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Suggestive Dirty Talk Options

I find that the biggest obstacle in dirty talking is how to start it. That first thing you break the ice with. It can feel a bit awkward at first, but you’ll quickly get the hang of it. I’m a big fan of something I call the and then what technique. Basically you just start with a rather innocent question or statement and then evolve into the next natural thing that would happen. So you say something, and then pretend someone asks you “and then what” and then you answer that question.

So let’s pretend for a second you’re on top of your man, riding him cowgirl style and you want to spice it up a little.

Simply starting with a “you like the way I fuck you?” Is enough to break that awkward ice. He’ll answer yes of course. And then what? “then imagine how Mark (using names of actual guys you know works amazingly) would feel if I fucked him like this”

And then what?

“I would bounce up and down his cock just like this. He’ll get to feel how tight your wife’s pussy is”

And then what?

“then I want him to….”

You get it.

Reliving the past

My husband is very much into hearing stories about guys I used to fuck so this one is his favorite type of dirty talk. The way it goes is when I give him a handjob, blowjob or even ride him, I would say something like “you like the way I stroke your dick?” (asking if he likes it is always a great way to break the ice and initiate dirty talk without feeling awkward). This always gets me a very enthustiastic “YES!” to which I answer something like “this is exactly how I used to stroke [name of guy I used to fuck]’s cock…” (pause for dramatic effect) “except… His was a lot bigger than yours”. This line alone is usually enough to almost bring him over the edge, and if not it’s a great way to go into more details - how did it feel to stroke a much bigger dick, would you do it again, perhaps the guy used to get so horny that he would fuck you before you could finish the handjob, etc. Details, details, details, I can’t stress it enough.

Fair warning: not everyone is into hearing about your past! Make sure your husband is into that before springing this on him.

The commentator

This one is super easy because you don’t feel like you’re talking dirty, you’re just saying what’s on your mind. So the way it works is to watch porn with your man and simply make comments about the movie playing. Particularly about the guy and what you like about him. Compliment his dick, go into details about what you like about him, think out loud like “I really wish I could get fucked like that one day” / “look how big his dick is. He would make me cum so fast with that”

If you’ve fucked someone who reminds you of the guy, by all means tell your husband about it. Watching a porn with a guy who’s fucking some girl senseless and hearing your wife drop the bomb that the guy is the exact same size as some dude she dated in college is a sure way to make your husband look at the porn and all he will see is you being fucked right there on the screen. Very hot for both of you.

The yes ladder

This is a really simple but very effective technique that is easy for new dirty talkers and is guarantueed to drive him crazy.

In a nutshell what you do is ask him some questions that all leads to a yes. With each question the intensity in what you’re asking increases. There’s something crazy hot about this almost confessional way of talking dirty and being “forced to admit” your deepest fantasies. This is a great way to get yourself going, and to test out boundaries.

Optional: let him know ahead of time that you’re going to ask him questions and if he says no just once, he don’t get to cum. See what he’s willing to say yes to - just remember these are forced and horny yesses expressing what he likes in the heat of the moment. They don’t necessarily count in real life.

Example of a yes ladder.

“you like this huh”

“would you like it if i did this to another guy?”

“would you let me pick any guy i want?”

“what if i want a guy who’s bigger than you, would you allow that?”

“do you want him to fuck me hard?”

“what if he makes me cum really hard, can you handle that?”

“what if he makes me scream out his name, can you still handle it?”

“can I fuck him right here in our bed?”

“would you allow me to fuck someone I’ve dated before?”

“even if he really knows how to fuck me good?”

“what if I want him to fuck me while you wait in the other room, will you do that?”

You get it, just continue like this. Make the questions increasingly more provocative and test his boundaries, maybe even cross them if you know he can handle it.

The O-bomb

This method works extremely well if you’ve been teasing and playing with him for a while, keeping him right on the edge and he’s SO close now that you can make him cum any second.

All there is to it is asking him “do you want to cum?” he’ll answer yes almost pleading. And that’s when you drop the O-bomb. The O-bomb is some of the blue thought you put into his head and force him to cum to before he can even react.

For example: he just said yes he wants to cum. You then say “good. I want you to cum while you think of me cumming all over (name)’s big dick” and then you simply force him to cum before he even gets a chance to react. As he’s cumming you keep feeding him the thought over and over until he’s done. “yes, cum while you imagine how he makes me scream” etc.

The story

My personal favorite. One thing is to talk about imaginary stuff that could maybe some day happen. Another is to talk about stuff that actually already happened simply by telling him a story about some incredible hot sex you’ve had, either because the circumstances where hot, because the guy knew what he was doing and fucked your brains out or the guy happened to be seriously hung.

This is also super simple for you because you dont have to make anything up, you simply just tell what happened and describe the situation.

Don’t worry about elaborate descriptions or anything. Trust me he’ll ask you to elaborate when he hears something he likes. Just describe what happened and how it felt for you. Especially the “how it felt” part is very important.

The talk

Now in the safety rules i told you to talk about what he likes and dislikes without touching him so his arousal won’t reflect his answers. This time you do the exact opposite. Simply have a conversation about what he likes while slowly touching his dick. There’s something really hot about just talking while casually stroking him. And you’ll be able to measure his response simply by the way his dick throbs, which is incredibly hot.

How to start it: just casually ask him a question about his likes and as he answers you slowly start touching him while asking him more questions.

The close your eyes and imagine

Sometimes it can be a lot easier if your husband can’t see you when you talk dirty.

Example:

“close your eyes. Do you like my hands on. Your dick? Now imagine i was doing this to another guy. Stroking his big dick just like this. I would be so turned on knowing it isn’t you. My pussy would want to feel him inside me. Imagine how he would push me down and fuck me. Imagine how i would gasp when he starts to stretch me. How I would scream when he goes deeper than you.”

Do you see how the above also make use of the and then what technique to tell the next part of the story?

Putting it all together

Now, I know reading about it and actually doing it is two very different things. When you’re first starting out I actually advice you to plan out your dirty talking. This might not be as sexy and spontaneous, but while you’re still getting the hang of it it’s nice to be a little prepared so you don’t run out of things to say. I would also advice you to start off doing it while giving a handjob, as you will have a much easier time focusing on what to say than if you were giving a blowjob or having sex.

Let’s break the ice with an innocent “do you like the way it feels when I stroke your cock?”

When he says yes I would then say something like “good…. Now close your eyes” wait for him to do it.

Then: “would you like it if I did this to another man?” - “yes”

Then: “you know, [name of ex / bull / fantasy guy] used to love when I stroked his dick. Of course his was a lot bigger than yours, I could barely close my hand around it”

Then: “do you like that, thinking about how I used to stroke his big cock?” - “yes”

Then: “having that big cock in my hands always made me feel so tiny and horny”

Then: “do you want me to show you how I used to suck him?” - “yes”. Then put all your effort into giving the best head you have ever given.

Then: “mmh… Can you imagine how good his cock must have felt in my mouth? I used to suck him just like that until he came in my mouth”.

By now he should be getting pretty close, so it’s time put on the finale. Ask him “do you want to cum?” - “yes”. Start stroking him faster.

“tell me…” - make him say that he wants to cum.

“I want you to cum while you think of me getting fucked by [name]. He would always make me cum so hard. Imagine how I used to scream his name” - if you really want to go all out you could start moaning the name of this other guy, whether that’s your bull, an old fling, your husband’s friend or who ever you like to fantasize about.

Do you see how easy it flows from do you like it, to imagine it’s someone else, to describing how you used to do or would do it on someone else?

With time it will come naturally and you won’t have to plan ahead, but to begin with it’s nice to have an idea of how you want to start it, how you want to end it and how you bridge that gap.

There you have it. My secrets to driving your husband wild. Now go… Make him lose it.

Mistresses required undergarments today. Happy she isn’t making me cage my cock today! Good morning!

How to Get Your Guy Into a Chastity Cage

1. Tell him why you want to place him into a chastity cage.  For example ”I want you to always be your Horniest around me’ or “ I hear all the time from women how this will greatly improve our Sex Life” or “You Know I want total control of your erection my love.

2. Start Cheap. I recommend a cheap device from Ebay. Search for Male Polycarbonate Chastity.

3. Put it on for him. Be careful and extra gentle, the first time takes a while. If he has groin hair down there, leave it. He will discover he needs to shave on his own. Shaving himself will be his gift to you, if you want it. Tell Him that you Love it…

4. Put his clothes on and take him out somewhere (like to dinner or a walk on the beach) where you can both see how it feels while walking, sitting etc.

5. When you get back home he’ll want it off ASAP, Tell him you’ll take it off but only later. Visually tease him with lingerie & your sexiest clothing (purposefully bending over… ect…). Eventually Take it off of him and Have him jack off for you – following your precise instructions - Make sure he Cums Really Hard (and make it memorable), It’ll be the last time he Freely Explodes for quite a while.

5. Then have him put it back on himself. This is usually the time he will bring up shaving. If he wants to shave, have him do it right (as instructed). Downward strokes. And after have him put deodorant on it, Not lotion or oil as so many recommend. You want that freshly shaved area to remain dry to prevent razor bumps.

5. Tell him after he locks it and hands you the key, he will be in it for three days. That’s just enough time to drive him absolutely crazy with your lingerie & sexiest skimpy clothing. 

6. For the next three days, Introduce him to his nipples. Have him wear a T-Shirt and lightly play with them frequently. Not nipple torture, light pleasure. Explain to him (WHY), that the nipples are directly connected to his brain and prostate area, thus giving him much better Orgasms. With repetitive training he can eventually have an orgasm that feels great, but leaves him beautifully hornier. This will take the attention off of his inaccessible penis while giving him a new path to pleasure

7.  Monitor and inspect him not only daily but every few hours. Check for his comfort. This might not be the right cage for him. It can be too tight over time or too loose and pull out.

8. On day three he will really want sexual activity if you’ve been visually teasing him properly. It’s time you introduce him to his first ruined orgasm. Be sure to Tie his hands behind his back or to the bed first, then take the penis portion of the cage off Only, Leaving the ring on around his balls. As slowly and seductively as possible, suck, stroke or play with him until he is Fully Erect (the ring you left on him will mystically accelerate this process). Then just make sure to let go of his “Joystick” just as he is about to Erupt. Always remember, It’s Better to stop 15 seconds too early than 1 second too late. You can always stroke/edge him more if you need to. This will ensure that his ejection is not pleasant for him, and over time he will not want it any more. Anyhow when he’s finally deflated enough, Lock him back up (using a cold wash cloth with ice if necessary). This time WAIT for 7 days. 

9. Have him really practice / concentrate on using his nipples for pleasure. After some repetition he will be able to release some oozing boy juice into his cage relieving some pressure from his balls, but more importantly he’ll keep getting hornier and hornier.

10. On day 7, make sure you tie him up again before removing his lock and cage. Most likely He’ll spring to life almost instantaneously. Keep him as Hard as Possible - as Long as Possible, Strategically Prolonging his Desperate Erectile Situation with Frequent Sustaining Breaks. “Enjoy’ your escalating feminine power as you (most ardently) Edge Him for as long as your heart desires. Handle him “Delicately” until you’ve Eventually given him another perfect ruined orgasm. At this point both his Libido and Dopamine levels will be hyper peaked and His psyche will be Astonishingly Horny and Exploitable. This is the perfect opportunity to mount his eager face if you so desire. Keep in mind, His Manhood will stay Quite Erect for a good long while after a ruined orgasm. Needless to say, When you’ve had enough, lock him back up in his cock cage. Keep on this effective 7 day schedule until he’s utterly begging and promising to do (Anything) - whatever you ask of him, without delay, if you will only Let Him Cum Profusely. Upon the day of your choosing, After a Series of Exquisite Ruined Orgasms, Mount his “Empty” Traumatized (But Extremely Virile) Erection for the Ultimate Subjugating RIDE of a Lifetime - Whatever Duration You Choose - Trust me Ladies, It’ll be the Best Sex of your Life.

Now you have a Humble, Good Boy - that wants nothing more than to Please You ! ! !

HOTWIFE TIPS

Unbreakable Rules:

1. HONESTY…NEVER lie about ANYTHING.

2. COMMUNICATE…Listen to his needs, after all your husband is letting you fuck other men, the least you could do is listen to and fulfill his sexual needs. My husband is a big dominate man but SEXUALLY loves to be told what I’m going to do & how he can’t pleased me, little humiliation is in some cases important to the husband ..so guess what ? That’s what I do.

3. NEVER become attached to a lover. DON’T let it happen EVER…FOR ANY REASON. If you do you’re an IDIOT.

4. If you have solo sex(only with his knowledge), return to your husband as soon as you’re finished fucking your stud so that he can have his wife, fresh AND NASTY from her encounter. Be a SLUT !

5.ALWAYS RECONNECT with him immediately after sex with someone else. TRAIN him to want to use you. That way he will encourage you to fuck other men for his satisfaction.

6. ALWAYS Give him respect in ur life

7. SHARE the experience with him. This is for the enhancement of your relationship and for mutually exciting sexual experiences….NOT to make other men feel good. Always make sure your hubby feels INVOLVED and SATISFIED and he will put you on a pedistal and let you be the slut you want to be. If husband not present you must video your time with your stud all the times. Ladies, is very important for your husband to feel satisfied make him go crazy for you. Be the nasty slut he wants you to be.

#savita

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The femdom rules of engagement:

1) Her word is his command.

2) His body is hers to do what she wants with.

3) She decides what clothes he wears, if any.

4) He may never touch her without permission.

5) She can order him to use his hands, penis or tongue to pleasure her in any way she wants, at any place and at any time.

6) Being allowed to lick/kiss any part of her body, including her pussy, ass, arm pits and feet is a privilege he should thank her for. 

7) He must never have an orgasm without her permission.

8) He must never touch his penis while it is erect.

9) She may tease and stimulate him as she wishes without any obligation to allow him an orgasm.

10) She can bind him in any position she wants for her pleasure or amusement. 

11) His genitals and ass must be clean and shaven at all times.

12) She can inspect his genitals and ass whenever she likes.

13) She can punish him physically for not following her directions or if she simply just feels like it.

14) She may penetrate his ass with butt plugs or strap-ons whenever she likes. 

15) He is responsible for buying any sex toys she wants and cleaning them after use. 

16) He should do all household chores, unless exceptions are made by her. 

17) He must ask for permission to go to the bathroom.

18) When sharing a meal together he must always wait for her to start eating before he starts.

19) He must exercise for at least 30 minutes on average every day

20) She may change or add rules whenever she likes.

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WHY IS YOUR HUSBAND OR BOYFRIEND INTERESTED IN CHASTITY?

The concept of being denied sexual pleasure for the privilege of pleasing you is highly arousing for your lover. We all have secret fetish dreams, fantasies and hopes and male chastity is just one of those.

It’s a secret fetish that your man finds highly provocative, arousing and very sexy, to the point that even just an image of a chastity device could cause the beginnings of an erection.

It links in with the sexual fantasy of surrendering himself to you in erotic submission.

It’s not just concerned with physical sensations, but the mind, body, emotional and inner most self. He will understand chastity as all encompassing desire, fetish or kink, that’s an intellectual, physical, emotional, sexual and spiritual experience.

From his sexual fantasy perspective the allure is that his loving wife or girlfriend holds the key to his penis. His cock becomes yours, it’s freedom is dependent upon you releasing him. You hold the key to this release. You become his Keyholder.

Your lover believes that he’s masturbating far too much and would like your help to control this by making him wear a chastity device to prevent him touching himself.

He longs to be “Loved, Locked and Owned” by you, and he believes that wearing a chastity device will demonstrate his commitment and faithfulness to you.

He longs to escape from every day realities and to allow his submissive desires freedom. This is a “need” for many men who long to set free their sexual submissiveness in the safety and security of their own homes and with their loving wife or girlfriend.

Orgasm denial is highly arousing to him.

He believes that you are superior to him and needs to demonstrate his acknowledgement of this by wearing a chastity belt or device.

A highly sexy aspect is that your husband will aim to seek his pleasure in pleasing and pleasuring you, thinking of his keyholder’s needs above his own. Wearing a chastity device help him to sexually achieve this.

If he’s found the courage to tell you about his desires and sexual fantasies he’s probably done so because he believes it’s something very special he can share with you, and feels that, in being his keyholder, you may really enjoy and relish it just as much as he.

They seem to be getting smaller!