can perpetuate generational cycles of absenteeism. Women raised without fathers are more likely to experience similar patterns in their own families, leading to ongoing familial dysfunction and emotional instability (Fatherhood.org, 2023).
Economic and Emotional Challenges in Father-Absent Households
Families without an actively involved father, particularly single-mother households, commonly experience economic hardships, increased stress, and limited social support. These stressors can negatively impact children's psychological and emotional well-being, highlighting the need for paternal presence to provide stability and structure. In contrast, single-father households typically report higher incomes and better resource accessibility, underscoring the socio-economic advantages of paternal involvement (Pew Research Center, 2013).
Strategies for Overcoming Maternal Gatekeeping
Fathers facing toxic maternal gatekeeping can employ several effective strategies:
Open Communication: Initiate respectful, non-confrontational discussions focused on the child's best interests.
Clearly Defined Roles: Establish written agreements outlining parental responsibilities and visitation.
Legal Support: Consult legal professionals early and document interactions meticulously.
Mediation and Therapy: Engage in mediation or family counseling to facilitate healthy co-parenting communication.
Parenting Education: Participate in parenting workshops to strengthen parenting skills and demonstrate commitment.
Child-Centric Approach: Prioritize the child's emotional health and consistently avoid negative speech about the other parent.
Strong Emotional Connections: Maximize quality time to build trust and strengthen bonds with the child.
Professional Support: Utilize individual and child-focused counseling to navigate emotional challenges and familial tensions.
Conclusion
As a psychotherapist, I've witnessed the transformative impact that involved fathers can have on their children's lives. Addressing and overcoming maternal gatekeeping behaviors is critical for fostering healthier family environments. By advocating for structured paternal involvement, supporting co-parenting strategies, and understanding the root causes of gatekeeping, we can significantly improve children's developmental outcomes, ensuring emotional, social, and psychological health for generations to come.
References
Frontiers in Psychology (2022). "The Role of Fathers in Child Development." https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2022.772023/full
PMC (2023). "Psychological Effects of Father Absence." https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5648344
PMC (2016). "Maternal Gatekeeping and Father Involvement." https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4922533
Fatherhood.org (2023). "Father Absence and Intergenerational Patterns." https://www.fatherhood.org/father-absence-statistic
Pew Research Center (2013). "The Rise of Single Fathers." https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/07/02/the-rise-of-single-fathers
Source: Toxic moms vs Good Fathers
That entire first bit is you degrading women down to their basic components like a misogynist would. Why do terfs constantly insist womenhood is just “yeah womb and tits is about it” like it’s some own? Lady the patriarchy wants you to be defined by your biology cause it’s used as a weapon against women and historically has been the key point to oppression by the patriarchy.
You also don’t know anything about the titanic and you claiming the “women and children first” thing is about vulnerable class? Lady it was done that way cause of patriarchy. You as a woman under this standard is WEAK and panic prone therefore you were evacuated first cause you couldn’t handle the situation like a man would the stronger sex. It wasn’t protecting you so much as stating “women are too weak to handle this send them away to cry while MEN take care of the problems”.
You are so lost in your sauce you push the patriarchy like an incel or right winger. Go read some feminist theory and then try again cause you would get a zero in any women’s study course with this nonsense.
Women celebrating a gov looking at them and saying “you are defined BY YOUR BIOLOGICAL FUNCTION LEGALLY” should terrify all women. It’s a patriarchal statement to dehumanize women into their purely “biological” position.
It’s the same argument used to force women into being the child wrangler and keeping them out of societal positions throughout history. Why are so many women and “feminists” celebrating this like it’s some mega dunk? You are being labeled and degraded to “womb” every time you let a gov dictate your place in the world based on your “biology” as a woman and it’s disgusting and will only lead to harm for all women.
Note to Society #36
Happy International Women’s Day!
As we come together to celebrate the achievements of women throughout history, it’s important to remember the ongoing struggles women across the world are facing.
Today, let’s keep a special focus on all of our sisters of color, queer sisters, trans sisters, Palestinian sisters, working class sisters, disabled sisters, and sisters struggling with reproductive Justice.
We must not forget where we come from, and we must remember who we are working to protect now. I hope you all have a wonderful day - and pass along some kind words to the wonderful women in your lives!
If I catch any of you hoes shaming/mocking/victim-blaming/bullying/harassing or any other bullshit to hyper feminine women just because of how they dress I will personally rip out your eyes and eat your weak ass stomach.
Hyper feminine women are women. You know what women are? Feminists, so shut the fuck up with your “you can’t be a real feminist if you’re so willing to embrace the patriarchy’s ideal of a woman” and instead leave them fuck alone and maybe take some time to analyze why you really think it’s so bad for a woman to embrace her femininity in a way that doesn’t fit your “gaslit, gatekeep, girlboss” mindset.
You know what, I’ll do it for you, the only reason you get so pissed off when you see a hyperfeminine woman indulge in her femininity is because your idea of feminism is that in order for women to be equal to men they must in some way be masculine (ex: the girlboss CEO stereotype, or the sporty girl stereotype, etc) and because you have been conditioned by our media and our society to hate hyper femininity because society knows if a woman is hyper feminine or a ‘bimbo’ she isn’t doing it for society and that pisses them the fuck off.
Hyper feminine women are not and never have been doing this to please society, they’ve been doing it because they like feminine things and they want to indulge in them. Men and society have nothing to do with their happiness and because patriarchy can’t handle the thought of a woman doing something that isn’t made to in someway pander or please a man they flip out and have taught us to hate them (hyper feminine women).
If you don’t believe me think of all the movies you’ve watched where the hyper feminine woman has in someway been demonized, shamed, made to be the villain, looked down upon, or used as a sick joke. There’s a lot.
You calling hyper feminine women anti-feminist is feeding into TERF ideology, and if you know anything about TERF ideology you know that one of it’s core values is turning women on each other and destroying sisterhood. Any woman who is; respectful of her sisters, wishes equality between men and women, wishes for equality among her sisters, doesn’t turn a woman away because of something she cannot control (ex: sexual orientation, race, finical situation, etc), and most importantly is in tune with her person and is able to find her liberation (however that liberation may look) IS A FEMINIST.
There is no dress code for feminism aside from wanting equality FOR EVERYONE, now stop shaming our feminine sisters and take down your inner misogynist.
Men and women have different roles in society, and different needs and desires. the feminine and masculine complement each other. One cannot discard the worth and necessity of the other. femininity is nothing without masculinity and masculinity is nothing without femininity.
Sexy Handmaid’s Tale outfit. If this isn’t an endorsement of the patriarchy, I don’t know what is.
Women are made to have huge, swollen bellies, and it's our job as Men to make sure they stay that way.
Soon it's gonna be normal for every woman have a massive belly hanging between her legs, proudly exposed for everyone to see.
Misogynists will make society proper, with women at our feet, and our babies in their womb.
You don't need rights - serving your Husband is more important.
You don't need an education - everything you need to know is learned at home.
You don't need a career - being barefoot and pregnant is more than enough for a woman like you.
You don't need feminism - It doesn't help women who really know their purpose.
All you need is submission and breeding.
Important stuff just goes over her head at this point, so it's much better for her to just put her hands on her big, bred belly and let the Boys melt her little baby addled brain.
A good girl is one who can at the very least understand what her place is, even if she's too dumb to know why it is, but it doesn't matter to us Men, you're still just a few holes to fill up regardless.
So listen up girls, and let the misogyny turn you into the good little slut you're meant to be.
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I Glady Accept Cum Tributes From Misogynistic Men
I wish I hadn't wasted 11 years in med school and residency. I should have dropped out and lived as an attention-seeking stupid bimbo sooner.
DROP OUT
Thinking is hard for girls, that's why you shouldn't.
Drop out instead
Spend all that time you were going to waste studying for a course or a test (That lets face it you were gonna fail anyways) and put it in to learning how to dress like a proper bimbo, put on makeup like a proper bimbo, talk, act, think like one
Cause big words and hard concepts are only gonna hurt your pretty little head
You need to spend that time figuring out how many dick you have to suck to afford your breast implants
(and we know numbers are hard for you so that will take a long time)
Cows Breed
Men Lead
The good thing about women is that as long as you're Man enough to actually treat them like the bellies and tits they are, they'll essentially train themselves to be your personal breeder, the sign of a good cow is one that you barely need to lift a finger to train.
Of course once you're flooding her womb with your thick, misogynist cum, the training will all wash away in favour of a baby-addled, foggy brain, but that's okay, she'll be dumb enough to just do what you say once her belly starts coming in.
Misogyny: The Right Choice for Good girls
I feel the need after the 2024 American Presidential election to set some things clear.
This is a place for me to flirt with my darkest thoughts and fantasies, and as a sadistic Dominant who wants to corrupt you and make you worse, I often hold back my real world views as I worry they will undercut the purity of my kink persona. After all, I like the girls who tend to be a little bit extreme; I don't want those girls scared away because they find out that behind my cruel tongue I have a soft heart.
The truth is that while everything you read on this blog is built around fantasy, most of it represents the world I authentically wish to craft (or have crafted) for myself and my sexual partners. I use sharp and twisted words to carve a bubble full of new demented possibilities for us, striving to float away into the void together as we as we flirt with and approach the darkening clouds of a thickening thunderstorm. I feel personally charged with giving you an electric experience without the illusions of safe grounding. All this is a concerted practice on my part to redefine reality such that our demons can be liberated from their shackles, freed to frolic in fetish with the hopes that we can truly see each other like no one else has seen us: darkness and all.
And yet, it's also true that in the real world, I would define myself as socially progressive. Even though I love the idea of stripping you of your rights, I believe girls ought to be free to choose to have their rights stripped away from them.
I am admittedly a complicated Man, so let me help clarify my true position for you.
I really DO want to corrupt you. I really DO want to ruin you psychologically and make you compromise yourself for me. I will do everything within my substantial influence to persuade you to make all the wrong choices for my personal benefit, knowing that it makes you shamefully drippy to do so.
I might even make you fantasize about having your rights stripped from you by force, once I know with clarity that is what you'd choose for yourself.
But at the end of the day, it's important for you to understand that's exactly what it is, ultimately: a set of CHOICES that you have.
My goal is to try to seduce you... to make you embrace your most shameful kinks and fantasies, as you rub yourself stupid to misogynistic content or other filth that subverts your normal daily identity in a way you internalize as profoundly shameful. I like corrupting a feminist exactly BECAUSE she is a feminist; it is precisely the notable distance and the stark contrast between her ideals and her fantasies that makes her such an enticing morsel for a monster like me.
I really DO want to goad you into giving up your rights and freedoms to be my stupid slutty slave pet, diminished and degraded. Debased and destroyed beyond all recognition.
And yet, I am OUTRAGED at the recent election results in the United States for what they represent; I am OUTRAGED at the idea that the stuff of all my fantasies might be fashioned by weaker men into an inescapable political reality for all of the women who will never be given the opportunity to make all of the wrong choices for themselves.
If women have no rights to begin with, they cannot consent to giving those rights away. If they cannot give their rights away freely, there is nothing to corrupt. How can you corrupt a creature with no agency? How can I lead you to your own fall if you were never standing to begin with?
The fantasy of you having no rights is hot, and I will continue to propagate it on this blog. Making you flirt with turning the fantasy into a reality is hot, and my demon tongue wouldn't let me stop if I tried. Watching you ruin yourself for me in reality, knowing you'll never be able to go back will always be my idea of a deep and meaningful connection.
Having the government legislate this dark erotic landscape by mandate onto all the girls who never had a choice in the matter is NOT hot. Not outside of fantasy. Not if they never had a choice to begin with. Not if they never had the ability to voluntarily trade their consent away.
Nothing you see on this blog is something I would ever truly do without the clear consent of everyone involved.
Please don't think more of me for my soft heart -- I'm still a monster, I promise. This dark twisted landscape might still well be the reality I would will upon you.
I just want it to be MY will that leads you to the decision. I want to walk you to the edge of oblivion myself, your hand in mine, as I prompt you to choose to take the plunge for yourself. And I want you to always know, after you begged me to strip you of your rights and your dignity, that you were complicit the entire time; I want you to be aware of your involvement in your own debasement, like it was a fun little game between us that just happened to go too far, until there is no going back.
This is exactly WHAT I want, but our encroaching political reality is not HOW I want it. I will never stand idly by and let weaker men force women into subjugation against their will.
Because I know you... you're SPECIAL. You deserve to be reduced by a real Man who is worthy enough to win you over AUTHENTICALLY, rather than by a pathetic pack of insecure boys incapable of earning their own kill as they depend on big Daddy government to step in and do all the work for them.
You deserve so much better, doll.
So I'm going to give it to you by continuing to package up nightmares that I market to you as sweet romantic dreams, slowly conditioning you to land where you truly belong...
... on your knees, with your tongue out, doing what you're made for...
... like a good girl who made the right choice for Daddy...
😈 Sadistic Empath, 😘 🖤 The Sweetest Psychopath 🦹🏻♂️
There's a lot of people who would say that girls aren't useful for anything, that they are too stupid to provide value, but I STRONGLY disagree with this.
See, I believe that girls were MADE to be entertaining. The way they dress up so pretty and behave shamelessly to attract attention -- why else would they do that?
A fun fact to further my point: did you know there is an entire platform for any girl to sign up to in order to make money being an entertainer for Men? It has paid out $5 billion to girls on the platform.
It's called OnlyFans, and it's all the rage among pretty popular good girls these days...
Are you a pretty popular good girl?
😈 Sadistic Empath, 😘 📺 Minister of Patriarchal Propaganda 🧠🧼
Drool so much your white top goes see through
It would be fun to brand you with piercings just to remind you at all times that you are owned, and that there is no part of your body that I don't claim as my property.
Every time you open your mouth I want to be reminded that you willingly undertook pain just at the prospect that it might give Daddy slightly more pleasure.
More than that, I want every Man who sees you to know that you aren't someone to take seriously -- you're just a stupid slutty cockslurping whore for Men.
There's my good little slavegirl for The Patriarchy.
😈 Sadistic Empath, 😘 🦹🏻♂️ The Bad Guy 🖤
Remember when you were a respectable feminist role model, Puddles?
Yeah. Me neither...
😂😂😂
😈 Sadistic Empath, 😘 🏋🏻♀️ A Bitch's Favorite Personal Trainer 🚂🐶
A Valuable Woman girl
See this photo from @ashlyyybaby above? This is the right mentality for dumb little drippy sluts to have.
The Patriarchy has top-tier scientists hard at work who have discovered the exact formula to determine how valuable a girl is.
See, your value is directly proportional to how hard you are making a Man's cock at any given moment. The harder He is, the more valuable you are.
It's just simple math that describes our reality perfectly, much like the Pythagorean theorem.
Sure, He'll appreciate the fact that you washed His clothes, or you made Him a nice meal, or you vacuumed His home no matter what you are wearing.
But if He doesn't want to fuck you, what's the point of having holes?
This is why it's important to objectify and sexualize yourself for Male attention and pleasure at all times, and that starts with the outfits you choose to wear for Him.
Think of it like this: you're just a decorative set of wet holes that was made to be put on display for lusty Men, and if you do your job right they'll always want to keep you around to use you.
That's when know you've reached peak value.
So take your place as a proper pet for The Patriarchy, do your job like a good girl, and dress for the only role you are biologically predisposed toward... being a fuckdoll for cock.
You'll be valued as His good little obedient whore in no time.
End of the Patriarchy Party's government-sponsored Public Service Announcement to indoctrinate good girls. For future examples of how to be a good girl from a proper role model, make sure you are following the new account of @ashlyyybaby (formerly @ashlybaby).
😈 Sadistic Empath, 😘 🎓 Patriarchal Minister of Re-Education & Propaganda 📺
it’s important to take every opportunity to sexualize yourself even when especially when ur doing chores around the house for him 💖
Good girls wear as little as possible; that's just a fact.
Your outfit speaks volumes about you. It's the advertisement for a Man to know if you're the gift he wants to unwrap.
If you want to be the pretty toy he picks, you better make sure the wrapping paper hardens his... resolve.
Give Him a reason to slip off the pretty ribbons hugging your body to take the object beneath as His property.
And never forget as the fabric clings to your most private places that you do it in service of Him, even before you've met Him.
Because you're just a dress up doll in search of a strong guiding hand.
😈 Sadistic Empath, 😘 😏 Likes Playing with Dolls 🎀
if the bikini bottoms not this tiny then i don’t want it
You’re just a decoration.
Sure, I know what you are thinking; maybe you have some nice other qualities, right? Like maybe you’re kind, or funny, or smart, or financially successful.
Sure, honey. But those traits don’t matter, silly.
See, Men aren’t choosing you based on your career status; we’re choosing you based on how well you advertise the fact that you are a pretty set holes.
Everything else about you is arbitrary when it comes to mate selection, dummy.
Do you work out? Do you eat well? Do you dress in outfits that show off your tits and your ass?
That’s basically all Men care about.
Stop thinking about yourself as a person, and start thinking about yourself as a piece of slutty merchandise to show off. Because that’s all you are, doll...
This is how all girls will be expected to compete for Male attention from now on in the Patriarchal Order; new executive orders will be issued in the near future to further promote this goal.
😈 Sadistic Empath, 😘 🎓 Patriarchal Minister of Re-Education & Propaganda 📺
So many people miss this truth: casual every-day misogynists are boring at best, and irritating at worst. The type of person who can't rationalize or articulate a reasonable argument in defense of their beliefs — a person who is generally insecure, overly emotionally reactive, and needs to denigrate others to feel a certain way about themselves.
In short, they lack self-awareness, have poor impulse control, are generally selfish, and are missing the intellectual insight necessary to do real damage.
I am NOT an every-day misogynist. I use progressive language in speech, and I empathize with people who have different life experiences than I do. I put myself in the shoes of other people to try to understand their frame of mind. My friends, coworkers, and family would all argue that I present as one of the more progressive and warm people they know.
But images can be deceiving. Most of them don't know that I keep girls as slaves and pets. Most of them don't know the depths of depravity into which I dive with regularity in the privacy of my personal life.
So if I'm not a casual every-day misogynist, why then am I the one who can do REAL damage?
It's simple: because my brand of misogyny isn't about me... it's about YOU. It's about understanding everything that makes you tick -- your beliefs, your ambitions, your wounds, your trauma. And not just the surface-level that you share with the world while you wear your mask in public... I peer into and through the eyes behind your mask and I see the REAL you. The version of you that you hide from others. The version of you that you even hide from yourself.
I speak to that long-forgotten girl you'd locked away out of fear, your shadow-self with whom you'd forbidden all contact. I re-engage a dialogue with your deepest source of shame, and then I slowly seduce her and raise her to the surface of your mind's eye.
In the end, I even hold the key to let her escape from captivity... the very key you thought you'd thrown away forever.
A casual misogynist will accomplish none of these things. He doesn't care to understand who you are, or how your mind works.
This means he doesn't know how to hurt you as profoundly as I do.
See, I'll use the language of feminism to disarm you at first. To make you feel safe and understood. But then once you've let me in enough to see the true nature of your soul, I'll start to wield it against you. I'll steal the concepts of your deepest-held beliefs like I've robbed you of your only supply of munitions, only to weaponize your own ideological prattle, aiming it in your direction as you are left utterly defenseless.
Over time I'll gaslight you into betraying yourself, making you violate your own principles, and you'll go along with it because I know how to package it up in exactly the right way to make you melt as I turn you into a drippy wet mess for me.
And I'll do all this for no other reason than waging psychological warfare on you is my favorite hobby, and I get off on watching you succumb to the ultimate psychological corruption at my hand.
See, in the end, at my core, I'm not REALLY a misogynist. Yes, I'll readily use misogyny as another tool in my arsenal to reach my goals, but first and foremost I'm a sadist. I just want to hurt you psychologically deeper than anyone else every could, until your mind is so overcome and addicted to the shame that there's nothing left of the girl you used to be... until you're left with no choice but to meekly accept that you're just a drippy dumb wet set of holes, humiliated and degraded beyond repair. Until you accept that this whole time you were deluded by the lies of feminism, but now you understand the truth: that you're just a stupid slut made to serve cock and bow down in subservience to the rule of The Patriarchy. Until you're nothing but a blank canvas for Daddy to paint anew as I see fit, restoring your life with purpose.
Do you understand the difference now, doll? Let me sum it up for you:
An every-day misogynist might ruin your lunch break, but I will ruin your life...
... and yet you'll keep coming back, begging me for more.
In the end, they all do.
😈 Sadistic Empath, 😘 😉 "A Feminist" 😂
Seriously though:
Actual misogynists and sexists are far too stupid and dull to be interesting or sexy. Their words are tasteless, clumsy and primitive.
You need to completely understand the concepts of feminism, equity, oppression and advocacy in order to use them as effective tools of arousal and sexual subjugation.
I wouldn’t go as far as property, we have respect for each other. However we do believe in traditional gender roles.
