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crying over a shitty day here but trying to remind myself I am already in my dr is actually diabolical

about to drink some neocitran and knock tf out and wAKE UP IN MY DR LETS GOOOOOOOO

Jelloverse - Who Will I Be?

(introducing my drs, kinda)

Alright besties. I’ve never blatantly talked about my drs in detail so consider this a quick little intro to the various drs I intend to spend my time in.

Forgive me for how long this post’s about to be…

I have yet to shift to a dr, but alas the grind never stops. My current main drs include:

Hogwarts Band

Criminal Minds

DC Titans

The Nightmare Before Kissmas (book)

The Inheritance Games (book)

My main main dr is one where I date Spencer Reid but he’s also my uni Professor— I have no explanation for this one okay it heals something in me.

Anyways, let me break these down for ya real simple.

Hogwarts Band

It’s more of a modern day Hogwarts uni type vibe. I’m a fifth year transfer and somehow miraculously start a band with Ginny, George, and Fred. It’s called Mischief Managed. I scripted out the war— just claimed Voldy kicked it when he tried to kill Harry and doesn’t come back because I simply do not want to deal with that. I just want to go to my silly wizard classes and make music with my silly little band.

There is also a two year slow burn with none other than (drum roll please) ✨Theodore Nott✨. Though there was a time it was Fred, but… we learn and we grow, or something.

I have my band’s entire discography sorted from fifth till after seventh year/graduation. Album covers and deluxe editions and all that jazz. I found way too much joy in curating it all specifically. Many of the songs come from the two year slow burn I must endure. I could yap about our discography forever.

Criminal Minds

I am Penelope Garcia’s little sister and am just joining the BAU after spending time undercover— my lore is absolutely horrific. I usually try and avoid unnecessary trauma. However, have you seen the show? I gotta catch up at this point. Anyways, love interest? Spencer Reid, obviously. He consumes my very soul. I have like— four seperate drs for this man, like my own little AUs. I scripted a lot of precautions and made sure we actually do more consulting than field shit because, again, I just wanna vibe.

It’s in the season 4 era, so 2008. My first case will be the Angel Maker case which is episode 2 of season 4, I believe. I can’t watch that episode now without absolutely losing my marbles.

I won’t go into my lore or how it comes to bite me in the ass, but know I made as non-traumatic as possible.

College Romance

Now hear me out, okay? I still have my Creative Writing & Publishing degree, but I go back to school for some goofy little Criminal Behavior certificate thing. It’s just a summer semester, so I’m only there from May to mid August.

And Spencer Reid happens to teach half of my classes.

Why did I do this to myself? Look. We all have issues, okay? And in my Criminal Minds dr it’s like season 4 type vibes— this one is like, season 13. And not FBI related. And in some ways… it’s literally just me, with the same life I have here just now I’m back in uni. And I’ll get to have Spencer Reid love me, as the person I am right here right now. And that… will make me cry, thanks.

It’s only four months of devastating yearning and then we’ll live happily ever after. This is one of the only drs I can see myself living an entire life in. Like marriage and kids and growing old and all that shit. I’ve literally picked names out for our three potential children.

I have my own little friend group and it’s the summer so we get to do all sorts of fun things. I get to lounge around campus and read under the sun, or do my homework under a tree— I will finally romanticize studying, for real.

It’s one of my more chill drs, which is also a bonus. Sometimes a girl just wants a regular-ish life.

DC Titans

I love Dick Grayson. I love him. I want him. I need him. Anyways, I have elemental powers in this one which is fun and whimsical. Another one where I’ve said fuck the plot I just wanna be silly— picture DC Titans as a sitcom and that’s basically my dr. Just patrolling and the occasional baddie. I can’t wait to train with Grayson you have no idea I’m literally screaming just thinking about it. Also Gar my beloved I miss my bestie. I think I’m in college in this one too? Which is how I meet Gar and join the squad— I age peeps up, obviously. Dick Grayson love interest, in case you missed it.

Oh, and I have a music career. Gar, Jericho (yes he is well), and I start our own little record label (because Bruce Wayne loves me and funds my silly endeavors) and I’ve got like five albums/eps planned out. Including album covers and everything. I love sorting a Discography.

The Nightmare Before Kissmas

Not to be confused with the Nightmare Before Christmas, which is entirely different. This one is my pride and joy, honestly. I am so proud of all the little things in this dr. I read the book in December and immediately made a dr because it just utterly devastated and healed bits of my soul. So, you know, the obvious route.

In this one I’m the sister of Coal and Kris Claus, so I’m the Christmas Princess. But I’m also the youngest, so no one gives a fuck about what I do. In most of my drs I still have my Creative Writing & Publishing degree— this one is no exception.

It takes place a year after the book, and Coal & Hex are getting married. On December 13th, which is a Friday. Friday the 13th, in December— it’s literally the most perfect date ever for their Christmas Halloween asses. I get all giddy just thinking about the date yall. We, being me and my brothers and Iris the Easter Princess and best friend of us Christmas hooligans, travel to Halloween for the wedding. Mostly because I want to see that bitch. We get all Christmas in the book, I wanna see what Hex’s home is all about.

My love interest isn’t canon to the books. I’ve made him childhood friends with Hex who has returned from his studies to attend the wedding. His name is Moon. (and his faceclaim is s1 Spencer Reid/MGG I am just a girl okay?)

I’ve also been having dreams about Moon for over a year, ever since I returned to Christmas to help my brothers with their dismantling of the heirarchy bullshit (basically the end of the first book). Because I want a strange weirdly prophetic dream moment, okay? And Moon’s been having the same shit. So when we meet upon our arrival to Halloween— shit ensues.

It’s actually more enemies to lovers but in the sense that we’re enemies because we feel so very much and it’s all very confusing and after a year of being haunted and tormented by these constant dreams— I don’t know man I just need some angst first.

The Inheritance Games

Another baby of mine. I love shifting to books because I feel like there’s so much more to discover than with a show or movie or something. You have no concrete actor or anything you associate with the characters, and everything is almost up to interpretation. It’s fun.

I replace Avery in this dr, obviously. Why shift to not be the main character? Again, less plot more shenanigans. Everyone is aged up, again. I enjoy being my age in all of my drs.

This one isn’t as planned out as I’d like it to be. But Grayson Hawthorne is the love interest. Enemies to lovers, of course. I’m not quite sure what else to yap about for this one. I focus a lot more on my writing career in this one, since being a random billionaire will definitely help with that. And who am I if not a writer?

So that’s those bad boys…

I have a handful of other drs I could talk about… I’m gonna list them all for your perusal.

Fully Scripted:

Hogwarts Academia

Outer Banks

Twilight

The Flash

Sam & Colby

Small town dr (based off the show Ghost Whisperer)

Twitch Streamer (entirely separate from any existing streamer group don’t go getting any ideas)

Summer Lovin’ (I’m rich and live by the beach it’s pretty great)

Sorta Scripted:

Red White & Royal Blue

Stardew Valley

Death Note

Teen Wolf

MCU

Fame dr (but it’s the novel I’m currently writing here being turned into a movie)

Skyrim x The Witcher (this one is so complicated I fear I may never fully capture all my thoughts & ideas)

Batfam (I know little about canon shit but I’m trying)

Unscripted:

Bridgerton

Mystic Messenger

Love & Deepspace

Sky High

Bratz

So that’s me, as a shifter. Just a girl with a long list of places she intends to cause absolute chaos in. I’m always down to talk about any of my drs. Sometimes I get so into them I start making my own outfit collages because of course my style changes in every dr and I need to capture that. I am so very specific it might be my detriment… but oh well at least it’s fun.

This was long asf. If you took the time to read all that… thank you (I’ll cry about it). Consider this a little forehead smooch just for you 💋

Jello💖

scrolling through pinterest online shopping for my dr

I feel like utter death today but you bet I’m using it to shift— why be sick here when I can be sick and taken care of by my s/o? (or just not ill in general but you get it)

nothing about today has felt real. I have done nothing but shovel snow, take a nap, and go to walmart and it all just feels off. I can’t explain it. shit’s wack.

insomnia thoughts with Jello

part one

I have a habit of struggling to fall asleep, and with nothing but my thoughts to keep me company at 4am, let us all set sail on this treacherous sea that is the shit storm I call my mind.

It pertains to shifting so bear with me.

I love the movie Coraline, as I’ve mentioned before. And we all know it’s very shifting coded. But I was thinking about all the times Coraline would go to sleep in the other world and wake up back in her original world, except for the one time she let fear win.

After being asked to sew buttons in her eyes, she goes to bed needing to wake up back home. Despite knowing she has done so multiple times without even trying, the second she puts her all into it— the second she is desperate, she fails.

which brings me to this:

fear is not an assumption.

While you can be afraid and still manifest or shift, the second you start clinging to the results for dear life is the second you give up your power. Driven by fear, you put more belief into it than yourself. If you truly believe you are in control, then there should be no fear of unwanted results.

Oddly enough, it works the opposite way too. Being afraid of something happening will not guarantee its occurrence. For example, I randomly thought to myself “oh no, what if all my scripts get deleted?” which was followed by “oh no, since I thought it now it’s going to happen all because I assumed.”

But I didn’t assume.

It was a fear, not an assumption. It was an invasive thought, not an assumption. It was a jumpscare, not an assumption.

All this goes to say that when shifting and/or manifesting, we need to let the hell go. Don’t strain for control because that just reaffirms the lack thereof. Chill the eff out and trust yourself, trust your subconscious. They know what’s up.

Hopefully this all made sense.

It is now past 5am.

I am tired.

Jello💖

me and the 1109 edits of the same man saved in my camera roll against the world.

Consider this my introduction post because I haven’t done that yet whoops.

Hi. You can call me Jello. My pronouns are she/they, and I’ve been a shifter for about five years now. I am 22 and discovered shifting a little before I turned 18, but didn’t actively try shifting until the fall of 2020– so yes, I was knee deep in the horrors of shiftok at that point.

I have a degree in Creative Writing and Publishing. It’s kind of cool, being a writer and a shifter. It does make me totally picky about what I script, but it means that the stories I write based off my shifts are gonna be brilliant.

My first ever DR was a One Direction reality (RIP). It was as horrifying as any first script. I have many DRs now, but my mains include Criminal Minds, a Hogwarts one where I am also in a band, and a College Romance type one where I date a professor wait what? I have a bunch more based off other series I love and some based off books. I just started scripting for a reality based off my own novel which is kind of epic.

I have yet to shift to any DR. I may have minishifted once in the sense that I heard my DR but I’ve never opened my eyes anywhere but here. Yes, sounds demotivating as hell. And it was, until I came here. You, shiftblr, have somehow made it all click in my head in a way shiftok could only ever dreamed of. So, thank you.

I think that pretty much sums me up. I would love to yap about any and all my DRs— or really talk about anything. I’ve never really been active in any shifting community so consider this my tentative “hey… how y’all doing?”

Oh, fun fact: I use the same name in about 90% of my DRs. My first name remains the same in all but one DR, and my last name is consistent in all but two? I think? I do that because I think it’s cool, to have this sort of identity that I carry with me throughout my own little multiverse.

Another fun fact: my favourite movie for at least six years of my life has been Coraline. I live and breathe that film. And then suddenly I discovered shifting and it’s just this funny little thing, this silly little connection I find all too intriguing. There are a lot of times where I’ll look back on my life with the knowledge I have now and am hit with this realization that I have been doing this a while, even just in the tiniest of doses, without even knowing it.

Okay, I’ll quit yapping now. Hello and welcome to my page. I don’t know what I’m doing on here but I am enjoying myself immensely.

Jello💖

new dr just dropped except it’s the novel I’m currently writing— go big or go home right?

had a dream about my dr s/o last night… I need him so bad it’s not even funny anymore pLEASE

and if I say I just shifted?

I got up out of my bed just to go piss girl and I swear to god— I was in there just thinking “damn I get to shift tonight— wait, no. I get to shift whenever the hell I want. I could shift right now.” and went about my business like normal.

WHEN I TELL YOU I returned to my room and my drink, which I had sitting on top of a book ON MY BED is now sitting on my end table. I DID NOT PUT IT THERE. It’s been sitting on that book ever since I went and got it— WHY IS IT NOW SUDDENLY ON THE TABLE ????

I shifted idc.

Now it’s time to skedaddle to a dr methinks.

scripting a two year slow burn like I don’t literally foam at the mouth when I see a photo of this man 😶

no love life here because my love life at hogwarts is messy enough 🫠

The hypnagogic state : how to reach it.

The hypnagogic state is a state where we naturally go into before sleeping, a sweet spot moment before sleeping and still being awake, a state where it is so powerful to be able to shift, get in the void, or basically do anything.

Now it requires NOTHING, it only requires one small thing that might sound tricky.

Staying awake long enough for it to come by on it's own, and actually on average it takes 10-5 mins from each person to enter it aware.

The steps:

Lay flat on your back (not needed, but many results come from laying on the back)

Do. Not. Care, just go with what you usually do to fall asleep, but one thing? You're not falling asleep, you're watching your body fall asleep, that sweet spot where your body is about to fall asleep? That's hypnagogia

Actually don't move, it may give your mind signs you're still not sleeping, now just lay there and try not to sleep while focusing on the blackness behind your eyelids.

You will start seeing flashing images or swirly things or even just flashing lights and imagery, this is the hypnagogia and you managed to reach it in just 10 mins of pretending to be asleep (acc it takes me 4)

Bam, that's the sweet spot, now affirm slowly for the void, or just sense your surroundings for shifting or maybe you can try your shifting method here! This state cannot argue back, you'll be immediately shifting in no time, and slipping in the void is so easy from it.

So really the whole steps is just "lay down, don't move, watch your eyelids, color seen? Hypnagogia reached, method or void procedure done, bam."

I managed to find a post on Reddit on how to keep your body awake, you can try 2 or 3 of them to keep yourself entertained, FULL CREDITS TO THE ONE WHO POSTED IT ON REDDIT (calaie_iscoolio):

"1. Looking in the darkness behind your eyelids

Basically what it says, when you close your eyes, just focus on the darkness until hypnagogic imagery begins to happen i.e. colors, shapes, literally anything that will show. When images begin to show up, do not interact or acknowledge what you are seeing, you can look at it, but don't try to control it and just let the images flow until you feel that the state is induced enough to where it won't disappear because you are "too" awake/aware.

2. "Forearm Up" Method

Another technique that basically helps with people who tend to fall asleep to quickly, basically lay down on your back like usual, lift your hand up in the air where your elbow is resting on your mattress, keep it there and as it slowly falls down that's where you'll begin to fall asleep, it'll drop and basically awake you back up.

I had also seen a shifter mention that they prefer to lay on their stomach and lifting their foot up in the air and basically do the same thing. This technique basically just wakes you back up.

3. Thomas Edison Method

Very similar to the "Forearm Up" Method, basically what Edison had done was he had held a steel ball in his hand, and when he began to fall asleep, the ball will drop and alert Edison awake, another technique to help with people to struggle to stay awake.

4. Imagine Constant Motion

Basically imagining something whether that be an animal or an object constantly moving like a horse galloping, a dogs tail wagging side to side, etc. (Pretty simple, for people who find it much easier to visualize).

5. Tire your body through out the day

During the day, you could do any tasks that would just tire your body out that leads up to your attempt to induce the state, it'll make it much easier for you to get into the state and induce it since your body is already tired enough to relax.

6. Repeating "hypnagogia"

This will mean you have you just repeat the words "hypnagogia" to yourself till you get tired enough and then hypnagogic imagery will eventually appear.

7. Counting

Basically just like regular shifting methods, you could focus on counting up to how much you want to until you begin to get the hypnagogic hallucinations, to keep yourself from falling asleep you could give yourself simple math questions just so it's enough to focus to answer it.

8. Imagining Randomness

Imagine literally anything that isn't related at all, i.e. horse, roof, apple, pen, desk, etc. Visualize and filter through random objects or animals that have no correlation and that will induce the hypnagogic imagery, randomness is key.

9. Focus on breathing

Similar to any shifting method, basically focusing on your breaths is another technique to induce the state. Literally just anything to keep your awareness occupied rather than letting your mind just shut down to go to sleep.

10. Sounds

Listening to anything in your environment, whether that be things happening outside, if it's raining listen to the rain, or if you've got headphones on listen to the music and focus that, keep your focus on the music so you don't fall asleep.

11. "Playing" a song in your head

Not necessarily listening to the song, but imagining the song playing in your head, whether that be your favorite song, if you know how it sounds like, imagine it playing and once you've entered the state, it will naturally play and you'll end up actually hearing the song.

12. Heartbeat

Basically just focus on your heartbeat. Listen to the amount of beats.

These are all the various of techniques you could use, you don't have to stick to one and can basicaally try them out, see which one you feel like works for you and go from there. A tip is also you could pick like 4 or 5 out of these 12 and just filter through the techniques if you can't just stick to one since you get uninterested quickly. (I get bored easily, do I normally do 8, 9, 7 and 4 just so I don't lose interest.)"

Good luck y'all!

Not mine but I screamed when I saw this, thank you pinterest gods

ANOTHER DR INTRO <333

The first one I made was my drself intro (at the time in which I shift). This time it's for my aunt Jupiter ☆

"(blue)" = Earth-19 me adding comments nyehehe

"Heya, kiddo! Did ya miss good ol' Jupiter-? ⯎"

You can call me Taro! (pronounced the same as tarot lmao) I'm one of the founding members of this little thing we call "S" here, along with "princess bubblegum" [with siri] and "brawns-for-brains" over there... and wannabe torero, I guess... (gosh that guy gives me the ick...).

I'm from from over the west side (Mexico) so I'm like... fluent in several languages! ¿Que chido, no? (moved to Japan in like, preteen years?)

I work as an engineer, technician, and those among other things (such as clothing designing and whatnot; I'd say I have a pretty good eye for that (｡•̀ᴗ-)✧) Of course, besides my career, I have a strong passion for skateboarding! I've been practicing ever since I was in... what? Junior High? Uy, it's been a while.. (girl you're in your 20s y'aint that old) And because of that I met Kaoru and Kojiro. The wrecks those two were back then, I gotta tell you... well, they still are. (snicker) Recently, a (second) cousin of mine moved here, and I finally got to see my nephews again! Since I knew the younger of them (all of the sudden I sneeze or something lol) was into skateboarding, I thought it'd be cool to bring them here [to "S"]. He seemed to like it, but he was hesitant at the idea of coming often since... I mean it's illegal, hah! But trust, I got them covered. Maybe you'll even get to meet them! Anyhow, I hope to see you more often around here. Why don't you tell me about yourself, hm?

annnnd yeah! She's a relative of mine in like several realities lmao, I LOVE HER SM <3

She's the one who made my S outfit and the one who designed Carla for Kaoru (I mean at least in my reality).

The drawing above is mine from a while ago, I really need to make more drawings of her frfr...

Edit: my IDIOT AHH forgot she has a NICKNAME IN S!! :,DDDD MY BAD I EDITED THAT THO!! So sorry y'all, but yes say hi to my aunt

@premiumbitch archive

I don’t know what happened to this lovely blogger yet, I found out through other people that her blog is deactivated. I will look around for reblogs and add them to this archive over time, as I found them very good and creative. All credit goes to @premiumbitch for the posts!

BATTLEFIELD ELEGANCE: MIKASA ACKERMAN SCRIPTING & MANIFESTATION PACK

EMPIRE OF ONE: THE ALEXANDER THE GREAT SCRIPTING & MANIFESTATION PACK

SUPERCHARGED VERSION OF DIFFERENT SUPERPOWERS TO SCRIPT OR MANIFEST !

THINGS TO SCRIPT OR MANIFEST SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU CAN

"she reminds me so much of a swan.. is she one?" things to script

PERFECT GRADES, PERFECT GIRL: THE COMPLETE SMART GIRL SCRIPTING & MANIFESTATION PACK

MY LIPS LIKE SUGAR" THINGS TO SCRIPT

MICHAEL JACKSON LEVEL TYPE OF FAME" THINGS TO SCRIPT

SECTIONS TO ADD TO YOUR SHIFTING SCRIPT

"you give me such a rush.. are you nicotine?" things to script

SIGNATURE SCENTS T✩ SCRIPT IN YOUR DR

you're so addictive.. are you cocaine?" things to script

TWIN FLAME/SOUL TIES" THINGS T★ SCRIPT

DIFFERENT AURAS TO SCRIPT YOU HAVE

CROWNS & CONQUEST: BLAIR WALDORF MANIFESTATION PACK

"B★BY YOU'RE THE B★DDEST GIRL" …Beauty things to script

⯌ posting dr self sketches [unprofessionally] pt. 2:

"S" PERSONA DETAILS !

quality is so bad trust it wont be like this for long y'all 😭

Alr so I've been in this shifting stuff for like… 4 years now off and on?

and i'm still not conscious of/remember a shift.

however, I will say that I've recently found out about something called the gateway tapes, which aren't necessarily for shifting but I'm pretty sure you can use it to help you shift.

I believe I still have it in my drive, so if you want that I can send that over to you ☆

It's okay hon, you're already there, whether you realize it or not (ik this is easier said than accepted but idk how else to say it) <3

I HAVE TO SHİFT TONIGHT

I really can’t with this reality anymore 😭

Drop all of your shifting tips please please please

Because it’s been 2 years and nothing has changed in my shifting journey and I really have to shift tonight. I don’t have enough power to stay here anymore. I attempt to shift EVERY SINGLE NIGHT and even if I want to take a break, I cant. I have to shift so bad. I’m not good. I don’t feel good at all. I’m so tired. Please someone help. Please. Please. Please. I beg you

I know you all will tell me no one can help me because shifting is something that only I can figure out what works for me. But I can’t anymore. Idk maybe something will click and I will shift.

hear. me. out: ProSeka dr... what if... what if ProSeka dr...

Thinking about how I could literally shift as any renowned figure in history. Be it Mozart, Napoleon, or fucking Steve harvey bcs why tf not!!!!

I would witness the age of light, the apes of evolution, the fall and rise of ancient cities.

I would witness, learn, and most of all remember the lives of those that aren't written in books and articles. People who marked the earth and left without legends, a legacy, a story to withhold.

I would live the life of a being, not of mortal nor divine, but inbetween of immortality and death.

I would meet the gods and goddesses that once roamed the earth; I would learn their culture, their traditions, with the ability of recreating it back here. The current reality.

All that was lost, buried, and forgotten, can be revived. Can be witnessed. Can be heard and remembered.

And that's the beauty of shifting.

ME TO ALL MY SHIFTING MOOTS ASF‼️🪄💫💕💟

I love my shifting moots they give me life omgggg

2/17/2025

tell me why the fuck I was slapped awake while trying to shift through sleep paralysis????

was it even sleep paralysis like

sure it felt like it but also I was interrupted by my dogs barking in the background so it might have been void state

I didn't check if I could move or not lmfao

BUT LIKE IT HAPPENED TWICE

like not even slap to the cheek

it wa full on hand to the front of my face

like I felt a STING ON MY NOSE WHERE THE PALM HIT WHEN I WOKE UP

AND THAT WAS RIGHT AFTER I FELT MY SURROUNDING CHANGE INTO MY DR

WHAT THE FUCK

i don't particularly have an urge to be a guy or something but i'm a morbidly curious person and i need, NEED to know what it's like to be a young rockstar getting bras thrown at his face during performances. or what it's like to be courted as a princess hundreds of years ago. shifting to be myself and feel whole in my main dr, yes, but also shifting to be everything, everyone, everywhere, in every time period. i cannot explore this planet anymore, for satellites and other explorers have already found where land starts and ends, so i will explore the multiverse in its stead. the multiverse wasn't made for limits, and neither was my consciousness.

꒰ WAITING ROOM INSPO ꒱

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a word of advice from wonder egg priority

now go shift.

How does your DR family perceive you?

- PICK A CARD READING MADE BY @DAISYS-REALITY -

This was requested by one of my followers, I hope you enjoy it! 🤍 DR stands for desired reality and your 'DR family' ist the family you have in your desired reality. I guess you could also read this while having your 'normal' family in mind. But I was focusing more on the reality shifters and their DR families. If you like to read more PAC readings from me, feel free to check out my masterlist ! Also, for your information, I don't own any of these beautiful pictures, I just edited them a little.

PILE 1

six of pentacles + lamb + dragonfly + blue chalcedony 

Hello pile one! Your DR family sees you as a very giving person, someone who is generous with their time and energy (also perhaps with your money and talents). To them, you seem to like sharing what you have with your family. You invest in what you believe and in the future you want to live in. You seem very harmonious and very balanced. Or you bring harmony and balance to your DR family in their opinion. They appreciate you very much. Because there is this equal give and take energy with you, your DR family might also enjoy giving to you (ex. through financial support or gifts). You seem like someone who embraces the things coming into your life with such grace and ease - they might admire that aspect of yours. In their opinion, you’re a good listener and like a good friend to them (perhaps to your DR siblings if you have any). You never seem secretive with advice and you seem quite socially aware. You usually are very open with others/them as well but you also know when you should not overstep. They notice that you seem to enjoy the finer things in life. You might be quite sensitive. But the connection with you feels usually very intimate but also kind of laid-back if that makes sense. Your DR family also notices that you love making others feel comfortable and at home which they appreciate. You inspire them with your generosity. In their eyes, you have a kind heart and are very sincere. You usually don’t ask them for anything in return openly but they always want to give back to you.

Other aspects they see in you are that you are very peaceful, patient with them and honest. They are usually grateful for your advice because they see you as someone wise or someone who has an inner knowing. But you’re also good at listening to them (/to their problems etc.). They feel that you’re very gentle with them. When you’re out of balance they can see that you sometimes get quiet and timid and easily concerned with things. You might overthink a lot too in those times.

They also notice that you have a very active mind. You seem to be always mentally moving and changing. Sometimes your mind might be too busy and you struggle with concentrating but usually seem to have a very good perception of things! You also awaken a certain sense of wonder in your DR family with your energy. They think you are good at creating illusions - you might be very good at keeping a facade or it might be difficult at times for your DR family to clearly see what’s going on inside your head lol. Sometimes you seem restless, other times you seem still; sometimes you seem very dreamy and other times crystal clear. It’s a bit confusing for them. You might often be the one who can bring peaceful resolutions to conflicts whether inside or outside your DR family. It’s like you have this peaceful assertiveness and are very endurant. You’re good at guiding others and helping them with problems of negative thinking or self-doubt or emotional turmoil. Overall, you are someone joyful and very magical to them! They are grateful to have you and they respect you a lot as a person. ❤️

PILE 2

six of swords + hummingbird + green calcite 

Hello pile two! In your DR family’s eyes, you seem to go through a certain transition in your life. Times change with the rise of the tide and right now you’re doing your best to stay afloat. They acknowledge that. They know that change is not always easy (for you) but they think this is a necessary transition in your life. You sometimes go the difficult path to search for something ‘bigger’, something you strongly believe in. It’s not easy to describe but you seem to have this inner goal in mind which you’re striving for. They can see that new or strange environments might leave you feeling adrift especially without your core humans and the comfort of home. They want you to know that you can always come home to yourself when you start to feel overwhelmed. Of course you also always come to your DR home but they want you to know that leaving your home base will allow you to grow and expand in unexpected ways! Opportunities might have been limited in the past in your DR, and you ventured off to new territory to better your future. That’s how they see it. New land means a new perspective, as the environment shapes us into who we are.

Your DR family might think that traveling overall is a healing experience to you. Because you’re the type of person who focuses on the journey rather than the destination. They see you as someone who carries a mostly active, assertive but not aggressive energy! They might also just see you enjoying spending time outdoors.They think you are very self-accepting and easygoing but someone who is in the process of healing or focuses very much on healing and self-improvement. To them, you are a future-oriented person. Although you’ve gone through your fair share of challenges, you still choose to remain optimistic about what is yet to come. THey truly admire that aspect of yours. With your presence, you make them feel just as calm and mellow as you are. You appear not only positive but also very enthusiastic. You seem to have an endless amount of energy within you. Which might baffle them at times but they think you just learned how to nourish yourself correctly and how to gain your energy back - like for example through nature, creative activities or maybe even through exploring spirituality! The way you live your life seems sweet/abundant and your DR family thinks that the moments they spent together with you are worth savoring. 

Other aspects of yours which they notice are that you’re smart, curious and you love to learn! But sometimes when you’re in a bad mood, you can get a little pushy/insistent and maybe even sharp with your words (- which can hurt quite a bit). However, all in all, you provide energy and vitality for your DR family. But also calmness and compassion with your loving energy. They truly appreciate that. You have a healing energy and you improve the communication within your DR family bringing also transition from a stagnant to a positive situation. Your DR family cares a lot about you and is very grateful for your existence in their life. ❤️

PILE 3

ace of cups, the hierophant + dragon + green aventurine

Hello pile three! Your DR family sees you as this very creative and emotionally expressive person. Someone who flows freely, if that makes sense. They think you spread love in your DR family and always bring in refreshing opportunities. In their eyes, you have this desire for compassion and connection which inspires you to lend a helping hand to those in need. I feel like your DR family might not be very expressive or openly affectionate, perhaps that’s why they appreciate those traits so much more. They enjoy seeing you sharing your gifts with the world because you become much more open about who you are and the unique talents that you bring. They think your energy is contagious. You seem very generous with your affection and compassionate to them. Some might even think/assume you’re spiritually aware or even blessed. You inspire them. You seem to be always brimming with ideas and you can’t wait to put them into action. You have a kind of innocent vibe in certain aspects. It could also mean that some people of your DR family see you as somewhat naive maybe.

However, they also notice that you are pretty good at keeping your emotions contained, but also you don’t seem to be afraid to express yourself where appropriate.They think you are not cynical about the nature of humanity (like perhaps some other members of your family). Your DR family perceives you as someone who loves what they do for a living. Another thing they appreciate is that you treat the elderly with kindness!

You might be quite conventional actually. You might honor the traditions or rituals in your DR family and in your life. They like that about you. Those traditions might even help you feel grounded. They think you might be drawn towards joining a group or community that has certain rules you’d have to follow. And they believe that by joining, you broaden your scope and expand your knowledge. They assume that being a part of a community allows you to feel a sense of acceptance, unity and even an identity. You might be someone who likes looking at your lineage of ancestors or religion and doing research to shine light on the wisdom of the past. You seem to like absorbing as much information as you can. In their perception of you, you are wise and value your personal values a great deal, like you seem to be someone who identifies strongly with your belief system or religion, whatever you consider your “religion” or reality - for some of you, your “religion” may even be science and reason!  And this aspect plays a major role in your life, it may even be the center of your world. It influences your outlook and decision-making considerably. At least that’s how it seems to your DR family. I think your DR family consists of vastly different people (including you) and even though all of them are so different you somehow are able to make them all feel comfortable around you. They see that you like comfort, and you’re all about giving that experience to people. Your DR family believes that you’re non-judgmental and more interested in making everyone feel accommodated. They truly appreciate this about you. You are friendly and willing to listen, learn, and teach. You’re rarely interested in “converting” anyone to your belief system or lifestyle, you just want to be tolerated and, likewise, you tolerate others. In their eyes, you’re someone who leads by example, someone who is able to perceive ‘everything’ around them and who sees beauty everywhere. To them, you’re very intelligent and courageous with a strong inner fire. You’re a visionary and a guide. Your energy can be pretty grounding to others, and your DR family thinks that you bring stability into the family. You might have a tendency to overthink or ruminate over situations and get stuck in your mind but in those times your DR family is actually willing to help bring you back to your physical body and the present moment and your connection to your world/life/environment. 

You provide strength, confidence, courage, and even happiness to your DR family. As I said before, you inspire your family and your energy is contagious in their opinion. You renew their optimism for life and you push them to take action to acquire what they want in this world. And you also urge them to get out of their comfort zone and take on new opportunities. Your presence in their life helps them release old patterns, habits, and disappointments so new growth can take place. Your family learns a lot from you. You’re truly inspiring to them - I can’t say this often enough lol. All in all, your DR family has respect but also a lot of affection for you. They want you to know that even if they can’t express this very well, you are very dear to their heart. ❤️

So uh....before anyone gets disappointed,very probably this blog will be deactivated,so no storytime bc I'm not planning on coming back there.

Just to to warn y'all

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monochrome is fun . i have nothing else to say this is a fun little moodboard